FabSwingers.com forum: What makes a woman delete !

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Was talking to a certain woman and was getting on fine and then I sent a reply and guess what !! The delete button was hit ??? What is that all about ppl ? And no it wasn't a horrible reply ! I said come over and I'll get some drink then see what happens and then stay over and we can spoon the night if you like ! Now what's wrong with that ??

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Maybe she thought you were jumping the gun, being presumptuous pushing to meet before she was ready?

Maybe she got bored?

Maybe she wanted an offer of being taken doggy over the sofa while you spank her and call her beryl...

Alternatively, we'll never know and it was her choice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will delete when it's clear they haven't read my profile or my message to them. Doesn't sound like you did that, but maybe she just changed her mind - happens all the time in the real world, move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe she thought you were jumping the gun, being presumptuous pushing to meet before she was ready?

Maybe she got bored?

Maybe she wanted an offer of being taken doggy over the sofa while you spank her and call her beryl...

Alternatively, we'll never know and it was her choice... "

Well I said what happened x no pushing , she was just another time waster

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"Maybe she thought you were jumping the gun, being presumptuous pushing to meet before she was ready?

Maybe she got bored?

Maybe she wanted an offer of being taken doggy over the sofa while you spank her and call her beryl...

Alternatively, we'll never know and it was her choice...

Well I said what happened x no pushing , she was just another time waster"

How did she waste your time? It was a chat that went nowhere. That's not time wasting in my book.

You didn't turn up at a meet to a no show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're yous talking about meeting at any point or did you just think I'm going in for the kill lol

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Maybe she thought you were jumping the gun, being presumptuous pushing to meet before she was ready?

Maybe she got bored?

Maybe she wanted an offer of being taken doggy over the sofa while you spank her and call her beryl...

Alternatively, we'll never know and it was her choice...

Well I said what happened x no pushing , she was just another time waster"
lol the famous fabs full of timewasters god forbib the person just saw nothing that intrested them enough to take any steps forward

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok I meant block not delete ! Silly me and my first statement still stands x

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

She doesn't want to meet you for whatever reason.

She isn't a timewaster for ending a conversation... if you really think that's time wasting, your time on fab will be frustrating.

Would you rather she'd kept chatting for weeks?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She doesn't want to meet you for whatever reason.

She isn't a timewaster for ending a conversation... if you really think that's time wasting, your time on fab will be frustrating.

Would you rather she'd kept chatting for weeks?"

Did you not read my last message ??

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Yes. She blocked you. It's not personal. The block button is a site tool.

I use mine for all kinds of reasons.

Get over it. We've all been blocked. It just means she's not interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes. She blocked you. It's not personal. The block button is a site tool.

I use mine for all kinds of reasons.

Get over it. We've all been blocked. It just means she's not interested "

Typical woman's reply !!!

I say us guys should rebel and block all the women for at least a day ! What do you think guys ?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Women don't find men behaving like they're entitled attractive. Lose the chip on your shoulder and you may get on better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait till.you get some nasty random abusive message with someone you havnt even had a chat with ,,they send abuse then block ,,,then you wud understand how frustrating that feels lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women don't find men behaving like they're entitled attractive. Lose the chip on your shoulder and you may get on better

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate

Typical male toys out the cot because they are not getting what they want!

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

"Was talking to a certain woman and was getting on fine and then I sent a reply and guess what !! The delete button was hit ??? What is that all about ppl ? And no it wasn't a horrible reply ! I said come over and I'll get some drink then see what happens and then stay over and we can spoon the night if you like ! Now what's wrong with that ??

Maybe her hubby didnt like you spooning her lol, or she may not drink

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

personally I never get upset! been blocked just as I'm stepping into car! their loss really ...move on op xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. She blocked you. It's not personal. The block button is a site tool.

I use mine for all kinds of reasons.

Get over it. We've all been blocked. It just means she's not interested

Typical woman's reply !!!

I say us guys should rebel and block all the women for at least a day ! What do you think guys ?

Please do would save me going through loads of stupid "wanna fuck" "hows u" " what you into" messages

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I tend to block very pushy folk who bombard with messages or want last moment meets and if I can't. ...as I work full him get cheeky or more I am tolerant tho its a very last option but sometimes gotta be done unfortunately xx

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"Maybe she thought you were jumping the gun, being presumptuous pushing to meet before she was ready?

Maybe she got bored?

Maybe she wanted an offer of being taken doggy over the sofa while you spank her and call her beryl...

Alternatively, we'll never know and it was her choice... "

This reminded me of the Victoria Wood sketch where she was singing 'i can't do it" and one line was "spank me on the bottom with a woman's weekly"!!!!

Sorry!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not saying you are like this OP BUT it sounds likes your reply follows a common theme on here from a single male. A conversation has started then you've suggested she come over, have drinks and spoon all night... no pressure??? Really??? I'm sure you would expect more and I'm sure she would think you would too. Ok she could have said no thanks but very often that can lead to the male just not taking no for an answer. Again NOT saying this is you but it is a common theme.

Maybe your suggestion came a wee bit to early for her or she was only being polite in replying in the first place. Again as a female on here this is a no win situation as if you don't reply you're rude and if you do then say no, you're a time waster.

Everyones comments are spot on though, male or female you are here to use the tools of the site as you wish and it's best just to move on.

Good luck

Red

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not saying you are like this OP BUT it sounds likes your reply follows a common theme on here from a single male. A conversation has started then you've suggested she come over, have drinks and spoon all night... no pressure??? Really??? I'm sure you would expect more and I'm sure she would think you would too. Ok she could have said no thanks but very often that can lead to the male just not taking no for an answer. Again NOT saying this is you but it is a common theme.

Everyones comments are spot on though, male or female you are here to use the tools of the site as you wish and it's best just to move on.

Good luck

Red

She's on fab as single and I wasn't pushy in any way and we was getting on fine and she didn't say no at any time so this is why I'm been like this x loving the replies thou x

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"Yes. She blocked you. It's not personal. The block button is a site tool.

I use mine for all kinds of reasons.

Get over it. We've all been blocked. It just means she's not interested

Typical woman's reply !!!

I say us guys should rebel and block all the women for at least a day ! What do you think guys ?

Do remember to tell us which day that is so we can notice... because other than the welcome reduction in fancy a fuck and messages from men who don't respect profiles I don't see this as a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyones comments are spot on though, male or female you are here to use the tools of the site as you wish and it's best just to move on.

Good luck

Red

She's on fab as single and I wasn't pushy in any way and we was getting on fine and she didn't say no at any time so this is why I'm been like this x loving the replies thou x

In all honesty OP - if you had sent that message to me re staying the night but there had only been a bit of fun banter building then I would have felt pressured. It's a sex site and let's be honest we all know what the hope would be if she had come for drinks and spooning. Perhaps she was enjoying messaging but never meant for it to lead to a meet or maybe you suggested it too soon.

How does she say that to you???? By simply saying no thanks??? Yes. But the females experience is that men then go on and on and on about a coffee, a chat, a social meet and hoping for more which is why women on here can get "arsey" as some call it or block. I imagine she did like you but obviously did not want to meet up for one reason or another. As everyone has said... don't take it personally and move on...

Glad you're enjoying the imput lol

Red xXx

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

She blocked you because she didn't want to hear from you again. Your going to have to grow a thick skin if your planing on staying in the fab world.

Every single one of us has been blocked by someone on the site. It's not a big deal not every woman in the bar wants to talk to you some will walk away and try to avoid you so think of it that way.

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By *aldyandthebumCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

lol saying "lets have a drink and spoon" is like saying "lets go to mine and watch Netflix and cuddle" it all means lets have sex, and being dead honest reading the OP messages on here even we would block to.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I've lost count of the guys I've happily chatted to with no intention of meeting. Some are nice but there's no spark there, others are just a bit pushy.

I've also had a fair few who've not been able to take no for an answer. One guy messaged me four times after I said I wasn't interested. The first message was "why not?". The second "just tell me why", the third "it's rude to not give a reason why" and the fourth "you owe me an explanation". I owe him nothing, if I don't want to meet, that's my choice. As it would be his if the roles were reversed.

Perhaps she was anticipating this response so hit the block button instead. As is her right to do so.

You might not think you were being pushy, but she may have. You will never know the reason why, and posts like this just ensure that other women won't meet you either.

Dignity at all times, I find.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

What about a social first? Safety of meeting before in public than going straight to a guys house/hotel/etc

Guys never seem to think about the safety of the women.

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

"I've lost count of the guys I've happily chatted to with no intention of meeting. Some are nice but there's no spark there, others are just a bit pushy.

Perhaps she was anticipating this response so hit the block button instead. As is her right to do so.

You might not think you were being pushy, but she may have. You will never know the reason why, and posts like this just ensure that other women won't meet you either.

Dignity at all times, I find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awk dry your eyes op lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awk dry your eyes op lol

Yabigroughietoughiedidgette Lolol xXx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awk dry your eyes op lol

Yabigroughietoughiedidgette Lolol xXx "

Lol noroughietougiejustsayinglikered lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awk dry your eyes op lol

Yabigroughietoughiedidgette Lolol xXx

Lol noroughietougiejustsayinglikered lol xx"

Sweettalker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awk dry your eyes op lol

Yabigroughietoughiedidgette Lolol xXx

Lol noroughietougiejustsayinglikered lol xx

Sweettalker

Lol only with a mouthful of sweets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awk dry your eyes op lol

Yabigroughietoughiedidgette Lolol xXx

Lol noroughietougiejustsayinglikered lol xx

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Lol only with a mouthful of sweets

Would that sweet be FUDGE

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

I know some people on here are happy to just meet at someone's place straight away and others prefer a social first.

It's up to them how, when, where and if they want to meet you.

It's my experience that it's easier to just delete or block people.

At first I tried to reply to everyone but found it would lead to on going messages about why not ect.

I also have just chatted to people with no intention in meeting, it's just a bit of fun banter.

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