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By *axter1987 OP   Man
over a year ago

your hotlist

The amount of profiles on here is staggering. What turns you off when looking at a profile?

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Text talk. "Will fill this in later". 26,317 cock pics.....

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By *awk3y3Man
over a year ago

West Lothian


"Text talk. "Will fill this in later". 26,317 cock pics..... "

I only have 26,315 on show will ya shag me now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pics and no info

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Text talk. "Will fill this in later". 26,317 cock pics.....

I only have 26,315 on show will ya shag me now? "

nah, you were crap the last time.... xx

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"No pics and no info "

I have no info on mine as I am dealing with a health issue and not meeting. I do have pics on request though.

However, my full profile when I am meeting is enough to put most people off lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No pics and no info

I have no info on mine as I am dealing with a health issue and not meeting. I do have pics on request though.

However, my full profile when I am meeting is enough to put most people off lol x"

Can o request some pics then haha

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By *axter1987 OP   Man
over a year ago

your hotlist

A list of demands or complaints/rant. Instant close from me

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"A list of demands or complaints/rant. Instant close from me"

Haha, you really don't want to see mine then... Main one is don't call me "hun"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long lists of Demands, makes me laugh then press the "ignore" button

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

A large list of hoops someone has to jump through for the "honour" of meeting said person

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Ohh and being able to see what she had for her dinner the night before pic was taken ..not the best look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

someone forgetting that they live in a pig sty when they take a pic of themselves and you can see a pile of filth and very untidy bedroom or living room

hehe, does make you realise that some people actually do live in mess

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By *arried adventurers!Couple
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

I find that someone's fab name can put me off! If it's something really graphic and unappealing then I will ignore any message.

Hate hate hate text speak and dick pics too!

I like a fun, friendly profile with a nice face/body picture

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By *awk3y3Man
over a year ago

West Lothian


"Text talk. "Will fill this in later". 26,317 cock pics.....

I only have 26,315 on show will ya shag me now?

nah, you were crap the last time.... xx"

Wait wait wait.. when did this 'last time' happen ...Where was I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah woman tend to not like the dick pics , but if I am going down on a woman I wanna see the goods before we meet , lol no point in a meet if you ain't going to enjoy what's on offer . Woman on here think they are Demi gods that can dictate what ever they want and men still pursue them it's embarrassing . If she has a list of demands I find it takes the fun out of initially contacting someone like you are on edge not to offend them . I can appreciate with the ratio of men to woman it does get annoying getting hundreds of messages a day tho . Wish I had that problem with woman mailing me for sex by the hundreds lol that the world I one day want to live in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah woman tend to not like the dick pics , but if I am going down on a woman I wanna see the goods before we meet , lol no point in a meet if you ain't going to enjoy what's on offer . Woman on here think they are Demi gods that can dictate what ever they want and men still pursue them it's embarrassing . If she has a list of demands I find it takes the fun out of initially contacting someone like you are on edge not to offend them . I can appreciate with the ratio of men to woman it does get annoying getting hundreds of messages a day tho . Wish I had that problem with woman mailing me for sex by the hundreds lol that the world I one day want to live in "

I think if many females (by the hundreds) were mailing you for sex, im sure after viewing them you would still turn many down some of these "Demi gods" forget to look in the mirror

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pics

Will fill in later but been on site for 6 months

Calling me hun or babe

They are instant not even looking any further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah woman tend to not like the dick pics , but if I am going down on a woman I wanna see the goods before we meet , lol no point in a meet if you ain't going to enjoy what's on offer . Woman on here think they are Demi gods that can dictate what ever they want and men still pursue them it's embarrassing . If she has a list of demands I find it takes the fun out of initially contacting someone like you are on edge not to offend them . I can appreciate with the ratio of men to woman it does get annoying getting hundreds of messages a day tho . Wish I had that problem with woman mailing me for sex by the hundreds lol that the world I one day want to live in

I think if many females (by the hundreds) were mailing you for sex, im sure after viewing them you would still turn many down some of these "Demi gods" forget to look in the mirror"

Haha too right my friend , many times I have chuckled at the curvy body type being used or even the athletic , I am like where from the ankles down . The amusing thing is most of these woman wouldn't get a second glance in a club or bar etc , and for the majority I think this is used as a confidence booster rather than a swinging site . Look at me all these men fancy me , no dear they all want to use you as your profile name is bumslut or cumwhore, your profile status says you want your pussy filled then you go onto to say you don't want to sleep around and you want people to respect you lol sorry but before you dictate your likes and dislikes you should perhaps rethink your profile and pics .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah woman tend to not like the dick pics , but if I am going down on a woman I wanna see the goods before we meet , lol no point in a meet if you ain't going to enjoy what's on offer . Woman on here think they are Demi gods that can dictate what ever they want and men still pursue them it's embarrassing . If she has a list of demands I find it takes the fun out of initially contacting someone like you are on edge not to offend them . I can appreciate with the ratio of men to woman it does get annoying getting hundreds of messages a day tho . Wish I had that problem with woman mailing me for sex by the hundreds lol that the world I one day want to live in

I think if many females (by the hundreds) were mailing you for sex, im sure after viewing them you would still turn many down some of these "Demi gods" forget to look in the mirror

Haha too right my friend , many times I have chuckled at the curvy body type being used or even the athletic , I am like where from the ankles down . The amusing thing is most of these woman wouldn't get a second glance in a club or bar etc , and for the majority I think this is used as a confidence booster rather than a swinging site . Look at me all these men fancy me , no dear they all want to use you as your profile name is bumslut or cumwhore, your profile status says you want your pussy filled then you go onto to say you don't want to sleep around and you want people to respect you lol sorry but before you dictate your likes and dislikes you should perhaps rethink your profile and pics . "

Chuckle chuckle

Cracking post haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah woman tend to not like the dick pics , but if I am going down on a woman I wanna see the goods before we meet , lol no point in a meet if you ain't going to enjoy what's on offer . Woman on here think they are Demi gods that can dictate what ever they want and men still pursue them it's embarrassing . If she has a list of demands I find it takes the fun out of initially contacting someone like you are on edge not to offend them . I can appreciate with the ratio of men to woman it does get annoying getting hundreds of messages a day tho . Wish I had that problem with woman mailing me for sex by the hundreds lol that the world I one day want to live in

I think if many females (by the hundreds) were mailing you for sex, im sure after viewing them you would still turn many down some of these "Demi gods" forget to look in the mirror

Haha too right my friend , many times I have chuckled at the curvy body type being used or even the athletic , I am like where from the ankles down . The amusing thing is most of these woman wouldn't get a second glance in a club or bar etc , and for the majority I think this is used as a confidence booster rather than a swinging site . Look at me all these men fancy me , no dear they all want to use you as your profile name is bumslut or cumwhore, your profile status says you want your pussy filled then you go onto to say you don't want to sleep around and you want people to respect you lol sorry but before you dictate your likes and dislikes you should perhaps rethink your profile and pics .

Chuckle chuckle

Cracking post haha"

Wow!

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Complaining is never the best thing to see on a profile.

I appreciate there may be due justification to do so in some cases, but this place should be lighthearted and fun.

... he complained!!

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Too many rules on profiles I suppose it's just informative but feel I am being told off for looking ....yikes

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Too many rules on profiles I suppose it's just informative but feel I am being told off for looking ....yikes

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By *gowbhoy4funMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Long list of rules/demands....(some guys aren't really that desperate girls)

Ugly looking pussy pix ...even worse when the same profile says dont send cock pix lol

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Long list of rules/demands....(some guys aren't really that desperate girls)

Ugly looking pussy pix ...even worse when the same profile says dont send cock pix lol "

haha! I know if u were to swap see for a day ... how interesting that would be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah woman tend to not like the dick pics , but if I am going down on a woman I wanna see the goods before we meet , lol no point in a meet if you ain't going to enjoy what's on offer . Woman on here think they are Demi gods that can dictate what ever they want and men still pursue them it's embarrassing . If she has a list of demands I find it takes the fun out of initially contacting someone like you are on edge not to offend them . I can appreciate with the ratio of men to woman it does get annoying getting hundreds of messages a day tho . Wish I had that problem with woman mailing me for sex by the hundreds lol that the world I one day want to live in "

Amen brother!! Testifyyyy

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Yeah woman tend to not like the dick pics , but if I am going down on a woman I wanna see the goods before we meet , lol no point in a meet if you ain't going to enjoy what's on offer . Woman on here think they are Demi gods that can dictate what ever they want and men still pursue them it's embarrassing . If she has a list of demands I find it takes the fun out of initially contacting someone like you are on edge not to offend them . I can appreciate with the ratio of men to woman it does get annoying getting hundreds of messages a day tho . Wish I had that problem with woman mailing me for sex by the hundreds lol that the world I one day want to live in

Amen brother!! Testifyyyy "

I see where men are coming from I nose too and there does indeed appear to to more specifications on female profiles which might be volume of messages and lack of filtering that they are experiencing ...personally I am rarely offended ...women don't need to answer if the are easily wound up ....but some people eat trill for breakfast ...Both seX

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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Long list of rants or demands. Some folk need to calm down!

The whole "single men, don't message us, we will find you when we need you line" is an insta-shake my head moment.

Personally some couples profiles where they describe each other - depends on how much is said but generally they're delusory descriptions that make me cringe. Many are well written though!

Poor quality photos, bad angles, messy rooms, or just unimaginative photos.

I don't message many people now but if I get a message from a profile that I did message back when I first joined - if I didn't get a response then - and now they're messaging me first - I just ignore or point out the fact that they weren't interested then so i'm not now. Call me stubborn!

Oh, I appreciate its a swingers site and not a dating site but a lot of non-social verifications from a lot of different men within a relatively short space of time. Especially if the verifications are from "dick pic" profiles, one after the other... (No offence forum users! It's just not my thing - obviously!)

Sometimes I'll read their verifications of others and if it's poorly written, full of slang, or just tasteless, It's a turn off too!

See, guys can have their own rants or opinions too! Ha ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Long list of rules/demands....(some guys aren't really that desperate girls)

Ugly looking pussy pix ...even worse when the same profile says dont send cock pix lol "

Or mabe we just took our time to make to clear what we are looking. To.see if you actually read the profile. If people can't spend 10 mins reading my profile then they ain't worth 10 mins of my time. Not directed at you Glasgowbhoy.

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston


"Yeah woman tend to not like the dick pics , but if I am going down on a woman I wanna see the goods before we meet , lol no point in a meet if you ain't going to enjoy what's on offer . Woman on here think they are Demi gods that can dictate what ever they want and men still pursue them it's embarrassing . If she has a list of demands I find it takes the fun out of initially contacting someone like you are on edge not to offend them . I can appreciate with the ratio of men to woman it does get annoying getting hundreds of messages a day tho . Wish I had that problem with woman mailing me for sex by the hundreds lol that the world I one day want to live in

I think if many females (by the hundreds) were mailing you for sex, im sure after viewing them you would still turn many down some of these "Demi gods" forget to look in the mirror

Haha too right my friend , many times I have chuckled at the curvy body type being used or even the athletic , I am like where from the ankles down . The amusing thing is most of these woman wouldn't get a second glance in a club or bar etc , and for the majority I think this is used as a confidence booster rather than a swinging site . Look at me all these men fancy me , no dear they all want to use you as your profile name is bumslut or cumwhore, your profile status says you want your pussy filled then you go onto to say you don't want to sleep around and you want people to respect you lol sorry but before you dictate your likes and dislikes you should perhaps rethink your profile and pics . "

You don't half speak the truth do you!!! You just posted what I think on a daily basis about many single fems on here...I joined the site to meet women alone but unfortunately most can't see past their own arseholes and I can't stand that about people so gave up! It's quite easy to grow a head the size of an oil tanker on here but there's one reason for that, the desperate men amongst us, like you said, women dictate and the men still pursue...its cringeworthy how many times you have to say no to one guy sometimes, it spoils things for the genuine ones and in all honesty, it put me off and I had to put my filters up...nobody becomes a certain way unless they're given the right and chance to...I've just insulted and defended both sexes, my good deed of the day done!!!

Yours sincerely

One of the 'normal' unicorns! (Normal?! )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Endless Verifications ...

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

My profile seems to turn quite a lot of people off... but that's perfect by me as it leaves the way clear for the ones I am interested in that I click with.

What turns me off... too much lovey dovey stuff on couples profiles... the ones where its "honey-pie described by smooch-pooh" and then a list that makes them sound like superheroes!

The ones that are purely gynae textbook shots or a penis that you feel sorry for as its being so tightly strangled!

Gosh, I'm a stroppy cow, no wonder I don't often meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not looking to sleep way around site..then has 200 verifications in month..ok that figure may be a bit of an exaggeration ha..but you get my drift..By the way there is nothing wrong with sleeping way around site.each person to their own..but I find if you lie about that in profile it makes me think of what else could be a mistruth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah woman tend to not like the dick pics , but if I am going down on a woman I wanna see the goods before we meet , lol no point in a meet if you ain't going to enjoy what's on offer . Woman on here think they are Demi gods that can dictate what ever they want and men still pursue them it's embarrassing . If she has a list of demands I find it takes the fun out of initially contacting someone like you are on edge not to offend them . I can appreciate with the ratio of men to woman it does get annoying getting hundreds of messages a day tho . Wish I had that problem with woman mailing me for sex by the hundreds lol that the world I one day want to live in

I think if many females (by the hundreds) were mailing you for sex, im sure after viewing them you would still turn many down some of these "Demi gods" forget to look in the mirror

Haha too right my friend , many times I have chuckled at the curvy body type being used or even the athletic , I am like where from the ankles down . The amusing thing is most of these woman wouldn't get a second glance in a club or bar etc , and for the majority I think this is used as a confidence booster rather than a swinging site . Look at me all these men fancy me , no dear they all want to use you as your profile name is bumslut or cumwhore, your profile status says you want your pussy filled then you go onto to say you don't want to sleep around and you want people to respect you lol sorry but before you dictate your likes and dislikes you should perhaps rethink your profile and pics .

You don't half speak the truth do you!!! You just posted what I think on a daily basis about many single fems on here...I joined the site to meet women alone but unfortunately most can't see past their own arseholes and I can't stand that about people so gave up! It's quite easy to grow a head the size of an oil tanker on here but there's one reason for that, the desperate men amongst us, like you said, women dictate and the men still pursue...its cringeworthy how many times you have to say no to one guy sometimes, it spoils things for the genuine ones and in all honesty, it put me off and I had to put my filters up...nobody becomes a certain way unless they're given the right and chance to...I've just insulted and defended both sexes, my good deed of the day done!!!

Yours sincerely

One of the 'normal' unicorns! (Normal?! ) "

Just a shame we cant name them, but then we all know who they are and they just cant seem to help themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people moan about lots of verifications?

It just shows the said person is having a lot of meets, which, and pay attention to this because it's really out there, the site is for. I personally think when people moan about too many verifications it's usually through envious eyes, and generally coming from people who have maybe one verification at most.

Plenty of people show lots of verifications but that are mainly social meets where little to no sex took place.

As for profile turn offs - pictures of piles of bodies, capital letters used to make a point, the aforementioned hoops to jump through.

Mr

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Why do people moan about lots of verifications?

It just shows the said person is having a lot of meets, which, and pay attention to this because it's really out there, the site is for. I personally think when people moan about too many verifications it's usually through envious eyes, and generally coming from people who have maybe one verification at most.

Plenty of people show lots of verifications but that are mainly social meets where little to no sex took place.

Mr"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame we don't have a "dislike" button next to the fab button for some horrific pics, but then again if someone has 100 fabs, do we take it the rest of forum members dislike?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people moan about lots of verifications?

It just shows the said person is having a lot of meets, which, and pay attention to this because it's really out there, the site is for. I personally think when people moan about too many verifications it's usually through envious eyes, and generally coming from people who have maybe one verification at most.

Plenty of people show lots of verifications but that are mainly social meets where little to no sex took place.

As for profile turn offs - pictures of piles of bodies, capital letters used to make a point, the aforementioned hoops to jump through.

Mr"

Envious Eyes ?

You couldnt be any further from the truth ...

Ya Krackpot

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Shame we don't have a "dislike" button next to the fab button for some horrific pics, but then again if someone has 100 fabs, do we take it the rest of forum members dislike? "

Your a glass half full kind of guy aren't you.

Not everyone fabs pictures. I think I have only fabbed about 10 in the years I've been on here. I'm sure lots of people are the same so saying that only 100 people like the picture because that's all that's fabbed is rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shame we don't have a "dislike" button next to the fab button for some horrific pics, but then again if someone has 100 fabs, do we take it the rest of forum members dislike?

Your a glass half full kind of guy aren't you.

Not everyone fabs pictures. I think I have only fabbed about 10 in the years I've been on here. I'm sure lots of people are the same so saying that only 100 people like the picture because that's all that's fabbed is rubbish"

possibly, but the only way to prove that is correct is by an equal "dislike" button so that people can show their dislike, failing that, the only other way is not to fab the pic

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Shame we don't have a "dislike" button next to the fab button for some horrific pics, but then again if someone has 100 fabs, do we take it the rest of forum members dislike?

Your a glass half full kind of guy aren't you.

Not everyone fabs pictures. I think I have only fabbed about 10 in the years I've been on here. I'm sure lots of people are the same so saying that only 100 people like the picture because that's all that's fabbed is rubbish

possibly, but the only way to prove that is correct is by an equal "dislike" button so that people can show their dislike, failing that, the only other way is not to fab the pic"

I don't think its a science experiment but whatever

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Hate not being able to talk to someone you really fancy xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Text talk. "Will fill this in later". 26,317 cock pics..... "

Hahaha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A list of demands or complaints/rant. Instant close from me"

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that someone's fab name can put me off! If it's something really graphic and unappealing then I will ignore any message.

Hate hate hate text speak and dick pics too!

I like a fun, friendly profile with a nice face/body picture "

So shall I tell ImGonnaButtFukYou69 that you're not going to meet him any more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"someone forgetting that they live in a pig sty when they take a pic of themselves and you can see a pile of filth and very untidy bedroom or living room

hehe, does make you realise that some people actually do live in mess"
this for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shame we don't have a "dislike" button next to the fab button for some horrific pics, but then again if someone has 100 fabs, do we take it the rest of forum members dislike? "

I am amazed some pics get so many likes but hey each to there own I guess

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By *uck knows41Man
over a year ago

Arbroath

Demanding a face pic when they have none themselves

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Profiles don't turn me off its the people behind some of them that turn me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Several of mine have been mentioned but I find status updates are the quickest way to draw my finger to the block button.

Either ones that say "need my sack emptied now" (eew) or there is a cracker near me who is always nasty and vindictive in a quite sly way. I was going to block him but watching how wound up and self righteous he gets just makes me giggle

In the main though a bad profile just causes me to look no further, it's the messages, status updates or forum behaviour that turns me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The avatar picture can be very off putting. A close up of a cocks japs eye staring you in the face. You can't get away from it unless you block them. No idea why people would have that or her female bits as an avatar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a year out on age range of someone you think you could click with. After all age is purely a number & your only as young as the woman your feeling.

Says the stud with no meets or verifications lol.

You have to start from the beginning sometimes.

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