FabSwingers.com forum: ego boost

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are some ladies on here just to boost there egos or self esteem as there seem to be a lot of them on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More men than women!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

spoke to couple of nice women but you can tell the bitchy ones and only on here to waste time there may be some men but i wouldnt know as i dont message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"spoke to couple of nice women but you can tell the bitchy ones and only on here to waste time there may be some men but i wouldnt know as i dont message them"

I think there is an element of that for me. I make no secret of the fact I often look at others on fab and feel better about myself. That said I look at plenty more and feel worse. It's human nature.

Do I seek validation? No

Do I need 100s of emails with false flattery in the hope they get a shag? No.. Most go unread

It's the Internet .. take everything with a big pinch of salt.

Do your own thing and forget what others do and you will get on far better and enjoy it much more

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"spoke to couple of nice women but you can tell the bitchy ones and only on here to waste time there may be some men but i wouldnt know as i dont message them

I think there is an element of that for me. I make no secret of the fact I often look at others on fab and feel better about myself. That said I look at plenty more and feel worse. It's human nature.

Do I seek validation? No

Do I need 100s of emails with false flattery in the hope they get a shag? No.. Most go unread

It's the Internet .. take everything with a big pinch of salt.

Do your own thing and forget what others do and you will get on far better and enjoy it much more

Wise words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"spoke to couple of nice women but you can tell the bitchy ones and only on here to waste time there may be some men but i wouldnt know as i dont message them

I think there is an element of that for me. I make no secret of the fact I often look at others on fab and feel better about myself. That said I look at plenty more and feel worse. It's human nature.

Do I seek validation? No

Do I need 100s of emails with false flattery in the hope they get a shag? No.. Most go unread

It's the Internet .. take everything with a big pinch of salt.

Do your own thing and forget what others do and you will get on far better and enjoy it much more

Esp the big pinch of salt

And always trust ur own gut feeling - it won't leg u know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

pink mist nice reply x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are some ladies on here just to boost there egos or self esteem as there seem to be a lot of them on here"

If some women are on here and it gives them an ego boost, good on them. There's no harm in that. If it helps with their self esteem and image then so be it. Again, no harm in that.

If they're being bitchy as you mention, it makes me wonder why you're getting that side from them? Most folk aren't bitchy for no reason lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

av been very nice to people on here and not been nasty but the nails and claws are defo out with some women and at the end of the day anyone can hide behind a phone,computer etc but the real world is still there

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Are some ladies on here just to boost there egos or self esteem as there seem to be a lot of them on here"

Dare say there are those wanting their egos stroked across all sections on here . I also don't doubt there will be those happy to oblige .

I take no stock in the false flattery you get on here ,just as i take zero stock in the abuse .I'm all too a wear how quickly you go from stunner to munter with a knock back lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true. Just ignore those that don't have anything positive to add to your journey on here. Have fun and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been on for over a year with no meets right or wrong it has an effect on how people perceive you if your not meeting especially as you have had offers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ive had 1 offer of a meet and due to WORK COMMITMENTS i could as its always a sunday the person can only meet av spoke to a few but never reached second base as in meeting as they would delete or not use the sute anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think your forgetting convieniently we offered a mmf that was a Wednesday night Scotland were playing northern Ireland and you couldn't make that. So that's at least one more and yeah people can't always meet but none in a year we've not been on much longer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yes i remember that it was a last minute meet because you got let down by a time waster .I replied saying I couldn't meet as my kids were with me but keep me in mind for any further meets and i dont pressure or hassle anyone for meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take no stock in the false flattery you get on here ,just as i take zero stock in the abuse .I'm all too a wear how quickly you go from stunner to munter with a knock back lol. "

This was one of the things I learned pretty quickly on fab ... Dont let the compliments go to your head or the negatives be taken to heart as they are only a one sided view of you and people will very quickly change camps depending on what they want from you

Some on here would have me believe im all that and a bag of chips (i wish ha) ... Start to believe it and it makes for a long fall down when the others tell me to lay off the chips

so i try just to be happy with my own opinion of me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

excellent reply curiousL think av got my answers that i was looking for and now know how to go about it now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

wouldyou like to chat in private curiousL

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I take no stock in the false flattery you get on here ,just as i take zero stock in the abuse .I'm all too a wear how quickly you go from stunner to munter with a knock back lol.

Some on here would have me believe im all that and a bag of chips (i wish ha) ... Start to believe it and it makes for a long fall down when the others tell me to lay off the chips

so i try just to be happy with my own opinion of me "

All this

And sorry op but a year without meeting after you've had offers makes me think you wouldn't really meet, there's always loads of socials ( small drinks or large ones) that if you were really serious you could attend to meet folk

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

its always been a sunday meet which i cant do and a last minute meet which i wont do

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Are some ladies on here just to boost there egos or self esteem as there seem to be a lot of them on here"
there are many who are on here for that reason yes.

To some it's the fantasy of doing what they can't for varying reasons.

Egos can become over inflated for some and not just women.

I'm sure your own egos been inflated at some point op when someone's given you a compliment.

It's actually quite a nice feeling when your feeling shot sometimes but us women ain't stupid and do know when someone's giving out false compliments just to get into your knickers lol.

But also bare in mind that some people do get into a bit of a strop if they get turned down and then they play the up your own ass only looking to have your ego stroked card just because they didn't get the outcome they had hoped for

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I personally don't think you need to justify why you haven't had a meet. It's nobody's business but your own and nothing to do with the thread you have started.

Yes there are some on here looking to boost their ego and let them get on with it. If it makes them feel better then great.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks for all the replies just wondering what others think and cheers again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are some ladies on here just to boost there egos or self esteem as there seem to be a lot of them on here"

I don't really think so but that is an opinion fostered mainly by less successful members as a way of validating their position. The "It can't be me!" theory.

The green arrow highlights a few inconsistencies in your accounts OP. I'm certainly confused.com.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again... if that's what someone else is here for... so what?

Block them and move on, there kink is getting lots of adoring messages that stroke the ego.

Mine is trying everything once, seeing relaxed women covered in massage oil and watching women orgasm... once a year I'll get a hankering to dominate someone, most subs are crap though so it quickly fades.

live and let live.

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