FabSwingers.com forum: Advice needed xx

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My hubby and I are relatively new to this and are gradually working through our list lol. It's proving difficult for us to find a woman for him to play with while I watch.

The problem seems to be, the women either want me to join, which I may do, or they think he's cheating on me and it goes nowhere.

My question is, is this an unattainable fantasy?

Is he better meeting through a single guy profile and then bringing the subject up after a few messages?

We like to be honest with everyone we contact and would rather be upfront in the beginning.

Xxxx

By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

Think you need to make it clearer in your profile exactly what you are looking for.

The fact you say...."Initially, looking for a couple or girl to play and experiment with us" (US!) then its not surprising people think the worst when you drop the bombshell

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks. You could be right, we haven't changed the profile text for a while ( didn't think anyone read it anyway lol).

The problem is we still want to meet couples primarily, this fantasy is just my " little side line" and I have plenty more after this, so to change the profile to accommodate it seems like hard work haha.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your a Couple ....You have the opertunity to meet other Couples ..

Whats the difference in you watching your Husband with another Woman from the Couple ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We do that too Rawk, but with another couple, I'd be with the guy, hopefully.

In this fantasy, i don't want to do anything but watch and direct a little, and take care of myself. It's purely about me watching my hubby with another chick. Xx

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come down to blackpool with the Scottish fabbers weekend I know a couple of girls going who would be up for that and then there would be others in infusions on the Saturday it's 16/17th oct we just got given extra rooms next door to original hotel