FabSwingers.com forum: jealousy and bitchness

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do some people think its a competition on here ??

Thought it was Nsa fun. But it seems it can turn into a competition. Or tit for tat.

I get you can like some people more and care about some people more. But when you get blacklisted because you meet someone its a bad day ???

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By *all saulMan
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

Sad but true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do some people think its a competition on here ??

Thought it was Nsa fun. But it seems it can turn into a competition. Or tit for tat.

I get you can like some people more and care about some people more. But when you get blacklisted because you meet someone its a bad day ???"

Are you talking about something that's happened to you or in general?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In general heard it a few times . When people judge you by who you have met with. Or they think its a contest ??

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

People love it when it's brought into public gives them even more of a kick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In general heard it a few times . When people judge you by who you have met with. Or they think its a contest ??"

I think with forum posts like "Best of" (I know it's only a bit of fun) some people can think it's a bit of competition on Fab.

As for meets, yeah I guess if you've met someone that someone else (for whatever reason) does not like then, they might just rule you out (whether that's right or wrong, it's their own choice)

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"People love it when it's brought into public gives them even more of a kick

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Totally agree .

with you

Deal with it and keep it out the forums because no one wants to know about other peoples dramas but some just cant help themselvs by dragging it out in public

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just amazes me other people judge you on other people gossip and never spent 2 mins with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People love it when it's brought into public gives them even more of a kick

Totally agree .

with you

Deal with it and keep it out the forums because no one wants to know about other peoples dramas but some just cant help themselvs by dragging it out in public "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not a personal issue . Ment in general.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Im one of those people and couldnt care less.if I choose to steer clear of folk because of who they have met or dont like how they act thats my choice I have no problem with others judging me on that. They mean diddly squat to me anyway

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

spot on crumpet.

people should meet people and judge for themselves in life some people just don't get on for many reasons. doesn't mean others won't get on with them.

try to always give everyone a chance

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you have been here long enough and posted similar to know the answer.......

some people just love the drama, the manipulation and down talking of others...

it won't change, WHY?....... because it reflects life

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"you have been here long enough and posted similar to know the answer.......

some people just love the drama, the manipulation and down talking of others...

it won't change, WHY?....... because it reflects life

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"you have been here long enough and posted similar to know the answer.......

some people just love the drama, the manipulation and down talking of others...

it won't change, WHY?....... because it reflects life

Very true _iew think I need you as my

PA. your a very wise person who's opinion I do value.

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By *gowbhoy4funMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Some ppl wont meet you due to other ppl you chat with or have met ..but at end of day they can think what they like its cert not going to stop me either chatting or meeting with someone id like to meet

So in short eh ..... Fuck their opinions

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"What do some people think its a competition on here ??

Thought it was Nsa fun. But it seems it can turn into a competition. Or tit for tat.

I get you can like some people more and care about some people more. But when you get blacklisted because you meet someone its a bad day ???"

Only becomes Tit for Tat if you respond to it .Otherwise just leaves them as a Tit .

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Some ppl wont meet you due to other ppl you chat with or have met ..but at end of day they can think what they like its cert not going to stop me either chatting or meeting with someone id like to meet

So in short eh ..... Fuck their opinions

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"What do some people think its a competition on here ??

Thought it was Nsa fun. But it seems it can turn into a competition. Or tit for tat.

I get you can like some people more and care about some people more. But when you get blacklisted because you meet someone its a bad day ???

Only becomes Tit for Tat if you respond to it .Otherwise just leaves them as a Tit .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So in short eh ..... Fuck their opinions

True true just reflects everyday life I suppose ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always been a bit of a life goal for me that some other woman would be jealous of me. I was always the plain Jane at school or the one who was picked on.

Sadly I'm still waiting on it happening ....

However in regards to fab it's certainly full of drama. It seems that everyone bangs on about discretion but many don't actually demonstrate it. Hence so many of the issues some experience.

It's also a shame that some people take fab and it's goings on far more seriously than they should. Or perhaps it over takes their 'real life'. I've never seen that end well sadly.

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By *ockyjockyMan
over a year ago

G63 countryside

I am what I am, I is what I is. You either like or you don't. Simples!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mabe need to go back to my hard hearted witch again. ?? LOL

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By *ockyjockyMan
over a year ago

G63 countryside

"Mabe need to go back to my hard hearted witch again. ?? LOL"

And there was me thinking all women on here were already hard-hearted witches!! Only kidding!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's always been a bit of a life goal for me that some other woman would be jealous of me. I was always the plain Jane at school or the one who was picked on.

Sadly I'm still waiting on it happening ....

However in regards to fab it's certainly full of drama. It seems that everyone bangs on about discretion but many don't actually demonstrate it. Hence so many of the issues some experience.

It's also a shame that some people take fab and it's goings on far more seriously than they should. Or perhaps it over takes their 'real life'. I've never seen that end well sadly.

Exactly this. Maybe if people were more discreet, competition would not be an issue. However, some seem to thrive on the drama and playing the "poor me" card while thoroughly enjoying the attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging and Discretion go hand in hand ...Unfortunatly it fails on here.

Verifications highlights insecurities in others.

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Just amazes me other people judge you on other people gossip and never spent 2 mins with you. "
basic human behaviour...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Jinty mcginty you couldnt be futher from the truth. I guess that was directed to me ?: don't believe in poor me . I also believe most people like attention why would you be on here otherwise. ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do some people think its a competition on here ??

Thought it was Nsa fun. But it seems it can turn into a competition. Or tit for tat.

I get you can like some people more and care about some people more. But when you get blacklisted because you meet someone its a bad day ???"

Sad but true, it's happened to us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont have this problem after 4 years I'm just here for the occasional perve.chat.and forum banter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jinty mcginty you couldnt be futher from the truth. I guess that was directed to me ?: don't believe in poor me . I also believe most people like attention why would you be on here otherwise. ???"

I don't believe most people are on here for attention.......surely if thats the case you'd be on the wrong site?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Jinty mcginty you couldnt be futher from the truth. I guess that was directed to me ?: don't believe in poor me . I also believe most people like attention why would you be on here otherwise. ???

I don't believe most people are on here for attention.......surely if thats the case you'd be on the wrong site? "
I'm very like you too and don't believe people joined here for attention.

I prefer to keep what I do and my activities on here discrete.

But like some have said many to like to play it out for all to see very much in the public eye.

And may like the drama they create.

In my opinion these are the people who like to be in the limelight even if it's for all the wrong reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jinty mcginty you couldnt be futher from the truth. I guess that was directed to me ?: don't believe in poor me . I also believe most people like attention why would you be on here otherwise. ???

I don't believe most people are on here for attention.......surely if thats the case you'd be on the wrong site?

I'm very like you too and don't believe people joined here for attention.

I prefer to keep what I do and my activities on here discrete.

But like some have said many to like to play it out for all to see very much in the public eye.

And may like the drama they create.

In my opinion these are the people who like to be in the limelight even if it's for all the wrong reasons. "

100% agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jinty mcginty you couldnt be futher from the truth. I guess that was directed to me ?: don't believe in poor me . I also believe most people like attention why would you be on here otherwise. ???

I don't believe most people are on here for attention.......surely if thats the case you'd be on the wrong site?

I'm very like you too and don't believe people joined here for attention.

I prefer to keep what I do and my activities on here discrete.

But like some have said many to like to play it out for all to see very much in the public eye.

And may like the drama they create.

In my opinion these are the people who like to be in the limelight even if it's for all the wrong reasons.

100% agreed

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anyone want to see my boaby pics

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Jinty mcginty you couldnt be futher from the truth. I guess that was directed to me ?: don't believe in poor me . I also believe most people like attention why would you be on here otherwise. ???

I don't believe most people are on here for attention.......surely if thats the case you'd be on the wrong site?

I'm very like you too and don't believe people joined here for attention.

I prefer to keep what I do and my activities on here discrete.

But like some have said many to like to play it out for all to see very much in the public eye.

And may like the drama they create.

In my opinion these are the people who like to be in the limelight even if it's for all the wrong reasons.

100% agreed

anyone want to see my boaby pics

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no you attention seeker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jinty mcginty you couldnt be futher from the truth. I guess that was directed to me ?: don't believe in poor me . I also believe most people like attention why would you be on here otherwise. ???

I don't believe most people are on here for attention.......surely if thats the case you'd be on the wrong site?

I'm very like you too and don't believe people joined here for attention.

I prefer to keep what I do and my activities on here discrete.

But like some have said many to like to play it out for all to see very much in the public eye.

And may like the drama they create.

In my opinion these are the people who like to be in the limelight even if it's for all the wrong reasons.

100% agreed

anyone want to see my boaby pics

no you attention seeker

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hahaha I can but try

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So Nsa sex and the social side isn't a forum of attention then ?? A need your looking for ??

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have never had this done to me well not that i am aware of Ive been on her a long long long time and i meet who i want put up verifications when i wantand it aint a competition to say HEY LOOK AT ME i see who i want to and if anyone does,nt like hard luck but sadly iknow peple who have suffered badly very very badly because of the bitchiness and name calling on here There is no need for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So Nsa sex and the social side isn't a forum of attention then ?? A need your looking for ??"

I'm not understanding your thought process at all here.

Not sure how you arrive at sex or meeting someone socially can be attention seeking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never had this done to me well not that i am aware of Ive been on her a long long long time and i meet who i want put up verifications when i wantand it aint a competition to say HEY LOOK AT ME i see who i want to and if anyone does,nt like hard luck but sadly iknow peple who have suffered badly very very badly because of the bitchiness and name calling on here There is no need for it

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well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Amen heather .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So Nsa sex and the social side isn't a forum of attention then ?? A need your looking for ??

I'm not understanding your thought process at all here.

Not sure how you arrive at sex or meeting someone socially can be attention seeking?

Its a forum of attention you seek.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So Nsa sex and the social side isn't a forum of attention then ?? A need your looking for ??

I'm not understanding your thought process at all here.

Not sure how you arrive at sex or meeting someone socially can be attention seeking?

Its a forum of attention you seek.

Makes absolutely no sense to me but fair enough if that's your opinion.

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

I've noticed it a bit and unfortunetly been in centre of it. but also noticed a lot of people with big wooden spoon's who seem to like to mix it up between the folk involved.

it's that I find more annoying. why message someone to say someone else is talking about them. I don't care if folk don't like my pictures. my statuses. my attitude. I don't care if they tell people not to meet me.

i mean surely its best to simply block

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"So Nsa sex and the social side isn't a forum of attention then ?? A need your looking for ??"
I'm not understanding your though process either.

We're all here for sex that should be private between the people involved.

Attending socials is a way of meeting potential playmates so where the attention seeking in that?

If more kept their activities on here more private it would cut out a lot of these type of posts.

As in life people will always talk about others it's human nature but to be honest I'd rather spend my time talking about the nice genuine decent people than those who I don't give a toss about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is like a feckin Pantomine ..

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Ok This site is a spicy extra if and when needed ....I don't look at this site to give me attention or need attention from it as my life goes on whether its part of my life or not.

I do think people tend to live through the site a little bit and it kind of takes over and over involvement with the site and the people on it can turn it and life into a bit of a circus so to speak. I don't wish to offend anyone by posting this its just how I have seen things go time after time in the last 8 years I have spent on the site.

I think if it's effecting people that much they need to take a step back and reassess.

Swinging should be as I said a spicy extra in life not the spice that makes you exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is like a feckin Pantomine ..

OH NO IT ISN'T!......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yip got a bit childish. Guilty for the tit for

Tat. Then again free ccountry everybody thinks different.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"This is like a feckin Pantomine ..

OH NO IT ISN'T!......

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watch out he's behind you

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

That sounds good J acs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is like a feckin Pantomine ..

OH NO IT ISN'T!......

watch out he's behind you

OH NO HE ISN'T!......*Looks over shoulder to make sure*

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"This is like a feckin Pantomine ..

OH NO IT ISN'T!......

watch out he's behind you

OH NO HE ISN'T!......*Looks over shoulder to make sure* "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jinty mcginty you couldnt be futher from the truth. I guess that was directed to me ?: don't believe in poor me . I also believe most people like attention why would you be on here otherwise. ???"

You guess wrong...but quick to jump in there so I will apologise if you felt "singled out".

I don't think for a second most people like attention...most like to just happily get on with their business discreetly and drama free and there are various kinds and levels of "attention" after all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do some people think its a competition on here ??

Thought it was Nsa fun. But it seems it can turn into a competition. Or tit for tat.

I get you can like some people more and care about some people more. But when you get blacklisted because you meet someone its a bad day ???"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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