FabSwingers.com forum: Would you have sex with someone you wouldn't date?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There's a thread over in the lounge just now about men having sex with certain types but wouldn't be seen out with them or introduce them to friends etc

I think this could be a question you could extend to everyone.

So would you sleep with someone you'd be embarrassed to date?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

100 % No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope but it takes all sorts ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grrrr iPhones make smiley faces into question marks

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

And it doesnt matter how durty they are in the bedroom ....ohh wait ..ermmmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It certainly kicked off on the other thread, entertainment right there

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By *arried adventurers!Couple
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

I'd never be embarrassed to be seen with anyone....... I would never think if myself as being so superior that I have the right to be "embarrassed" to be seen with someone. If that makes sense........

If I like someone enough to sleep with them then I would be just as happy to go out with them too!

But then I've never really cared what anyone thought before lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hell yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh it's Ricky Suave lol no surprises there lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree that I'm not that shallow. However when I think about it a bit deeper I think it probably happens much more than people might realise.

For example in a club situation. You might play with people that were clearly never going to be getting your phone number

There's also those that are perhaps experiments. Really not your type but you fancy trying something different. I know I've been the experiment at least twice.

The NSA aspect of this site tends to make all these things more acceptable and in some ways perhaps expected.

It does make you wonder..

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I dont play at clubs ..for me i will only play with fems im attracted to hence why i can be quite clear..tho i couldnt date them if i wanted to ..sensual temptress would have my nuts lol

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Yes ... Plenty people we have had fun with but wouldn't class them as the type to have a relationship with .... Sex and swinging is about sexual pleasure and you can have that from someone you wouldn't nessesarily date or wanna take home lol

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By *arried adventurers!Couple
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

"Yes ... Plenty people we have had fun with but wouldn't class them as the type to have a relationship with .... Sex and swinging is about sexual pleasure and you can have that from someone you wouldn't nessesarily date or wanna take home lol "

I agree with this.... I'd sleep with someone that I wouldn't want to date per se. In fact, the best sex of my life was with someone I really didn't like very much lol

However the question was around being embarrassed to date someone and that's where I would have an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh it's Ricky Suave lol no surprises there lol

barbers floor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't use the word embarassed because thats not the reason ... but I have slept with people that I wouldn't date ... its more about knowing it wouldn't work because outside the bedroom your not really compatible or if they are the type of person you couldnt trust as far as you could throw them for a commited relationship but thats not a concern when its just sex and you know they cant hurt you

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

I agree with this.... I'd sleep with someone that I wouldn't want to date per se. In fact, the best sex of my life was with someone I really didn't like very much lol

However the question was around being embarrassed to date someone and that's where I would have an issue. "

And again there's been a few my parents and family wouldn't like lol that's for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh it's Ricky Suave lol no surprises there lol

barbers floor

You lost me... That's not unusual on here though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh it's Ricky Suave lol no surprises there lol

barbers floor

You lost me... That's not unusual on here though

there is a saying for someone who would shag anyone, he would shag a barbers floor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you cant figure it out, it means he would shag anything with hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you cant figure it out, it means he would shag anything with hair"

Thanks for the definition... One good reason for having no hair I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you cant figure it out, it means he would shag anything with hair

Thanks for the definition... One good reason for having no hair I guess

yeah there is something good about nasty sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you cant figure it out, it means he would shag anything with hair

Thanks for the definition... One good reason for having no hair I guess

yeah there is something good about nasty sex

don't think I said anything about THAT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my definition of nasty sex might be different so ill refrain from divulging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my definition of nasty sex might be different so ill refrain from divulging

I'm very sure it is...

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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Yes. I don't actually want to date at all just now, but that's not stopping me from doing the other thing lol... Like others have said, curiosity, temptation, heat of the moment, etc can also influence a decision against what you think you would typically go or not go for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but I wouldn't have sex with someone I didn't fancy

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

As long as they were single no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I don't actually want to date at all just now, but that's not stopping me from doing the other thing lol... Like others have said, curiosity, temptation, heat of the moment, etc can also influence a decision against what you think you would typically go or not go for."

Are you really only 24?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't date, so yes, I would. Also wouldn't necessarily want to date younger men, but prefer them in my bed

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I've met and had sex with guys I wouldn't date,

I've not met anyone I'd be ashamed to be seen with in public though

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Good lord.... Yes

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By *976scottMan
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

"Yes but I wouldn't have sex with someone I didn't fancy

My thoughts exactly!

I couldn't have sex for the sake of it with someone I didn't feel attracted too but have met people I wouldn't date for various reasons!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would only have sex with someone I was attracted too. Always have a social meet 1st in a public place so again would only meet if not ashamed to be seen in public with.

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I agree that I'm not that shallow. However when I think about it a bit deeper I think it probably happens much more than people might realise.

For example in a club situation. You might play with people that were clearly never going to be getting your phone number

There's also those that are perhaps experiments. Really not your type but you fancy trying something different. I know I've been the experiment at least twice.

The NSA aspect of this site tends to make all these things more acceptable and in some ways perhaps expected.

It does make you wonder.."

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By *arried adventurers!Couple
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

"Yes but I wouldn't have sex with someone I didn't fancy

Totally agree! I used to have my "type" in my head and thought I knew what that was. As I've been exploring more I find that I don't have a type at all and that attraction is very unique and often takes me by surprise!

However, I absolutely couldn't have sex with someone I wasn't attracted to on some level, be it physically or mentally

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By *ouncingBiscuitsWoman
over a year ago

toy town, Glasgow

"Yes but I wouldn't have sex with someone I didn't fancy

However, I absolutely couldn't have sex with someone I wasn't attracted to on some level, be it physically or mentally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dating to me means looking at a possible relationship,

so no..there are some I wouldnt introduce to friends n family, most likely a huge age difference or if they were married of course..but really, its about whether I can have or want a relationship and vice versa.

none of its being shallow really, just a reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've met and had sex with guys I wouldn't date,

I've not met anyone I'd be ashamed to be seen with in public though

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By *ntirelyuptoyouCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

There are people I know from right away are only good for a one night stand and I've had no interest in swapping numbers in the morning, but that's had nothing g to do with their physical appearance and more their attitude or personality. There has to be some sort of attraction for me to fuck them. That attraction doesn't come from looks alone though.

If someone is too ashamed to date someone because of what their friends may say it just reeks of insecurity and immaturity! It's usually those people who moan that they can't find a partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we have both done.

Not embarrassed, more curiousity got the better of us.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

There must be few in here ...or id never have got laid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this not the essence of swinging ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this not the essence of swinging ? "

in the essence of swinging we would not even be here..any of us singles..so..nope..it's not

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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Are you really only 24?

Yeah? Was it something I said?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry paddy but I never mentioned singles, was just suggesting the essence of swinging was sampling something that you don't currently have at home or wherever and that you fancy something sexually other than what is at hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course I would. I wouldn't have sex with everyone I meet but to me swinging is about finding people you have enough connection with to have great sex. Dating is about spending time with someone you like on a different level and then moving things into the bedroom ...unless they're particularly hot , in which case we wouldn't be out in public much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course I would. I wouldn't have sex with everyone I meet but to me swinging is about finding people you have enough connection with to have great sex. Dating is about spending time with someone you like on a different level and then moving things into the bedroom ...unless they're particularly hot , in which case we wouldn't be out in public much

Agree with that! I don't want to date people. I want to enjoy a nice evening and if it goes to sex then brilliant! But won't be walking hand in hand with them around Asdas!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done, but that was when I was young and stupid

I'm no longer young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd never be embarrassed to be seen with anyone....... I would never think if myself as being so superior that I have the right to be "embarrassed" to be seen with someone. If that makes sense........

If I like someone enough to sleep with them then I would be just as happy to go out with them too!

But then I've never really cared what anyone thought before lol "

Brilliant answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you really only 24?

Yeah? Was it something I said?

You come across much more mature than a lot of men your age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would sleep with someone I wouldn't date because some guys I find physically attractive I wouldn't match with on an intellectual side of things and I don't date someone just for the physical side of things. I fell in love with mr's personality before his physical attractiveness he's my perfect guy haha just lucky we're willing to share each other lol.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"There's a thread over in the lounge just now about men having sex with certain types but wouldn't be seen out with them or introduce them to friends etc

I think this could be a question you could extend to everyone.

So would you sleep with someone you'd be embarrassed to date? "

Doubtful

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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Are you really only 24?

Yeah? Was it something I said?

You come across much more mature than a lot of men your age.

So I am constantly told. lol.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Would you have sex with someone you wouldn't date?

Of course.

I have dated people that I like as a person as well as looks but see them as potential long term relationships.

That's not to say that I would sleep with anyone, there has to be a connection, both in personalities and in attraction.

(Mr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have both slept with people we wouldn't date. But that was because the relationship wouldn't work, not because we were embarrassed.

-Mrs-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quick simple answer.....no

Reason?

I've got to a meeting of minds

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

As I only meet guys when I'm in girl mode then yes, I've slept with people I'd never date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I wouldn't sleep with someone I wouldn't date, but that's just my opinion.

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By *uckoocuckooMan
over a year ago

Tayside/Fife

sleep with - no

have a sexual encounter - yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No on both counts, there must be a spark for either to happen - standards and all that

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By *uckoocuckooMan
over a year ago

Tayside/Fife

"No on both counts, there must be a spark for either to happen - standards and all that

I agree, but once the demon drink has taken effect my standards have been known to slip slightly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Needs to be some sort of attraction. Mabe clash personality wise. But great sex wise.

Yes there's men who I couldnt live with but enjoy been in bed with. Comes down to if its just great sex then yes.

Different sex with someone you really have the hots for more senual sex . Means more .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't date so,,,,,yes

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