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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just had a nosey in the Ireland forum and they had a great thread on love.

What is it and how do you know that someone loves you?

Disclaimer: I'm a soppy, hopeless romantic. Embrace it..

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think you just know... We've had ups and downs which included a small break up and a big one but we always find our way back to each other. Cheesy maybe but it's like when we're together it all just makes sense

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you like the sound of the person lyin next to you snoring . . . that's true love lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you just know... We've had ups and downs which included a small break up and a big one but we always find our way back to each other. Cheesy maybe but it's like when we're together it all just makes sense

K x"

That's lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you like the sound of the person lyin next to you snoring . . . that's true love lol "

I think that could be one aspect ..

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By *lawless doveWoman
over a year ago

bothwell

"Just had a nosey in the Ireland forum and they had a great thread on love.

What is it and how do you know that someone loves you?

Disclaimer: I'm a soppy, hopeless romantic. Embrace it.."

Awww me to. Love to me is your 1st thought in the morning is about the person, your last thought before going to sleep is about the person. Feeling safe and protected and wanting to spend every waking moment with them.

If all that fails you could try the deserted island test.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I snore like a fog horn lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about unrequited love?

That's really tough.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just had a nosey in the Ireland forum and they had a great thread on love.

What is it and how do you know that someone loves you?

Disclaimer: I'm a soppy, hopeless romantic. Embrace it..

If all that fails you could try the deserted island test."

Those thoughts late at night say so much x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What about unrequited love?

That's really tough.

It is and sadly the type I'm most experienced in.

Chin up lovely it gets easier xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about unrequited love?

That's really tough.

It is and sadly the type I'm most experienced in.

Chin up lovely it gets easier xx "

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The hardest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about unrequited love?

That's really tough.

I don't believe in it. Having been there myself, I've concluded that part of love is being loved by that person as well. Two way street. It should make you happy, not miserable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The hardest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Love cant be captured with words you know in your self if you love and you also know if your loved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had a nosey in the Ireland forum and they had a great thread on love.

What is it and how do you know that someone loves you?

Disclaimer: I'm a soppy, hopeless romantic. Embrace it.."

I believe its something different to everyone. Everyones perception or opinion of what love is being totally specific to them

Not really an answer, just a sharing

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Love is a feeling of comfort, protection, joy and closeness. Its special knowing your the one they want to be with.

I'm best friends with my husband, we laugh together get angry together and upset together. We are on the same wavelength and want the same things in life. We are enjoying growing old together.

Love isn't a sad feeling.

That's my oppinion on love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love is a feeling of comfort, protection, joy and closeness. Its special knowing your the one they want to be with.

I'm best friends with my husband, we laugh together get angry together and upset together. We are on the same wavelength and want the same things in life. We are enjoying growing old together.

Love isn't a sad feeling.

That's my oppinion on love "

This is what I had with him. But he doesn't love me.

It's ok, just a bit difficult to move on. He's not on here btw.

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think love is only true in fairytales...

Meant for someone else, but not for me...

Love is out to get me, that's the way it seems, disappointment haunts all my dreams...

I appreciate this is not a subject best addressed by levity, but those three plagiarised melodic lines do rather sum up how loveless and luckless I generally am where the condition is concerned...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the love is different to everyone statement.

Other couples outside of fab may disagree but what we do here is let others into our love life, share experiences with others. And to some its weird or a form of cheating but to me it shows how much love you have for each other that as a couple we are comfortable enough to try, share different experiences with others. And at the end of it still be happiest with the person you are going home with.

Sorry if I went on a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication

Acceptance

Compromise

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Love is a feeling of comfort, protection, joy and closeness. Its special knowing your the one they want to be with.

I'm best friends with my husband, we laugh together get angry together and upset together. We are on the same wavelength and want the same things in life. We are enjoying growing old together.

Love isn't a sad feeling.

That's my oppinion on love

This is what I had with him. But he doesn't love me.

It's ok, just a bit difficult to move on. He's not on here btw.

That's what you felt towards him. If he doesn't love you then there it wasn't meant to be. Don't dwell on things. Look to the future. There is a guy out there looking for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think love is only true in fairytales...

Meant for someone else, but not for me...

Love is out to get me, that's the way it seems, disappointment haunts all my dreams...

I appreciate this is not a subject best addressed by levity, but those three plagiarised melodic lines do rather sum up how loveless and luckless I generally am where the condition is concerned...

I'm with you on this. It seems everyone else has managed it but not me.

I'm lucky in that I have the best love of all from my 3 sons. It's a love that won't ever die. However I'm still living in hope that one day I'll find my happily ever after.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Love is an unconditional commitment to an imperfect person.

To love someone isn't just a strong feeling it's a decision to be with them.

If your with someone in a relationship or marriage and the love is no longer there get out while your still able to enjoy life with someone who will love you back as much as you love them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love is an unconditional commitment to an imperfect person.

To love someone isn't just a strong feeling it's a decision to be with them.

If your with someone in a relationship or marriage and the love is no longer there get out while your still able to enjoy life with someone who will love you back as much as you love them

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I think love is only true in fairytales...

Meant for someone else, but not for me...

Love is out to get me, that's the way it seems, disappointment haunts all my dreams...

I appreciate this is not a subject best addressed by levity, but those three plagiarised melodic lines do rather sum up how loveless and luckless I generally am where the condition is concerned...

I'm with you on this. It seems everyone else has managed it but not me.

I'm lucky in that I have the best love of all from my 3 sons. It's a love that won't ever die. However I'm still living in hope that one day I'll find my happily ever after.

And I am most assured that you will, Pink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think love is only true in fairytales...

Meant for someone else, but not for me...

Love is out to get me, that's the way it seems, disappointment haunts all my dreams...

I appreciate this is not a subject best addressed by levity, but those three plagiarised melodic lines do rather sum up how loveless and luckless I generally am where the condition is concerned...

I'm with you on this. It seems everyone else has managed it but not me.

I'm lucky in that I have the best love of all from my 3 sons. It's a love that won't ever die. However I'm still living in hope that one day I'll find my happily ever after.

And I am most assured that you will, Pink.

We all live in hope x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to me was being brought up my my 5ft tall mother on her own working hard to look after 5 of us on our own even when she was ill

She was mother and father figure to me i was her last child and i never wanted for anything

She never gave love openly but i knew she loved me and told me the night before she died after i thanked for everything and told her i loved her

Committed unselfish dedicated in this case was love

Sorry for that depressing story

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Love to me was being brought up my my 5ft tall mother on her own working hard to look after 5 of us on our own even when she was ill

She was mother and father figure to me i was her last child and i never wanted for anything

She never gave love openly but i knew she loved me and told me the night before she died after i thanked for everything and told her i loved her

Committed unselfish dedicated in this case was love

Sorry for that depressing story

It is the truest love. I'm sure she was very proud of you x

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

cc hotel

"Love to me was being brought up my my 5ft tall mother on her own working hard to look after 5 of us on our own even when she was ill

She was mother and father figure to me i was her last child and i never wanted for anything

She never gave love openly but i knew she loved me and told me the night before she died after i thanked for everything and told her i loved her

Committed unselfish dedicated in this case was love

Sorry for that depressing story

admirable story not depressing at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love to me was being brought up my my 5ft tall mother on her own working hard to look after 5 of us on our own even when she was ill

She was mother and father figure to me i was her last child and i never wanted for anything

She never gave love openly but i knew she loved me and told me the night before she died after i thanked for everything and told her i loved her

Committed unselfish dedicated in this case was love

Sorry for that depressing story

Oh not depressing at all and lovely that you shared it

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Love hurts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love hurts "

Jim capaldi great song worth a listen too

Just lightening things up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love hurts

Jim capaldi great song worth a listen too

Just lightening things up

Nazareth did a version too.

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Love hurts

Jim capaldi great song worth a listen too

Just lightening things up

Nazareth did a version too.

There's a good potential thread in this... love songs. Good, bad and indifferent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll protect you from the hooded claw

Keep the vampire from your door

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I've only recently (within the last year) fallen in romantic love for the first time.

Can I explain it? Nope. How does it feel? Scary, dizzying, frightening, wonderful... and a million things in between. Its not all rainbows and flowers though, its been a process of learning - about him and about myself (and no he doesn't love me back, but is very fond of me, and for now that is ok)

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By *lawless doveWoman
over a year ago

bothwell

"I've only recently (within the last year) fallen in romantic love for the first time.

Did you meet him on here

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"I've only recently (within the last year) fallen in romantic love for the first time.

Did you meet him on here"

No, I have known him through work for about 15 years, met up again at a conference last year, and things went from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Felt. The pain of love once..it was.A joyous rollercoaster ride of euphoria and sadness all in one.When it ended it felt like a part of my life died.which it probably did.Not felt that since.Dont rule it out.just don't think I will ever give my self so deeply to someone again...but I never say. Never..thats my idea of love ...anyhow back to stalking hot profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's overrated. Never lasts. And just gives Brain damage. Hence I don't do relationships ( bah humbug)

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I love women

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By *he feckersCouple
over a year ago

rosyth

I knew the minute I saw my wife that she was special and I was going to be with her from then on call me soppy but after almost 20 years together I still feel the same way it's been a roller coaster of a ride we have stuck together through thick n thin and I still feel the same way she is literally my best friend my lover and my soul mate and I love her with all my heart The song that says it all for me is an oldie by Air Supply - Even the nights are better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I knew the minute I saw my wife that she was special and I was going to be with her from then on call me soppy but after almost 20 years together I still feel the same way it's been a roller coaster of a ride we have stuck together through thick n thin and I still feel the same way she is literally my best friend my lover and my soul mate and I love her with all my heart The song that says it all for me is an oldie by Air Supply - Even the nights are better "

If everyone is honest to themselves I would. Think this what we would want..fair play dude

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"It's overrated. Never lasts. And just gives Brain damage. Hence I don't do relationships ( bah humbug)

I've been trying to think what to say, but this just sums it up perfectly for me

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"I love women

I love boobs

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By *ew guy69Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

I read about what guy did in tunisa when that guy started killing people guy use his body as sheild to protect gf that to me is real love x

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By *ew guy69Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

Dnt think people work at relationships now think people just find it easyer to walk away and start again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is when you miss someone when there away. When you fight it hurts. When they make you laugh when down. Will hold your hair when your been sick. Love is when you would give up your life for them. Love bloody hurts when its over. That's love to me.

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By *he feckersCouple
over a year ago

rosyth

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I love women

I love boobs

Ditto!

K x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Awwwww so lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you expect nothing of what you are giving in return.

(Mrs) xx

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Love is........

Hard to find

Unconditional

Happy

Sad

Emotional

Hard

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Love is........

Hard to find

Unconditional

Happy

Sad

Emotional

Hard

I'm starting to wonder if the notion of love is better than the reality of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone from fab ever told you they love you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Has anyone from fab ever told you they love you?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about unrequited love?

That's really tough.

Been there. Good old heartbreak hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love is when you miss someone when there away. When you fight it hurts. When they make you laugh when down. Will hold your hair when your been sick. Love is when you would give up your life for them. Love bloody hurts when its over. That's love to me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you like the sound of the person lyin next to you snoring . . . that's true love lol "

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