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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn't see a thread like this but there was one with the same name on a forum I used to be a part of, so figured it might go down well here also. Feel free to comment and/or share similar stories of EmoRage!

So I met a girl on POF and she seemed really into meeting me, so instead of becoming ePenPals I elected to meet for a social quickly. We had a Skype first and had a lot of laughs so it seemed the logical choice. Anyway that was Wednesday. We went for an actual date on Friday and had a nice meal, went for ice cream at an awesome place after then I gave her the choice of being dropped off at hers or coming to mine. She excitedly chose coming to mine but insisted there would be "no funny business" anyway back to mine we went, had a bit of wine and put on (and consequently ignored) a film. More insistence that we would not be having any form of sex by her thought, which I was honestly fine with. Anyway, few more hours pass and we inevitable end up in bed together and have some pretty good sex, then morning rolls around and she's all off with me. I brush it off as she's just not entirely happy she's gone all the way on the first date and think no more of it. Fast forward and she's being really disrespectful via text etc, calling me a faggot and saying I'm shit in bed, then she gets d*unk and tells me she loves me and wants to (and I quote) suck my cock till I scream! Anyway, I ignore most of that and just say I'll see her the next day when she's not d*unk. Next day comes and she texts calling me a faggot again so I just bin the number and block her. Next thing I get a text from her friend saying I'm horrible and she's crying, and I can't treat her like that: she deserves to know what she's done wrong!!

Did I miss the point, or am I dealing with some other issues not of my doing!? Was I right to try to salvage self respect and remove her from my life, or was hat incredibly harsh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's a nut job. Block, forget and move on.

It's women like her that give the rest of us single girls a bad name.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Tell her friend you aren't there for her to vent her rage at.

Then ask the friend out

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Sounds like a lucky escape from listening to your side of the story.

Me personally I wouldn't respond and move on.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Lucky escape by the sounds of it.

Put it down to experience and forget it.

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By *owboy BebopMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Keep your pet rabbit under close guard ! ( this may be to obscure for some)

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Keep your pet rabbit under close guard ! ( this may be to obscure for some) "

It's ok, I'm old enough

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By *44bertCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Are you sure it's not the crazy lady from Toast of London?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow. Definitely a fruit loop.

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

could have been worse.....at least you ended it before she went supernova melt down crazy and tried attacking you with a sharp object

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"could have been worse.....at least you ended it before she went supernova melt down crazy and tried attacking you with a sharp object "
she did it was called her tongue lol

But seriously there are lots like that even on here so be careful when meeting that goes for guys and fems... Some headcases about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's a nut job. Block, forget and move on.

It's women like her that give the rest of us single girls a bad name."

If your looking for nutters then there's plenty on POF !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky escape.....but she knows where you live.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your looking for a proper relationship a lady that "puts out" on the first date isn't a keeper and. And pof is just like fab these days x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"If your looking for a proper relationship a lady that "puts out" on the first date isn't a keeper and. And pof is just like fab these days x"
and what about the guy who puts out in a first date?

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"If your looking for a proper relationship a lady that "puts out" on the first date isn't a keeper and. And pof is just like fab these days x"

Really..... Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lady's.......this is my opinion and I'd say yeah the same goes for guys too.

Do lady's not like a guy that makes a point of not trying it on the first date? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone "puts out" on a first date what's the big hoo ha about??

We are all grown ups I would like to think...

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"If someone "puts out" on a first date what's the big hoo ha about??

We are all grown ups I would like to think..."

My thoughts too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah things happen in the heat of moment ect and if your just after a bit of fun then yeah kl

I thought we were on about this guy looking for a life partner (outside of the fab swingers bubble)

If a person puts out in the first date. How many first dates have they had ect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your looking for a proper relationship a lady that "puts out" on the first date isn't a keeper and. And pof is just like fab these days x"

Must be why im single then ... Im clearly not a keeper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there was no play on this first date. Would he be in this situation???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ps! I thought i had slme pretty shit dates in my time but this beats them all shes mental!!!

Hilarious story that cheered me up tho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah things happen in the heat of moment ect and if your just after a bit of fun then yeah kl

I thought we were on about this guy looking for a life partner (outside of the fab swingers bubble)

If a person puts out in the first date. How many first dates have they had ect? "

Just because you have sex on one first date does not mean you have sex on them all or that you go on lots of dates

And maybe the op would like a life partner who would also enjoy the swinging lifestyle and they dont need to be mutually exclusive ... Stop being so presumptious

Its not black and white, swinging or love there can be a crossover... Or are you in the group that think girls who date are good girls and girls who can handle something casual must he bad news for anything more than that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lady's.......this is my opinion and I'd say yeah the same goes for guys too.

Do lady's not like a guy that makes a point of not trying it on the first date? X"

Omg remind me to tell you about my first 'date' with Tall (in a hotel room - no actual date) ... Here we are 6.5 years later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get out of there as fast as your legs will allow mate.

And don't bother trying it on with her pal either as therein lies more danger.

Move on. Block. And good luck!

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"could have been worse.....at least you ended it before she went supernova melt down crazy and tried attacking you with a sharp object she did it was called her tongue lol

But seriously there are lots like that even on here so be careful when meeting that goes for guys and fems... Some headcases about "

it was better for her to say something though instead of do something worse like give the op a kick/punch in the nuts or something worse as some women do stuff like that when they go psycho...

worst case scenario she might stalk the OP now and he has an admirer/hater for life who is constantly following him and his life around..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah things happen in the heat of moment ect and if your just after a bit of fun then yeah kl

I thought we were on about this guy looking for a life partner (outside of the fab swingers bubble)

If a person puts out in the first date. How many first dates have they had ect?

Just because you have sex on one first date does not mean you have sex on them all or that you go on lots of dates

And maybe the op would like a life partner who would also enjoy the swinging lifestyle and they dont need to be mutually exclusive ... Stop being so presumptious

Its not black and white, swinging or love there can be a crossover... Or are you in the group that think girls who date are good girls and girls who can handle something casual must he bad news for anything more than that? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lady's.......this is my opinion and I'd say yeah the same goes for guys too.

Do lady's not like a guy that makes a point of not trying it on the first date? X

Omg remind me to tell you about my first 'date' with Tall (in a hotel room - no actual date) ... Here we are 6.5 years later "

Was that a date or an arranged fun? Haha. You guys are like great together plus he's above 6ft haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a woman from here last year who I spoke to almost every night on KIK, we had a lot of meets through her asking me to meet her, then 1 day out the blue she texts me with abuse saying I just don't do it for her & blah blah blah anyway I told her fine then don't mail me again & get over it, the next night she was mailing me as if we were best mates??

For the past few months I've been getting abuse 1 night from her then being my best mate then wanting to have sex, the other night I just found out I can block her on KIK so I have finally rid myself from her I just hope she doesn't rejoin here coz she is a psycho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a woman from here last year who I spoke to almost every night on KIK, we had a lot of meets through her asking me to meet her, then 1 day out the blue she texts me with abuse saying I just don't do it for her & blah blah blah anyway I told her fine then don't mail me again & get over it, the next night she was mailing me as if we were best mates??

For the past few months I've been getting abuse 1 night from her then being my best mate then wanting to have sex, the other night I just found out I can block her on KIK so I have finally rid myself from her I just hope she doesn't rejoin here coz she is a psycho"

Maybe the same person lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a woman from here last year who I spoke to almost every night on KIK, we had a lot of meets through her asking me to meet her, then 1 day out the blue she texts me with abuse saying I just don't do it for her & blah blah blah anyway I told her fine then don't mail me again & get over it, the next night she was mailing me as if we were best mates??

For the past few months I've been getting abuse 1 night from her then being my best mate then wanting to have sex, the other night I just found out I can block her on KIK so I have finally rid myself from her I just hope she doesn't rejoin here coz she is a psycho

Maybe the same person lol x"
doubt it but maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lady's.......this is my opinion and I'd say yeah the same goes for guys too.

Do lady's not like a guy that makes a point of not trying it on the first date? X

Omg remind me to tell you about my first 'date' with Tall (in a hotel room - no actual date) ... Here we are 6.5 years later

Was that a date or an arranged fun? Haha. You guys are like great together plus he's above 6ft haha x"

It was our first liaison on a personal level. No date, no drinks - straight to the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But really where is the art of getting to know someone who may be a potential life partner without taking them to bed and finding out the next day they're a fruit cake?

I've always dated a good few times before even getting intimate with anyone, be it an online dating thing (just once I've done that, never again lol) or someone I've met elsewhere.

Swinging fits for me because I won't commit to another knobhead for as long as I live

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By *gowbhoy4funMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Book her into see a psychiatrist

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Was she a good shag, I might keep her number handy in case I am horny...

Well, except a full moon night, that's too risky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was she a good shag, I might keep her number handy in case I am horny...

Well, except a full moon night, that's too risky"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell her friend you aren't there for her to vent her rage at.

Then ask the friend out "
haha

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

She sounds like a keeper block her completely on your phone and her friend. She's hard work. I wouldn't reply to any messages it will only cause more problems.

I believe in waiting to have sex if your dating. I don't see anything wrong with people having one night stands, I've never been interested in them personally. I would prefer to wait so I get to know them first. Poor Mr had to wait three months but it was worth it in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like Antisocial Personality Disorder. Emotional vampires. They will entrap you with sex then slowly destroy you. Then turn around and call you crazy and if possible tell all your mates what a wife beater you are. I just dumped one just similar this morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell her friend you aren't there for her to vent her rage at.

Then ask the friend out haha"

Extreme rage is part of the diagnostic criteria for a personality disordered person - Used to be called sociopaths/pscycopaths. Run away very fast and never lookk back. If one is of a particular personality like people pleaser or low self esteem they can become very addictive. Folk like this are addicted to creating dramas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't see a thread like this but there was one with the same name on a forum I used to be a part of, so figured it might go down well here also. Feel free to comment and/or share similar stories of EmoRage!

So I met a girl on POF and she seemed really into meeting me, so instead of becoming ePenPals I elected to meet for a social quickly. We had a Skype first and had a lot of laughs so it seemed the logical choice. Anyway that was Wednesday. We went for an actual date on Friday and had a nice meal, went for ice cream at an awesome place after then I gave her the choice of being dropped off at hers or coming to mine. She excitedly chose coming to mine but insisted there would be "no funny business" anyway back to mine we went, had a bit of wine and put on (and consequently ignored) a film. More insistence that we would not be having any form of sex by her thought, which I was honestly fine with. Anyway, few more hours pass and we inevitable end up in bed together and have some pretty good sex, then morning rolls around and she's all off with me. I brush it off as she's just not entirely happy she's gone all the way on the first date and think no more of it. Fast forward and she's being really disrespectful via text etc, calling me a faggot and saying I'm shit in bed, then she gets d*unk and tells me she loves me and wants to (and I quote) suck my cock till I scream! Anyway, I ignore most of that and just say I'll see her the next day when she's not d*unk. Next day comes and she texts calling me a faggot again so I just bin the number and block her. Next thing I get a text from her friend saying I'm horrible and she's crying, and I can't treat her like that: she deserves to know what she's done wrong!!

Did I miss the point, or am I dealing with some other issues not of my doing!? Was I right to try to salvage self respect and remove her from my life, or was hat incredibly harsh? "

PMSL Marry This Girls, She Is A Keeper.

Although You Never Heard This From Me

lol, Brilliant

I've had two stalkers and I won't really be going into the situations on here.

Carry On, Wonder If I'll get an invite to the wedding

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

She sounds as mad as a box of frogs! Stay clear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah things happen in the heat of moment ect and if your just after a bit of fun then yeah kl

I thought we were on about this guy looking for a life partner (outside of the fab swingers bubble)

If a person puts out in the first date. How many first dates have they had ect?

Just because you have sex on one first date does not mean you have sex on them all or that you go on lots of dates

And maybe the op would like a life partner who would also enjoy the swinging lifestyle and they dont need to be mutually exclusive ... Stop being so presumptious

Its not black and white, swinging or love there can be a crossover... Or are you in the group that think girls who date are good girls and girls who can handle something casual must he bad news for anything more than that? "

In fairness the second I was in a relationship I'd probably deactivate on here. Unless she was of the mindset that we could be on as a couple.... But other than that I would respect exclusivity. I would like to think that this is a fairly common _iewpoint from singles on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I met a woman from here last year who I spoke to almost every night on KIK, we had a lot of meets through her asking me to meet her, then 1 day out the blue she texts me with abuse saying I just don't do it for her & blah blah blah anyway I told her fine then don't mail me again & get over it, the next night she was mailing me as if we were best mates??

For the past few months I've been getting abuse 1 night from her then being my best mate then wanting to have sex, the other night I just found out I can block her on KIK so I have finally rid myself from her I just hope she doesn't rejoin here coz she is a psycho"

Nightmare man! Though it does make me feel better knowing this isn't a completely uncommon occurrence! I'm pretty sure I didn't do anything to deserve the abuse but you always wonder when it happens if maybe you have, in fact, been a magnificent wallopper and not realised!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But really where is the art of getting to know someone who may be a potential life partner without taking them to bed and finding out the next day they're a fruit cake?

I've always dated a good few times before even getting intimate with anyone, be it an online dating thing (just once I've done that, never again lol) or someone I've met elsewhere.

Swinging fits for me because I won't commit to another knobhead for as long as I live "

To be honest: ending up in the bedroom wasn't part of some elaborate plan, it just kinda happened. The first night we were together for a kind of mini date we chatted for about for hours, so I guess this could have been counted as second date. And we didn't actually go to bed until around 3am, after me picking her up at 7 and going for dinner etc.

I do wonder if jumping into bed was the mistake and she's got all annoyed that she's done it, and consequently wanted to make me out to be the douche-nozzle instead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tell her friend you aren't there for her to vent her rage at.

Then ask the friend out haha

Extreme rage is part of the diagnostic criteria for a personality disordered person - Used to be called sociopaths/pscycopaths. Run away very fast and never lookk back. If one is of a particular personality like people pleaser or low self esteem they can become very addictive. Folk like this are addicted to creating dramas. "

Oh dear! Ok well if you've just gone through that then it's advice well received!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a woman from here last year who I spoke to almost every night on KIK, we had a lot of meets through her asking me to meet her, then 1 day out the blue she texts me with abuse saying I just don't do it for her & blah blah blah anyway I told her fine then don't mail me again & get over it, the next night she was mailing me as if we were best mates??

For the past few months I've been getting abuse 1 night from her then being my best mate then wanting to have sex, the other night I just found out I can block her on KIK so I have finally rid myself from her I just hope she doesn't rejoin here coz she is a psycho

Nightmare man! Though it does make me feel better knowing this isn't a completely uncommon occurrence! I'm pretty sure I didn't do anything to deserve the abuse but you always wonder when it happens if maybe you have, in fact, been a magnificent wallopper and not realised!"
I deffo wasn't a walloper lol she just turned,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

In fairness the second I was in a relationship I'd probably deactivate on here. Unless she was of the mindset that we could be on as a couple.... But other than that I would respect exclusivity. I would like to think that this is a fairly common _iewpoint from singles on Fab. "

So basically your saying you wouldnt cheat .... Not sure where i was encouraging cheating in my post

Was just pointing out that fab and relationships dont need to be one or the other (if your both into it) and having sex with someone after a first date does not actually make you 'not a keeper'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

In fairness the second I was in a relationship I'd probably deactivate on here. Unless she was of the mindset that we could be on as a couple.... But other than that I would respect exclusivity. I would like to think that this is a fairly common _iewpoint from singles on Fab.

So basically your saying you wouldnt cheat .... Not sure where i was encouraging cheating in my post

Was just pointing out that fab and relationships dont need to be one or the other (if your both into it) and having sex with someone after a first date does not actually make you 'not a keeper' "

I tend to agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

crazy hot scale - google it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arguing with a Woman ..Is like reading a Software License Agreement...Half way thru it and you end up ignoring it ..and then just Click .." I Agree "

Theres far too many Drama Queens ..So just block her and get her tae feck .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems to be the consensus!

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