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By *ripleXrateD OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Still quite new to all this but I am thinking of going along to CJ's at one point just to see what it's like.

I would just like to know is if I was to go would it be ok just to go socially and not to play or would you be kinda expected to join in

Xx

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By *oftSwingDuoCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

There is zero pressure to play, you are in complete control of what does / doesn't happen - so going along for the social side is all part of the fun.

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Zero pressure, no fun downstairs so you could go and happily enjoy yourself without feeling that you are even in a swinging club tbh

Even upstairs in the rooms you'll be completely fine to just watch and not need to join in on the action... Just don't get trapped in a corner lol

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went about 2 weeks to cjs Wi a pal .it was my first time ever loved it every one makes u feel welcome

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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"Still quite new to all this but I am thinking of going along to CJ's at one point just to see what it's like.

I would just like to know is if I was to go would it be ok just to go socially and not to play or would you be kinda expected to join in

Xx"

I think there is a couple and single ladies only night next weekend... Probably better to go to that than a regular one open to lots of single guys?? Never been myself tho but hey what I've heard from friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been so can't make any comment on it or make a reasoned contribution to this thread.

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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"I've never been so can't make any comment on it or make a reasoned contribution to this thread. "

Ok thanks for letting us know...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a few people who went to old place and never played. Just used it as a place to socialise and meet people. The new place is set up even better for this with a bigger social area downstairs. But if you met someone and were a bit shy being first time or just not keen being in open room there's lockable rooms you can use upstairs

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By *gowbhoy4funMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Why dont we both break our cjs virginity mrs n go along together ... No pressure to play just company ....maybe lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still quite new to all this but I am thinking of going along to CJ's at one point just to see what it's like.

I would just like to know is if I was to go would it be ok just to go socially and not to play or would you be kinda expected to join in

Xx"

I fancy going along too. Just a bit worried about going myself. Think i'd be happier with a friend

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By *rs Robinson no 1Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Anyone going tomorrow night ?

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By *rMrsProseccoCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I would like to go as well just to see what it is like, I think I would prefer to go socially at first for a few times just to get a feel for the place and see what its like, wasn't impressed with the stories from opening night with single guys taking advantage of power cut and ppl with mobiles,has put me off abit but with mostly good comments about the new place am thinking would like to go just socially with no pressure to see what its like, maybe try the couples and ladies only nights at first and enjoy socially with no pressure as said by bubblegum,

MrP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah am going tomorrow night. First time at new venue

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By *rMrsProseccoCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Supposed to be wet and wild tomorrow (weather forecast)

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By *ripleXrateD OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Deffo going to go along with my other half at some point and check it out.

Having lockable rooms certainly puts my mind at rest a little xx

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By *rMrsProseccoCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Hope you enjoy it princess bubblegum

We will go along to at somepoint, Probably socially at first then see what happens but yeah lockable room sounds better

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By *ripleXrateD OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'm sure I will enjoy it once I get speaking to some people. I'm always shy at first.

Think I'll go to a couples and fems night fir first time but I doubt I'll make the next one unless I am able to get a babysitter.

When I know when I am going ill post and see what other newbies are going. Why not all you first times get together and go. Then come on here tell me all about it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

first time in new venue for me

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By *ripleXrateD OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Just found there's another couple and fems night 12th of Dec so ill try and make that one xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just found there's another couple and fems night 12th of Dec so ill try and make that one xx"
were going to that one say hello and we will see if we can introduce you to a few people that night

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By *ripleXrateD OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Just found there's another couple and fems night 12th of Dec so ill try and make that one xxwere going to that one say hello and we will see if we can introduce you to a few people that night"

That would be great thank you.

Although I'm very much getting more sucked into the sex side of swinging I am really intrested in the social side as well. I was talking to my bf last night and he said he wouldn't drink so he can drive and we don't need a hotel and I'm sure I should be able to get a babysitter so fingers crossed I'll be meet you all soon xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still quite new to all this but I am thinking of going along to CJ's at one point just to see what it's like.

I would just like to know is if I was to go would it be ok just to go socially and not to play or would you be kinda expected to join in

Xx

I fancy going along too. Just a bit worried about going myself. Think i'd be happier with a friend"

I would love to go with u

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By *rMrsProseccoCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We might try for 12th Dec as well. Will be our first time to a club. Will be nervous, would like to go socially at first and see how we feel, am sure will be good once we get there.

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By *ripleXrateD OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Struggling for a babysitter but if I get one ill be on seeing who's all going on the 12th.

If I don't get a babysitter ill be going another date in the next few weeks ud just prefer it if it was a couples and fems night xx

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I'll be visiting for the first time on the 19th Dec, really looking forward to it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The clubs are great and no pressure am going to attend in the next few weeks come along with me if intrested x

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By *ips2lipsCouple
over a year ago

dundee

going to CJs for the 1st time on the 21st looking forward to it,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are in the same position as you as all new to us the club scene was looking to go 21st as couple and female night have been told by friends on here it no pressure just relax and enjoy the night just do what you want do not have to join in.

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