FabSwingers.com forum: Veri help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey

I have verifications which is always a bonus in here but recently people are saying I won't meet you as you have met guys and tv's. I haven't done either. The tv verification is from when I used to go on cam, the male veri is from a profile that used to be a couple profile. Is there anyway this can be amended to show that?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

You could hide them and your summary, you would still show as verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo hide them and your summary. I had the same problem. Since doing this though it's helped a lot

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks. I did that but then people ask to see them. It's a lose lose situation. If you say no then you get called a fake, if you show them they block you or say no.

Think fab needs to look at this

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Thanks. I did that but then people ask to see them. It's a lose lose situation. If you say no then you get called a fake, if you show them they block you or say no.

Think fab needs to look at this "

Not necessarily. We prefer to see veris as they're a good indicator whether the person or couple sound like someone we'll get on with.

If we saw any cam veris we tend to discount those and pay attention to the real meets, and judge accordingly

We're not into TVs and CDs, but have no problem meeting people who are. We have no problem meeting bi guys as long as they understand that it's straight MFM and they only play with me.

If people are solely blaming your veris, it may be an excuse and the veris are not why you don't appeal to them. Yes some people will be put off, but others won't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I had been talking to this person for a while so I can't see what else it could be. Been on here long enough to know what it's all about.

Unfortunately if they no longer on site you can't show how veri was left (cam or in person)

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Ok, good luck then

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Tell them the couple left the site so you don't have a veri to show them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks. I did that but then people ask to see them. It's a lose lose situation. If you say no then you get called a fake, if you show them they block you or say no.

Think fab needs to look at this "

What are you hoping Fab would be able to do about that?

Why don't you just show the verifications? You don't have to show them all but putting up the guy and tv's ones along with a few others would let people see you haven't actually met them, it was just cam.

Other than that, there isn't much you can do apart from remove the verification summary so people aren't making wrong assumptions about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At a complete loss to understand what exactly fab should do. You seem to be indicating that the veris are genuine and no doubt at the time you received them you were happy enough with them. Now that they no longer suit your purpose you want fab to 'tidy them up' for you???? If you explained to people you chat with the circumstances as you did here, I tend to think they would understand. Or perhaps they are using the veris as an excuse. Either way, I see no need to blame fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could mail the people who sent them and explain it's effecting your meets could they block you I'm sure that deletes their veris from your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Say something to improve fab and get shot down??

I can't mail one of the people because they are not on the site any longer. The other is a male which used to be part of a couple on here. I met the female from that couple. I just think whilst the veri system is good it's not an accurate reflection.

Many people on here won't meet bi guys or anyone who has met tv's. I am neither bi nor met a to yet my verifications would suggest otherwise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not shooting anyone down and I may be wrong but surely the veri disappears when someone goes unlos and I'm sure the male half doesn't want a veri that suggests you had fun together easy fix is for him to block you and visa versa your other way would be to block both and pm admin and say you've blocked them could they take down the veris or delete profile and start again with same name and ask those whose veri you do want displayed to re verify you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The actual veri goes but the veri is still left on the summary. Does that make sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok it makes sense but see why your pissed try delete reset up same name and new veris

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Suppose I could just a lot of hassle. Is there a place to recommend things to fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start a forum post in admin help they do listen sometimes

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