FabSwingers.com forum: Thank you

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for the lovely messages of concern you've been sending on here or in text directly to Mrs Jigsaw after last nights episode.

I will say I was really scared, I've never dealt with anything like that before but I can say that she got home safely & I stayed with her till she was feeling a little better. She's tired & sore but she is safe & she will be ok.

Having seen what happens when someone spikes a drink though...I don't understand how anyone could do that to a person. We were just lucky that we were there as a couple & I could care for her. I dread to think what might have happened if she was there as a single female.

Please please be extra vigilant with your drinks at any party. Next time it could be you & you could be there alone.

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

So glad H is ok... K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope she's ok mate!

Take care!

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Sounds like an awful night.

Get well soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you for the lovely messages of concern you've been sending on here or in text directly to Mrs Jigsaw after last nights episode.

Please please be extra vigilant with your drinks at any party. Next time it could be you & you could be there alone. "

Sorry to hear of your bad experience, I witnessed it first hand in Malta a couple of years ago, my mate and I were chatting to two girls, both very sober ish and composmentos, I went to the bar to get drinks and not two minutes past and my mate shouted me to give him a hand, one of the girls was paralytic, we both carried her back to her hotel and sat with her and her pal for a bit, she had an idea who done it but couldn't prove it, luckily neither the two of us are into taking advantage of vulnerable girl, but it was scary to see.

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

I did warn you on the forum. But yes you can "take care of yourselves" and I'm obviously a control freak!! This place has lots of preditors you need to wise up. The stuff you were doing the other night in the chat room was not healthy.

However. I'm glad you are both ok and don't let such things stop you going what you want to do.

Any ideas on what happened?

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Don't know the full details but it's awful when someone spikes your drink. Happened to a friend of mine & luckily I was there to take them home. It shortened the night, but more importantly that person had someone to make sure they got home safely & stay up to ensure whatever was in the drink wasn't life threatening.

Glad the OP is fine & not in any danger.

Be careful out there folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatevers happened, hope your ok, sending hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me last weekend, it isn't pleasant. Feel better x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Happened to me last weekend, it isn't pleasant. Feel better x "

Holy crap! Hope you go away home safely?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happened to me years ago and was horrific. I hope she is okay and this is not something that becomes common at CJs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly hope the lady is feeling better...

I don't often mention this but years back I went for a cpl of drinks (2) with a woman who until recently was still on fab. Back at her place had 1 more ( poured by her) then felt very sick. Next thing I recall is lying in her hall with blood pouring from my head. Apparently I collapsed and hit my head on a radiator.

Nice lady was more concerned about her walls than me and had to get a taxi to a&e ( phoned by me)

I guess the moral of my story is despite the fact I am ultra cautious about who I meet it still happened and stuff like this is very difficult to eradicate...ohh that and the fact that it isn't only men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scary stuff I hope you are feeling much better today..........as a single fem that story gives me the shivers and why I don't go to places alone though this proves there are idiots everywhere ...........X

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"Thank you for the lovely messages of concern you've been sending on here or in text directly to Mrs Jigsaw after last nights episode.

Please please be extra vigilant with your drinks at any party. Next time it could be you & you could be there alone. "

That's feckin awful, hope MrsJ is feeling all right

And that they catch those that are at it.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"Thank you for the lovely messages of concern you've been sending on here or in text directly to Mrs Jigsaw after last nights episode.

Please please be extra vigilant with your drinks at any party. Next time it could be you & you could be there alone. "

That's feckin awful, hope MrsJ is feeling all right

And that they catch those that are at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you for the lovely messages of concern you've been sending on here or in text directly to Mrs Jigsaw after last nights episode.

Please please be extra vigilant with your drinks at any party. Next time it could be you & you could be there alone. "

Had it done to me before. Managed to get my arse out the place into a taxi and I slept 14 hours after puking big time.

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By *ickyDavCouple
over a year ago

Westish

Oh my god this is awful.. I'm glad you managed to notice and get away asap... Was this in CJS? X

I'm so sorry to hear that someone would be so mean to spike drinks.. Really Why why on earth would you do this!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Glad Mrs is ok, have had it done to me and it's certainly not a pleasant experience. xxx

I now only drink on a Saturday before the footie and lucky that there is a crowd of us that have each other's backs. Mind you, me being in the wheelie usually means I'm the one left watching the drinks... x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I did warn you on the forum. But yes you can "take care of yourselves" and I'm obviously a control freak!! This place has lots of preditors you need to wise up. The stuff you were doing the other night in the chat room was not healthy.

However. I'm glad you are both ok and don't let such things stop you going what you want to do.

Any ideas on what happened?"

this is horrible. Chat the other night was me messing around deciding what to wear for CJs and organising a perfectly safe meet with a couple (public place for social drinks with option of whether to go back to theirs and yes they did prove they were a couple first). It didn't happen but calling that unhealthy is basically saying anything on fab is unhealthy. If you don't like it, nobody is forcing you to stay.

I am not an idiot who needs to wisen up, so kindly take your nasty and unnecessary comments elsewhere. Last night was terrifying for me and a horrible experience for mister, but everyone there would agree it was nobody's fault. You can get spiked anywhere, any time by anyone. I do everything safely but bad people still exist.

This has really upset me, on top of what has been an emotionally and physically horrifible day. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.

Mrs J xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scary stuff. Really sad to hear that. Hope Mrs is okay. Pretty sad you can't go for a simple night out to enjoy yourself without some idiot spoiling it. Hope whoever did it is totally ashamed of themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happened to me or anyone I've been out with x

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holy shit, reading these posts.... Any woman on fab not had someone try to roofie them?

Is roofie the right term? I had to ask who Charlie was last time i was offered

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By *all saulMan
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

Omg that is horrible so glad to hear you got home safely that the main thing. Scary stuff and so unnecessary in a place lot Cjs as well shame on the idiot who ruined your night

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

So glad to hear your other half is ok. Must of been terrifing for you both. Have you any idea what she was spiked with?

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Holy shit, reading these posts.... Any woman on fab not had someone try to roofie them?

Is roofie the right term? I had to ask who Charlie was last time i was offered

Xx"

Roofie is an American term here its just date rape. Very easy to make at home and tasteless in a drink. Can't belive a areshole would do that in a swingers club. I actualy wonder if it was for a laugh but makes you wonder how many other girls this has happened to.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Mrs Jig, Glad you got home safe. And ty for sharing so it can remind us all to be careful. Big hugs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly, it's good to know you've been well looked after and you're ok now.

If I've understood correctly, your drink was spiked in CJ's? If that is the case then it's really not a good advert for CJ's coupled with the videos and cameras being used on the opening night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So glad to hear your other half is ok. Must of been terrifing for you both. Have you any idea what she was spiked with?

Xx"

We've no idea at all & also no idea who did it either. But yes we were both terrified, I was in bits at the time. All ok now though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Firstly, it's good to know you've been well looked after and you're ok now.

If I've understood correctly, your drink was spiked in CJ's? If that is the case then it's really not a good advert for CJ's coupled with the videos and cameras being used on the opening night.

Yes it happened in the club but let's be honest, it can happen to any person in any club anywhere. We don't want to put the fear in everyone, Caroline is running a successful business, one dickhead customer doing something nasty does not a bad club make. The rules were certainly tightened after the opening night & we were very happy there until this incident right at the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xx"

Thanks hun, all my knowledge about drugs comes from movies, i have such an honest face I'm sure even drug dealers must avoid me.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"Firstly, it's good to know you've been well looked after and you're ok now.

If I've understood correctly, your drink was spiked in CJ's? If that is the case then it's really not a good advert for CJ's coupled with the videos and cameras being used on the opening night.

It's not unusual for businesses to have teething problems, but they seem to be mounting at the 'new' CJs.

Bigger isn't always better, and can bring it's own problems!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowhere is safe and it's another thing to happen at cj's since the Halloween incident with videoing. Glad you had the Mr with you to keep you safe and I hope to God you reported it to the police?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happened to me last weekend, it isn't pleasant. Feel better x

Holy crap! Hope you go away home safely?!"

Yeah I managed to get myself into a taxi and off to a&e so I was a lucky one xx

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By *igsaw93Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thank you all for your support and kind wishes. Shows how much support and friendship there is on fab and at CJs. I don't want this to reflect on CJs in any way. As Mr says, it happens everywhere and can happen to anyone. It was a horrible and it won't be forgotten/remembered any time soon but I was kept safe and looked after by Mr.

Love

Mrs J xx

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Thanks hun, all my knowledge about drugs comes from movies, i have such an honest face I'm sure even drug dealers must avoid me."

I just want to point out I've never touched a drug in my life. Any knowlage I have is from my bf.

As for cj's it might not be a good advert but O.P is correct it can happen anywhere anytime. I've never been spiked but my bf has on many occasions. First one being Malta but then serval pubs around here where he used to he a regular.

Judging by what I know from it happining to him and some of the comments here it sounds like it happens a lot. Thank you for sharing with us jigsaw. We're going to CJ's soon and knifing me I probably would of left my drink unattended but won't know.

Xxx

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By *eterjamesmcMan
over a year ago

glasgow

It's a terrible thing to happen. Happened to me in Russia. Given what I thought was a vodka from the barmaid, woke up the next day , flew home to find out that they had emptied my bank account! Not good!

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

It perhaps has changed since we were last at cjs, but do you not have to provide i.d on entry , there after they had a register of whom attended, . I know it was probably busy but thats a start if choosing to figure out possiblities

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Was it reported to the police ?

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By *oodfun777Man
over a year ago

rhu

Gutted to hear this has happened to you and especially when you believe this has happened at cjs. I do hope you make a full recovery

We have certainly clamped down on the phones issue.

It's very hard watching people's drinks as it takes a second to drop something in.

Iv done a lot of door work amongst other work in that line and it never fails to amaze me the type of scum that will try anything even when at a club like this.

I'm sure C will be shocked at this when she hears this as I was.

All I can say to folk is that she does look after everyone in the club and makes sure they get taxis or transport home safely aswell as their safety in the club.

Please guys if anyone is at any place no matter where please please watch your drinks. No matter if you are in familiar company

Sorry once again. J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear about this, glad you feel better.

It happened to me years ago and it was terrifying.

Did you report it to the police?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm sure C will be shocked at this when she hears this as I was.

All I can say to folk is that she does look after everyone in the club and makes sure they get taxis or transport home safely aswell as their safety in the club.

Please guys if anyone is at any place no matter where please please watch your drinks. No matter if you are in familiar company

Sorry once again. J

She was & she apologised to us but really it's not her fault or yours. Yes it happened at cjs but the point of the post was to thank those who were asking after Mrs J & to highlight the importance of watching your drink wherever you are, be it cjs or a club or house party.

But thank you for your concern.

Mr J

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By *inkyCJWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I was as shocked as anyone to hear this as it is not something that we have ever experienced before at the club. I spoke to the couple last night and dealt with this privately.

There is a secure bar at Cjs for leaving your drinks but we cannot watch everyones glasses the whole time there here.

It is unfortunate that someone would do this and especially at a swingers club but I suppose there are some idiots out there that have no respect for others whether its at a swingers club or not.

I hope H is feeling better today. Cj

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By *oftSwingDuoCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Scary what's happened and so glad H is back on top form!

Perhaps a small silver lining is that due to this post, all guests at CJ's will now be more vigilant for any suspicious behaviour ... security numbers have now increased tenfold

If the person who spiked H's drink frequents these forums, then I hope your next shite is a hedgehog!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Awful thing to happen anywhere, and glad you're alright. Never experienced it myself luckily, hope the person responsible is caught.

Not sure why someone above had a go about the chat room, rather an odd thing to say, and rather heartless when you've had such a scare! Pay them no mind, you're safe and well and that's all that matters. I'll certainly be more careful where I leave my water bottle in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad your ok now. Happened to me one night at a meet me & my partner at the time went to a couples house. My partner had to take me to hospital turned out it was date rape drug, then found out through time on meeting other couples they had done the same thing. Apparently it was a power thing he liked being in control I got the police because I was terrified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone out there is lovely and supportive. Some are just low life scum.

I am usually driving and even if I do have one or two I rarely drop my guard due to experience gained years ago.

Hope this is an isolated incident not repeated.

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