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By *ab fem OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Do you ever chase guys on here.

Tell them you want to meet and what you want to do before they ask you?

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Do you ever chase guys on here.

Tell them you want to meet and what you want to do before they ask you? "

occasionally, after 2 now and have arrange meets with both

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Do you ever chase guys on here.

Tell them you want to meet and what you want to do before they ask you? "
wouldn't say chase but if I'm attracted to someone I'm not shy in coming forward and making my feelings known to guys that I'd like to meet

Nothing wrong with being assertive and confident enough to ask for what you want in life

..even if the final outcome is no lol

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By *ab fem OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Do you ever chase guys on here.

Tell them you want to meet and what you want to do before they ask you?

occasionally, after 2 now and have arrange meets with both"

You had a makeover. Your looking hot

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By *ab fem OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I bet the guys thought their dreams had come true when you two pursued them

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

As already said, I wouldn't say "chased" ... but I will mail people if I'm interested...

Don't see the point in waiting to see if they contact you. Worst they can do is say no (or delete lol) ...

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

It has happened tho rarer than hens teeth ..i wait to be proved wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As already said, I wouldn't say "chased" ... but I will mail people if I'm interested...

Don't see the point in waiting to see if they contact you. Worst they can do is say no (or delete lol) ... "

Yip nowadays, don't wait, just tell how you feel, if he/she don't like, or not interested, no matter it's their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't waste my time chasing guys. Not saying i wouldn't message or wink or fab a photo to let them know i was interested, but if they want me, they can come and get me.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"As already said, I wouldn't say "chased" ... but I will mail people if I'm interested...

Don't see the point in waiting to see if they contact you. Worst they can do is say no (or delete lol) ... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One Thing for sure, I hardly message looking for a meet. I might message something that they have commented on in their profile or just introducing myself or even if they are stunning but mostly I know girls and couples are inundated by a lot of people messaging them, so I don't usually bother

oh, I know, Violin Time,

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One Thing for sure, I hardly message looking for a meet. I might message something that they have commented on in their profile or just introducing myself or even if they are stunning but mostly I know girls and couples are inundated by a lot of people messaging them, so I don't usually bother

oh, I know, Violin Time,

LOL

"

sorry forgot to say I think a Lot of genuine guys are like that on here

If a Couple state they are not looking for guys even though they have guys on their profile then I never message

it's respect

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Do you ever chase guys on here.

Tell them you want to meet and what you want to do before they ask you?

occasionally, after 2 now and have arrange meets with both

You had a makeover. Your looking hot "

one of my good days lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you ever chase guys on here.

Tell them you want to meet and what you want to do before they ask you?

occasionally, after 2 now and have arrange meets with both"

LOL Wendy

Just Hit them with one of your Videos, If they stay, they will love you forever

xx

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By *ab fem OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

How did you two guys sneak in here. I'm sure I set the filters to women only

Ok chased was the wrong word.

I don't think you should hang around hoping that the type of guy you like will message you.

I'm in the go for it camp

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I've seen people say before they don't take the initiative and ask for meets for fear if rejection that's pretty sad because like in everyday life were not all going to be attracted to everyone we come into contact with

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By *ab fem OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I've seen people say before they don't take the initiative and ask for meets for fear if rejection that's pretty sad because like in everyday life were not all going to be attracted to everyone we come into contact with "

I try not come into contact with people I'm not attracted too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say go for it. There's nothing to lose but LOTS to gain

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"How did you two guys sneak in here. I'm sure I set the filters to women only

Ok chased was the wrong word.

I don't think you should hang around hoping that the type of guy you like will message you.

I'm in the go for it camp "

Im good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will message or wink guys that I find attractive although its usually after they've winked or fab'd one of my pics lol

Lx

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By *ab fem OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"How did you two guys sneak in here. I'm sure I set the filters to women only

Im good "

Really??

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I will message or wink guys that I find attractive although its usually after they've winked or fab'd one of my pics lol

Lx"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I've mailed 1 guy showing interest but the rest I just wait to reel them in and go in for the catch

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I don't chase either but I do look when I'm interested in meeting. I've never met someone who's come looking for me. I know what I like when I find it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women want to be equals then they should do their share of chasing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll wink at someone I'm interested and then they usually message. Never messaged anyone first and never chased, I've no patience for it

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"How did you two guys sneak in here. I'm sure I set the filters to women only

Im good

Really??"

I think so

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Taking notes here ..winks fabs and messages are signs .... noted ...away to check my updates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One Thing for sure, I hardly message looking for a meet. I might message something that they have commented on in their profile or just introducing myself or even if they are stunning but mostly I know girls and couples are inundated by a lot of people messaging them, so I don't usually bother

oh, I know, Violin Time,

LOL

sorry forgot to say I think a Lot of genuine guys are like that on here

If a Couple state they are not looking for guys even though they have guys on their profile then I never message

it's respect

"
Yep a don't really message people on here anymore Fabs a rollacoaster most times

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By *ixie and adamCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

When I was single on here I did all the approaching. Saves reading loads of messages from people who you might not be into. Just messaged them to see if they were interested and then met up. It's definitely a lot easier for girls who send messages to get meets than guys. We have a buffet we can choose what we want from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One Thing for sure, I hardly message looking for a meet. I might message something that they have commented on in their profile or just introducing myself or even if they are stunning but mostly I know girls and couples are inundated by a lot of people messaging them, so I don't usually bother

oh, I know, Violin Time,

LOL

sorry forgot to say I think a Lot of genuine guys are like that on here

If a Couple state they are not looking for guys even though they have guys on their profile then I never message

it's respect

Yep a don't really message people on here anymore Fabs a rollacoaster most times "

But roller coasters are fun and exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll wink at someone I'm interested and then they usually message. Never messaged anyone first and never chased, I've no patience for it "

Unblock me please lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll wink at someone I'm interested and then they usually message. Never messaged anyone first and never chased, I've no patience for it

Unblock me please lol x"

Oh I'm sure there's a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll wink at someone I'm interested and then they usually message. Never messaged anyone first and never chased, I've no patience for it

Unblock me please lol x

Oh I'm sure there's a reason "
He is too old for you lol

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I think it good to let people know u are interested x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it good to let people know u are interested x"

Hiya lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll wink at someone I'm interested and then they usually message. Never messaged anyone first and never chased, I've no patience for it

Unblock me please lol x

Oh I'm sure there's a reason "

Whatever could that be?? Might go for a round on the golf course later... Hehehe

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I'll wink at someone I'm interested and then they usually message. Never messaged anyone first and never chased, I've no patience for it

Unblock me please lol x

Oh I'm sure there's a reason "
there always is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damg, Will need to start fabbing pics

wopphooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't chase...I set traps!

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By *arried adventurers!Couple
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

I wouldn't say I chase but if I like the look of someone then I have no problem messaging them first! X

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I just wear them down til they give in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say I chase but if I like the look of someone then I have no problem messaging them first! X"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say I chase but if I like the look of someone then I have no problem messaging them first! X

This. "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I have tried but I it's hard to find what your looking for when it comes to single men.

Most of them only have cock photos an nothing on there description.

I normaly end up getting bored and giving up xx

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"I just wear them down til they give in "

I actually believe that.... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen people say before they don't take the initiative and ask for meets for fear if rejection that's pretty sad because like in everyday life were not all going to be attracted to everyone we come into contact with "

I used to be like that but after a random women messaging spree I've had some great responses.

I've had really bad luck with reading and responding to specific profiles to the point i now just skim the bullet points xx

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