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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you start chatting with someone, exchange face pics, decide to friend each other, continue chat do they then suddenly stop and defriend you...? Lol

Now I expect the reply of they aren't interested, but if thats the case why chat after the face pic, why continue chat and then friend...

Some might say maybe the chat didn't go well... it was going well enough to be friends, and then continued till a point where the convo ended that day.

Im just curious of others experience. Ive been on and off here for yrs but still some of these female members really confuse me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a fickle bunch.

I wouldn't try to work us out or take it personally.

Accept and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you start chatting with someone, exchange face pics, decide to friend each other, continue chat do they then suddenly stop and defriend you...? Lol

Now I expect the reply of they aren't interested, but if thats the case why chat after the face pic, why continue chat and then friend...

Some might say maybe the chat didn't go well... it was going well enough to be friends, and then continued till a point where the convo ended that day.

Im just curious of others experience. Ive been on and off here for yrs but still some of these female members really confuse me lol"

Know where your coming from mate been there even got as far as arranging a meet time and date then all of sudden stop texting block me etc just time wasters

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

It happens sometimes interest is lost or sometimes someone has said something that's just put me right off.

Just move on and accept rather than try and fathom out the reasons why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found myself having to unfriend some because they get pushy about when we can meet. If I say on a Monday I can't meet, I really don't want to read every day of that week "when can we meet?"

But like NMD said, it just takes a small reason to stop contact.

It happens

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I've found myself having to unfriend some because they get pushy about when we can meet. If I say on a Monday I can't meet, I really don't want to read every day of that week "when can we meet?"

But like NMD said, it just takes a small reason to stop contact.

It happens "

Ooh very much this, it's one of the things that really grinds my gears! If I've said I've got no free time for ages it means just that.... Not that I'm free the next day, I've got way more going on in my life than fab

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By *rmagiteMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Busy, busy, busy.... It happens, some people just want to feel about and take time to think... rushing can leave you feeling used or guilty for some. I noticed younger people feel hurt more if you say no thanks or have to cancel. Don't be! One nighters aren't all that it's cracked up to be.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Ahh you are young grass hopper you have much to learn about the fickle sex ....

first lesson..dont try to understand them....it will be your downfall

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By *ustcantgetenuf50Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

It happens in reverse too. Men, couples all do this. For me personally, it usually means the attraction fades for many various reasons.

It's just one of those things and just say ......NEXT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I clear out my friends list every couple of days. Usually because I can't remember why I friended them in the first place!

Definitely getting old...

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By *ustcantgetenuf50Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I clear out my friends list every couple of days. Usually because I can't remember why I friended them in the first place!

Definitely getting old..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is what it is what it is ??

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"I clear out my friends list every couple of days. Usually because I can't remember why I friended them in the first place!

Definitely getting old...

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Hahaha if i done that i wouldnt have any lol

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By *eahWoman
over a year ago

full of numpties

Sometimes it's hard as I hate hurting people's feelings if there's no attraction there but find it hard to say that ..... And I definitely agree about the pushy when can we meet ones .... Sometimes just easier to stop talking x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good to hear from all. I understand the pushy meet stuff however with that nit being the case...

Anyways, nothing taken personally, no feelings hurt. Conclusion, ignore and move on lol

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