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By *eckyWithTheGoodHair OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Or does anyone else get put off meeting guys/couples when they go on and on about meeting ?? Iv chatted to lots of folk who seem nice then its like pure pressure to meet. Puts me rite off 2bh, i like the messaging back n forth i think it makes the eventual meeting more fun. Sadly tho some peeps seem to think u will just say hi then disappear. I hate being pressured and i cant stand the sometimes downright desperation. What happened to playing it cool ? And dont get me started on the negative profiles and stats. Can we all put our happy faces on pretty please ?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Or does anyone else get put off meeting guys/couples when they go on and on about meeting ?? Iv chatted to lots of folk who seem nice then its like pure pressure to meet. Puts me rite off 2bh, i like the messaging back n forth i think it makes the eventual meeting more fun. Sadly tho some peeps seem to think u will just say hi then disappear. I hate being pressured and i cant stand the sometimes downright desperation. What happened to playing it cool ? And dont get me started on the negative profiles and stats. Can we all put our happy faces on pretty please ? "
Totally agree a slow flirty build up wins hands down in my books.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does anyone else get put off meeting guys/couples when they go on and on about meeting ?? Iv chatted to lots of folk who seem nice then its like pure pressure to meet. Puts me rite off 2bh, i like the messaging back n forth i think it makes the eventual meeting more fun. Sadly tho some peeps seem to think u will just say hi then disappear. I hate being pressured and i cant stand the sometimes downright desperation. What happened to playing it cool ? And dont get me started on the negative profiles and stats. Can we all put our happy faces on pretty please ? Totally agree a slow flirty build up wins hands down in my books. "

Yh I got my happy face on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't beat some flirty horny chat to get prepared for a meet lol

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By *eckyWithTheGoodHair OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"Or does anyone else get put off meeting guys/couples when they go on and on about meeting ?? Iv chatted to lots of folk who seem nice then its like pure pressure to meet. Puts me rite off 2bh, i like the messaging back n forth i think it makes the eventual meeting more fun. Sadly tho some peeps seem to think u will just say hi then disappear. I hate being pressured and i cant stand the sometimes downright desperation. What happened to playing it cool ? And dont get me started on the negative profiles and stats. Can we all put our happy faces on pretty please ? Totally agree a slow flirty build up wins hands down in my books. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't tell you the amount of people that have missed out on a horny night with me/us lol, because they were too pushy. It puts me right off.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Totally agree a slow flirty build up wins hands down in my books. "

100% this if memory serves lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Totally agree a slow flirty build up wins hands down in my books.

100% this if memory serves lol "
your memory's not that bad is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate to be too pushy but then again for me it's then difficult to know when to broach the subject of a meet. Confused.com sometimes for me LOL

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I often think too that too much chat sometimes things just fizzle out and a meet doesn't happen.

Its all about the timing and vibes your getting from the person your chatting to whether it's the right time to ask them if they would like to meet.

I know why I'm here and I'm not afraid to ask to meet either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often think too that too much chat sometimes things just fizzle out and a meet doesn't happen.

Its all about the timing and vibes your getting from the person your chatting to whether it's the right time to ask them if they would like to meet.

I know why I'm here and I'm not afraid to ask to meet either. "

I have had some good meets both ways to be honest chatting for a while and also a few messages then meet although they are usually the no show meets lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often think too that too much chat sometimes things just fizzle out and a meet doesn't happen.

Its all about the timing and vibes your getting from the person your chatting to whether it's the right time to ask them if they would like to meet.

I know why I'm here and I'm not afraid to ask to meet either. "

Yh fizzle out seems to happen to me lol maybe its because I'm new to the swingers scene

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

flirty back and forth would do my nut in.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and i would never ever do flirting with a couple.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

I think people forget not everyone uses the site the same way .

Some like fuck n go

Some like to get to know people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people forget not everyone uses the site the same way .

Some like fuck n go

Some like to get to know people "

Yep a bit like me hehe

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By *eckyWithTheGoodHair OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Yeh obvz everyone has their own preference to what they like and how they use the site.... Was jus having a wee rant as i really do hate feeling pressurised. Each to their own n all that. I like a flirty fun build up personally.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

We like a build up to most of the time these days so I agree with you there

But there are those who just wanna have a chat n go

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