FabSwingers.com forum: Got to laugh

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sticking up for us genuine guys !

Bit of a rant I'm afraid !

I used to be on here before for a cpl of years and met some great ppl , couples and single females BUT and it's a big but ! Since I've came back , all I talk to seem to be time wasters and must get a kick out of chatting and then backing out at the last minute !

I had 2 meets arranged in the last 2 days

1 a social meet

2 social and fun

No I'm not wanting to shag the site , both backed out at the last min after been arranged for some time

My point is it's not just some guys that are time wasters , women are as bad !!!

And no I'm not mentioning names

What's your opinion ppl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However we don't know why the did so can't wholly make an informed judgement

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

The majority of people agree with you on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok if us guys said we couldn't meet at the last minute for what ever reason , what would you women or couples do ?

You wouldn't listen to any excuses , you would simply hit the block button !

True or not ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks _ab fem

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

A timewaster to me is someone who arranges a meet and doesn't turn up.

If you got cancelled that's totally different.

If it was for genuine reasons then no reason it can't be rearranged.

If they simply changed their mind about meeting you then you just need to accept that.

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By *cotsteveMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

The facts of fab are that there are a huge number of time wasters and fakes. You need to keep that in mind when talking/arranging here.

That said, there's a vast number of very decent folk here too. Unfortunately it takes time to out the wasters first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I nolonger make plan more than a week in advance for people I've not met and anyone who asks for really kinky shit needs to make the arrangements themselves...

I'm really good ar arranging stuff but not wasting my time on fantasists

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I totally agree and as I said when I was on last time I met some great ppl but the site has got worst !

I would be more than happy just to meet 1 female or couple for regular meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is a virtue when being on this site and similar. Good job I have the patience of a saint LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's ok having patience but how long for ? This isn't a dating site haha

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"It's ok having patience but how long for ? This isn't a dating site haha"

This isn't a guaranteed shag site either

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know that haha , both meets we're social meets to begin with and if there was not an attraction on both sides then happily go our own ways !

There has to be a single female out there somewhere for regular meets lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's any consolation the ladies get timewasters also. Takes time to find genuine people and possibly that's why there's an extended period of messaging. You will get there. Have faith!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha it's just very frustrating when i had to juggle my shifts about so I was free !

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'm sure you'll find someone. Just stay positive because nobody likes a moaner...........well unless your in the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

HAha well I certainly like a moaner in the bedroom x

Said my bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Pity your not looking for single guys _ab fem

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Pity your not looking for single guys _ab fem

Why is it a pity?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok if us guys said we couldn't meet at the last minute for what ever reason , what would you women or couples do ?

You wouldn't listen to any excuses , you would simply hit the block button !

True or not ?"

Not, unless it sounds far fetched

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pity your not looking for single guys _ab fem

Why is it a pity? "

Because I would meet you if you was interested

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Ok if us guys said we couldn't meet at the last minute for what ever reason , what would you women or couples do ?

You wouldn't listen to any excuses , you would simply hit the block button !

True or not ?"

Bit of a generalisation, it would depend on the reason given

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Said my bit x

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

If I had a meet arranged and the guy contacted me to say he had to cancel, I would give him the benefit of the doubt, cos things do crop up. If there was no contact all however, I'm less likely to be forgiving.

What some people need to realise is I'm not a timewaster just because I haven't replied to messages!

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"If I had a meet arranged and the guy contacted me to say he had to cancel, I would give him the benefit of the doubt, cos things do crop up. If there was no contact all however, I'm less likely to be forgiving.

What some people need to realise is I'm not a timewaster just because I haven't replied to messages! "

That's messages I've received just chatting, not if I've a meet arranged lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What some people need to realise is I'm not a timewaster just because I haven't replied to messages! "

So are you free for a social meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are to many timewasters overall.

Sad but true.

I think some people like to fantasies about doing what they say they will. But in the end. Simply cant.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

What some people need to realise is I'm not a timewaster just because I haven't replied to messages!

So are you free for a social meet lol

I might be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok if us guys said we couldn't meet at the last minute for what ever reason , what would you women or couples do ?

You wouldn't listen to any excuses , you would simply hit the block button !

True or not ?"

Men do, do this! Though it could be a genuine reason.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok if us guys said we couldn't meet at the last minute for what ever reason , what would you women or couples do ?

You wouldn't listen to any excuses , you would simply hit the block button !

True or not ?

Men do, do this! Though it could be a genuine reason. "

So do women on more than 1 occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making the right judgement in who you choose too meet is vital..

There are dramas with both sexes....Learn by your mistakes...

and move on ..

There are plenty more fish in the sea ....its just trying too catch them thats the problem

Good Luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Making the right judgement in who you choose too meet is vital..

There are dramas with both sexes....Learn by your mistakes...

and move on ..

There are plenty more fish in the sea ....its just trying too catch them thats the problem

Good Luck

I know that , we had been chatting for a while before we arranged a meet

I'm not a teenager who throws his teddy out !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's not a lot you can do about it we were looking for 2/3 single guys for a party the other week we had plenty of sexy couples and single females. But regular guys couldn't make it chatted for a while to a few off the back of a post about struggling to find genuine single guys who would meet couple of them couldn't make date no problem happy to consider again three arranged to meet us two at CJs one in town before for a drink. The two at CJs were no shows no contact before hand or since though have seen one post on here since about how hard it is for reliable genuine guy to get a meet. The third was the most keen complete no show in town and despite having our phone number no message for two days after then one to say sorry trains were off eh bit late now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sticking up for us genuine guys !

Bit of a rant I'm afraid !

I had 2 meets arranged in the last 2 days

1 a social meet

2 social and fun

No I'm not wanting to shag the site , both backed out at the last min after been arranged for some time

My point is it's not just some guys that are time wasters , women are as bad !!!

And no I'm not mentioning names

What's your opinion ppl "

Happened to me on Sunday. Been messaging for ages. I guess he got cold feet. Happens to the best of us.

Lucky for me, I found a replacement

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We recently had a party and for about 10 days beforehand it was just single guys messing us about. Saying they were interested, some had female friends they wanted to bring etc. When it actually came to making payment they vanished.

As a result we're not meeting single guys for a while. Happy to chat, but not meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only Cancelled Once as a meet arranged years ago but my ex phoned me to say my son wasn't well so had to pick him up from school. Had to watch him the whole day so contacted the meet to cancel with 3 hours to go, Was gutted but my sons health was more important.

The Meet in question never blocked me, just slagged me in chat. Lovely Girl.

people have to cancel for different reasons but had my fair share of single girls and couples not even turning up.

What do I say, well the ones who know me, know it is the timewasters loss, they missed out on a great time with me.

That's the way we should all look at it, deal with it and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only Cancelled Once as a meet arranged years ago but my ex phoned me to say my son wasn't well so had to pick him up from school. Had to watch him the whole day so contacted the meet to cancel with 3 hours to go, Was gutted but my sons health was more important.

The Meet in question never blocked me, just slagged me in chat. Lovely Girl.

people have to cancel for different reasons but had my fair share of single girls and couples not even turning up.

What do I say, well the ones who know me, know it is the timewasters loss, they missed out on a great time with me.

That's the way we should all look at it, deal with it and move on.

i have moved on i'm at the gym then a night of porn haha

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"It's ok having patience but how long for ?

This isn't a dating site haha

This isn't a guaranteed shag site either "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's ok having patience but how long for ?

This isn't a dating site haha

This isn't a guaranteed shag site either

Is it not??!! Dam I have been sold this site under false pretences!!!

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