FabSwingers.com forum: The wonderful world of fab

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Has it been all you expected it to be?

Exceeded what you expected?

Or has it been a big let down?

For me I've had an incredible journey on here making many amazing friends and a few enemies along the way too lol.

But my overall time on here has been brilliant fun and long may that continue for as long as I stay here.

How's it been for you?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Pretty much the same, met some great people

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Its been awrite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't complain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its been awrite

Says the man who got his very own birthday social

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Its been awrite

Says the man who got his very own birthday social

Tut I know some people are never bloody happy

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Its been awrite

Says the man who got his very own birthday social

Hahaha and what a great nite it was too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined it was amazing. There was a real sense of community and I made lots of friends.

The dynamics have changed. More trolls and a different attitude has caused a shift.

I am not nearly as involved as I once was. Such a pity

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"When I first joined it was amazing. There was a real sense of community and I made lots of friends "
I agree about the community aspect and to a certain degree it's still there amongst some members

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"When I first joined it was amazing. There was a real sense of community and I made lots of friends I agree about the community aspect and to a certain degree it's still there amongst some members

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

When we were more involved at beginning we had some great times ...made a few mistakes and learned a lot about ourselves. These days we dip in and out as life is busy, I don't think the scenes changed as such more evolved as the interenet gets bigger.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"When we were more involved at beginning we had some great times ...made a few mistakes and learned a lot about ourselves. These days we dip in and out as life is busy, I don't think the scenes changed as such more evolved as the interenet gets bigger.

totally agree the sites the exact same as it's always been it's the people on it that's brought about many of the changes in the swinging scene.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

totally agree the sites the exact same as it's always been it's the people on it that's brought about many of the changes in the swinging scene. "

People come and go which change the dynamics of some groups .

The site has more people than it did a few years back.

But I do think people focus too much on their own groups, the forum regulars, the social regulars etc etc the site is so much more bigger than these groups,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has been ok really, passes time.

It is a bit of a let down at times, but there are some nice people on here though.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

totally agree the sites the exact same as it's always been it's the people on it that's brought about many of the changes in the swinging scene.

People come and go which change the dynamics of some groups .

The site has more people than it did a few years back.

But I do think people focus too much on their own groups, the forum regulars, the social regulars etc etc the site is so much more bigger than these groups,"
yeah totally agree with you.. Most of my activities on here do not involve forum or chat regulars... Well except socials that is

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"It has been ok really, passes time.

It is a bit of a let down at times, but there are some nice people on here though."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met Bothy. FABs has my lawyers letter on its way...

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I met Bothy. FABs has my lawyers letter on its way...

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pmsl jinty

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"I met Bothy. FABs has my lawyers letter on its way...

Poor Bothy

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"I met Bothy. FABs has my lawyers letter on its way...

Poor Bothy

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"I met Bothy. FABs has my lawyers letter on its way...

Poor Bothy

Somebody had to stick up for you mate

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"I met Bothy. FABs has my lawyers letter on its way...

Poor Bothy

Somebody had to stick up for you mate

Thanks Bunkie, I'vejust added you to my Christmas card list.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I made my own fun, I made my own mistakes.

I have enjoyed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made some great friends, we try and avoid the dramas, just do our own thing. Worked well for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the early years fab provided many moments of fun, laughs and sexual experiences.

As was mentioned above the dynamics have changed and sadly not for the better but in general it has been fantastic and very educational!

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

For me, another way I looked at this question was;

If Fab was no more, would I miss it?

And having spent most of this year off the site, the answer is yes.

Like most things in life, this is a great place if you have the right attitude toward it, patience and are willing to put in the effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came across fab out the blue. It's not perfect but that's due to geography rather than site function in my opinion. We should just get all the swingers to move to one city then it would be awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've made some friends, chatted to some with real issues, laughed at some of the attempted bullying and realised we are all kids at heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since joining I have had highs and lows but mostly a positive experience. I keep coming back so +ve outweigh -ve. It's all about expectations and you get what you add and contribute so I am happy to be part of this site and what it offers.

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By *lawless doveWoman
over a year ago

bothwell

Certainly been an eye opener. Some really nice guys and gals however there are some really strange people too . 7/10 so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been a bit of a let down to be fair , but due to my discretion I probably am not getting the full benefit of the site x

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"I came across fab out the blue. It's not perfect but that's due to geography rather than site function in my opinion. We should just get all the swingers to move to one city then it would be awesome

Which is why I've started arranging drinks nights, trying to get to know people in and around the area. We'll never be on a par size wise with Glasgow or Edinburgh, but there's a decent enough community here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only get out of it ...What you put into it ..i suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ups and downs for me. Serious highs and then serious lows. But then why should this place be any different from real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's had it's moments for sure. Been some very memorable nights out/meets/after parties.... We've got some great friends who started off as fab friends but now are more.

Keep it fun and it pays rewards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have mixed feelings. Not had a meet but I expected that being a young single male. I've been sent to strangers doors a couple times who questioned why I was there. But the people in the forums are a good laugh but i'm sticking it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People come and go, I have met some cool folk on here, but if we had a county type room,would be a lot better.

But there are a few who don't like to have the newbie in there gang, and rather than help or mentor into the kinda members that would help keep the status quo, they jump all over them, cause a divide and thus ironically break up any chance of the "old fab" or the "good ol days" coming back. Kinda poetic really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my time here so far,I've met and spoken to some lovely people....had a great laugh for the most part and even had one or two awesome meets...and one or two that went nowhere lol.

Had my innocent wee eyes opened a couple of times as well......it's been fun n interesting for me!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I made my own fun, I made my own mistakes.

I have enjoyed it.

Me too also!

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'm to new to comment. Haven't met any fab friends yet but hop to soon xx

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By *awk3y3Man
over a year ago

West Lothian

Fab is what you make it, people use it differently and will get different experiences....

For me personally keep it fun, don't take it too seriously and it's an addition to my real life not part of it....

Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first joined it was amazing. There was a real sense of community and I made lots of friends.

The dynamics have changed. More trolls and a different attitude has caused a shift.

I am not nearly as involved as I once was. Such a pity "

This sums up my experience here too

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

We get accused of being part of clique more than ever now.

Times change and so has fab.

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By *urlyShirtyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Enjoyed my time so far, spoken to some fun folk on the fourm and by message. Only met a few women so far but have enjoyed meeting them. All part of life's rich tapestry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been a whirlwind year got known by a couple of people really good people had some fun times made some huge mistakes had my boundaries pushed my ideas challenged and occasionally got very annoyed at some people but it's been an amazing journey

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"It's been a whirlwind year got known by a couple of people really good people had some fun times made some huge mistakes had my boundaries pushed my ideas challenged and occasionally got very annoyed at some people but it's been an amazing journey"

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