FabSwingers.com forum: Monopoly on meeting guys

By *eather47 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I dont know what others on here think about this but here goes Why when u meet and befriend a guy on here do some folk think it is right to let rip at you and tell u you shouldnt meet them because they have met them Get a LIFE its a swinging site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw the most hilarious veri today on a single guys profile ... I think it had HE IS MINE, hands off , you can look but dont dare touch all in at the one time .... Talk about possesive haha

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By *eather47 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Aye and unless theyre in a steady relationship no need for it at all As my mum used to say theres nowt as queer as folks lass

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I dont know what others on here think about this but here goes Why when u meet and befriend a guy on here do some folk think it is right to let rip at you and tell u you shouldnt meet them because they have met them Get a LIFE its a swinging site"
oh the eyes off hes mine brigade yes seen it many times Heather some dont know the meaning of swinging.

I meet who and when I want and if someone doesnt like it tough shit

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By *eather47 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

And that how it should be

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"And that how it should be

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

I thought you ladies never let the good ones escape your dungeons

I know i'm not that good as i was always able to leave

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I thought you ladies never let the good ones escape your dungeons

I know i'm not that good as i was always able to leave

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not at all they are all free to do their own thing ....as long as they come back for repeats hee hee

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I was informed of one lady recently contacting the men who attended our party and called them mansluts, giving them earache for attending!

Sour grapes, presumably.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I was informed of one lady recently contacting the men who attended our party and called them mansluts, giving them earache for attending!

Sour grapes, presumably. "
Shocking !!!

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"I thought you ladies never let the good ones escape your dungeons

I know i'm not that good as i was always able to leave

not at all they are all free to do their own thing ....as long as they come back for repeats hee hee

just like tv lots of repeats none for me

LOL

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"I was informed of one lady recently contacting the men who attended our party and called them mansluts, giving them earache for attending!

Sour grapes, presumably. Shocking !!!

Yeah, I'm so bothered

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I was informed of one lady recently contacting the men who attended our party and called them mansluts, giving them earache for attending!

Sour grapes, presumably. Shocking !!!

Yeah, I'm so bothered

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quite right

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I thought you ladies never let the good ones escape your dungeons

I know i'm not that good as i was always able to leave

not at all they are all free to do their own thing ....as long as they come back for repeats hee hee

just like tv lots of repeats none for me

LOL"
lol steph

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is actually a lot more of it about than you actually think.

This is an adult swinging site where we choose to meet who and when we like. Too many people on here stake a claim on someone after a 5 minute chat

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

No ones claimed me, must be doing something wrong

Oh well just have to get on without someone possessive in my life, oh the hardship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I opened this thinking it was going be a fun game of monopoly.

Had it happen to me with a guy years back, he was going around telling people we were a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was informed of one lady recently contacting the men who attended our party and called them mansluts, giving them earache for attending!

Sour grapes, presumably. "

What? That's bloody ridicolous

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"There is actually a lot more of it about than you actually think.

This is an adult swinging site where we choose to meet who and when we like. Too many people on here stake a claim on someone after a 5 minute chat "
Agree but thank goodness most are savy enough to realise what's going on.

But sadly some get drawn into the wicked lies people weave just for the sake of a shag with those staking claim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped asking for verifications and stopped giving anything except social verifications for this reason. Yes it's a swinging site but very few men can actually control jealousy.

I still get the occasional twinge but it mostly makes me embarrassed

for feeling that way.... Again because I'm awesome

lol

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"I was informed of one lady recently contacting the men who attended our party and called them mansluts, giving them earache for attending!

Sour grapes, presumably.

What? That's bloody ridicolous"

Yeah, but so is she

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was informed of one lady recently contacting the men who attended our party and called them mansluts, giving them earache for attending!

Sour grapes, presumably.

What? That's bloody ridicolous

Yeah, but so is she

Haha. Fish slapped is needed

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By *eather47 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Mystery gift im talking about both sexes on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd settle for someone wanting to meet me at the moment, at least that would be a start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the green eyed monster. Human nature to be jealous or nosey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies you can all have me as your own and I won't tell LOL

Ha Ha wishful thinking again and then BUMP back to reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mystery gift im talking about both sexes on here "

Ive never experienced the other side of the coin, I know my sisters insanely jealous of any women even texting her husband but she isn't a swinger and nobody has ever texted me with ultimatums... At least not for about a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who's got mayfair ???????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm starting to feel like the Old Kent Rd of Monopoly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not pass go

Do suck to collect 200 pumps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Community fantastic chests

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

goodness ....I certainly wouldn't want the hassle of anyone claiming me. That would be scary. as for claiming anyone ...I always return my books to the library on time. I may check them out again but they are not mine to keep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think certain women just get jealous, especially if it has been a really good meet that the guy is going to get with someone else instead of meeting her again and again. It is a swinging site though so surely they know what they are signing up for

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I think certain women just get jealous, especially if it has been a really good meet that the guy is going to get with someone else instead of meeting her again and again. It is a swinging site though so surely they know what they are signing up for

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you'd like to think so but apparently not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's mine.....MINE I TELL YOU!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've either not come across the crazy ones yet or I'm just really shi...

Yeah I haven't come across the crazy ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you'd like to think so but apparently not

It's not just women.

I have found some men also wanting ownership,

Some get offended if They read a veri because they think they should be next as if it's their 'turn'....!!

It's like being back at school..

Aren't we meant to be adults ..it's a sex site not a dating site!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"He's mine.....MINE I TELL YOU!!!!!!!

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how selfish your not sharing... It's a swingers site after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's mine.....MINE I TELL YOU!!!!!!!

how selfish your not sharing... It's a swingers site after all

Back off toots!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you'd like to think so but apparently not

It's not just women.

I have found some men also wanting ownership,

Some get offended if They read a veri because they think they should be next as if it's their 'turn'....!!

It's like being back at school..

Aren't we meant to be adults ..it's a sex site not a dating site!!

I think the site should come with some sort of maturity filter to make sure it filters out all the people who are too immature to take the site for what it is or act in a reasonable manner. Might end up with very few people left on it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People find strong bonds with some people. Why wouldnt you want more of what you liked and enjoyed. Doubt theres there many who dont feel some sort of emotions. Would you really want to meet someone who seen you as a piece of meat?? Fuck n go ??

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By *all saulMan
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

"People find strong bonds with some people. Why wouldnt you want more of what you liked and enjoyed. Doubt theres there many who dont feel some sort of emotions. Would you really want to meet someone who seen you as a piece of meat?? Fuck n go ??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's one thing to have a strong bond but claiming someone as yours and not wanting to share is a bit extreme? I know I have had some amazing meets where there has been a strong connection and I want to see them again, however I would never not want them to enjoy what else there is

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

I agree but to be honest sometimes ur best with a fuck and go. Leas aggro, bs and drama. Would be nice to find a balance x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

When most folk joined here it was to shag an not much more.

That's why you see people putting up meet adds because all they want is a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I agree good to have the both of both worlds. Instant duck section mabe?? Oh a spooning section to.

Cake section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Duck.Jezzo bloody spell check. LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"goodness ....I certainly wouldn't want the hassle of anyone claiming me. That would be scary. as for claiming anyone ...I always return my books to the library on time. I may check them out again but they are not mine to keep.

Uh oh ... I have some really over due library books ... That i an not even reading ... What does that say about me

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Hell yeah....there's times a one night stand type meet worked wonders fuck silly then go wham bam lol....other times it's nice to have more of a connection through time.....think there's times in life you want different types of meets and sex ....takes all sorts at deferent stages in swinging ...it's like a journey

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By *ilveryFoxMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Jealously is a terrible thing and not an attractive quality! We don't need bunny boilers on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Driving to Edinburgh is a journey, what you're describing sounds like a fun free for all.

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By *eather47 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Lifes journey i thoroughly agree with you

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By *eather47 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Mystery no it isnt its what is called swinging and none of this s..t of possesiveness and bitching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as I can see there can be many gaps in communication that can contribute to such a situation. Honesty about what both yourself and your meet are looking for and expecting is always required so that should such an occurrence take place it's easier to deal with.

I've also seen members of both sexes play meets off against each other creating such a climate which is clearly unfair to all parties.

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I check in my library books on time ..I may check back out if fun but never mine to keep xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi guys and girls..i live in sussex and there are two women down here like that..one even kicked of at a meet saying the guy was hers and it all went a bit sour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Replying to the original post...its been happening on here for years.. the jealousy about who folks are meeting. I still use the same system as I always have..meet who I want and don't let anyone dictate how I live my life and who I see.

If someone's not amused about who I meet tough titty!

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By *inasparklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Nen can be as bad at trying to control woman x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As far as I can see there can be many gaps in communication that can contribute to such a situation. Honesty about what both yourself and your meet are looking for and expecting is always required so that should such an occurrence take place it's easier to deal with."

Fell into that trap twice... you would think I'd learn my lesson the first time but nooooooo

I should just start every message to someone I don't know with "what are your expectations for fab?" and if the answer is anything except friendship or sex bolt for the hills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's inevitable that it happens. Especially if you've seen someone a few times and begin to get close. How that's dealt with is what matters most.

I'll be quite honest and say there is someone on here id be devistated to find had met someone else. However as someone said already he's not mine to keep. So it would be down to me to handle my own feelings accordingly and not create a drama for him or anyone else. And that's the difference. Some people act more irrationally when or if emotions get involved.

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By *ootlover456Man
over a year ago

Paisley

now now ladies. lets all calm down. there's plenty of me to go around

no one has to stake a claim. we don't need any auctions or battles to the death

oh wait no ones fighting over me anyway well damn it there goes my ego

:P :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

from my cynicism from my years on the site..

a straight single woman who asks for no 'one off' meets I'd usually avoid..

a straight single woman slagging off other women she classes as bikes or sluts, I'd normally avoid

a straight single woman that meets one guy from the site and they verify eachother several times in a month..I'd usually avoid(I'll often see the moaning statuses later on when she realizes he's been fucking about anyway)

A woman that points out things about past or future partners..in a derogatory way or her being insecure(about herself compared to them), I wouldnt avoid..but it can be hard work trying to explain, without being slutty that a holes a hole..

oops..kidding at the last part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"from my cynicism from my years on the site..

a straight single woman who asks for no 'one off' meets I'd usually avoid..

a straight single woman slagging off other women she classes as bikes or sluts, I'd normally avoid

oops..kidding at the last part

Oh well patrick that bombs me out then. Pmsl.so list there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"from my cynicism from my years on the site..

a straight single woman who asks for no 'one off' meets I'd usually avoid..

a straight single woman slagging off other women she classes as bikes or sluts, I'd normally avoid

oops..kidding at the last part

Oh well patrick that bombs me out then. Pmsl.so list there.

ha-haaaa

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