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By *r meABC OP   Man
over a year ago

uddingston

A crazed nut job who i was chatting to for a long time have recorded our skype chat and is threatening to post it over social network to my family, is there anything i can do to get rid of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance if she's got a copy of it I don't think

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By *iceguy 1966Man
over a year ago

in pa postcode

By even implying to do it they have committed an offence mate, go to the Police, they will be very discreet and respect your privacy.

Trust me on this one ??

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By *iceguy 1966Man
over a year ago

in pa postcode

I meant a thumbs up after that last message

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By *ustcantgetenuf50Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Report her if she is threatening u on here about this too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By even implying to do it they have committed an offence mate, go to the Police, they will be very discreet and respect your privacy.

Trust me on this one ??"

Surely that's only if it's of a sexual nature - I.e. Revenge porn

A Skype "chat" isn't that, even if the topic is sexual - I would have thought it required nudity. I can't see the police being interested otherwise.

OP sorry to hear you're negotiating with a nutter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been threatened from a guy that I had been chatting to again for a while that he was going to post my pictures on fb etc, told him to go right ahead but never happened, be very careful who you trust, probably trying to scare you and I'm sure there have been lots on here with similar experiences, hopefully goes nowhere

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

they more you react to them, you more you will fuel it.

be clear and concise: if she does & it will then become a police matter.

she won't

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and learn from the experience

all that glitters, is not gold.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

[Removed by poster at 03/10/15 16:35:24]

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I've got many friends who have had similar threats all from the same person.

Never carried out what they have threatened to do YET! but it still doesn't stop the fear when someone makes threats like that. So to be honest I'd just put it down to a bad experience and be more careful in the future.

As _iew has said the more you react to it the more they thrive on it.. They think it gives them power over people by making such threats.

Hope your okay and not shaken too much by it.

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By *r meABC OP   Man
over a year ago

uddingston

Thanks everyone

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By *lawless doveWoman
over a year ago

bothwell

Know a few past and present who this has happened to. Know one woman on here who still threatens people but when tables were turned instantly called foul and threatened the police.

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yup if she's blackmailing you then she's committing a criminal act.... Respond with a better crime like a good solid beating blackmailing over obviously I don't condone a female being beaten by yourself.... Employ a female friend

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Know a few past and present who this has happened to. Know one woman on here who still threatens people but when tables were turned instantly called foul and threatened the police. "

Wonder if that's the same one that threatened me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See this is what happens when do things before thinking it right through .. Sounds like your bottles crashed big time !!!

If you play with feathers you get your arse tickled if you play with fire you get burned ...

Call her bluff and report her and I'm sure that feeling that you get when you've fucked up will pass in time .. Sorry for being a tad blunt !

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By *inasparklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Happened to me and I went to police as he screenshot my profile and photos and I'm sure I was told that if any explicit photos of any description sent and there's a trail she can land on sex offenders as its know that bad. But I didn't have dirty photos so all he got was a warning.

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By *lawless doveWoman
over a year ago

bothwell


"Know a few past and present who this has happened to. Know one woman on here who still threatens people but when tables were turned instantly called foul and threatened the police.

Wonder if that's the same one that threatened me. "

Hope not she is a really nasty person.

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I have just read y his thread .... deary deary me! not good news at all . I never would have believed it .... what do the blackmailers hope to gain in all this trouble making?

J x

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By *ary_ArgyllMan
over a year ago

Argyll

They probably just get off on the attention or feeling like they are in control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why it's never a cock and face in the same pic, Skype a no go!

Psycho's are everywhere

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"By even implying to do it they have committed an offence mate, go to the Police, they will be very discreet and respect your privacy.

Trust me on this one ??

Surely that's only if it's of a sexual nature - I.e. Revenge porn

A Skype "chat" isn't that, even if the topic is sexual - I would have thought it required nudity. I can't see the police being interested otherwise.

OP sorry to hear you're negotiating with a nutter "
part of the online bullying crackdown

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Surely people who do this are blocked and removed tho huh? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely people who do this are blocked and removed tho huh? x"

They just come back with new profiles so they can keep looking at profiles they're blocked from.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Surely people who do this are blocked and removed tho huh? x

They just come back with new profiles so they can keep looking at profiles they're blocked from. "

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Miss kink has a rule of thumb for all blokes. It goes and I quote,"if a girl has soft toys on her bed, RUN AWAY!". She swears by it and to be fair she's not far wrong. When I think back all the loopies i have met or have been with they all had soft toys on beds or in bedroom etc. Etc. Same goes for mates or her male mates..

It's a fair rule to rule by...

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By *all saulMan
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire


"Miss kink has a rule of thumb for all blokes. It goes and I quote,"if a girl has soft toys on her bed, RUN AWAY!". She swears by it and to be fair she's not far wrong. When I think back all the loopies i have met or have been with they all had soft toys on beds or in bedroom etc. Etc. Same goes for mates or her male mates..

It's a fair rule to rule by... "

Funny my ex had soft toys on her bed mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By even implying to do it they have committed an offence mate, go to the Police, they will be very discreet and respect your privacy.

Trust me on this one ??

Surely that's only if it's of a sexual nature - I.e. Revenge porn

A Skype "chat" isn't that, even if the topic is sexual - I would have thought it required nudity. I can't see the police being interested otherwise.

OP sorry to hear you're negotiating with a nutter part of the online bullying crackdown "

But what is the offence??

Until you I I the nature of the Skype call you cant say. There appears to be nothing about threats or extortion so it's not Blackmail either

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire


"Miss kink has a rule of thumb for all blokes. It goes and I quote,"if a girl has soft toys on her bed, RUN AWAY!". She swears by it and to be fair she's not far wrong. When I think back all the loopies i have met or have been with they all had soft toys on beds or in bedroom etc. Etc. Same goes for mates or her male mates..

It's a fair rule to rule by... "

better clear out all my teddies

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

[1] Section 38 of the Criminal Justice and Licensing (Scotland) Act 2010 (the 2010 Act) provides as follows:

“38 Threatening or abusive behaviour

A person (“A”) commits an offence if-

(a) A behaves in a threatening or abusive manner,

(b) the behaviour would be likely to cause a reasonable person to suffer fear or alarm, and

(c) A intends by the behaviour to cause fear or alarm or is reckless as to whether the behaviour would cause fear or alarm.”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phone the police, I had to deal with this a couple of weeks ago, where a person had a very compromising picture of me and had sent it too people I know. The police took the matter very seriously and the person that committed the offence is now in 1 of her majesty's hotels! so sad that people do this, no need for it!

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