FabSwingers.com forum: messages from men

By *ripleXrateD OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I've been getting quite a few messages from guys some nice some not so nice.

I've had some where one person has sent loads of messages with one liners like "want to gag on my hard cock" or "I'm going to fuck your arse so hard you can't sit down"

Does this work on anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been getting quite a few messages from guys some nice some not so nice.

I've had some where one person has sent loads of messages with one liners like "want to gag on my hard cock" or "I'm going to fuck your arse so hard you can't sit down"

Does this work on anyone?

Xx"

I would really hope not however I'm under no illusions that there are some women who do think 'oh yes please'

You only have to look at the verifications trail of some to see there really is someone for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

really ? I must try this on the women I don't want to sleep with and see if it works...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been getting quite a few messages from guys some nice some not so nice.

I've had some where one person has sent loads of messages with one liners like "want to gag on my hard cock" or "I'm going to fuck your arse so hard you can't sit down"

Does this work on anyone?

Xx"

It wouldnt by my style in opening a conversation.

However...Why would the Male not have any right in asking "Hi Hunni wanna feck"?

Its a Swinging site for Sex....Someone just someone might think ..i like that Guys pics and his profile ..

Wether people like or dislike some Mens approach in asking directly...Theres nothing saying that they cant ask.

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By *ripleXrateD OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

None of them asked wanna fuck. Just ones and I quote "ill burst your pussy" or even "ill pull out your ass and shove it down your throat"

Personally speaking I would like to know who was wanting to do this to me before finding out what they think there going to do.

As for the verifications each one I got like that had at least one verification that's why I was wondering if it works xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may be surprised.

If it does offend you ..just use the "Block Button".

I do get what you mean though ..its not exactly appealling is it?

Maybe some Men should show some respect x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pulled a guy up for sending me a "can I cum in your pussy" message.

According to him that type of message us what women on here prefer to receive. Let's just say I didn't agree with him.

Messages like that show a lack of communicational skills, and a severe case of delusion.

Alice

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By *ripleXrateD OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

That's exactly what I do. As I said some are sweet I've been offered flowers and a nice meal and I've turned them down fir being to nice.

Maybe I'm just being fussy lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None of them asked wanna fuck. Just ones and I quote "ill burst your pussy" or even "ill pull out your ass and shove it down your throat"

Personally speaking I would like to know who was wanting to do this to me before finding out what they think there going to do.

As for the verifications each one I got like that had at least one verification that's why I was wondering if it works xx"

Also I think once a guy gets verified they think they can talk how they want to women because the verification makes them genuine.

Alice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's exactly what I do. As I said some are sweet I've been offered flowers and a nice meal and I've turned them down fir being to nice.

Maybe I'm just being fussy lol xx"

Flowers a nice meal ? ..There really is no compliment there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been getting quite a few messages from guys some nice some not so nice.

I've had some where one person has sent loads of messages with one liners like "want to gag on my hard cock" or "I'm going to fuck your arse so hard you can't sit down"

Does this work on anyone?

Xx"

Yes, it works for me, easy way to determine an instant block

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By *lawless doveWoman
over a year ago

bothwell

Instant block from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

i get messages like that as well.... default reply starts and ends in an F.

other times i like to really take the piss until it gets to the stage they block me lol...

its also amazing that these type of messages usually come from the pictureless unverified profiles, surely a mad cooincidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many brainless guys think that women on Fab are easy and all they have to do is say a few dirty words and women will come flocking.

How wrong can they be.

Most women we know on Fab have deep respect for themselves and will only play with people they know and trust.

Guys who talk trash are very likely to be blocked. These are the guys who then come onto the forum complaining about the site being rubbish and that they can't get any sex.

So a word of advice to the newbie guys out there... Be respectful and patient to the amazing women here on fab and good things might well come your way.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Too many brainless guys think that women on Fab are easy and all they have to do is say a few dirty words and women will come flocking.

How wrong can they be.

Most women we know on Fab have deep respect for themselves and will only play with people they know and trust.

Guys who talk trash are very likely to be blocked. These are the guys who then come onto the forum complaining about the site being rubbish and that they can't get any sex.

So a word of advice to the newbie guys out there... Be respectful and patient to the amazing women here on fab and good things might well come your way."

Ffs shhhhhhhh dont tell them that

we dont need more competition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many brainless guys think that women on Fab are easy and all they have to do is say a few dirty words and women will come flocking.

How wrong can they be.

Most women we know on Fab have deep respect for themselves and will only play with people they know and trust.

Guys who talk trash are very likely to be blocked. These are the guys who then come onto the forum complaining about the site being rubbish and that they can't get any sex.

So a word of advice to the newbie guys out there... Be respectful and patient to the amazing women here on fab and good things might well come your way.

Ffs shhhhhhhh dont tell them that

we dont need more competition

I'm. No competition. I'm a bloody hindrance ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one who said he wanted to fuck me hard bareback then whisper in my ear as i wimper he hopes i get pregnant...

he was swiftly told where to go not to politely lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id fuck his arse !!! Wi a swift size 6 right up the shiter if any guy sent that to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id fuck his arse !!! Wi a swift size 6 right up the shiter if any guy sent that to me

He replied "i guess ur not into roleplay"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had one who said he wanted to fuck me hard bareback then whisper in my ear as i wimper he hopes i get pregnant...

he was swiftly told where to go not to politely lol"

pmsl, I usually send a message like

"I'd love to walk with you hand in hand over a field of daisies looking into each others eyes knowing that as our heart melt into each others we will always have fun in our eyes for each other"

I never get a Reply, hmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id fuck his arse !!! Wi a swift size 6 right up the shiter if any guy sent that to me

He replied "i guess ur not into roleplay" "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None of them asked wanna fuck. Just ones and I quote "ill burst your pussy" or even "ill pull out your ass and shove it down your throat" "

Whoaaah!That's pretty extreme even for here!

On a lighter note.....a lass said I was a smooth talker after a few brief exchanges the other day

She'll get a surprise if we ever meet in person.........I might be a lot of things but Mr Smooth ain't one of em !

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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"Had one who said he wanted to fuck me hard bareback then whisper in my ear as i wimper he hopes i get pregnant...

he was swiftly told where to go not to politely lol"

A woman I know from on here sent me a screen shot of a more or less word for word message from a guy on here like two days ago lol - probably the same copy and paste message!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had one who said he wanted to fuck me hard bareback then whisper in my ear as i wimper he hopes i get pregnant...

he was swiftly told where to go not to politely lol"

Good grief!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually send a message ..That i would love too share an Evening/Overnite in a Log Cabin Semi Naked Soft Romantic Music lay on the Floor with Fluffy White Duvet Log Fire Scented Candles Flickering .Some Nibbles and Drinks.....Caressing Teasing and having Lustful Pleasure Til the Early Hours i the Morning ...and as a token of our sexual experience ..I would generously give Marks n Spencers Vouchers.

I never seem to get a Woman interest ..

Hmm ..I wonder if its the Vouchers ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually send a message ..That i would love too share an Evening/Overnite in a Log Cabin Semi Naked Soft Romantic Music lay on the Floor with Fluffy White Duvet Log Fire Scented Candles Flickering .Some Nibbles and Drinks.....Caressing Teasing and having Lustful Pleasure Til the Early Hours i the Morning ...and as a token of our sexual experience ..I would generously give Marks n Spencers Vouchers.

I never seem to get a Woman interest ..

Hmm ..I wonder if its the Vouchers ?

Some Barry White to go with all that n it's a winning combination!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we have had many messages in a similar vein. Trouble is when you say ok when can you visit they all chicken out.

The real people get straight down to the logistics of sorting out the meeting. Then we talk about our expectations and desires.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had one who said he wanted to fuck me hard bareback then whisper in my ear as i wimper he hopes i get pregnant...

he was swiftly told where to go not to politely lol

A woman I know from on here sent me a screen shot of a more or less word for word message from a guy on here like two days ago lol - probably the same copy and paste message!!"

Yeah my friend got the exact same message... no wonder he has no verifications lol

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By *inasparklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes us single ladies get that all the time. It's lack of respect in my eyes and regardless of whether it's a sex/ swingers site manners cost nothing. I got fed up so thought I just give smart Arse replies to piss them off lol

You want fucked?

Why you know someone who's good at it?

Want to sit on my face?

I'm sure your not that ugly?

Can I cover you in my juices?

Why you drinking it?

It's great they never know what to say back, most are thick as to think that chat works. Treat them as bad as they treat you works wonders and you end up blocked it's hilarious X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say hello, explain why the profile caught my eye, whether it be a specific photo or an interest/verification.

I still get no replies! lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Too many get too wound up on here.

If a message isn't to your liking delete it and forget.

We all have had messages like this and still do, that's not going to change anytime soon.

Getting your knickers in a twist about it isn't going to help.

A no reply soon gets the message across far quicker in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id fuck his arse !!! Wi a swift size 6 right up the shiter if any guy sent that to me

Might be just what he wants!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as I am getting broody as I approach the 40...I'm trying the get u preggers line..but adding in a non compliance csa clause

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By *g1sterMan
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"None of them asked wanna fuck. Just ones and I quote "ill burst your pussy" or even "ill pull out your ass and shove it down your throat"

Personally speaking I would like to know who was wanting to do this to me before finding out what they think there going to do.

As for the verifications each one I got like that had at least one verification that's why I was wondering if it works xx

Also I think once a guy gets verified they think they can talk how they want to women because the verification makes them genuine.

Alice"

I've not yet seen anyone on this site, have sent a few messages all politely but get no replies (better) or deletions. Respect is always the right way and I'm not excusing anything else. But not everyone who isn't verified is a dick...

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By *ripleXrateD OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

If someone is nice they will always get a reply even if it is a no thanks. Tbh I feel a little sorry fir single guys on here some are decent people but will get tarred with the same brush as the arse holes xx

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"If someone is nice they will always get a reply even if it is a no thanks. Tbh I feel a little sorry fir single guys on here some are decent people but will get tarred with the same brush as the arse holes xx"

Whilst you're right, I don't take it personally. There's no point. I understand that ladies get loads of messages and most are terrible. So don't feel bad, the half decent guys will understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do still think a Tinder-like system would be better, thus removing the deluge of messages from either sex (mostly women though) and allowing only the ones they show an interest in to message them. It would hopefully kill off the "copy paste send" types and quickly out the "fancy a fuck?" folks, though sadly it may also kill off the "I want to do you from behind while you drink sangria" dudes that always get hilariously quoted later on.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Whilst you're right, I don't take it personally. There's no point. I understand that ladies get loads of messages and most are terrible. So don't feel bad, the half decent guys will understand

And stop perving at us old 'uns

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"I do still think a Tinder-like system would be better, thus removing the deluge of messages from either sex (mostly women though) and allowing only the ones they show an interest in to message them. It would hopefully kill off the "copy paste send" types and quickly out the "fancy a fuck?" folks, though sadly it may also kill off the "I want to do you from behind while you drink sangria" dudes that always get hilariously quoted later on. "

Sangria? Try vino

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