FabSwingers.com forum: Dating

By *UNKIE OP Man
over a year ago

south east

Following on from another thread ..Is Fabswingers in danger of becoming diluted with people only intent on dating and finding that 1 partner due to site being free (most dating sites require a paid membership).. having been on alot of swingers sites over the years it seems to me fab is becoming quite popular with people looking to date rather than swing compared to the rest of the (pay sites) i have frequented ..thoughts ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Following on from another thread ..Is Fabswingers in danger of becoming diluted with people only intent on dating and finding that 1 partner due to site being free (most dating sites require a paid membership).. having been on alot of swingers sites over the years it seems to me fab is becoming quite popular with people looking to date rather than swing compared to the rest of the (pay sites) i have frequented ..thoughts ??

I think crossover is likely due to the nature of the internet itself and changing attitudes to swinging too. Once upon a time swinging was for couples only but now it's for everyone. Some will think that's a good thing and some won't... as the saying goes... You can please some of the people all of the time and all of the people some of the time but you can't please all of the people all of the time... and then there are the awkward buggers you can never please

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By *UNKIE OP Man
over a year ago

south east

But would that crossover occur as much if fab was a paid membership site ...im not talking of those that come on the scene and eventually hook up with "the 1" but the people who are intent on finding the 1 (using fab as a free dating site)

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

No idea. I think perhaps the time of year plays a part too, who doesn't want to be coupled up and happy at Christmas?

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over a year ago

"But would that crossover occur as much if fab was a paid membership site ...im not talking of those that come on the scene and eventually hook up with "the 1" but the people who are intent on finding the 1 (using fab as a free dating site)

There's a lot of arguement for making the site paid... it would resolve a lot of "problems" but then Fab is attractive due to it's ease of use... I guess if enough folk felt strongly about it then the site would make it so

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By *UNKIE OP Man
over a year ago

south east

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've switched from the dating sites because they are boring and it's more of a window shopping exercise these days.

Having been in a vanilla relationship for a year I'm back because I miss swinging. I'm not a couple but I enjoy the freedom of being able to choose who I play with.

Because of the vanilla thing in hoping to find a reliable partner to swing with as well as 1-2-1. Not looking for a full time relationship and defo never go vanilla again!!!

Hope that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me bunks no I use site for what it is.i no into dating because no lady can match my housework skills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As from a recent thread I put up about dating ! I'm not on here for dating because it's free ? Money isn't the issue , I'm looking for someone who is into sex as much as me and if I put that in my profile on a dating site I would probably get thrown off !

Just wanted to make that clear ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that the reality is for a lot of single pepole fab begins as something to fill a gap until the next relationship happens.

And as I've said before a lot of people (in many different situations) actually seek intamacy and sex is a vehicle to get that. And why shouldn't they?

I don't think it makes a difference how much the site costs.

And sweeping statement here but..

It's nearly always couples who have this gripe. It's all right for you guys.. you have the someone to keep you warm at night. As singles we don't (and shouldn't) judge you for it.

I always get quite hacked off with these types of posts.

Everybody wants different things and there is no reason why they can't seek them here.

If you focus on your own needs it never becomes an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that the reality is for a lot of single pepole fab begins as something to fill a gap until the next relationship happens.

And as I've said before a lot of people (in many different situations) actually seek intamacy and sex is a vehicle to get that. And why shouldn't they?

I don't think it makes a difference how much the site costs.

And sweeping statement here but..

It's nearly always couples who have this gripe. It's all right for you guys.. you have the someone to keep you warm at night. As singles we don't (and shouldn't) judge you for it.

I always get quite hacked off with these types of posts.

Everybody wants different things and there is no reason why they can't seek them here.

If you focus on your own needs it never becomes an issue.

Totally agree x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that the reality is for a lot of single pepole fab begins as something to fill a gap until the next relationship happens.

And as I've said before a lot of people (in many different situations) actually seek intamacy and sex is a vehicle to get that. And why shouldn't they?

I don't think it makes a difference how much the site costs.

And sweeping statement here but..

It's nearly always couples who have this gripe. It's all right for you guys.. you have the someone to keep you warm at night. As singles we don't (and shouldn't) judge you for it.

I always get quite hacked off with these types of posts.

Everybody wants different things and there is no reason why they can't seek them here.

If you focus on your own needs it never becomes an issue.

Couldnt have said it better xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that the reality is for a lot of single pepole fab begins as something to fill a gap until the next relationship happens.

And as I've said before a lot of people (in many different situations) actually seek intamacy and sex is a vehicle to get that. And why shouldn't they?

I don't think it makes a difference how much the site costs.

And sweeping statement here but..

It's nearly always couples who have this gripe. It's all right for you guys.. you have the someone to keep you warm at night. As singles we don't (and shouldn't) judge you for it.

I always get quite hacked off with these types of posts.

Everybody wants different things and there is no reason why they can't seek them here.

If you focus on your own needs it never becomes an issue.

You speak wise words Oh Pink Lady of the Mist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No idea. I think perhaps the time of year plays a part too, who doesn't want to be coupled up and happy at Christmas?

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me !

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