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"Think the posts on this thread might help with ratio ideas ten to one ale to female I'd rather know how big how many fit in comfortably and can you rent it for night" Lol - let's take a venue for swinging and see if we can rent it for the night for swinging - and folk are slagged off for talking about cliques and elitists. I see Mrs R was there - she can tell us how busy, give an idea about ratios and tell us about fees. | |||
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"Think the posts on this thread might help with ratio ideas ten to one ale to female I'd rather know how big how many fit in comfortably and can you rent it for night Lol - let's take a venue for swinging and see if we can rent it for the night for swinging - and folk are slagged off for talking about cliques and elitists. I see Mrs R was there - she can tell us how busy, give an idea about ratios and tell us about fees. " Yes I was there yesterday a great venue lovely atmosphere....I'm planning on going back very soon.. anyone going next week..? | |||
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"Think the posts on this thread might help with ratio ideas ten to one ale to female I'd rather know how big how many fit in comfortably and can you rent it for night Lol - let's take a venue for swinging and see if we can rent it for the night for swinging - and folk are slagged off for talking about cliques and elitists. I see Mrs R was there - she can tell us how busy, give an idea about ratios and tell us about fees. Yes I was there yesterday a great venue lovely atmosphere....I'm planning on going back very soon.. anyone going next week..?" Potentially in a couple of weeks time due to work commitments next week, but the dates that far ahead are not up on meets board yet so not sure if it is happening? | |||
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"im gonna buy a caravan and pimp it out and park it in the city center and call it the "glovebox"" No Glove, no love! How many could you squeeze in to the 'Glovebox'? | |||
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"Think the posts on this thread might help with ratio ideas ten to one ale to female I'd rather know how big how many fit in comfortably and can you rent it for night " "Lol - let's take a venue for swinging and see if we can rent it for the night for swinging - and folk are slagged off for talking about cliques and elitists. I see Mrs R was there - she can tell us how busy, give an idea about ratios and tell us about fees. " I think this is a bit harsh. A lot of couples and females don't want to be surrounded by lots of males, and no females. | |||
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"Think the posts on this thread might help with ratio ideas ten to one ale to female I'd rather know how big how many fit in comfortably and can you rent it for night Lol - let's take a venue for swinging and see if we can rent it for the night for swinging - and folk are slagged off for talking about cliques and elitists. I see Mrs R was there - she can tell us how busy, give an idea about ratios and tell us about fees. I think this is a bit harsh. A lot of couples and females don't want to be surrounded by lots of males, and no females." thats exactly why I asked greedy girls nights are not OUR thing but five or six couples partying that is so if available for rent at a good rate we would be up for that | |||
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"Think the posts on this thread might help with ratio ideas ten to one ale to female I'd rather know how big how many fit in comfortably and can you rent it for night Lol - let's take a venue for swinging and see if we can rent it for the night for swinging - and folk are slagged off for talking about cliques and elitists. I see Mrs R was there - she can tell us how busy, give an idea about ratios and tell us about fees. I think this is a bit harsh. A lot of couples and females don't want to be surrounded by lots of males, and no females.thats exactly why I asked greedy girls nights are not OUR thing but five or six couples partying that is so if available for rent at a good rate we would be up for that" Totally agree.... But according to that poster, we have to put up or shut up with a club full of single guys, hehe | |||
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"Could be wrong get the impression this is really for men. As women are already there willing to play :::" not sure how it could be really for men it takes a min of two to tango. Its a diffrent buisness to cjs maybe but not that diffrent I get the impression its the scale thats diffrent ie a big house and a small flat | |||
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"Kola, I've never been to CJs and don't live near Glasgow, so I'm not part of any crowd. Think I'll leave this thread now as people seem to be under the impression I'm attacking the organisers when I've done nothing of the sort. " my post wasnt just about yourself. And in a way it helps highlight the point I was making. Why are you willing to put faith in cjs the buisness but not shoebox. For myself its the exact reason that advertisment of buisnesses has no place in the forums let them pay for it | |||
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"our point in both the threads on the shoebox is anywhere you pay to get in where, which ever way you look at it, the main premise is sex its just a bit wrong, very few people will be paying to get in the shoebox to just sit and watch, not once have we slagged people off personally by name or hinted at a particular person." Your paying to be on a swingers site that the main purpose is sex, your willing to meet couples and females for sex. To attend parties for sex. I don't see what your doing is different. Everyone watches porn. It's all the same thing. How can it be wrong when everyone is here for sex. Your a gold member do you pay extra to watch the cams? I pay in clubs as I'm guaranteed a higher standard of people than the randoms who meet everyone on here and fuck anything and everything with a heart beat. x | |||
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"our point in both the threads on the shoebox is anywhere you pay to get in where, which ever way you look at it, the main premise is sex its just a bit wrong, very few people will be paying to get in the shoebox to just sit and watch, not once have we slagged people off personally by name or hinted at a particular person. Your paying to be on a swingers site that the main purpose is sex, your willing to meet couples and females for sex. To attend parties for sex. I don't see what your doing is different. Everyone watches porn. It's all the same thing. How can it be wrong when everyone is here for sex. Your a gold member do you pay extra to watch the cams? I pay in clubs as I'm guaranteed a higher standard of people than the randoms who meet everyone on here and fuck anything and everything with a heart beat. x" how are you guaranteed a higher standard of people just because it's a club? I don't understand that as most attending clubs are from here anyway | |||
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"our point in both the threads on the shoebox is anywhere you pay to get in where, which ever way you look at it, the main premise is sex its just a bit wrong, very few people will be paying to get in the shoebox to just sit and watch, not once have we slagged people off personally by name or hinted at a particular person. Your paying to be on a swingers site that the main purpose is sex, your willing to meet couples and females for sex. To attend parties for sex. I don't see what your doing is different. Everyone watches porn. It's all the same thing. How can it be wrong when everyone is here for sex. Your a gold member do you pay extra to watch the cams? I pay in clubs as I'm guaranteed a higher standard of people than the randoms who meet everyone on here and fuck anything and everything with a heart beat. x" nicely put....... apart from "higher standard of people" | |||
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"our point in both the threads on the shoebox is anywhere you pay to get in where, which ever way you look at it, the main premise is sex its just a bit wrong, very few people will be paying to get in the shoebox to just sit and watch, not once have we slagged people off personally by name or hinted at a particular person. Your paying to be on a swingers site that the main purpose is sex, your willing to meet couples and females for sex. To attend parties for sex. I don't see what your doing is different. Everyone watches porn. It's all the same thing. How can it be wrong when everyone is here for sex. Your a gold member do you pay extra to watch the cams? I pay in clubs as I'm guaranteed a higher standard of people than the randoms who meet everyone on here and fuck anything and everything with a heart beat. x" we dont use the cams, we pay gold purely because its the best way to keep track of the conversations we have and for more pics, so as for us we are not paying for sex at all, we met people when we were not a site supporter so id say thats a pretty poor argument. | |||
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"If you pay a subscription for msgs in essence you are still paying to keep up with convo line with the ultimate goal of sex. These clubs like it or lump it make you pay for the ammenities to allow folk to have sex. Its everyones choice what they do or dont do you cant be forced to have sex.is there elitism within the club goer scene yes I believe so. Would I pay for entry yup if it was fair and resonable. Do clubs know that alot of guys have more money than sense definatly. Do some fems enjoy the powertrip again definatly this club in many ways deserves the kudos that cjs gets it supplys an area that folk want." sorry but not everyone we talk to we are looking to have sex with, but by your point if we are gold members and we do end up meeting people then we have sex that means weve paid for it?? what a load of pony!! | |||
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"By the same token paying to enter a club for sex is nonsense also then " youre right paying to get into a club to have sex is nonsense, still totally different to us paying for gold. | |||
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"They pay to get into a club for the ammenities though so its exactly the same" we dont go swinger clubs, not our thing, so we pay for nothing. | |||
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"They pay to get into a club for the ammenities though so its exactly the same we dont go swinger clubs, not our thing, so we pay for nothing." Surely if you meet though you go out dinners or drinks or hotels or whatever. Your still paying for amenities for the same outcome. Visiting clubs takes the ownus off of people knowing where you live or to much about you but still able to have fun. For me to do it from home is far to close to my personal life and why would I want to let people know where I live so clubs suit be better. | |||
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"Could be wrong get the impression this is really for men. As women are already there willing to play :::" | |||
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"Im going along tomorrow, looking forward to it " How was it? | |||
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"They pay to get into a club for the ammenities though so its exactly the same we dont go swinger clubs, not our thing, so we pay for nothing." A few points which are bugging me after reading through this thread: If you don't go to swingers clubs, why are you replying to a thread specifically about a swingers club?! Having been, I can report there is no pressure to do anything you don't want to. Yes, it's a small venue and play is a lot more in your face, but it quite clearly explains this on the profile. Venues charge money for several reasons, it s out a lot of the time wasters (which is what I think Miss Sparkles meant) cause the non genuine people are far less likely to pay a contribution to get into a place when they're just playing themselves anyway. There's quite a big cost in running a venue when you think about utilities, laundry, refreshments and the time it must take to organise these type of events. I'm sure if venues were able they wouldn't charge, but would anyone do their 9-5 job for free?! Doubtful! One of my life mottos is "don't judge until you've tried it" so either go, or don't, but stop slating something you have no personal experience of. I personally can't wait to go back! | |||
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"They pay to get into a club for the ammenities though so its exactly the same we dont go swinger clubs, not our thing, so we pay for nothing. A few points which are bugging me after reading through this thread: If you don't go to swingers clubs, why are you replying to a thread specifically about a swingers club?! Having been, I can report there is no pressure to do anything you don't want to. Yes, it's a small venue and play is a lot more in your face, but it quite clearly explains this on the profile. Venues charge money for several reasons, it s out a lot of the time wasters (which is what I think Miss Sparkles meant) cause the non genuine people are far less likely to pay a contribution to get into a place when they're just playing themselves anyway. There's quite a big cost in running a venue when you think about utilities, laundry, refreshments and the time it must take to organise these type of events. I'm sure if venues were able they wouldn't charge, but would anyone do their 9-5 job for free?! Doubtful! One of my life mottos is "don't judge until you've tried it" so either go, or don't, but stop slating something you have no personal experience of. I personally can't wait to go back!" That's exactly what I meant xxx | |||
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" If you don't go to swingers clubs, why are you replying to a thread specifically about a swingers club?! " I don't go to clubs but I'm still interested in finding out things about them that may make me want to venture into one one day. I commented on a post yesterday because I felt the comment was a bit insulting to members on here by its context. It's a free forum for people to join in and debate many topics and not just for those who have a valid interest in what ever that topic may be. | |||
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"Totally agree everyone is entitled to an opinion and free to comment but not when its being judged and saying its a brothel as you paying an entrance fee to cover over heads. These are real people with real lives and tarnishing them with a comment like that when you have never even been to a club is wrong. X" well I didnt make that comment but I'm sure the person who did post it had their reasons for saying what they did whether it's right or wrong. As has been said before people should go and judge for themselves and not judge on what others have to say. | |||
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"Totally agree everyone is entitled to an opinion and free to comment but not when its being judged and saying its a brothel as you paying an entrance fee to cover over heads. These are real people with real lives and tarnishing them with a comment like that when you have never even been to a club is wrong. X" Good point! It's like any hobby if you want to partake then you have to be prepaired to pay! Like cjs was I'm assuming the shoebox is a venue for likeminded people to meet and socialise, very different from a brothel! Haters will be haters! | |||
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