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What would put you off meeting someone ?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Okay so your chatting away and things are going good, you've discussed a potential meet then they say something that puts you right off meeting them .

Anyone had this before and what was it that made you change your mind ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chatting to a woman for ages including on the phone agreed to meet for a nice meal drops the bombshell she has 5 kids and they are coming as well quick change of heart

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Chatting to a woman for ages including on the phone agreed to meet for a nice meal drops the bombshell she has 5 kids and they are coming as well quick change of heart "
jesus wtf lol god thats a cracker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly that's what I said nothing against kids but to drop a bombshell like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly that's what I said nothing against kids but to drop a bombshell like that

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

God i am sooooo boring i dont have any funny or weird stories on the subject ..i need to get out more ..think something that would put me off is any mention of drugs ie hash/green etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chatting to a woman for ages including on the phone agreed to meet for a nice meal drops the bombshell she has 5 kids and they are coming as well quick change of heart "

What???!!!! Who does that?! That's mental!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Changes all the time for me. It's amazing how quickly I can be turned off meeting someone. Just takes a couple of the wrong words and I'm done.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Changes all the time for me. It's amazing how quickly I can be turned off meeting someone. Just takes a couple of the wrong words and I'm done. "
Yeah Ive been the same at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had met a girl once socially and we got on great, text and messaged over the following week and agreed to meet for fun that weekend. She asked me to come over after 9pm as the kids would be in bed then.

Just told her I would never do that and I never contacted her again.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Had met a girl once socially and we got on great, text and messaged over the following week and agreed to meet for fun that weekend. She asked me to come over after 9pm as the kids would be in bed then.

Just told her I would never do that and I never contacted her again. "
yeah ive heard of this a few times xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stoned sex is the best sex!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Stoned sex is the best sex!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been lucky and never had a change of heart from a message, mind you I avoid you lot on the forums

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I've been lucky and never had a change of heart from a message, mind you I avoid you lot on the forums "
little liar

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

people that suddenly come across as too needy after a relatively short period of chat...

I had one a few weeks back who i was talking to about a meet, but alarm bells were starting to clang about this one being clingy...

they messaged and said someone asked them for a meet and asked me if would mind if they met them?..... i was like why would I?,,, its a swingers site and we're not in a relationship or anything etc....

they then said " you're my sexy girlfriend and i talk to you more than anyone on here. I would love to be in a relationship with you, how awesome would it be if we lived together!"...

FUCK THAT!!.... made me glad I dont have a rabbit and a big pot..... thats just coo-koo....had to nip that in the bud rapido!

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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I know we're all adults and can do as we please but when I'm talking to people and they're constantly meeting different people every other day even the days in between/or the day before we have planned to meet, etc is a big turn off for me. Again, no reason to annoy me as we can all meet who we want but a busy woman is a turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

AIDS!

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Once I was chatting to someone on KIK & they sent me a pic of their bits but it was all covered in fluff. Kinda reminded me of oose off a sock. At that point I just backed off pronto.

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By *ustcantgetenuf50Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

White socks and Jesus sandals would put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know we're all adults and can do as we please but when I'm talking to people and they're constantly meeting different people every other day even the days in between/or the day before we have planned to meet, etc is a big turn off for me. Again, no reason to annoy me as we can all meet who we want but a busy woman is a turn off for me."

Well Said Captain ...

Im the exact same ...

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By *inasparklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I know we're all adults and can do as we please but when I'm talking to people and they're constantly meeting different people every other day even the days in between/or the day before we have planned to meet, etc is a big turn off for me. Again, no reason to annoy me as we can all meet who we want but a busy woman is a turn off for me.

Well Said Captain ...

Im the exact same ...

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I'm the same but then I got judged for having to many veris and nine were all from socials like from burlesque night 6 folks verified me. He gadnt read them and thought they were all sex metes. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know we're all adults and can do as we please but when I'm talking to people and they're constantly meeting different people every other day even the days in between/or the day before we have planned to meet, etc is a big turn off for me. Again, no reason to annoy me as we can all meet who we want but a busy woman is a turn off for me."

Its a swingers site on here to enjoy our selfs Nsa . However I agree Iv lots of verifications for socials some people think that means you have sleeped with them. If they are practicing safe sex what's the issue. ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know we're all adults and can do as we please but when I'm talking to people and they're constantly meeting different people every other day even the days in between/or the day before we have planned to meet, etc is a big turn off for me. Again, no reason to annoy me as we can all meet who we want but a busy woman is a turn off for me."

I won't meet men who have been verified from people who've had a meet everyday of the week. And I'm not talking social meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep too many and frequent verifications from all on sundry on a females profile is a bit of a turn off for me too.As you say a few words is all it takes for you to be put off a person after it looking so positive.Just hated it when she said that her name used to be Angus a few years ago. :-/....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know we're all adults and can do as we please but when I'm talking to people and they're constantly meeting different people every other day even the days in between/or the day before we have planned to meet, etc is a big turn off for me. Again, no reason to annoy me as we can all meet who we want but a busy woman is a turn off for me.

I won't meet men who have been verified from people who've had a meet everyday of the week. And I'm not talking social meets "

News to me x

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By *arried adventurers!Couple
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

It really puts me off when I get a message from someone who just wants to meet straight away with no chat or pics etc. Just screams of desperation! Same as someone who meets constantly and had loads of verifications....... Just rings alarm bells for me.

I also hate the "do you wanna meet in my car for some fun" messages. Again, I know some people are into that but it's just not for me.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly because they are cheating on a partner or too stingy to pay for a hotel room!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know we're all adults and can do as we please but when I'm talking to people and they're constantly meeting different people every other day even the days in between/or the day before we have planned to meet, etc is a big turn off for me. Again, no reason to annoy me as we can all meet who we want but a busy woman is a turn off for me.

I won't meet men who have been verified from people who've had a meet everyday of the week. And I'm not talking social meets

News to me x"

Oh you still haven't put that ring on my finger so what you don't know won't hurt ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know we're all adults and can do as we please but when I'm talking to people and they're constantly meeting different people every other day even the days in between/or the day before we have planned to meet, etc is a big turn off for me. Again, no reason to annoy me as we can all meet who we want but a busy woman is a turn off for me.

I won't meet men who have been verified from people who've had a meet everyday of the week. And I'm not talking social meets

News to me x

Oh you still haven't put that ring on my finger so what you don't know won't hurt ya! "

I told you to take it off b4 you put your fingers where the sun don't shine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know we're all adults and can do as we please but when I'm talking to people and they're constantly meeting different people every other day even the days in between/or the day before we have planned to meet, etc is a big turn off for me. Again, no reason to annoy me as we can all meet who we want but a busy woman is a turn off for me.

I won't meet men who have been verified from people who've had a meet everyday of the week. And I'm not talking social meets

News to me x

Oh you still haven't put that ring on my finger so what you don't know won't hurt ya!

I told you to take it off b4 you put your fingers where the sun don't shine x"

Well it must still be in your wallet then

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By *unglasgow69Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I was talking to a gal on here this week getting on like a house on fire so we decided to chat off here & speak on kik instead. So chatting away convo is going great & she asks me do you drink. I say no I'm tea total her reaction was priceless lol. It's OMFG YOU ARE KIDDING ME. I reply no why? Sorry I have never been with anyone who is teatotal before I don't trust folk who don't drink. End of convo 2 days chat down the drain. I actually found it funny but have to say that's my weirdest knock back ever hahahaha

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

i had the experience years ago where i was messaged by a lady who seemed really nice and keen on meeting and we spoke in-depth for a few weeks till we came down to arranging a meet at which point in time she confided in me that she was HIV positive....that has to be one of the strangest thing's ive experienced on here other than people contacting me to meet and having me turn up to hotels in the pelting rain or bitter cold snow only to find that their phones are switched off and they neglected to inform me of their hotel room number lol stranger things have happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know we're all adults and can do as we please but when I'm talking to people and they're constantly meeting different people every other day even the days in between/or the day before we have planned to meet, etc is a big turn off for me. Again, no reason to annoy me as we can all meet who we want but a busy woman is a turn off for me.

I won't meet men who have been verified from people who've had a meet everyday of the week. And I'm not talking social meets

News to me x

Oh you still haven't put that ring on my finger so what you don't know won't hurt ya!

I told you to take it off b4 you put your fingers where the sun don't shine x

Well it must still be in your wallet then "

Well played little lady well played haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she had a spotty ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the wife turned up

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"If she had a spotty ass "
How many women have told you they have a spotty ass during a conversation ? lol

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Anything containing the words

I'm bored .

My lorry is parked .

I have an empty for now .

I'm horny ,wanna meet.

You look a real dirty bitch.

Oh and my personal favourite .... a badly written and unimaginative diatribe of what they think my fantasy is .This works best in the very first message , to ensure I'd not meet them even if hell froze over lol.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Anything containing the words

I'm bored .

My lorry is parked .

I have an empty for now .

I'm horny ,wanna meet.

You look a real dirty bitch.

Oh and my personal favourite .... a badly written and unimaginative diatribe of what they think my fantasy is .This works best in the very first message , to ensure I'd not meet them even if hell froze over lol.

"

So basicly ALL my chat up lines

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

im parked up in my lorry in your area...... ha ha ha ha so its not just TVs that get that irresistable offer?

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By *7JayMan
over a year ago

Methil/edinburgh


"i had the experience years ago where i was messaged by a lady who seemed really nice and keen on meeting and we spoke in-depth for a few weeks till we came down to arranging a meet at which point in time she confided in me that she was HIV positive....that has to be one of the strangest thing's ive experienced on here other than people contacting me to meet and having me turn up to hotels in the pelting rain or bitter cold snow only to find that their phones are switched off and they neglected to inform me of their hotel room number lol stranger things have happened"

Lol you too ninja, i ended up travelling 60+ miles only to end up on a platform in the cold and their phone was very quiet then i saw them online the next day and a spooky silence lol.

or lately got speaking to a couple and all was going great, after near 9/10 days of chat and the meet date was set, so one week before meet and im waiting on details of where and date of meet, they go quiet and as far as i know have not been back on site, lol i seem to get from time to time the ones who are talkers but not walkers lol.

But back to the question...I dont think ive had to cancel a meet as yet but looking at some of the comments, i would say what would put me off meeting someone is if they had been meeting all week and met someone for fun before meeting me.

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By *7JayMan
over a year ago

Methil/edinburgh


"I was talking to a gal on here this week getting on like a house on fire so we decided to chat off here & speak on kik instead. So chatting away convo is going great & she asks me do you drink. I say no I'm tea total her reaction was priceless lol. It's OMFG YOU ARE KIDDING ME. I reply no why? Sorry I have never been with anyone who is teatotal before I don't trust folk who don't drink. End of convo 2 days chat down the drain. I actually found it funny but have to say that's my weirdest knock back ever hahahaha"
lol never heard that one before

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By *7JayMan
over a year ago

Methil/edinburgh


"I'm the same but then I got judged for having to many veris and nine were all from socials like from burlesque night 6 folks verified me. He gadnt read them and thought they were all sex metes. X"

Lol you have to remember sadly that some cant read or get past pics lol to reach the veris but i agree that after a social you can end up putting on a load of veris and its their loss since they cant read lol.

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