FabSwingers.com forum: What do you prefer?

By *ab fem OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Do you prefer regular meets with the same person/people or do you prefer one off meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular with same person/people but rarely happens, folk change their mind about it all and the whole scene imop

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Do you prefer regular meets with the same person/people or do you prefer one off meets? "
I'm a go with the flow kinda girl but my preference is for regular playmates as long as it remains drama free and fun I don't mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for me. It means you know each

Other becomes more relaxed and comfortable.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Regular for me. It means you know each

Other becomes more relaxed and comfortable."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular is great, but occasionally meeting a new one is very exciting....ahem....

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Bit if both I think. The whole point of swinging to me is everyone is diffrent so it's a diffrent experience.

In saying that I've had a mff with the same girl twice and hope it happens again. But would still be on the look out for new partners xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you prefer regular meets with the same person/people or do you prefer one off meets? I'm a go with the flow kinda girl but my preference is for regular playmates as long as it remains drama free and fun I don't mind

What NMDno1 said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both.

Regular is good because you're likely to be having good meets, otherwise why would they be regular, but one offs are good for a little bit of excitement and maybe a bit edgier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is swinging, meet the same person all the time and it might be more like dating or just having a regular friction bubby! Having said that I think there are a lot of people you want to meet a lot because the sex is great and the more you get to know people the better the sex gets, but there is still the element of new and different that swingers search for.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Swinging is swinging, meet the same person all the time and it might be more like dating or just having a regular friction bubby! Having said that I think there are a lot of people you want to meet a lot because the sex is great and the more you get to know people the better the sex gets, but there is still the element of new and different that swingers search for. "
it would only feel like dating if you only ever met that one person but if you make it clear that them and you are free to meet others but have a regular say once a month meet with them all should be good

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By *ab fem OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

When I'm meeting on my own I prefer regular but as a couple I like meeting new people

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

I prefer to play the field!

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By *ab fem OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I prefer to play the field!

I wouldn't want to be in your shoes when a certain lady turns up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular same person for me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either, love the excitement of meeting someone new but I love having something regular where you know what they like and how good they are in bed..

Downside is I sometimes get bored of the same or they live busy lives so it's not as regular as this nympho likes

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By *pinCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Regular is always best as you don't get to do everything in one night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular play mates but I'm not getting any atm

It's fine though, I'm working ridiculous hours x

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I have to admit, the excitement and anticipation of meeting someone new can be good but I still think it gets better as you get to know someone and their likes/dislikes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to play the field!

Think you mean "in a field"!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to play the field!

Think you mean "in a field"!!!!

Fantasies x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting a regular is good as you know for sure they will turn up and you do tend to get closer and more relaxed.

At the same time, I'm rubbish in relationships exactly because I get bored so a new meet always excites me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can think of better places to have sex in my fantastical brain lol

How about in zero g or in a fully stocked bakery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can think of better places to have sex in my fantastical brain lol

How about in zero g or in a fully stocked bakery

Or in a car showroom x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meeting a regular is good as you know for sure they will turn up and you do tend to get closer and more relaxed.

At the same time, I'm rubbish in relationships exactly because I get bored so a new meet always excites me."

Same but I've met one of two that could keep me interested for YEARS!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're lucky enough to meet a person who ticks all your boxes your outlook can change...rapidly!

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Ideally looking for regular easy going playmates to get to know better ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're lucky enough to meet a person who ticks all your boxes your outlook can change...rapidly!

Sometimes feelings can mess it up x

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

My intention is to regularly meet someone with whom we still have the buzz, excitement, exhilaration, nervousness, enthusiasm and yearning of a new meet.

It's out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My intention is to get a meet to start with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a regular meet that you can build on. Earning trust and pushing boundaries.

But also love the excitement and inticipaton of a new meet. The uncertainty of how it will be

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By *all saulMan
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

"Love a regular meet that you can build on. Earning trust and pushing boundaries.

But also love the excitement and inticipaton of a new meet. The uncertainty of how it will be

Have to agree a regular meet is great and as says you build trust and push boundaries etc but the excitenent of a one off meet is very special s as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love a regular meet that you can build on. Earning trust and pushing boundaries.

But also love the excitement and inticipaton of a new meet. The uncertainty of how it will be

This

As written before this is a swinging site, variety is the purpose of swinging or I've been doing it wrong for years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's something pretty special about learning what makes someone melt.

I think that's probably lost in a one off..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's something pretty special about learning what makes someone melt.

I think that's probably lost in a one off.."

Yes

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"I prefer to play the field!

Think you mean "in a field"!!!!

Well....................!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Regular is great, but occasionally meeting a new one is very exciting....ahem...."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would prefer a regular guy but as I don't meet very often, I'm finding it hard to get that level of connection. Had it once and knowing each well lead to exciting adventurous times

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By *ilveryFoxMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Do you prefer regular meets with the same person/people or do you prefer one off meets? "

No meets yet, still in foundation mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll refrain to answer until I have built up enough experience to give an informed opinion.

Hazard a guess at regular if you were to corner me.

Surely if it's sexual, it gets better over time/trust & knowing the buttons to bring extensive pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha I actually persuaded myself to answer that.

Might be able to give a definite, when I'm drawing my pension.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Love a regular meet that you can build on. Earning trust and pushing boundaries.

But also love the excitement and inticipaton of a new meet. The uncertainty of how it will be

^^^^^ this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you prefer regular meets with the same person/people or do you prefer one off meets? "

I would like to try one off meet

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Both ,,,,,,,,, and you know who with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Either, love the excitement of meeting someone new but I love having something regular where you know what they like and how good they are in bed..

Downside is I sometimes get bored of the same or they live busy lives so it's not as regular as this nympho likes

This!

I also have a pretty busy life and don't have time to be chasing after new meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're lucky enough to meet a person who ticks all your boxes your outlook can change...rapidly!

Yup not sure I tick all her boxes though and she's going though one of those quiting fab stages.

Doesn't help that fab seems to have filled up with abusive jealous people.

Maybe my head was in a cloud last time I was on fab a year ago but I don't remember people sending me messages asking for details of my meets like crazy fcking stalkers last time I was here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ideally looking for regular easy going playmates to get to know better ...

Happy to oblige... the moment I'm not unwell and they fix that fecking bridge! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We r new to this and I personally think talking on here makes it a bit easier.I think meeting same person/couple when new to this would help our confidence.so I would go for same person/couple for a while.nsa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would prefer regular with the same person

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By *he feckersCouple
over a year ago

rosyth

regular is good but the odd one off Ian good as well

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"I prefer to play in the field!

sorted for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

play the field..go with the flow x

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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Prefer regular but majority so far have been one offs through my own choice.

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