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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any fellow married ppl playing alone be intrested in a little social gathering in the new year had lots of guy intrest but no fems as yet so hence why im.putting it up on here but obv full discrection so if prefered pm me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it your banning cameras being aloud lol

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'd come.

I'm married and my husband is on the site too so don't know if that ok for your social?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I take it your banning cameras being aloud lol"

Well as its no a photo shoot dont think much need for cameras do you for few drinks no unless everyone wants to wear balaclavas lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd come.

I'm married and my husband is on the site too so don't know if that ok for your social? "

The initial thot was for married ppl playing where there partners were not aware as other socials are for everyone and lots ( not all ) dont attend as wary of discrection all input is welcome tho as to wat ppl think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So a social for people going behind their partners backs?

They can all compare notes on how they sneak about, sorry but there is something a little wrong in our eyes about this

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Probably get shot down but input was asked for.

Discretion should be paramount no matter what kind if social it is.

If someone is cheating then it's them taking the risks no one else.. Good luck with it though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So a social for people going behind their partners backs?

They can all compare notes on how they sneak about, sorry but there is something a little wrong in our eyes about this"

The thread isnt an invitation for ppl to judge why married ppl play alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Input is not shot down i agree all socials should be duscrete which im sure most are but a few have said they dont attend coz they wud prefer everyone in same boat

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I'd come.

I'm married and my husband is on the site too so don't know if that ok for your social?

The initial thot was for married ppl playing where there partners were not aware as other socials are for everyone and lots ( not all ) dont attend as wary of discrection all input is welcome tho as to wat ppl think "

That's absolutely fine. Enjoy your social. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any fellow married ppl playing alone be intrested in a little social gathering in the new year had lots of guy intrest but no fems as yet so hence why im.putting it up on here but obv full discrection so if prefered pm me "

Putting all moral judgements aside, isn't there more risk for attendees going to a social where everyone who participates by definition is playing behind their partner's back? At a general social, nobody knows what your personal circumstances are unless you choose to share. Seems a bit daft to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any fellow married ppl playing alone be intrested in a little social gathering in the new year had lots of guy intrest but no fems as yet so hence why im.putting it up on here but obv full discrection so if prefered pm me

Putting all moral judgements aside, isn't there more risk for attendees going to a social where everyone who participates by definition is playing behind their partner's back? At a general social, nobody knows what your personal circumstances are unless you choose to share. Seems a bit daft to me. "

Its how some feel.within themselves and im.sure lots go to socials this idea came from a minority who wud rather go to smaller event with similiar ppl in similiar situation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd come.

I'm married and my husband is on the site too so don't know if that ok for your social?

The initial thot was for married ppl playing where there partners were not aware as other socials are for everyone and lots ( not all ) dont attend as wary of discrection all input is welcome tho as to wat ppl think

That's absolutely fine. Enjoy your social. X"

Thank you see how it goes x

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"So a social for people going behind their partners backs?

They can all compare notes on how they sneak about, sorry but there is something a little wrong in our eyes about this"

I think the usual advice re forum subjects is, if you don't like or agree with it, then just pass onto the next one. Simple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So a social for people going behind their partners backs?

They can all compare notes on how they sneak about, sorry but there is something a little wrong in our eyes about this

I think the usual advice re forum subjects is, if you don't like or agree with it, then just pass onto the next one. Simple! "

Open forum for open opinions and that's what was given, just like if you don't agree with our point why quote it to make a point?

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By *utdooryoneMan
over a year ago

Over there

Having had a lovely time with someone for fun, only to discover they were either still attached or in process of becoming detached, I would be very careful.

Things went from fun and light to texts and calls and strops if I didn't answer within a couple of days...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is why i was reluctant to put this on here but few said i should to let more ppl aware but please if anyone is intrested just pm thanks

The thread was about a social and input on the social not why married are here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any fellow married ppl playing alone be intrested in a little social gathering in the new year had lots of guy intrest but no fems as yet so hence why im.putting it up on here but obv full discrection so if prefered pm me

Putting all moral judgements aside, isn't there more risk for attendees going to a social where everyone who participates by definition is playing behind their partner's back? At a general social, nobody knows what your personal circumstances are unless you choose to share. Seems a bit daft to me. "

Spot on!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Any fellow married ppl playing alone be intrested in a little social gathering in the new year had lots of guy intrest but no fems as yet so hence why im.putting it up on here but obv full discrection so if prefered pm me

Putting all moral judgements aside, isn't there more risk for attendees going to a social where everyone who participates by definition is playing behind their partner's back? At a general social, nobody knows what your personal circumstances are unless you choose to share. Seems a bit daft to me. "
spot on!!

Surely if people are worried about being caught they wouldn't be wanting a public social.

Surley a private party would be a better option?

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I really dont get the point of this we all know folks cheat that is their business and after all it is a swinging site are people suppose to turn up just tolet folks know they are cheating sorry still dont get the point of this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A group of like minded ppl in similiar situation for few drinks chats and a laugh not publicly declaring why we are there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really dont get the point of this we all know folks cheat that is their business and after all it is a swinging site are people suppose to turn up just tolet folks know they are cheating sorry still dont get the point of this "

No its not to talk bout why ppl are cheating its for those ppl who feel there wud be more discrection thats all

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

So u are saying there isnt discretion at other socials I do know there are nutters of both sexes who have meets then treaten to out the other person to their partners but i have never known any of it at a social

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No i personally never said that but there are few ppl who for there own reasons dont go to socials for that reason no one has disrespected other socials or the ppl who go its just how some marrued ppl feel in them selves

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

So this social would just be for cheaters who didnt want anyone to know they were cheating

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So this social would just be for cheaters who didnt want anyone to know they were cheating"

Married ppl playing alone on an adult swinging site is more appropriate

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

But we all know married people play alone and this is a ADULT swinging site so aint we just gilding the lily here och well each to their own and we are all ADULTS able to make our own choices

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But we all know married people play alone and this is a ADULT swinging site so aint we just gilding the lily here och well each to their own and we are all ADULTS able to make our own choices "

Exactly everyone can make there own choices there has been themed socials before so dont get why this is so diff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a great idea, and I think it would be popular. I myself am single so couldn't attend. But I would love to go to see who's lying on their profiles about being single just cause I'm nosey as hell

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire


"So this social would just be for cheaters who didnt want anyone to know they were cheating"

Some married people play alone with permission but dont like to rub partner nose in it.

No one knows others situations x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I think it's a great idea, and I think it would be popular. I myself am single so couldn't attend. But I would love to go to see who's lying on their profiles about being single just cause I'm nosey as hell "
lol atomic like your thinking

Imagine how many could get caught out if their spouses were to add their names to the mix too lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"So this social would just be for cheaters who didnt want anyone to know they were cheating

Some married people play alone with permission but dont like to rub partner nose in it.

No one knows others situations x"
that's a totally different social to what's being suggested though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's a great idea, and I think it would be popular. I myself am single so couldn't attend. But I would love to go to see who's lying on their profiles about being single just cause I'm nosey as hell "

I cant deny there prob is a few who.lie saying there single lol

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Curios i thoroughly agree with u we dont know others sitiation and i for one never ever judge

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

OP now theres great opportunity for some twisted male or female to make the shit hit the fan

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to the intrest via pm sadly most are put off by commenting intrest on this thread due to some comments

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Thanks to the intrest via pm sadly most are put off by commenting intrest on this thread due to some comments "
perhaps they are the people who understand discretion

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By *ero StressMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Reading threw all this I notice it's 95% ladies commenting I wunder why so many males that normally fill posts are so quiet

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Reading threw all this I notice it's 95% ladies commenting I wunder why so many males that normally fill posts are so quiet"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks to the intrest via pm sadly most are put off by commenting intrest on this thread due to some comments perhaps they are the people who understand discretion "

Yes they do as do i only reason it was put up was to let pple aware of it as last few days theres been lots of male intrest and be good to get a good mix as said all pms will be full discrection

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Best sort a venue and date then post... those who want to attend I'm sure will add their names

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best sort a venue and date then post... those who want to attend I'm sure will add their names "

All will now be done privately

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Best sort a venue and date then post... those who want to attend I'm sure will add their names

All will now be done privately "
good luck with it

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

It is what it is and better the cheats cheat amongst themselves that decieve those who want nothing to do with them hope it goes ahead cant see it though to much risk involved

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is what it is and better the cheats cheat amongst themselves that decieve those who want nothing to do with them hope it goes ahead cant see it though to much risk involved"

For an adult non judgemental swinging site think some should be a little more open minded

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

As usual a meet thread spoilt with people who are not interesting in attending.

Can people please have some respect for other peoples meet threads and leave them alone if you are not interested.

To the OP...I will shut this thread, if you want to start another I will make sure it stays on track.

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