FabSwingers.com forum: If you enjoy being pegged, does this make you bisexual?!?!?

By *atex and Kink OP Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Question raised on a previous topic regarding labels before.

I was wondering were peeps stand on the old pegging side of things.

1. If you like things up your bum does that make you bisexual?

2. If you like a rubber cock up your bum does that make you bisexual?

Floor is open, interested to see others perception..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few straight guys that I know enjoy being pegged by a woman. They enjoy the submission and generally the stimulation that it offers. They would baulk at the idea of being with a man as they are straight and because a man is not part of the fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it just means you like anal play.

Many nerve endings in there that cause different and pleasurable sensations. Why not explore them?

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

1. Depends on the thing up your bum

2. Depends on whether you wish there was a big hunk attached to the dildo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ever done it and although the idea of a mans boaby up my exit canal really does make me shudder(no offence to bi.men) I don't think I would rule out (having read of them) maybe a but plug to just see if I did like it.Idont think that makes me bi or bi curious but being totally inexperienced in most things none "vanilla" sex I could be wrong

Good question though o.p for us vanillas

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

Of course it doesn't, its just assplay.

Its when you wish it was a cock that makes you Bi...

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Of course it doesn't!!!

Just because someone is open to trying some ass play doesn't make them bisexual unless there was a cock there helping lol

Just means they are curious to see how it feels maybe and being experimental with your own body is good and helps you discover what you'd maybe like to try and what you wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Experimenting is good

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I think it just means you like anal play.

Many nerve endings in there that cause different and pleasurable sensations. Why not explore them?

Couldn't of said it any better

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the odd finger up my bum before. I only went to the doctor for a sore throat as well.

Maybe he was just being thorough.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Of course it doesn't, its just assplay.

Its when you wish it was a cock that makes you Bi..."

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can someone explain my cousin?

He's straight, single, he's had sex with both male & female & doesn't deny it.

He doesn't class himself as bi or bi curious, in his words he can't be bi becuase he he fancies women but doesn't fancy guys, but can find both attractive

He said if your sitting about with no birds about & a gay or bi guy offers up his mouth or arse then why not?

But the thought of a cock going anywhere near him doesn't interest him. He has said if one of the guys he pumped came near him with their cock he'd probably knock them out

So what exactly is he?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's open minded and comfortable with what he likes and doesn't.

Labels aren't for everyone.

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Can someone explain my cousin?

He's straight, single, he's had sex with both male & female & doesn't deny it.

He doesn't class himself as bi or bi curious, in his words he can't be bi becuase he he fancies women but doesn't fancy guys, but can find both attractive

He said if your sitting about with no birds about & a gay or bi guy offers up his mouth or arse then why not?

But the thought of a cock going anywhere near him doesn't interest him. He has said if one of the guys he pumped came near him with their cock he'd probably knock them out

So what exactly is he?

Closet bi

Actually to be honest I wouldn't class him as bi. I'd more class him ad open. I've been chatting with bi and bi curious guys since coming on here and you would be supprised the amount of them that would take a cock in there ass but don't find men attractive.

Xxxx

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over a year ago

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Can someone explain my cousin?

He's straight, single, he's had sex with both male & female & doesn't deny it.

He doesn't class himself as bi or bi curious, in his words he can't be bi becuase he he fancies women but doesn't fancy guys, but can find both attractive

He said if your sitting about with no birds about & a gay or bi guy offers up his mouth or arse then why not?

But the thought of a cock going anywhere near him doesn't interest him. He has said if one of the guys he pumped came near him with their cock he'd probably knock them out

So what exactly is he?

Errrrrm selfish and aggressive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can someone explain my cousin?

He's straight, single, he's had sex with both male & female & doesn't deny it.

He doesn't class himself as bi or bi curious, in his words he can't be bi becuase he he fancies women but doesn't fancy guys, but can find both attractive

He said if your sitting about with no birds about & a gay or bi guy offers up his mouth or arse then why not?

But the thought of a cock going anywhere near him doesn't interest him. He has said if one of the guys he pumped came near him with their cock he'd probably knock them out

So what exactly is he?

Errrrrm selfish and aggressive

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lol true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BTW sorry to OP didn't mean to take over just didn't want to start my own.

I would say just experimental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never been pegged. although I would love it I am sure.

I have never been taken in the ass. And never will.

However, in the right mmf environment I enjoy oral all round. hence, I have bi on my profile.

Who cares about tags! go with the flow x

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

"I've had the odd finger up my bum before. I only went to the doctor for a sore throat as well.

Maybe he was just being thorough. "

You should only be concerned when you can feel both his hands on your shoulders. ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really believe in labels but just in having a very open mind. I find it funny that people can say they don't like something they've never tried.

I used to say the same thing about broccoli when I was 5.

Franco X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few straight guys that I know enjoy being pegged by a woman. They enjoy the submission and generally the stimulation that it offers. They would baulk at the idea of being with a man as they are straight and because a man is not part of the fantasy.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Can someone explain my cousin?

He's straight, single, he's had sex with both male & female & doesn't deny it.

He doesn't class himself as bi or bi curious, in his words he can't be bi becuase he he fancies women but doesn't fancy guys, but can find both attractive

He said if your sitting about with no birds about & a gay or bi guy offers up his mouth or arse then why not?

But the thought of a cock going anywhere near him doesn't interest him. He has said if one of the guys he pumped came near him with their cock he'd probably knock them out

So what exactly is he?

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in denial I'd say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can someone explain my cousin?

He's straight, single, he's had sex with both male & female & doesn't deny it.

He doesn't class himself as bi or bi curious, in his words he can't be bi becuase he he fancies women but doesn't fancy guys, but can find both attractive

He said if your sitting about with no birds about & a gay or bi guy offers up his mouth or arse then why not?

But the thought of a cock going anywhere near him doesn't interest him. He has said if one of the guys he pumped came near him with their cock he'd probably knock them out

So what exactly is he?

someone who doesnt care what sex he shags?- as long as he isnt on the receiving end...prefers to be the dominant one.Effectively anything that'll empty his sacs..

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Can someone explain my cousin?

He's straight, single, he's had sex with both male & female & doesn't deny it.

He doesn't class himself as bi or bi curious, in his words he can't be bi becuase he he fancies women but doesn't fancy guys, but can find both attractive

He said if your sitting about with no birds about & a gay or bi guy offers up his mouth or arse then why not?

But the thought of a cock going anywhere near him doesn't interest him. He has said if one of the guys he pumped came near him with their cock he'd probably knock them out

So what exactly is he?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course it doesn't, its just assplay.

Its when you wish it was a cock that makes you Bi..."

Flip it the other way ... If a lesbian likes to be penetrated by toys (pussy or ass) did she just revert back to being straight? ... I think not!

Its just about expirimenting with WHAT gives you pleasure not WHO

Just my opinion of course

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

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"Of course it doesn't, its just assplay.

Its when you wish it was a cock that makes you Bi...

Flip it the other way ... If a lesbian likes to be penetrated by toys (pussy or ass) did she just revert back to being straight? ... I think not!

Its just about expirimenting with WHAT gives you pleasure not WHO

Just my opinion of course

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I think the diffrence is a lesbian isnt wanting it to be a bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could be a lesbian

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By *atex and Kink OP Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

thank you for all the replies. i asked the question due to another thread i posted in recently.

i wanted to gain people's perception.

i am not one for labels. but have questioned opinion on labels.

i think you are into whatever you want to be into. As long as its not criminal in the eyes of the law.

i do have a follow up thread for discussion. i hope all will participate with such insite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am straight and must say I liked it being done. As said before I like the submissive side of it not to mention when it hits prostate. Very difficult to find a open female to play with as seems taboo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course it doesn't, its just assplay.

Its when you wish it was a cock that makes you Bi...

Flip it the other way ... If a lesbian likes to be penetrated by toys (pussy or ass) did she just revert back to being straight? ... I think not!

Its just about expirimenting with WHAT gives you pleasure not WHO

Just my opinion of course

I think the diffrence is a lesbian isnt wanting it to be a bloke "

But why assume a guy who enjoys it wants it to be a bloke?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Of course it doesn't, its just assplay.

Its when you wish it was a cock that makes you Bi...

Flip it the other way ... If a lesbian likes to be penetrated by toys (pussy or ass) did she just revert back to being straight? ... I think not!

Its just about expirimenting with WHAT gives you pleasure not WHO

Just my opinion of course

I think the diffrence is a lesbian isnt wanting it to be a bloke

But why assume a guy who enjoys it wants it to be a bloke? "
in the scenario given the guy I wishing it was a cock this would be bisexual thoughts. A lesbian isnt thinking wish this was a cock she just thinks I want my toy

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

1 - No

And

2 - No

2 could mean you're... curious though, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course it doesn't, its just assplay.

Its when you wish it was a cock that makes you Bi...

Flip it the other way ... If a lesbian likes to be penetrated by toys (pussy or ass) did she just revert back to being straight? ... I think not!

Its just about expirimenting with WHAT gives you pleasure not WHO

Just my opinion of course

I think the diffrence is a lesbian isnt wanting it to be a bloke

But why assume a guy who enjoys it wants it to be a bloke? in the scenario given the guy I wishing it was a cock this would be bisexual thoughts. A lesbian isnt thinking wish this was a cock she just thinks I want my toy"

I thought the scenario was pegging?

I must have missed the part that the OP said he wished a guy would fuck him

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

"Of course it doesn't, its just assplay.

Its when you wish it was a cock that makes you Bi...

Flip it the other way ... If a lesbian likes to be penetrated by toys (pussy or ass) did she just revert back to being straight? ... I think not!

Its just about expirimenting with WHAT gives you pleasure not WHO

Just my opinion of course

I think the diffrence is a lesbian isnt wanting it to be a bloke

I thought the scenario was pegging?

I must have missed the part that the OP said he wished a guy would fuck him

No one did, no one said he was either..

The question was if he likes being pegged, does that make him Bi?...

The answer from everyone was no it doesn't.... this is just assplay, with a female with a strapon, so is hetro/straight..... if he sticks stuff up his bum while alone in the house etc... still doesn't make him Bi..

It was mentioned he would only be Bi "IF" he wanted to be penetrated with a penis, he doesnt, so he's not Bi..... simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course it doesn't, its just assplay.

Its when you wish it was a cock that makes you Bi...

Flip it the other way ... If a lesbian likes to be penetrated by toys (pussy or ass) did she just revert back to being straight? ... I think not!

Its just about expirimenting with WHAT gives you pleasure not WHO

Just my opinion of course

I think the diffrence is a lesbian isnt wanting it to be a bloke

I thought the scenario was pegging?

I must have missed the part that the OP said he wished a guy would fuck him

No one did, no one said he was either..

The question was if he likes being pegged, does that make him Bi?...

It was mentioned he would only be Bi "IF" he wanted to be penetrated with a penis, he doesnt, so he's not Bi..... simples

what she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course it doesn't, its just assplay.

Its when you wish it was a cock that makes you Bi...

Flip it the other way ... If a lesbian likes to be penetrated by toys (pussy or ass) did she just revert back to being straight? ... I think not!

Its just about expirimenting with WHAT gives you pleasure not WHO

Just my opinion of course

I think the diffrence is a lesbian isnt wanting it to be a bloke

I thought the scenario was pegging?

I must have missed the part that the OP said he wished a guy would fuck him

No one did, no one said he was either..

The question was if he likes being pegged, does that make him Bi?...

It was mentioned he would only be Bi "IF" he wanted to be penetrated with a penis, he doesnt, so he's not Bi..... simples

I also love how we never seem to see these debates about women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean about it being taboo....starting to think it's just a "porn" thing.

If you do find a woman that enjoys it can you give me a shout

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

"Of course it doesn't, its just assplay.

Its when you wish it was a cock that makes you Bi...

Flip it the other way ... If a lesbian likes to be penetrated by toys (pussy or ass) did she just revert back to being straight? ... I think not!

Its just about expirimenting with WHAT gives you pleasure not WHO

Just my opinion of course

I think the diffrence is a lesbian isnt wanting it to be a bloke

I thought the scenario was pegging?

I must have missed the part that the OP said he wished a guy would fuck him

No one did, no one said he was either..

The question was if he likes being pegged, does that make him Bi?...

It was mentioned he would only be Bi "IF" he wanted to be penetrated with a penis, he doesnt, so he's not Bi..... simples

I also love how we never seem to see these debates about women "

well, if a woman wants penetrated by a penis then id say she's straight

if she wanted penetrated by a woman wearing a strapon, then she may be BI

but thats a totally different question to the original post dont you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well, if a woman wants penetrated by a penis then id say she's straight

if she wanted penetrated by a woman wearing a strapon, then she may be BI

but thats a totally different question to the original post dont you think?"

Yeah im probably off on a tangent ... Just think its funny that girls seem to be ablecto expiriment freely without judgement but as soon as a guy shows an interest in something up his bum we jump to oh does it make him bi

I actually agree with everything youve said btw ... Just incase i have my eye rolls in the wrong place and confusing my message haha

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

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I was never refering to the op my replys were to "its when they wish it was a cock" as was rightly said this is what would make it a bisexual thought as for woman I think its accepted more as its alot of mens fantasies

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