FabSwingers.com forum: The secret?? Single ladies

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So for a year now we have discussed me (red) meeting solo, I even had my own profile at one time. Can I find someone - no!!

I've met some guys for coffee, felt comfortable and enquired about next stage and got no where. Also been stood up a few times.

Guys seem keen when first asked but go quiet when it comes to actually arranging something.

So I think my screening for single men must be dodgy - ladies give me your tips

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By *e_frenchMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Really? You must scare them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Really? You must scare them

I'm not scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red is not scarey. But sexy, damn she oozes with it

Will we all go on a man hunt for you deary? I know 1 willing victim who'd chew his left ball off for it

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I see it as the reason it went no further is you were incompatible asking other fems would mean you would have to have diffrent standards you want a select type of meet perhaps the type you want have little intrest in you (so far) stick to your own ways it will come right when the time is right

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Red is not scarey. But sexy, damn she oozes with it

Will we all go on a man hunt for you deary? I know 1 willing victim who'd chew his left ball off for it

Ooh a man hunt

Seriously it's getting ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I see it as the reason it went no further is you were incompatible asking other fems would mean you would have to have diffrent standards you want a select type of meet perhaps the type you want have little intrest in you (so far) stick to your own ways it will come right when the time is right "

It was more tips on screening, not who they meet / personal tastes

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

You are a lovely, gorgeous, sexy lady, I doubt it's anything you're doing. I think that sometimes people are excited by the idea of meeting and then nerves kick in and they bottle it. I've been stood up by single guys a few times and I'm not even in your league.

Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

When it comes to screening, I talk to people for a while until I'm comfortable, then swap pics and organise a social if I feel we click.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When it comes to screening, I talk to people for a while until I'm comfortable, then swap pics and organise a social if I feel we click.

I've got that far, 3 guys so far - coffee, clicked and then all quiet

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"So for a year now we have discussed me (red) meeting solo, I even had my own profile at one time. Can I find someone - no!!

I've met some guys for coffee, felt comfortable and enquired about next stage and got no where. Also been stood up a few times.

Guys seem keen when first asked but go quiet when it comes to actually arranging something.

So I think my screening for single men must be dodgy - ladies give me your tips

seriously

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"When it comes to screening, I talk to people for a while until I'm comfortable, then swap pics and organise a social if I feel we click.

I've got that far, 3 guys so far - coffee, clicked and then all quiet

Without being there I couldn't say if there's anything that I'd notice. No idea why it's not worked out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So for a year now we have discussed me (red) meeting solo, I even had my own profile at one time. Can I find someone - no!!

I've met some guys for coffee, felt comfortable and enquired about next stage and got no where. Also been stood up a few times.

Guys seem keen when first asked but go quiet when it comes to actually arranging something.

So I think my screening for single men must be dodgy - ladies give me your tips

seriously

Yes, it's become a running joke in my house.

The worst one was when I was stood up in a bar (full suspenders etc on under my skirt, heels, you get the idea) and barmaid gave me the sympathy look every time I ordered a drink. It was funny in a way but the ego takes a battering after a while

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By *cottish_guy12Man
over a year ago

Scotland

Maybe you just haven't met a guy that's worthy of you yet

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Really? I've saw your pics and believe me, they're stunning, gorgeous legs.

Can't get my head round why they're not trying to arrange another meet.

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

judging by ur lovely pics there should be no problems Jx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't understand why they disappear if I got that far I would be at any future meet lol

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"So for a year now we have discussed me (red) meeting solo, I even had my own profile at one time. Can I find someone - no!!

I've met some guys for coffee, felt comfortable and enquired about next stage and got no where. Also been stood up a few times.

Guys seem keen when first asked but go quiet when it comes to actually arranging something.

So I think my screening for single men must be dodgy - ladies give me your tips

seriously

Yes, it's become a running joke in my house.

obviously picking the wrong guys...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same you will only meet 24+ year old guys ornithological would meet you any time you wanted your sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So for a year now we have discussed me (red) meeting solo, I even had my own profile at one time. Can I find someone - no!!

I've met some guys for coffee, felt comfortable and enquired about next stage and got no where. Also been stood up a few times.

Guys seem keen when first asked but go quiet when it comes to actually arranging something.

So I think my screening for single men must be dodgy - ladies give me your tips

seriously

Yes, it's become a running joke in my house.

obviously picking the wrong guys...

I know, that's why I'm asking how others choose lol

The compliments have been lovely but not really helpful xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Red is not scarey. But sexy, damn she oozes with it

Will we all go on a man hunt for you deary? I know 1 willing victim who'd chew his left ball off for it

You know I lost my left ball in a poker game

You can have my right one tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a thought here but why don't you have a social with the option to play after it if all goes well. There nowhere for them to run then haha

Talk the talk walk the walk haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When it comes to screening, I talk to people for a while until I'm comfortable, then swap pics and organise a social if I feel we click.

This is what I do.

If it's going dead after that initial social meet, you haven't lost out, you've just not met the right person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just a thought here but why don't you have a social with the option to play after it if all goes well. There nowhere for them to run then haha

Talk the talk walk the walk haha x"

Horror story no 5 did that - he has later transpired to be a freak. Seriously single filtering is not my speciality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a thought here but why don't you have a social with the option to play after it if all goes well. There nowhere for them to run then haha

Talk the talk walk the walk haha x

Horror story no 5 did that - he has later transpired to be a freak. Seriously single filtering is not my speciality "

Send them my way il filter them for ya

haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just a thought here but why don't you have a social with the option to play after it if all goes well. There nowhere for them to run then haha

Talk the talk walk the walk haha x

Horror story no 5 did that - he has later transpired to be a freak. Seriously single filtering is not my speciality

Send them my way il filter them for ya

haha "

Deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So for a year now we have discussed me (red) meeting solo, I even had my own profile at one time. Can I find someone - no!!

I've met some guys for coffee, felt comfortable and enquired about next stage and got no where. Also been stood up a few times.

Guys seem keen when first asked but go quiet when it comes to actually arranging something.

So I think my screening for single men must be dodgy - ladies give me your tips

Open up your age limit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red if it helps Iv been stood up 4 times now. Others just bottle it cut of contact. For some its the trill of the chase. Then reality kicks in. Some all talk n no action. However there genuine men who

Want to meet. But its hard for them. When men out number women on here so much. Don't give in. Talk to other woman. There is gems on here we just don't like to share them when we find them.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

All i can really say is stick with it.. yeah there are an awful lot of wannabies ...who think its fun to join, perv, lead on and then bottle it incase the wife or gf finds out lol but there are alot of us genuine guys out there for the finding ...good luck and hope someone restores your faith

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Red is not scarey. But sexy, damn she oozes with it

Will we all go on a man hunt for you deary? I know 1 willing victim who'd chew his left ball off for it

You know I lost my left ball in a poker game

You can have my right one tho

Damn I forgot that's why I'm still able to talk with a partial mouthful

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All i can really say is stick with it.. yeah there are an awful lot of wannabies ...who think its fun to join, perv, lead on and then bottle it incase the wife or gf finds out lol but there are alot of us genuine guys out there for the finding ...good luck and hope someone restores your faith

As a couple we have met fantastic people, so I know they exist

Just can't filter solo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been stood up once but that was 3 years ago.

When I plan on having a meet I don't ask or put a meet in the events. I just get chatty for a few days before then just ask them straight out. Go younger and a wee bit shorter if need be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had some amazing meets, been stood up once or twice, but that shit just happens.

There really are some nice single guys out there...honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Red is not scarey. But sexy, damn she oozes with it

Will we all go on a man hunt for you deary? I know 1 willing victim who'd chew his left ball off for it

You know I lost my left ball in a poker game

You can have my right one tho

Damn I forgot that's why I'm still able to talk with a partial mouthful

God sake mumbles haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So for a year now we have discussed me (red) meeting solo, I even had my own profile at one time. Can I find someone - no!!

I've met some guys for coffee, felt comfortable and enquired about next stage and got no where. Also been stood up a few times.

Guys seem keen when first asked but go quiet when it comes to actually arranging something.

So I think my screening for single men must be dodgy - ladies give me your tips

Open up your age limit

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been stood up once but that was 3 years ago.

When I plan on having a meet I don't ask or put a meet in the events. I just get chatty for a few days before then just ask them straight out. Go younger and a wee bit shorter if need be

I'm now speaking to a 25 year old ... However you know my thoughts on short lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been stood up once but that was 3 years ago.

When I plan on having a meet I don't ask or put a meet in the events. I just get chatty for a few days before then just ask them straight out. Go younger and a wee bit shorter if need be

I'm now speaking to a 25 year old ... However you know my thoughts on short lol "

Even I go for taller but there is some lovely guys out there just a tad shorter than your fine self

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been stood up once but that was 3 years ago.

When I plan on having a meet I don't ask or put a meet in the events. I just get chatty for a few days before then just ask them straight out. Go younger and a wee bit shorter if need be

I'm now speaking to a 25 year old ... However you know my thoughts on short lol

Even I go for taller but there is some lovely guys out there just a tad shorter than your fine self

I'm not hard lines, 5ft 8 for an exceptional

Specimen would be ok (but I'm scarred from coffee with a guy who could only kiss me stood on a step

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

As a shortass, hairy chested, over 40 year old guy, I'd say it's their loss.

I'm not sure you are doing anything wrong, it's just that as has been said, a lot of guys bottle it after that initial meet or are just after the thrill of the chase.

I wouldn't change much to be honest though, just be yourself, keep chatting and who knows? You might just find a gem in amongst the crap

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By *e_frenchMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Really? You must scare them

I'm not scary

Are you sure?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also...

I don't do socials....

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"I've been stood up once but that was 3 years ago.

When I plan on having a meet I don't ask or put a meet in the events. I just get chatty for a few days before then just ask them straight out. Go younger and a wee bit shorter if need be

I'm now speaking to a 25 year old ... However you know my thoughts on short lol

Even I go for taller but there is some lovely guys out there just a tad shorter than your fine self

I'm not hard lines, 5ft 8 for an exceptional

Specimen would be ok (but I'm scarred from coffee with a guy who could only kiss me stood on a step

What do you expect meeting 1 of snow whites dwarves whilst wearing 5 inch heels??

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not had many meets however when I have the common theme has been lots or talking before hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your pics and profile seem fine red if they go quiet then its there loss at the end off the day ive been stood up but hey thats life pkus being a fulltime single dad doesnt give me much time etc got too there place for a coffee then they cant be full off bs and the party can begin

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I've never been stood up, and only had one fella cancel - on the morning of the meet.

I chat for ages... Most meets have waited months to meet up, if they're going to go cold they've gotten bored before then.

Also, If something feels wrong, I stop the conversation. I'd rather have less meets than meet the wrong person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never been stood up, and only had one fella cancel - on the morning of the meet.

I chat for ages... Most meets have waited months to meet up, if they're going to go cold they've gotten bored before then.

Also, If something feels wrong, I stop the conversation. I'd rather have less meets than meet the wrong person "

nice crunchie lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must have scared the guy away

obviously not able to handle you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so need to up the level of chat.

I can do that - I'm a gobby sod lol

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

I got stood up in the same outfit !

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By *ockboyMan
over a year ago

Larkhall

They must be mad because you look hot as fuck in your pics.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Anyone that stands you up having just looked at your OMG pics must be bonkers!!!

There's hot, and then there's you, ever stood up again next, let me know, I'd make a great sub, straight off the bench, no warm up needed ??

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

You must be kidding!!! A single guy?? They make up 90% of the site!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You must be kidding!!! A single guy?? They make up 90% of the site!"

Yes but I have standards so whilst the numbers might be there it doesn't necessarily help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so need to up the level of chat.

I can do that - I'm a gobby sod lol"

We know how to shut you up tho

Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok so need to up the level of chat.

I can do that - I'm a gobby sod lol

We know how to shut you up tho

Haha"

oh reallly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so need to up the level of chat.

I can do that - I'm a gobby sod lol

We know how to shut you up tho

Haha

oh reallly "

There's defo something In the bag of doom for that haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so need to up the level of chat.

I can do that - I'm a gobby sod lol

We know how to shut you up tho

Haha

oh reallly

There's defo something In the bag of doom for that haha x"

Please leave my wee pal bag out of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody over 44 can reach you on your couples profile. Of course, perhaps you want only younger men, and that's a personal thing, fair enough. But some of us older guys can give you a good time too, - just maybe not in the same way as the younger stallions. Why not allow older contact ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it can't be that hard.... Jump on jump off dust your self off n walk of down the road with a smile on your face, men aren't that complicated

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nobody over 44 can reach you on your couples profile. Of course, perhaps you want only younger men, and that's a personal thing, fair enough. But some of us older guys can give you a good time too, - just maybe not in the same way as the younger stallions. Why not allow older contact ?

Because I don't want to???

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Because I don't want to???

simple answer lol

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By *uckoocuckooMan
over a year ago

Tayside/Fife

sorry red, but I don't believe this. I've met you (within a group) & if I got the chance of a solo meet then I would bite your hand off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"sorry red, but I don't believe this. I've met you (within a group) & if I got the chance of a solo meet then I would bite your hand off

Seriously we sat and tallied it up tonight.

I have had coffee with 3 guys, all of whom went quiet when asked to meet.

There have been 3 guys who I've spoken with, arranged a social meet, and then no shows

And even tonight I messaged a guy, he replied - I responded and his profile is now hidden!!!

I'm bloody cursed lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Actually 4 guys for coffee AND one guy we know as a couple!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't believe this forum and it just goes to confirm how many time wasters that's out there. From the profile and Reds stunning photos I can't imagine why any serious guy would not want to meet.

Am I missing something here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't believe this forum and it just goes to confirm how many time wasters that's out there. From the profile and Reds stunning photos I can't imagine why any serious guy would not want to meet.

Am I missing something here?"

Well the common factor is me - so one of three options:

1. Face like a slapped arse

2. I've photoshopped all images and actually resemble one of the clampits

3. My selection process is sh*te

You choose lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt any if those. But feel free to send a face pic ans I'll return the favour ( evrn though its not face pic fri lol)

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By *ay2571Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I can't believe this forum and it just goes to confirm how many time wasters that's out there. From the profile and Reds stunning photos I can't imagine why any serious guy would not want to meet.

Am I missing something here?

Well the common factor is me - so one of three options:

1. Face like a slapped arse

2. I've photoshopped all images and actually resemble one of the clampits

3. My selection process is sh*te

You choose lol "

I'm going for the latter,

I'm my experience a lot of guys, especially married ones like the idea of things more than the actually doing of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are a lovely, gorgeous, sexy lady, I doubt it's anything you're doing. I think that sometimes people are excited by the idea of meeting and then nerves kick in and they bottle it. I've been stood up by single guys a few times and I'm not even in your league.

Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out. "

I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?

Explain that ?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am guessing it's option 3 then if your photos are indeed true. You'll just have to go for the more mature type gent then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red, You've had a lot of compliments and a lot of OMG's which much be flattering but I think the reality is that there isn't really a way, beyond what you're already doing, for you to determine if a guy is going to be a timewaster or not.

It sounds like you're doing everything the right way and it might just genuinely dow to the fact you've picked some wrong 'uns!

They're either brutally shy in which case this is not the site for them or, and is probably more the case, either cheating married guys or they love the fantasy of getting naked with you but when it comes down to 'the moment' to even meet you, they pussy out! They probably cracked one out to the thought of you whilst in the shower getting ready then the 'motivation' to leave the house has gone!

You mentioned one guy was even from a couple, I think that would be something worth sticking with but maybe meeting as two couples first to check them out and then potentially meeting as a single later on?

Doesn't sound like you're doing anything wrong though, just the wrong guys unfortunately!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.

I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?

Explain that ?

Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.

Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.

Does that help?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Red, You've had a lot of compliments and a lot of OMG's which much be flattering but I think the reality is that there isn't really a way, beyond what you're already doing, for you to determine if a guy is going to be a timewaster or not.

It sounds like you're doing everything the right way and it might just genuinely dow to the fact you've picked some wrong 'uns!

Doesn't sound like you're doing anything wrong though, just the wrong guys unfortunately!

I have to pretty much agree with this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.

I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?

Explain that ?

Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.

Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.

Does that help?

V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!

I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol

Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I find it best to find my victims .... I mean prospective meets at socials etc. You get to know them a bit and can usually tell if they are keen

Good luck

Ps I'm also gobsmacked your struggling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just meet me il restore your faith. No wand tho! Haha

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.

I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?

Explain that ?

Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.

Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.

Does that help?

V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!

I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol

Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that

There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later

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over a year ago

Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.

I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?

Explain that ?

Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.

Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.

Does that help?

V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!

I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol

Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that

There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later

Is that who I think it is????

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.

I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?

Explain that ?

Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.

Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.

Does that help?

V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!

I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol

Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that

There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later

Is that who I think it is????"

If you're thinking of a tall gentleman then yes it most certainly is

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over a year ago

Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.

I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?

Explain that ?

Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.

Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.

Does that help?

V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!

I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol

Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that

There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later

Is that who I think it is????

If you're thinking of a tall gentleman then yes it most certainly is

Oooohhhh he ain't no short arse and I'd honestly say he'd be an excellent match for Red!

I miss that man mountain around here

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.

I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?

Explain that ?

Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.

Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.

Does that help?

V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!

I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol

Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that

There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later

Is that who I think it is????

If you're thinking of a tall gentleman then yes it most certainly is

Oooohhhh he ain't no short arse and I'd honestly say he'd be an excellent match for Red!

I miss that man mountain around here

He'll be back, I'm sure of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.

I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?

Explain that ?

Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.

Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.

Does that help?

V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!

I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol

Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that

There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later

Is that who I think it is????

If you're thinking of a tall gentleman then yes it most certainly is

Oooohhhh he ain't no short arse and I'd honestly say he'd be an excellent match for Red!

I miss that man mountain around here

He'll be back, I'm sure of it

Perving patrol for newbies is on!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.

I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?

Explain that ?

Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.

Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.

Does that help?

V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!

I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol

Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that

There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later

Is that who I think it is????

If you're thinking of a tall gentleman then yes it most certainly is

Oooohhhh he ain't no short arse and I'd honestly say he'd be an excellent match for Red!

I miss that man mountain around here

He'll be back, I'm sure of it

Perving patrol for newbies is on!

Woohoo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.

I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?

Explain that ?

Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.

Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.

Does that help?

V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!

I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol

Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that

There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later

Is that who I think it is????

If you're thinking of a tall gentleman then yes it most certainly is

Oooohhhh he ain't no short arse and I'd honestly say he'd be an excellent match for Red!

I miss that man mountain around here

He'll be back, I'm sure of it

Perving patrol for newbies is on!

Woohoo!

he sounds like a dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.

I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?

Explain that ?

Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.

Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.

Does that help?

V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!

I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol

Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that

There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later

Is that who I think it is????

If you're thinking of a tall gentleman then yes it most certainly is

Oooohhhh he ain't no short arse and I'd honestly say he'd be an excellent match for Red!

I miss that man mountain around here

He'll be back, I'm sure of it

Perving patrol for newbies is on!

Woohoo!

he sounds like a dream

Lol he has manners and is a complete gent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.

I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?

Explain that ?

Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.

Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.

Does that help?

V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!

I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol

Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that

There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later

Is that who I think it is????

If you're thinking of a tall gentleman then yes it most certainly is

Oooohhhh he ain't no short arse and I'd honestly say he'd be an excellent match for Red!

I miss that man mountain around here

He'll be back, I'm sure of it

Perving patrol for newbies is on!

Woohoo!

he sounds like a dream

Lol he has manners and is a complete gent

I can't compete with that lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.

I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?

Explain that ?

Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.

Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.

Does that help?

V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!

I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol

Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that

There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later

Is that who I think it is????

If you're thinking of a tall gentleman then yes it most certainly is

Oooohhhh he ain't no short arse and I'd honestly say he'd be an excellent match for Red!

I miss that man mountain around here

He'll be back, I'm sure of it

Perving patrol for newbies is on!

Woohoo!

he sounds like a dream

Lol he has manners and is a complete gent

I can't compete with that lol x"

Haha it just sounds odd when you say pleaae

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.

I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?

Explain that ?

Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.

Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.

Does that help?

V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!

I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol

Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that

There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later

Is that who I think it is????

If you're thinking of a tall gentleman then yes it most certainly is

Oooohhhh he ain't no short arse and I'd honestly say he'd be an excellent match for Red!

I miss that man mountain around here

He'll be back, I'm sure of it

Perving patrol for newbies is on!

Woohoo!

he sounds like a dream

Lol he has manners and is a complete gent

I can't compete with that lol x

Haha it just sounds odd when you say pleaae

Please**

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mr Dundee can be very polite, he most definitely can say please

Very curious about the man mountain lol

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Mr Dundee can be very polite, he most definitely can say please

Very curious about the man mountain lol"

Just been speaking to him and I think a new profile may appear by the weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's too long until the weekend! Lol

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"It's too long until the weekend! Lol"

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over a year ago

"Mr Dundee can be very polite, he most definitely can say please

Very curious about the man mountain lol"

Me too.

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By *uckoocuckooMan
over a year ago

Tayside/Fife

"I can't believe this forum and it just goes to confirm how many time wasters that's out there. From the profile and Reds stunning photos I can't imagine why any serious guy would not want to meet.

Am I missing something here?

Well the common factor is me - so one of three options:

1. Face like a slapped arse

2. I've photoshopped all images and actually resemble one of the clampits

3. My selection process is sh*te

You choose lol "

1. definitely not

2. no photoshop required

3. it most certainly is

sounds like you've been choosing the dreamers and not the dooers x

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