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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have found it difficult to write something that doesn't look like a copy and paste, even though it isn't!

I read every profile and try to include something from the profile to show that i've read it but still often get a rude reply or get accused of copy and pasting it.

Lose Lose situation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people will reply some wont,the sheer volume of mails that single females/couples etc get must be huge and a real "chore" sifting through the "want 2 fuck" type messages sadly means that the good guys miss out.

I know i only come on here to browse the forums now as like yourself not much success when mailing people but the site is good so don't give up and maybe try another approach ie attending socials a club night even but again maybe that's not what your looking for at this stage.

Anyway good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your Profile doesnt make feckin sense ..

2 best friends looking too meet Women ans STRAIGHT couples.I take it your lady friend will be making the tea while you have fun.

You state youve been on before ..So surely ya understand the drill in sending a solicitated message.

You also suggest you can accomodate quite often ..YET ..it also states you cannot ccomodate.

Maybe you need to be a bit more clearer in what you seek and what you want out of Fab.

I cant imagine you would get a rude reply often from a Couple or Female.

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

You're doing all you can, stick with this approach and sooner or later you'll hit upon someone who will appreciate the effort and individuality of each message.

It's what I do when messaging and it's well worth the extra bit of effort to try and show someone you have read their profile and understood their requirements and wishes. Not to mention that it is only right to learn as much as you can about someone you potentially want to play with.

But just because you have gone to the effort and sent what you consider a thoughtful, well-written message, it doesn't mean you are due a response - then your own profile, photos and specifications might not be to the other person's taste, which is perfectly acceptable. Not everyone is going to find everyone physically compatible.

As to the scepticism regarding copy and pasting, try to add a lighthearted disclaimer that it's not your style to be so lazy.

Your approach seems fine to me.

All the best.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

You could write the most amazing message ever, but I check profiles too.

The lack of images, and the lack of detail would be a no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could write the most amazing message ever, but I check profiles too.

The lack of images, and the lack of detail would be a no thanks."

Agreed ...x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Add a few photos and also if you both have single profiles on here then mention who you are.

With regards emails if your sending sounding like a single male it would raise suspicions just like your post now... Saying I instead of we.... I've instead of we've... just a thought

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Your Profile doesnt make feckin sense ..

2 best friends looking too meet Women ans STRAIGHT couples.I take it your lady friend will be making the tea while you have fun.

You state youve been on before ..So surely ya understand the drill in sending a solicitated message.

You also suggest you can accomodate quite often ..YET ..it also states you cannot ccomodate.

Maybe you need to be a bit more clearer in what you seek and what you want out of Fab.

I cant imagine you would get a rude reply often from a Couple or Female.

"

Got to agree with Rawk profile is confusing also like I posted on previous threads another "look at me" post

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By *inki_kikiWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I think people have failed to notice it's an MM profile not MF. I think that's where the confusion is coming from!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I think people have failed to notice it's an MM profile not MF. I think that's where the confusion is coming from! "
I noticed before I posted my reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people have failed to notice it's an MM profile not MF. I think that's where the confusion is coming from! "

Maybe that would explain the OFTEN rude replies then

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I think people have failed to notice it's an MM profile not MF. I think that's where the confusion is coming from! "

On the contrary... I saw that and thought HELLO!!

Then I saw straight/straight and didn't read any further.

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By *candiumWoman
over a year ago

oban


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On the contrary... I saw that and thought HELLO!!

Then I saw straight/straight and didn't read any further. "

snap.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

A 2MM profile? Wouldn't interest me in the slightest, profile text says SFA really and no pics, would be a straight ignore from me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your Profile doesnt make feckin sense ..

2 best friends looking too meet Women ans STRAIGHT couples.I take it your lady friend will be making the tea while you have fun.

You state youve been on before ..So surely ya understand the drill in sending a solicitated message.

You also suggest you can accomodate quite often ..YET ..it also states you cannot ccomodate.

Maybe you need to be a bit more clearer in what you seek and what you want out of Fab.

I cant imagine you would get a rude reply often from a Couple or Female.

"

Yes, straight couples (ie not bi couples as we are both straight!?)

We both have flat mates and therefore it's not also easy to accom.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the input everyone. As OUR profile States WE are two best mates, however only one of us comes on the majority of the time hence the 'I'. Of course the both of us aren't sitting beside each other composing every message.

I'll have a look and re-camp the profile though.

Thanks again x

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