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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I had this woman contact me on plenty of fish a few months ago chatted for a bit talked about meeting for a coffee and then by chance I came across a profile she had on here aswell so chatted some more, never got round to a social due to work and family commitments and she just kind of disappeared off the radar and shut down her fab account . Last week while browsing who's near I click on a profile and it's the same woman with a new profile so I send a wink and a message, we start chatting and arrange a social for tonight after exchanging phone numbers, several pictures and chatting on WhatsApp for a few days. Now I've had a hectic few days with moving house so haven't really been active on here that much but when I was on on Monday I noticed she's deleted her fab profile again so I sent a message on WhatsApp just saying hi and it still hasn't been delivered leading me to think that she's deleted WhatsApp. Now I think all this is a bit of an extreme way to get out of a social when a simple hi I've changed my mind would have done. So does it look like I've been stitched up or maybe she was playing away and been caught out. Not sure what to think lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Forget and move on"

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

HE probably changed HIS mind again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"HE probably changed HIS mind again "

never thought of that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"HE probably changed HIS mind again "

Lmao!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"HE probably changed HIS mind again

never thought of that lol "
if u never actually spoke then there is every possibility

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"HE probably changed HIS mind again

never thought of that lol if u never actually spoke then there is every possibility "

Ah well you live and learn, god Damn it lol

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire, Glasgow

Yes, plenty 'players' around here, of both sexes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe she just got fed up waiting on you move house etc

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"HE probably changed HIS mind again "

Hahaha my first thought too lol..other thought is if it is a she ...she probably loves the thought but doesnt have the bottle to go through with things

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By *7JayMan
over a year ago

Methil/edinburgh

Lol forget about it and move on. As others have said it was a) a guy with a female profile (lol not many of those about ) b) a lady who wanted to meet and lost the nerve or c) someone who gets their kicks from the talk and build up to a meet then goes quiet and moves on when they have had enough and to do it to someone else. ive run into c quite a few times sadly lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lol forget about it and move on. As others have said it was a) a guy with a female profile (lol not many of those about ) b) a lady who wanted to meet and lost the nerve or c) someone who gets their kicks from the talk and build up to a meet then goes quiet and moves on when they have had enough and to do it to someone else. ive run into c quite a few times sadly lol."

Yes it's definitely a live and learn type of moment unfortunately, she was damn hot whoever she was if she was even real lol thing is because I was talking to this person on WhatsApp I've got a mobile number for them, was in two minds whether to send a text message or even phone it but I've decided to just learn from the experience and move on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dame thing happened to us, wonder if it's the same girl.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dame thing happened to us, wonder if it's the same girl."

This one had lots of tattoos

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Lol forget about it and move on. As others have said it was a) a guy with a female profile (lol not many of those about ) b) a lady who wanted to meet and lost the nerve or c) someone who gets their kicks from the talk and build up to a meet then goes quiet and moves on when they have had enough and to do it to someone else. ive run into c quite a few times sadly lol.

Yes it's definitely a live and learn type of moment unfortunately, she was damn hot whoever she was if she was even real lol thing is because I was talking to this person on WhatsApp I've got a mobile number for them, was in two minds whether to send a text message or even phone it but I've decided to just learn from the experience and move on lol "

Don't text or call. Keep your dignity and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd make a good detective x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lol forget about it and move on. As others have said it was a) a guy with a female profile (lol not many of those about ) b) a lady who wanted to meet and lost the nerve or c) someone who gets their kicks from the talk and build up to a meet then goes quiet and moves on when they have had enough and to do it to someone else. ive run into c quite a few times sadly lol.

Yes it's definitely a live and learn type of moment unfortunately, she was damn hot whoever she was if she was even real lol thing is because I was talking to this person on WhatsApp I've got a mobile number for them, was in two minds whether to send a text message or even phone it but I've decided to just learn from the experience and move on lol

Don't text or call. Keep your dignity and move on "

Yeah definitely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You'd make a good detective x"

You'd be surprised

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