FabSwingers.com forum: Confused !!!

By *eah OP Woman
over a year ago

full of numpties

Ok guys and girls I'm genuinely confused here and I need a bit of help to understand ..... Firstly this is in no way meant to hurt anyone's feelings as live and let live I say but if a guy meets and has sex with a TS/TV but puts in his profile that he's straight is that misleading or in the swinging world is it ok ? . I have no issue with anyone's sexuality nor do I wish to offend but I'm really confused lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok guys and girls I'm genuinely confused here and I need a bit of help to understand ..... Firstly this is in no way meant to hurt anyone's feelings as live and let live I say but if a guy meets and has sex with a TS/TV but puts in his profile that he's straight is that misleading or in the swinging world is it ok ? . I have no issue with anyone's sexuality nor do I wish to offend but I'm really confused lol x"

I suppose it's all about opinion and common sense.

My opinion is if your a straight guy and you have a sexual encounter with a male or tv then your at the very least bi, they can kid themselves on but hey ho.

As you say each to their own and love and let live, good luck to them x

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

I'm no expert Kristal and anyone feel free to correct and inform me

My understanding is that TS is a lady born with the wrong equipment

TV is a liking for wearing ladies clothing

So the person in question could be accepting that he was having relations with someone who as a TS is female in mind if not in body.

As I say, anyone please feel free to correct me if my understanding is wrong, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not offended by your post but just thought your sexual orientation was who you were attracted too.

I've had a meet with a guy but had trouble even keeping a chubby, never mind an erection. So no women... No meet, He was a really nice guy and understood the situation perfectly, probably better than I did at that time. Some light gropping and toy play, he cum I left.

Straight, one bi curious experience doesn't make you bi... It makes you human. Xx

Hope that makes sense, my posts recently have been slighty off since a old friend blocked me

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

only bi/gay if he reaches round and touches the other cock....

if not, STRAIGHT

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By *ary_ArgyllMan
over a year ago

Argyll

I guess a lot of guys might be curious to see what it is like - not sure that really makes one gay or bi unless they decide they do like it and want to continue.

Personally not yet met a guy I felt sexually attracted to but who knows - never say never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There should just be a little rainbow scale, where you could place yourself wherever you like on it...

Too many labels and asking people to clarify or justify something that really can't or shouldn't be explained....

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Always find labels interesting. Why should people be pigeon holed. As a previous poster has mentioned were are just human. Knowledge, exploration and experience is human nature. We are all conditioned from birth about right and wrong, good bad, boys do this, girls to that.

Enjoy the experiences of sexual sensuality. The ultimate pleasure seekers are the human race.

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By *eah OP Woman
over a year ago

full of numpties

Well said guys and gals thanks xxx

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I would say bi. But all just labels.

I was looking for a bi guy and kept getting messages from guys with straight on there profiles.

After asking they told me they were bi but there mates are on the site but there were a huge number telling me that the slept with a tv before. Xx

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"There should just be a little rainbow scale, where you could place yourself wherever you like on it...

Too many labels and asking people to clarify or justify something that really can't or shouldn't be explained....

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this would be so confusing for me its simple.if you only want intimacy with the opposite sex straight. if you only want intimacy with the same sex gay. if you want intimacy with botb sexes bi. This may seem harsh but it dosnt matter how the other person _iews themselves.ive seen some stunningly gorgeous tv ts the problem is the meat n veg means no thanks

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

If you wear your sexuality with pride, you are happy to be labelled.

It's the ones who aren't, aren't.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"If you wear your sexuality with pride, you are happy to be labelled.

It's the ones who aren't, aren't.

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now that makes so much sense

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"If you wear your sexuality with pride, you are happy to be labelled.

It's the ones who aren't, aren't.

Even although I am by all Definition bi sexual I dont like being tagged with the label.

I'm just me nothings changed about my personality but I've been upgraded from straight label to bi. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not truly Gay although I do like men very much. I'm definitely not Straight and am not Bisexual and therefore can't say Bi-curious. So what am I ?

I had to put Gay though because of the above

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

As a rubberist and down right weirdo here is a question for the masses or a statement. You are in a dark room. All the bodies around you are a 50/50 split of men and women. All are dressed identically featureless rubber. Anatomical. All have dicks, breasts, a mouth and an ass for fucking everything is covered in rubber so you cannot tell which is a real cock or real breasts . A writhing mass of sexually charged bodies with breasts cocks, mouths and assholes to fucking. All you can do is feel around and fuck and suck what is in front on you. Lines blurred. Question is would you regardless of label enter the room?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

No blurring wouldnt take part. and for me everyone attending is bi as they are willing to play with either sex

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I don't have a problem wearing a label. It makes it easier to describe in one or two words what I like without going into great long winded detail.

I'm bisexual

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"No blurring wouldnt take part. and for me everyone attending is bi as they are willing to play with either sex"

I'd say you've got that spot on there

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"I'm not truly Gay although I do like men very much. I'm definitely not Straight and am not Bisexual and therefore can't say Bi-curious. So what am I ?

I had to put Gay though because of the above"

lol donna, you're lovely the way you are

Wherever you are on the swingometer

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"If you wear your sexuality with pride, you are happy to be labelled.

It's the ones who aren't, aren't.

Even although I am by all Definition bi sexual I dont like being tagged with the label.

I'm just me nothings changed about my personality but I've been upgraded from straight label to bi. Xx

Quite right princess, I'm just happy being me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not truly Gay although I do like men very much. I'm definitely not Straight and am not Bisexual and therefore can't say Bi-curious. So what am I ?

I had to put Gay though because of the above

lol donna, you're lovely the way you are

Wherever you are on the swingometer

Thank you very much xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesterday I'd have said try everything but today...

Very much all I want is my friend to text me back and tell me she's all right, I went out on a date then along to a social and missed her text...

For someone I've known less than a month she's in my head a lot.

As for orientation, call yourself a Frisbee for all I care... someone who blocks or ignores messages because of something so trivial isn't worthy of my time.

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By *u-cee smurfetteWoman
over a year ago

aberdeen

This is an interesting post!!

I know gay/bi men who openly tell u what they are on their profile but what i dont understand is why a straight man who sucks a gay mans cock and has it on his profile and says he is straight!!

(This is not my.hubby im refering too)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is an interesting post!!

I know gay/bi men who openly tell u what they are on their profile but what i dont understand is why a straight man who sucks a gay mans cock and has it on his profile and says he is straight!!

(This is not my.hubby im refering too)"

Ive been wondering the exact same thing, nothing against it just be truthful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is an interesting post!!

I know gay/bi men who openly tell u what they are on their profile but what i dont understand is why a straight man who sucks a gay mans cock and has it on his profile and says he is straight!!

(This is not my.hubby im refering too)"

Sometimes because he can't or won't admit to being bi-sexual !!

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By *u-cee smurfetteWoman
over a year ago

aberdeen

This is an interesting post!!

I know gay/bi men who openly tell u what they are on their profile but what i dont understand is why a straight man who sucks a gay mans cock and has it on his profile and says he is straight!!

(This is not my.hubby im refering too)

Sometimes because he can't or won't admit to being bi-sexual !!

This is true but no harm in being straight gay or bi we are all the same no matter what we are xx

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

pre defined labels are all fine and dandy. some people like them some don't. Let's do a case study on me for instance - what label would you give?

I love woman. I am not attracted to men in the slightest. However I also love anal. I love a woman to take me with a strap on. I like the idea of being with a sexy T girl not because she is a man with breasts, but because she is woman with a cock.

I wouldn't say I was bi or gay, because I do not find men attractive sexually. But a sexy girl with a cock for sucking and fucking, that turns me on...

This maybe the reason why I personally find labels an issue. You can't always pigoen hole peoples sexual preferences by pre defined boxes.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"pre defined labels are all fine and dandy. some people like them some don't. Let's do a case study on me for instance - what label would you give?

I wouldn't say I was bi or gay, because I do not find men attractive sexually. But a sexy girl with a cock for sucking and fucking, that turns me on...

This maybe the reason why I personally find labels an issue. You can't always pigoen hole peoples sexual preferences by pre defined boxes.

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your bi that was easy lol. There is nothing wrong with any sexuality the problem arises when you tell a fem your straight. And she later finds out shes been duped.gay straight bi these aint derogatory terms they are an aid to likeminded folk meeting up.and to aid those who dont want to meet a certain section avoid each other

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"pre defined labels are all fine and dandy. some people like them some don't. Let's do a case study on me for instance - what label would you give?

I wouldn't say I was bi or gay, because I do not find men attractive sexually. But a sexy girl with a cock for sucking and fucking, that turns me on...

This maybe the reason why I personally find labels an issue. You can't always pigoen hole peoples sexual preferences by pre defined boxes.

your bi that was easy lol. There is nothing wrong with any sexuality the problem arises when you tell a fem your straight. And she later finds out shes been duped.gay straight bi these aint derogatory terms they are an aid to likeminded folk meeting up.and to aid those who dont want to meet a certain section avoid each other "

There lies the problem.

The definition from the dictionary says that, and i quote,

" bisexual- adjective

1.sexually attracted by both men and women."

I'm not attracted to men.

So by derivative I can not be bisexual.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Our biological sex is how we are defined as female, male, or intersex. It describes our internal and external bodies — including our sexual and reproductive anatomy. I couldnt care less what catagory folk are but sexually I have no appetite for those with a dick.once someone has a full transformation I would _iew them as female but before that im afraid biologically they are male.and in my eyes if you want intimacy with them you are bi as I said before its not a slight infact its something that should be celebrated. ThoughIit would be unfair to hide what you are from folk who wouldnt want to meet someone who has your preferances

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