FabSwingers.com forum: Treated like an a slut

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hey everyone, was just wondering what everyones opinion is.

Do other single girls or couples feel that some couples or singles guys make you feel like just because your on a swingers website that they treat you like your a slut, tart or gaggin for it?

I get made to feel like that and think its unfair that just because am on here doesnt mean i am a slut, am just looking for fun with others like most people on here

hails

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"hey everyone, was just wondering what everyones opinion is.

Do other single girls or couples feel that some couples or singles guys make you feel like just because your on a swingers website that they treat you like your a slut, tart or gaggin for it?

I get made to feel like that and think its unfair that just because am on here doesnt mean i am a slut, am just looking for fun with others like most people on here

hails

xx"

U do get the odd one or two but most guys r decent and make u feel special

the ones who make me laugh tho r the ones who r as u say gagging for it and will do/say anything to get the chance to meet cause ur just greatacording to them yet when u turn them down ur the biggest stut/whore around hmmmmmmmm lol

luv jacs

xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Hails,

This was happening long before the advent of the internet chat room.... even back to the days of been at school/college or with the lads at the bar.

Any guy who is seen to be sleeping around is a stud, any girl that enjoys sex and has more than one partner is a slut.

Unfortunaltly many men on here cannot take no for an answer and feel that a knockback is a dent on their manhood and so will retaliate with insults. I personally have had a few knockbacks, thats fine, im maybe not their thing but I will still chat to them and class them as buddies.

If you do get abusive emails, remember that all emails are saved by admin, so report user and add in the comments box the time, date etc when the email was sent and hopefully something will be done about that user. If its abuse in chat by wispa, I have found one of the best ways of dealing with it is to give them a friendly warning in the main room and then just to block them from contacting you. This means that anything they say in the chat room you cannot see.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I see a profile of a single woman with the likes of "want to be used", "treat me like your slut" etc I always reckon it's a bloke who's created a false profile.

Just me being cynical I suppose and I go realise there are genuine subs out there but I can't see many woman writing stuff like that.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Whenever I see a profile of a single woman with the likes of "want to be used", "treat me like your slut" etc I always reckon it's a bloke who's created a false profile.

Just me being cynical I suppose and I go realise there are genuine subs out there but I can't see many woman writing stuff like that."

yeah know what u mean ive saw quite a few profiles like that myself but when i read it i just think they done have very much self respect we all know what we like sexually but wo dont broacast it to the whole world in such a graphic way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

years ago i use 2 meet up with a cpl an i kinda gotthe feeling he'd like 2 treat fems like a slut it was just something he said an from that ngt i never met them again..that wasnt only reason i had other reason's no 2 go bck..but if any cpl or guy even tryed 2 make me feel like a slut it be the last slut they ever had..we are all here 4 the same thing an thats sex..so lets enjoy it xx

ps hails hun never let anybody make u feel like that an if they do..they not worth meeting xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aww hails xxxx

we havent had that yet but you do get the feeling that some people come onto these sites thinking thats its 'slapperville' when it really is not.

if people want sluts and tarts they should go into glasgow city centres nightlife at the weekends, theyl have much more luck finding what they want there than coming here xxxx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"aww hails xxxx

we havent had that yet but you do get the feeling that some people come onto these sites thinking thats its 'slapperville' when it really is not.

if people want sluts and tarts they should go into glasgow city centres nightlife at the weekends, theyl have much more luck finding what they want there than coming here xxxx"

must remember to avoid glasgow city center from now on pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol, keep to the west end people lol xx

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By *ighMan
over a year ago

Fife

women are wonderful things and need to be respected as such. Always try to treat people how I would want to be treated myself.

Just cause you like sex doesnt make you a slut although I am a bit of a tart sometimes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry to hear that Hails,

we all have 2 choices how to deal with every event in life, yes or no, take offence or dont, listen or ignore there is no middle ground, their words only have meaning if you already respect them as a person, choose to ignore their rants adn report them for their efforts and carry on enjoying yourself and the site as the majority are good sensible people that do understand we cant all push the right buttons in everyone, thanx but NO THNX should be enough for anyone.

Keep on smiling and ignore those ignorant losers who dont deserve to breath the same air as you.

sxcmama & Peds xxx

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

yes you can be _igh lol

but in honesty i've had a few guys treat me as if they thought i would sleep with just anyone - they soon found out different - although i can be sub for the right person i am no longer the doormat i once was.

hails hun just tell them that the sex is a two way thing- you both have to enjoy it your not just there to please him/them and if they not happy send them to local hooker who will treat them like a god -for a price!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hewy everyone thatnx for your opinion on what i have writen about and glad to here am not the only one getting treated like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think if you do come over to ours we will treat you 'to' something other than treat you 'like' something..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hewy everyone thatnx for your opinion on what i have writen about and glad to here am not the only one getting treated like this.

xx"

That said Hails, I'd be quite content if large numbers of woman just wanted to use me as a sex object...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss Giggles, you're obviously meeting the wrong guys!!

And what's the bet they're younger ones!! lol

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