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How assertive are you?

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By *ntirelyuptoyou OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Women especially? Are you able to say exactly what you want?

I have no problems in the bedroom saying what I want and making sure we both get enjoyment. And I can easily complain in a shop/restaurant.

But today I found myself getting all shy and flustered when trying to put the feelers out with a single guy we'd like to invite for a mmf!

What's that all about!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Women especially? Are you able to say exactly what you want?

I have no problems in the bedroom saying what I want and making sure we both get enjoyment. And I can easily complain in a shop/restaurant.

But today I found myself getting all shy and flustered when trying to put the feelers out with a single guy we'd like to invite for a mmf!

What's that all about!

"
Very assertive and aint shy in going out and getting what I want from life and on here too .

No one goes far waiting for it all to fall into their laps.

If I find someone Im attracted to Im not scared to make the first move nor am I scared to let them know what I want in the bedroom

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I can me very assertive, but I can also be reserved which can be mistaken for shy or 'sweet'. But in general, I'll say what I feel. You only need to worry when I go quiet because it's usually a sign that I've got something to say, but I won't say it because it's not nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can me very assertive, but I can also be reserved which can be mistaken for shy or 'sweet'. But in general, I'll say what I feel. You only need to worry when I go quiet because it's usually a sign that I've got something to say, but I won't say it because it's not nice "

Dude are you sure we not relatives

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I can me very assertive, but I can also be reserved which can be mistaken for shy or 'sweet'. But in general, I'll say what I feel. You only need to worry when I go quiet because it's usually a sign that I've got something to say, but I won't say it because it's not nice

Dude are you sure we not relatives "

Jeezo.....any excuse to be me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a Guy (looks in mirror).

I'm more respectful and always goes with the flow. I am an assertive kind of guy but only go that level if the persons I'm with knowingly will enjoy that.

I can be very dominant, take control or laid back with a level playing field.

Lot of people are in here for chat, some say they meet, some of which don't intend to really, some just into meets

But we are all here for Fun, in different levels and being shy, sometimes could have you left behind on the stalls (oh its high up here).

As long as you both or all have fun then its a no lose situation and if your shy or become shy, its kl, you may like that person a lot juts don't make it that shy that you could miss out on that person.

Anno, intellectually stimulating, have I bored you yet, lol

All I can say is, Have Fun and Down with the Timewasters

woop, woop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am assertive to the point of aggressive

Aggressive in an Alan Sugar/ Simon Cowell way

I usually get what I set out for.

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'm not very good at saying what's on my mind unless I'm angry.

When it comes to anything sexual I try drop little hints instead of just coming out with it. Drives my bf daft. I don't know why I do it I just really shy.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the most assertive guy on the planet never mind on fab, I think! Anyway I'm just going to pop out for a while, or will I be better staying in, I've decided, I'm going to have a cup of tea and think about it, or will I have a coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not assertive in any way.

Good at putting on a sarcastic front, but its all for show.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends on the situation.

Sometimes I'm actually quite shy. Other times I say far too much. Especially if I'm standing up for someone or something.

I would never ever approach a guy in a bar or anything like that though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deff assertive , but with a cheeky grin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very assertive. Some people can't handle others been so direct and honest. Don't beleave in messing about.state the fact get it achieved.

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By *ntirelyuptoyou OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Before I was married I had no problem going up to a guy in a bar, pinching his arse and getting a snog. After 11 years of not giving a toss if anyone is flirting I think I've lost the ability to tell

Makes it very difficult to make the first move in that instance!

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Before I was married I had no problem going up to a guy in a bar, pinching his arse and getting a snog. After 11 years of not giving a toss if anyone is flirting I think I've lost the ability to tell

Makes it very difficult to make the first move in that instance!

"

You never lose it, just get a little rusty

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By *ntirelyuptoyou OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I'm definitely rusty! Lol

Will need to increase my Fan activity, oil up the old cogs

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before I was married I had no problem going up to a guy in a bar, pinching his arse and getting a snog. After 11 years of not giving a toss if anyone is flirting I think I've lost the ability to tell

Makes it very difficult to make the first move in that instance!

You never lose it, just get a little rusty "

So true, never lose it, just rusty, lol

Not big headed but could go into a supermarket and see and find if anyone would be looking / interested in fun

and not for bananas, cucumber or Lurpak, pmsl

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By *ntirelyuptoyou OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

That should say Fab activity lol

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I'm definitely rusty! Lol

Will need to increase my Fan activity, oil up the old cogs

X"

Errrrrrr those cogs aren't that old....and if you oil them up you'll only need to flash them and smile.....who could say no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very assertive in life ...Im very spontaneous in a meet ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to assert my non assertiveness assertively

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

Kiki's the assertive one around here, lol

She has no problem with the reaseraunt thing, love it when salesmen decide to to take her on in a haggle, lol, the rest of us take a few steps back and and watch the fun from a distance, lmao

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"I'd like to assert my non assertiveness assertively "

And I'm as easy going as red, lol

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