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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone look at a profiles interest list and compare what they like and what you like as well?

I always have. I check their profiles before deciding if I should respond to their mail. Nothing worse than meeting someone who likes the opposite lol

But it seems to be more people don't according to some messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

first thing to look at i would say ,saves a lot of wasted time .Immense patience required to find compatible play mates who actually do want to meet and happy to be discreet as well .can be worth the wait though.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Interest lists are just that.

I have a few interests but don't carry out each list I have on every meet because it all depends on my mood on the day if I fancy doing something on one meet I might not be interested in doing it on another.

It's all about preferences but not all preferences are set in stone for me .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Interest lists are just that.

I have a few interests but don't carry out each list I have on every meet because it all depends on my mood on the day if I fancy doing something on one meet I might not be interested in doing it on another.

It's all about preferences but not all preferences are set in stone for me . "

Very true, nothing is set in stone but if their only interested are DP, water sports and fisting (which aren't my interests) I certainly won't bend my interests to reply lol

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

Yes I tend to. Seems the sensible thing to do. But then i suppose theres no harm looking at someones profile who is into different things.

Sometimes the whole thing can ve a big learning curve if your ready to make that jump?

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By *eadphonezzMan
over a year ago

Up the road.

To be honest the interest list is rather lacking options as it stands, and should be separated into 3 sections: Giving/receiving/in common. Would save a lot of grief and confusion, plus if some one was interested in trying other things they could just write that on their profile in stead.

I do actually read others interests, yet I just clicked some for myself that I may have only tried once in my whole life, but it "interested me"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone look at a profiles interest list and compare what they like and what you like as well?

I always have. I check their profiles before deciding if I should respond to their mail. Nothing worse than meeting someone who likes the opposite lol

But it seems to be more people don't according to some messages "

Ive never really believed a profile in the past 9 years on here.

Apart from the initial itenary that you look for.Most profile dialogues in what people seek and in others is never a true reflection in cases.

Chatting is your best source of connection,

Good Luck x

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By *eadphonezzMan
over a year ago

Up the road.

Yeah exactly. Sometimes the person has said too much that you don't know what to believe or there is nothing left to talk about. Or absolutely nothing and you think "hmm well they clearly don't want to make an effort so I know where their prerogatives lie"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does anyone look at a profiles interest list and compare what they like and what you like as well?

I always have. I check their profiles before deciding if I should respond to their mail. Nothing worse than meeting someone who likes the opposite lol

But it seems to be more people don't according to some messages

Ive never really believed a profile in the past 9 years on here.

Apart from the initial itenary that you look for.Most profile dialogues in what people seek and in others is never a true reflection in cases.

Chatting is your best source of connection,

Good Luck x

"

I've been on and off here for 3 years. It's not luck I need, just some common sense would do it for coming back again lol

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I do look but its not the be all of things also take into account profile wording and pics ..also just chatting can give you a real sense of whether your compatible or not people may have an interest in something but that may not be a reguisite for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The list definitely needs updating.. where is kissing??

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"The list definitely needs updating.. where is kissing??"

C'mere and i'll show you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You defo have to look, some woman want certain headlines put in messages, if it's not ther they don't reply, so it's worth taking the time to look!!!

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By *eadphonezzMan
over a year ago

Up the road.

No we're talking about the interests specifically, not the actual profile info

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By *ockyjockyMan
over a year ago

G63 countryside


"Interest lists are just that.

I have a few interests but don't carry out each list I have on every meet because it all depends on my mood on the day if I fancy doing something on one meet I might not be interested in doing it on another.

It's all about preferences but not all preferences are set in stone for me . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The list definitely needs updating.. where is kissing??"

I agree.......also, where is Exhibitionism ??

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

No I prefer to talk to the person. but nasty old me im likely to see who their veris are from and if from those I find undesirable I wouldnt even converse with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I prefer to talk to the person. but nasty old me im likely to see who their veris are from and if from those I find undesirable I wouldnt even converse with them "

So you judge others simply because you don't like the people they've met, seems fair

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

In my book it is fair for yourself it may not. How I see it they find those folk nice and good and acceptable I on the other hand find them unsavory we wouldnt have much in common now would we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The list definitely needs updating.. where is kissing??

I agree.......also, where is Exhibitionism ??"

Yes please to both ... Lets start a petition to have them added

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By *pinCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Always prefer to at least chat first. Don't want to judge a book by its profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My philosophy is like this, go with the pictures

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