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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many of the single guys on here actually meet. Was talking at cjs to some people and the women were complaining that for a site full of men when approached for a meet one on one mfm or party invite a huge percentage of singles bottle it or are fake is this true

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Me - but not very often.......it's hard to get the time and find the right person

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have met a lot over the years, I now am only interested in socials and chatting in the forums. I don't message people or interact with anyone, so I don't waste a nano second of anyone's time.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Sadly yes !!

single guys jump all over social posts and party ads but when it comes down to it they constantly come up with poor excuse not to be there or just dont show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunally more seen to bottle out of meeting recently. I really don't get it. Not sure there that use to getting ignored to a degree. They wonder if your genuine ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there's a lot of fakes,timewasters and dreamers on here but there's still plenty of genuine guys who understand what the lifestyle is about and not just out to get their end away !

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Never once bottled a meet but unfortunately meets are few and far between

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown

Guys who do all the big talk and do a no show ruin it for genuine guys like myself so it ruins it on here especially when you try to meet.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Guys who do all the big talk and do a no show ruin it for genuine guys like myself so it ruins it on here especially when you try to meet."
sorry I dont agree with this ..YOU make your own destiny n here no one else .

So in my books if you a decent guy whos polite and respectful you will stand out more from those who aint .

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it would be very easy to become disillusioned and drop out big time, you are often dammed if you do, dammed if you don't.

meeting in clubs,or via socials is the easiest route as I couldn't be arsed writing messages to people on here.

I read a forum post in the Lounge about stimulating the mind and laughed out loud..... the pish people write on here and they are asking for their mind to be stimulated, 'what are you having for tea, should I wipe my arse after a shit, or I need a hug'.....

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"it would be very easy to become disillusioned and drop out big time, you are often dammed if you do, dammed if you don't.

meeting in clubs,or via socials is the easiest route as I couldn't be arsed writing messages to people on here.

I read a forum post in the Lounge about stimulating the mind and laughed out loud..... the pish people write on here and they are asking for their mind to be stimulated, 'what are you having for tea, should I wipe my arse after a shit, or I need a hug'....."
what did you have for tea?...do you wipe your ass after a shit ? and heres a wee (((hug))) too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it would be very easy to become disillusioned and drop out big time, you are often dammed if you do, dammed if you don't.

meeting in clubs,or via socials is the easiest route as I couldn't be arsed writing messages to people on here."

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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"How many of the single guys on here actually meet. Was talking at cjs to some people and the women were complaining that for a site full of men when approached for a meet one on one mfm or party invite a huge percentage of singles bottle it or are fake is this true"

What makes people think they've bottled it? Just because they decline a meet? Us single guys are allowed to not be interested as well... I've met couples and singles but I've chosen not to meet just as many, as we're all picky about who we meet, doesn't mean we bottle it though...

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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"Guys who do all the big talk and do a no show ruin it for genuine guys like myself so it ruins it on here especially when you try to meet.sorry I dont agree with this ..YOU make your own destiny n here no one else .

So in my books if you a decent guy whos polite and respectful you will stand out more from those who aint . "

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"How many of the single guys on here actually meet. Was talking at cjs to some people and the women were complaining that for a site full of men when approached for a meet one on one mfm or party invite a huge percentage of singles bottle it or are fake is this true

What makes people think they've bottled it? Just because they decline a meet? Us single guys are allowed to not be interested as well... I've met couples and singles but I've chosen not to meet just as many, as we're all picky about who we meet, doesn't mean we bottle it though..."

You're half right - those who 'bottle it' are usually the ones who arrange to meet up and then don't

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Guys who do all the big talk and do a no show ruin it for genuine guys like myself so it ruins it on here especially when you try to meet.sorry I dont agree with this ..YOU make your own destiny n here no one else .

So in my books if you a decent guy whos polite and respectful you will stand out more from those who aint .

"

i have Jack

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By *gowbhoy4funMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"How many of the single guys on here actually meet. Was talking at cjs to some people and the women were complaining that for a site full of men when approached for a meet one on one mfm or party invite a huge percentage of singles bottle it or are fake is this true

What makes people think they've bottled it? Just because they decline a meet? Us single guys are allowed to not be interested as well... I've met couples and singles but I've chosen not to meet just as many, as we're all picky about who we meet, doesn't mean we bottle it though..."

Agree with you here mate ....i think some girls assume guys will just drop watever theyre doing if they are offered a meet ....like girls we are allowed to be choosy to as who n when we meet

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Everyone has the choice to accept or decline a meet it's the one's that don't turn up that cause the problem male female or couple . I've never declined a meet without good reason . If i am unable to get to a meet i always inform the other party as early as possible ( usually because of my daughter having a crisis LOL ) Life gets in the way sometimes .

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"it would be very easy to become disillusioned and drop out big time, you are often dammed if you do, dammed if you don't.

meeting in clubs,or via socials is the easiest route as I couldn't be arsed writing messages to people on here.

I read a forum post in the Lounge about stimulating the mind and laughed out loud..... the pish people write on here and they are asking for their mind to be stimulated, 'what are you having for tea, should I wipe my arse after a shit, or I need a hug'....."

It is not my mind I want stimulated...

Mrs S

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By *verready32Man
over a year ago

omagh


"How many of the single guys on here actually meet. Was talking at cjs to some people and the women were complaining that for a site full of men when approached for a meet one on one mfm or party invite a huge percentage of singles bottle it or are fake is this true"

i always meet, when i have said that i would......i never back out, when i say im coming im cumming lol!!

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"it would be very easy to become disillusioned and drop out big time, you are often dammed if you do, dammed if you don't.

meeting in clubs,or via socials is the easiest route as I couldn't be arsed writing messages to people on here.

I read a forum post in the Lounge about stimulating the mind and laughed out loud..... the pish people write on here and they are asking for their mind to be stimulated, 'what are you having for tea, should I wipe my arse after a shit, or I need a hug'.....

It is not my mind I want stimulated...

Mrs S "

Sometimes it's good to stimulate body AND mind

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"it would be very easy to become disillusioned and drop out big time, you are often dammed if you do, dammed if you don't.

meeting in clubs,or via socials is the easiest route as I couldn't be arsed writing messages to people on here.

I read a forum post in the Lounge about stimulating the mind and laughed out loud..... the pish people write on here and they are asking for their mind to be stimulated, 'what are you having for tea, should I wipe my arse after a shit, or I need a hug'.....

It is not my mind I want stimulated...

Mrs S

Sometimes it's good to stimulate body AND mind "

I agree and am fortunate to have a husband who does both for me. I do need a spark of sorts and if you can me me laugh it is a bonus.

Mrs S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always meet if I have any potential meets as very 100 percent genuine guy but proves harder for single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many of the single guys on here actually meet. Was talking at cjs to some people and the women were complaining that for a site full of men when approached for a meet one on one mfm or party invite a huge percentage of singles bottle it or are fake is this true"

Always turn up to meets, only time i have backed out is from this edinburgh social becausemi jumped in abd said i would go when i seen all the great people who were going and totally forgot a family do i had, only sin is that i was overzelus and got too excited lmao appart from that i have turned up with bells on, usually as i have struck up a repore prior to meeting and we are gagging to meet by that point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many of the single guys on here actually meet. Was talking at cjs to some people and the women were complaining that for a site full of men when approached for a meet one on one mfm or party invite a huge percentage of singles bottle it or are fake is this true"

For those who read. My profile will know I'm on a journey.I do want to meet and do chat but speaking as a vanila this lifestyle scare's the bejesus out of me .it's the road I want to travel yet I'm scared to take the first step...im not a timewaster nor am I fake I just will never lead anyone one with bravado....hope that makes sense

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"How many of the single guys on here actually meet. Was talking at cjs to some people and the women were complaining that for a site full of men when approached for a meet one on one mfm or party invite a huge percentage of singles bottle it or are fake is this true

For those who read. My profile will know I'm on a journey.I do want to meet and do chat but speaking as a vanila this lifestyle scare's the bejesus out of me .it's the road I want to travel yet I'm scared to take the first step...im not a timewaster nor am I fake I just will never lead anyone one with bravado....hope that makes sense "

But at least you're honest about it - one day the right person for you will come along. And you'll grab her with both hands and follow your path and complete your journey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm keen to meet, and I have met a few lovely people's, but in my experience there's just as many girls bottle out or don't have any intention of meeting in the first place, they are on for some cyber attention and waste people's time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had any issues with meeting single guys.

I'm very grateful they exist

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I've met some cracking single fellas.

I have to say - on the whole, the single guys are pretty nice on here. The issues I have had is more with couples.

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

Turning down a meet due to personal choice is everyone's prerogative. However guys, girls & couples requesting a meet and not turning up is another thing. I have been to parties and guys have realised its not for them and made excuses and left . If I ask for a meet I will turn up. Always polite and respectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have never bottled out of anything in my life. If someone fancies a meet and I am lucky enough to be invited I turn up guaranteed.

Same old story tonight though, I was interested in a couple of meets made contact politely and no reply from either. I'm not naive having been very active on here previously, to expect much but I sometimes wonder why I bother....

Anyone fancy a meet??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many of the single guys on here actually meet. Was talking at cjs to some people and the women were complaining that for a site full of men when approached for a meet one on one mfm or party invite a huge percentage of singles bottle it or are fake is this true

What makes people think they've bottled it? Just because they decline a meet? Us single guys are allowed to not be interested as well... I've met couples and singles but I've chosen not to meet just as many, as we're all picky about who we meet, doesn't mean we bottle it though...

You're half right - those who 'bottle it' are usually the ones who arrange to meet up and then don't "

Agree with both whenever I arrange a meet I turn up but lately meets have been cancelled last minute with poor excuses

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

On numerous occasions in the past when I've offered countless single men the opportunity to attend one of my parties or to pop along for a mfm I've found it rather surprising and somewhat disappointing how unreliable most single guys generally are...it's not something I can relate to myself as a single guy on here as I meet if I as I'm gonna meet and rarely have I had reason enough not to meet lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite happy to just post on the forums and check the chat rooms,i know some women/couples have a strict vetting processes and i can't blame them but i feel that i don't fall into the "must be vvvvwe,heavy cummer,must be able to tuck his cock into his sock,must be a repeater at least x3 in a meet,must be fluent in 3 languages,"bracket that most seem to look for lol.Some of it scares me,was only looking for fun not trying to take over from Ron Jeremy

I'm a normal guy but sometimes it feels like a disclosure process on here, but like i say lots of crazies so totally understand lol

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Lol spot on
"it would be very easy to become disillusioned and drop out big time, you are often dammed if you do, dammed if you don't.

meeting in clubs,or via socials is the easiest route as I couldn't be arsed writing messages to people on here.

I read a forum post in the Lounge about stimulating the mind and laughed out loud..... the pish people write on here and they are asking for their mind to be stimulated, 'what are you having for tea, should I wipe my arse after a shit, or I need a hug'....."

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By *appyDeviantsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *appyDeviantsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

After many years on the scene I would say way more single guys than single girls meet .Yet it's always single guys that get the stick ,females have the best and more excuses to not meet with most being fake or here to boost egos with more and more couples being way up there likewise .There is a larger single guy ratio so sure it will look like more don't meet and some stand out more than others .To many tar all the the same ,

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By *r FeelgoodsMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire/Glasgow

I have met some great couples and single females over the years and been invited to some intimate fun house parties. However over the last year or two found it seriously difficult to meet anyone ! Lol

Maybe some guys have given us genuine swinging males a bum press ?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I have met some great couples and single females over the years and been invited to some intimate fun house parties. However over the last year or two found it seriously difficult to meet anyone ! Lol

Maybe some guys have given us genuine swinging males a bum press ?

"
women know the decent guys

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By *wick119Man
over a year ago

Prestwick

I always show when I confirm - guys get bad press....

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's up to every single user on this site to assure those that they are interested in meeting that they are sincere about their intentions to do so.

Not just the guys, but the girls and couples too.

I don't understand why anyone would waste their own time, let alone someone else's, of going to all the effort of chatting to the point of a meet, then not turn up?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"It's up to every single user on this site to assure those that they are interested in meeting that they are sincere about their intentions to do so.

Not just the guys, but the girls and couples too.

I don't understand why anyone would waste their own time, let alone someone else's, of going to all the effort of chatting to the point of a meet, then not turn up?

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Turned on message by single guys part last night had four messages three from troglodytes do people not realize a bit of intelligent chat goes a long way no we get love ginger pussy can we fuck. No we can't and where in any photo do you see anything but clean shaven lady let's be original and try some charm and witty banter and then maybe

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By *otGeorgeClooneyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I find the behaviour of some guys bizarre.

two examples recently. At a gangbang a cpl if chaps had clearly arrived straight from work.

(Ok fair enough) but to not even bother with some deoderant before meeting let alone use the bathroom to wash their pits. it put me off !

Then at a club looking like they've just finished some diy and popped along.

it doesn't take much to turn up smart and splash on some Brute or Denim maybe even all spice !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many of the single guys on here actually meet. Was talking at cjs to some people and the women were complaining that for a site full of men when approached for a meet one on one mfm or party invite a huge percentage of singles bottle it or are fake is this true"

Ha! I dont believe woman actually approach men through this site. Theres so many men compared to women I've heard they dont need to. Plus when you do msg a fem its hit or miss if she actually reads it due to the said volume of msgs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it would be very easy to become disillusioned and drop out big time, you are often dammed if you do, dammed if you don't.

meeting in clubs,or via socials is the easiest route as I couldn't be arsed writing messages to people on here.

I read a forum post in the Lounge about stimulating the mind and laughed out loud..... the pish people write on here and they are asking for their mind to be stimulated, 'what are you having for tea, should I wipe my arse after a shit, or I need a hug'....."

Although pretty crude, I do agree with your point lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm quite happy to just post on the forums and check the chat rooms,i know some women/couples have a strict vetting processes and i can't blame them but i feel that i don't fall into the "must be vvvvwe,heavy cummer,must be able to tuck his cock into his sock,must be a repeater at least x3 in a meet,must be fluent in 3 languages,"bracket that most seem to look for lol.Some of it scares me,was only looking for fun not trying to take over from Ron Jeremy

I'm a normal guy but sometimes it feels like a disclosure process on here, but like i say lots of crazies so totally understand lol"

Haha, this is good :p

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By *rallvalCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"How many of the single guys on here actually meet. Was talking at cjs to some people and the women were complaining that for a site full of men when approached for a meet one on one mfm or party invite a huge percentage of singles bottle it or are fake is this true"

In the same way as you get 'keyboard warriors' who brag about the combat prowess and threaten all manner of damage should you meet you have 'keyboard sex gods' Walter Mittys who get off on the idea but are scared by that actual act.

I have had warriors threaten me will all sorts during 30 years of online heated discussions but never once has one done anything.

Similarly we get messages from single guys spelling out in great detail what they plan on doing but never follow up. I guess that after they hit send they have to go and get kleenex to wipe off the keyboard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends..

I get more timewasteryness from couples..had a couple a few days ago..all chat chat to arrange a meet for later that night...then a ? mark when i approached the subject.

I'll just assume it was the male half enjoying the attention...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy it's a nightmare to get meets I try but as there is that many time wasters and keyboard kings it kills it for genuine guys who truly want too meet

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Sadly yes my opinion is that some guys just like the chase and from my own experience of having been disappointed twice at the very last moment it is a shame for guys who actually do intend meeting up as the no shows sort of leave you thinking ....what's the point? He won't show anyway

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many of the single guys on here actually meet. Was talking at cjs to some people and the women were complaining that for a site full of men when approached for a meet one on one mfm or party invite a huge percentage of singles bottle it or are fake is this true"

I never meet. I'm too shy, not confident, Tiny Cock and horrible body and all the women on here seem to know what they are doing.

I find most women don't like bananas so that's off putting for me

Suppose am a Bottler

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

In the main nope I dont meet and when I do I have a friends list who im happy in their company

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By *axter1987Man
over a year ago

your hotlist

Tis the usual process, messaging 90% of timewasters/people not interested until you get a connection.

Nothing in life is worth it if it comes easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not true for me if I ever got any offers I'd be there, except for socials & party's I'd just say straight away I won't be there coz not what I'm here for.

But considering most of the couples & !!!SINGLE!!! Women on here are looking for women & couples its not the easiest place to get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on the site for a while now and the chance has never even presented itself however I personally would jump at the chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not true for me if I ever got any offers I'd be there, except for socials & party's I'd just say straight away I won't be there coz not what I'm here for.

But considering most of the couples & !!!SINGLE!!! Women on here are looking for women & couples its not the easiest place to get a meet"
I'd also say becuase of the way women are on this site "pushy, picky, demanding" & the way most look & the types of guys your all looking for, they must be tall, they must have a nice body, they must be hung, these guys probably can afford to change their mind & wait out for someone better or closer to their level. Whereas us plain old normal lookin guys just aren't good enough for the women on here even though we're probably the most genuine guys who wouldn't stand anyone up.

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By *dultfunscotland2000Man
over a year ago

Scotland and beyond

Plenty of us sitting on the subs bench, just waiting to get the chance to show what we can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet cpls/fems when the occasions arise which can be limited sometimes

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

NEWSFLASH

I'm neither particularly tall, toned, athletic or the best looking guy.

BUT

I still do ok.........so,what does that tell you?

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By *axter1987Man
over a year ago

your hotlist


"NEWSFLASH

I'm neither particularly tall, toned, athletic or the best looking guy.

BUT

I still do ok.........so,what does that tell you? "

That you're patient,not pushy and not desperate :P

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By *ornyscotsman1Man
over a year ago

falkirk


"How many of the single guys on here actually meet. Was talking at cjs to some people and the women were complaining that for a site full of men when approached for a meet one on one mfm or party invite a huge percentage of singles bottle it or are fake is this true"

I do when I have the time. The 1's that "bottle" it or are just time wasters make it difficult for genuine guys trying the meet couples. Although same goes for some couples who chat for a while, arrange a meet then bottle it too.

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By *cottish30Man
over a year ago

aberdeen

I find it complete the opposite, there are hardly any females that are interested in a meet or if you ask them all of a sudden they have fb and wont meet without him but that wont put me off, just not even people looking for genuine single males on here

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"NEWSFLASH

I'm neither particularly tall, toned, athletic or the best looking guy.

BUT

I still do ok.........so,what does that tell you?

That you're patient,not pushy and not desperate :P"

Maybe polite and personality? If you can't talk to a woman in the pub, how the hell do you expect to talk to one on here?

Unfortunately, too many men, women and couples on here forget that there is a human being reading their message at the other end.

Making demands or being rude or crude is most definitely NOT the way to make friends.

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By *976scottMan
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire


"How many of the single guys on here actually meet. Was talking at cjs to some people and the women were complaining that for a site full of men when approached for a meet one on one mfm or party invite a huge percentage of singles bottle it or are fake is this true"

It's just a shame that there is no way to out the fakes and the time wasters from fab! It's unfortunate that a large percentage of them are single guys who end up giving all us decent and more importantly genuine single guys a bad name! Always believe in being polite, being honest and being yourself and good things will happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many of the single guys on here actually meet. Was talking at cjs to some people and the women were complaining that for a site full of men when approached for a meet one on one mfm or party invite a huge percentage of singles bottle it or are fake is this true

It's just a shame that there is no way to out the fakes and the time wasters from fab! It's unfortunate that a large percentage of them are single guys who end up giving all us decent and more importantly genuine single guys a bad name! Always believe in being polite, being honest and being yourself and good things will happen!"
to be fair I've been asked to meet women & or couples that for me personally have been too far away so I've said I can't meet & I've been labeled a time waster, I've been asked to meet women after 5am & said no coz its too late & been labeled a time waster, maybe people need to learn what a time waster is before labeling people as one

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By *lirty1981Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've had some meets, pity my first proper one came Down In Liverpool as nothing much was happening up in the west coast/central area

It's annoying the genuine guys get overlooked coz of the time wasters of those who can't handle rejection.

I know I'm a decent genuine guy and those who have actually met me have said the same, however we can't be compatable and make connections with everyone on here and that can be very frustrating and demoralising at time, but you just have to persevere.

I do find some people are so full of themselves and think they are higher and better than what they actually are, but each to there own.

If we were all the same the world would be different

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

For the millionth time, genuine people do not get short changed or overlooked because of others.

They actually help the genuine folks stand out more.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"For the millionth time, genuine people do not get short changed or overlooked because of others.

They actually help the genuine folks stand out more. "

I agree. When someone nice comes along they actually stand out.

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By *urlyShirtyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Me - but not very often.......it's hard to get the time and find the right person "

Yup, have to say that sums up my experience too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it speaks volumes, the lack of girls commenting on the subject!!

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By *g1sterMan
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Not yet been invited to meet

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By *imetochillMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ive personally never been invited out anywhere yet, but so many woman/couples dont give single guys a look in! Or they are extremely fussy

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"NEWSFLASH

I'm neither particularly tall, toned, athletic or the best looking guy.

BUT

I still do ok.........so,what does that tell you? "

U turn up? And buy cake

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By *ornyscotsman1Man
over a year ago

falkirk


"NEWSFLASH

I'm neither particularly tall, toned, athletic or the best looking guy.

BUT

I still do ok.........so,what does that tell you?

U turn up? And buy cake "

Cake!!! Damn that's where I've been going wrong

anyone know what time Greggs opens

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"NEWSFLASH

I'm neither particularly tall, toned, athletic or the best looking guy.

BUT

I still do ok.........so,what does that tell you?

U turn up? And buy cake

Cake!!! Damn that's where I've been going wrong

anyone know what time Greggs opens"

8.30

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By *ornyscotsman1Man
over a year ago

falkirk


"NEWSFLASH

I'm neither particularly tall, toned, athletic or the best looking guy.

BUT

I still do ok.........so,what does that tell you?

U turn up? And buy cake

Cake!!! Damn that's where I've been going wrong

anyone know what time Greggs opens

8.30"

Might get myself a sausage roll as well then, can't beat a greggs sausage roll

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I had up a meet today on Saturday... Not my usual approach but was at a loose end. What an absolute waste of time. I was looking for a social, would have been OK with unverified... What did I get...

Bad manners

People not reading profile

Demands

And told I'm on the wrong site if I don't just meet to fuck

I've never wasted anyone's time, never had anyone waste mine, and met men, couples and single ladies. It's been great.

Oh and no-one spoils it for anyone else, you are the only person who drives your success, or lack of, on here.

The people who do well realise swinging is a lifestyle, not just a fuck n forget

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"

Oh and no-one spoils it for anyone else, you are the only person who drives your success, or lack of, on here.

The people who do well realise swinging is a lifestyle, not just a fuck n forget "

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"NEWSFLASH

I'm neither particularly tall, toned, athletic or the best looking guy.

BUT

I still do ok.........so,what does that tell you?

U turn up? And buy cake

Cake!!! Damn that's where I've been going wrong

anyone know what time Greggs opens

8.30

Might get myself a sausage roll as well then, can't beat a greggs sausage roll "

Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never skip a meet. Hard to come by if single and nothing to hide.

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Would never skip a meet. Hard to come by if single and nothing to hide. "

Yolo I say ..its mentioned to be fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always turn up if I arranged a meet, just arranging the meets seems to be the hard part

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By *eahWoman
over a year ago

full of numpties

I get a lot of messages from single guys all of whom seem really nice at first . But the majority of them get too pushy as they want to practically meet there and then something that I'm not able to do for obvious reasons ..... Once you explain that they get all huffy and sulky to the point of becoming abusive ..... And before anyone slates me for being on FAB as I'm married then I've heard it all before I reckon there are far more married people on here that don't actually admit it in their profiles anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get a lot of messages from single guys all of whom seem really nice at first . But the majority of them get too pushy as they want to practically meet there and then something that I'm not able to do for obvious reasons ..... Once you explain that they get all huffy and sulky to the point of becoming abusive ..... And before anyone slates me for being on FAB as I'm married then I've heard it all before I reckon there are far more married people on here that don't actually admit it in their profiles anyway x"

Completely agree with the married thing, at the end of the day of its just fun why does it matter?

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By *lascumMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Never bottled out of a meet on this or my old profile... What's the point... Much better to say no thanks and move on... It's hard for single guys to get meets and even harder for the ones that are honest enough to say their bi.

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Never bottled out of a meet on this or my old profile... What's the point... Much better to say no thanks and move on... It's hard for single guys to get meets and even harder for the ones that are honest enough to say their bi. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never failed to meet when I have said I will have had plenty of no shows but what's the point in arranging a meet then not turning up

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

I meet, not as often as I like but whenever I get the chance I don't waste it.

Don't understand the mentality of the guys who don't and waste peoples time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never "bottled a meet" either but it seems that recently there are a lot of fake profiles popping up with pics of hot women so you start to chat then they leave the site....gets a bit frustrating. Also I agree with the stated above saying we are allowed to choose who we meet and when....we're not just pieces of meat for ladies to eat....okay maybe I am lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I love the honour of the "I would never miss a meet' but life does and should become the main priority at times.

but it's nice to shine bright....

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I get a lot of messages from single guys all of whom seem really nice at first . But the majority of them get too pushy as they want to practically meet there and then something that I'm not able to do for obvious reasons ..... Once you explain that they get all huffy and sulky to the point of becoming abusive ..... And before anyone slates me for being on FAB as I'm married then I've heard it all before I reckon there are far more married people on here that don't actually admit it in their profiles anyway x"

There are nice guys too

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I love the honour of the "I would never miss a meet' but life does and should become the main priority at times.

but it's nice to shine bright.... "

I agree View. But it's the ones who make no attempt to let the other party/parties know there's a problem that can cause heartache for some.

You shine so bright though, you need shades

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many of the single guys on here actually meet. Was talking at cjs to some people and the women were complaining that for a site full of men when approached for a meet one on one mfm or party invite a huge percentage of singles bottle it or are fake is this true

For those who read. My profile will know I'm on a journey.I do want to meet and do chat but speaking as a vanila this lifestyle scare's the bejesus out of me .it's the road I want to travel yet I'm scared to take the first step...im not a timewaster nor am I fake I just will never lead anyone one with bravado....hope that makes sense

But at least you're honest about it - one day the right person for you will come along. And you'll grab her with both hands and follow your path and complete your journey "
well I am an eternal optimist Mr kay

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"How many of the single guys on here actually meet. Was talking at cjs to some people and the women were complaining that for a site full of men when approached for a meet one on one mfm or party invite a huge percentage of singles bottle it or are fake is this true

For those who read. My profile will know I'm on a journey.I do want to meet and do chat but speaking as a vanila this lifestyle scare's the bejesus out of me .it's the road I want to travel yet I'm scared to take the first step...im not a timewaster nor am I fake I just will never lead anyone one with bravado....hope that makes sense

But at least you're honest about it - one day the right person for you will come along. And you'll grab her with both hands and follow your path and complete your journey well I am an eternal optimist Mr kay "

Better that than a miserable moans sod

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I love the honour of the "I would never miss a meet' but life does and should become the main priority at times.

but it's nice to shine bright.... "

Very true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't mind that people can choose it's the martini mailers that annoy the shit it's all anytime anyplace anywhere then you call bluff and they can't make that one or the next or the next. Then they're on forum saying what am I doing wrong can't get a meet

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"Not true for me if I ever got any offers I'd be there, except for socials & party's I'd just say straight away I won't be there coz not what I'm here for.

But considering most of the couples & !!!SINGLE!!! Women on here are looking for women & couples its not the easiest place to get a meetI'd also say becuase of the way women are on this site "pushy, picky, demanding" & the way most look & the types of guys your all looking for, they must be tall, they must have a nice body, they must be hung, these guys probably can afford to change their mind & wait out for someone better or closer to their level. Whereas us plain old normal lookin guys just aren't good enough for the women on here even though we're probably the most genuine guys who wouldn't stand anyone up."

A minority hopefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many of the single guys on here actually meet. Was talking at cjs to some people and the women were complaining that for a site full of men when approached for a meet one on one mfm or party invite a huge percentage of singles bottle it or are fake is this true"

Quality over quantity .....Ironically i didnt join here too meet....i generally vacated the Scottish Chat Room too create "Banter" in the very early days of Fab ..maybe 9 yrs ago ..I dunno.

I can understand my good old friend "VIEW" comments ...In some ways im pretty much the same..i tend too sit on the fence these days and be cheeky lol..

There is maybe a majority of Members who do bottle it...i think some people feel tentative due to the increase of fake profiles ..who knows ?

I went my Doctors Surgery once with a Urine sample ....and they Bottled It ..

Buboo x

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By *emon99123Man
over a year ago

London

yea, what everyone else says. also, if the guys women and couples pick are "bottling" it...pick better guys. Its not like they/we are in short supply around here.

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