FabSwingers.com forum: Nasty messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just putting this out there do anyone woman men or couples etc receive horrible nasty messages I received one 2 days ago with a lot of stuff on it which things said we're not true and I am really freaked by it. I did not know the guy and wasn't given the option to report or respond as the message was clearly sent then I was blocked and it completely came from no where is this common or should I just delete and be done with fab?? X

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Absolutely not. If you remember the profile name report it to admin in a private message.

Do not be put off by some complete waster like that.

Sxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Absolutely not. If you remember the profile name report it to admin in a private message.

Do not be put off by some complete waster like that.

Sxx

He said things like the whole site talks about me and slag me etc and alot of other stuff and I'm confused I haven't met anyone of here for months other than someone I know. It's just really put me off x

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

I would contact admin using blue bar at bottom ... Give them details and let them look into it .

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

As people have said just report the profile and block you know what happens if you cut off someone's oxygen supply.

There isn't many who haven't had it at one point on here xxx

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

No no no. Do not worry about it. He sounds like the kind of person that can't take rejection and has to retaliate.

We have met some great easy going people on here so please don't be put off by one wanker making up stories.

He doesn't know you, he never will. Just don't be put off as there is some great people on here

S xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"No no no. Do not worry about it. He sounds like the kind of person that can't take rejection and has to retaliate.

We have met some great easy going people on here so please don't be put off by one wanker making up stories.

He doesn't know you, he never will. Just don't be put off as there is some great people on here

S xx"

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Unfortunately there are some emotionally unstable people on here. Report, block and think no more about it.

If this is someone you've never spoken to before it sounds like it's just someone who gets his kicks abusing strangers, if you have spoken to him then the poor baby is obviously butthurt at being rejected.

Either way, not worth your time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Unfortunately there are some emotionally unstable people on here. Report, block and think no more about it.

Either way, not worth your time. "

I've honestly never spoke to him before no idea who they r. Xx

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

He's a loser, don't waste another second on him

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Unfortunately there are some emotionally unstable people on here. Report, block and think no more about it.

Either way, not worth your time. "

Very much this

There are some very strange folk on fab unfortunately

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

".....

I've honestly never spoke to him before no idea who they r. Xx"

If you have no idea who they are, how can you be sure you've never spoken to him/ her?

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

".....

I've honestly never spoke to him before no idea who they r. Xx

If you have no idea who they are, how can you be sure you've never spoken to him/ her?"

Seriously? Do you have to be so pedantic

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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I've honestly never spoke to him before no idea who they r. Xx

If you have no idea who they are, how can you be sure you've never spoken to him/ her?"

All I can see on message is where he's from and name can't see anything more as I'm. Blocked . It's possible it could be someone with a new or fake profile that I've spoken to in the past I just don't know. I have like 6 friends on my friends list as I don't feel need to have loads on their. I'm proper confused by it. It's just that it came from nowhere with no reason behind it x

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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I've honestly never spoke to him before no idea who they r. Xx

If you have no idea who they are, how can you be sure you've never spoken to him/ her?

Seriously? Do you have to be so pedantic

Seems to me a fairly obvious question when serious accusations are being made.

I take the view that, where allegations of fakery are made, those who know you will know the truth and those who don't know you are of no importance.

Publicising that you've been 'abused' does more harm than good.

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By *arried adventurers!Couple
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

I've had this before.

These people just pick a random profile, send some abuse then run away!

It's honesty not with thinking about for a second. Just pathetic people who have nothing better to do

The majority of people in here are lovely though x

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

i get nasty messages all the time, but nothing as menacing as the letters i get from the TV licence where they stop short of threatening torture and death for non payment of a tv licence....i don't even have a TV or time to watch one much less the inclination and if i did then i most certainly wouldn't be watching the bbc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had abusive messages all because they were butt hurt for being told I didn't want to meet them.

Report and move on hun. Just a sad wee fucker if that's how he thinks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

".....

I've honestly never spoke to him before no idea who they r. Xx

If you have no idea who they are, how can you be sure you've never spoken to him/ her?

Seriously? Do you have to be so pedantic o

Seems to me a fairly obvious question when serious accusations are being made.

I take the view that, where allegations of fakery are made, those who know you will know the truth and those who don't know you are of no importance.

Publicising that you've been 'abused' does more harm than good."

I was only looking for advice I am only on here for fun like most as I've said going from tht message I gt I don't know them and feel their was no need for it ok. I said abusive message also not actual abuse

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

".....

I take the view that, where allegations of fakery are made, those who know you will know the truth and those who don't know you are of no importance.

Publicising that you've been 'abused' does more harm than good.

Fab probably has more advice threads on this topic than on any other. Have a look. See if anyone offers any different advice.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

".....

I take the view that, where allegations of fakery are made, those who know you will know the truth and those who don't know you are of no importance.

Publicising that you've been 'abused' does more harm than good.

Fab probably has more advice threads on this topic than on any other. Have a look. See if anyone offers any different advice."

Really? More than timewasters? Or guys complaining they can't get a shag? Doubtful.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Timewasters and can't get a shaggers aren't usually asking for advice. They just want (perfectly reasonably) to have a moan.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Timewasters and can't get a shaggers aren't usually asking for advice. They just want (perfectly reasonably) to have a moan."

I actually ain't here to moan it has actually rattled me

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Timewasters and can't get a shaggers aren't usually asking for advice. They just want (perfectly reasonably) to have a moan.

I actually ain't here to moan it has actually rattled me"

The rest of us don't think you're moaning honey. Don't rise to it

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Timewasters and can't get a shaggers aren't usually asking for advice. They just want (perfectly reasonably) to have a moan."

Ok, how about the "what's wrong with my profile?" ones then?

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Timewasters and can't get a shaggers aren't usually asking for advice. They just want (perfectly reasonably) to have a moan.

I actually ain't here to moan it has actually rattled me"

I didn't accuse you. I was writing, as you can see, about timewasters and can't get a shaggers.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Report from the profile or mail and let Admin take a look

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