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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the reason most of you block single males. We occasionally turn on the single males can message function but end up having to block a huge % who think acceptable to badger female half with if he is at work come meet me he won't find out. The answer is always no your blocked

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We don't block them but when they message it tells them we aren't interested in single males, most are polite but some are twats.... The twats are instantly blocked. We've had guys message about the BBQ later in the month that we are having, if they've been polite and charming then we've spoken to them with possibly inviting them to the BBQ, I've they've attached a cock pic then it's most likely resembled a wiener for the BBQ rather than a cock... We just pity those ones.... Then block them

It's easy enough to just delete without opening as 9 times out of 10 it's obviously in the preview on the intentions so no point taring them all with the same brush

John

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeh delete most that way too only block the idiots who think we or she will make exception for them and meet on own

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Well Karen is on here for females mostly so they've not much luck with us lol

John

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeh were the same as we said once in blue moon we turn it on see if anyone stands out still at back of queue if single fem or mf come along though but you never know

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Im not here for males ..so blocked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Man sends a message to a Female or Couple "Hi there here are some pics for you too peruse Do you wanna Fuck" Is he wrong ..NO he is isnt..He is on a Swinging Site for SEX why would he not have the right too ask that.Wether you like it or not you have the choice too block or say WOW He looks HOT.

I would definately never address any message to anyone in this way However i dont see any problem in anyone asking for SEX .

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By *ay and KatieCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We've just recently put the single male message blocker on, too many messages coming through and you lose track of the actual people u would like to speak with lol x

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate

The list is never ending. Disrespectful,Don't read Profiles, throw toys out cot when you say no thanks, Get abusive Not to mention the biggest percentage are time wasters or attached. we must have easy 50+ males Blocked. yeh we wont be flavor of the month with the guys do we care not a jont we are happy with couples and females a lot less hassle to be fair... have a nice day now guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always been fortunate here, odd message that results in a block, but overall don't have a problem.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

As has been said above they are only asking a question throwing indignation at it aint pleasant either. Some cpls have this air of lord and lady of the manor we will decide if your good enough. sorry these profiles make me laugh especially when the male half has been msging my partner almost panting like a dog ready to perform any trick to get his way

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By *ockyjockyMan
over a year ago

G63 countryside

Incidentally, I have had to block many females who just seem to think they can demand pix, ask questions they will not answer themselves, or who don't even introduce themselves. It is about people and how they present themselves, whether male or female. It is good manners to introduce yourself and to be polite. I never try to message someone of they have made it clear they are not looking for a single male or have preference requests which do not match my own.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Because we don't meet them...therefore have no need for the mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block as only here for couples, Being polite rather than ignorant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have blocked single males just not interested in them i am too greedy for just a threesome a foursome or moresome is just so much more fun

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By *rmagiteMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Lurk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would Block anyone that seems appropriate ..Ive No time for feckin Dramas .

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I would Block anyone that seems appropriate ..Ive No time for feckin Dramas .

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of really decent good looking guys on Fab, we now only look to meet them at clubs/party's so have blocked so we don't waste anyone's time.

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By *erotic_adventureMan
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,

It's someone's prerogative to block should they deem appropriate....its par for the course on here, but in my opinion having been on here as a couple in the past its all very subjective. Sometimes for very valid reasons sometimes for small insignificant things. Each to their own... all you can ask and expect is to respect others and be respected. Treat others as you wish to be treated yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't care of am blocked before a word is said. I only want to talk to people who have manners. It's nice to be nice. If there that far up there own ass that even talking is so hard for them. Then who wants to talk to anyone like that. Am not missing anything. I have never been more happy in my life as I am now. Life begins at 50.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Our filters allow single males as sometimes we're looking for some mfm fun. It's rare we get an abusive or crude message, more likely that they just don't put any effort in and send a one liner.

If a guy sends a polite message but I'm not interested in him I'll always reply to thank him for the message but say he's not what we're looking for.

We only block people who are rude/nasty or have had off-putting profiles and status updates

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Don't care of am blocked before a word is said. I only want to talk to people who have manners. It's nice to be nice. If there that far up there own ass that even talking is so hard for them. Then who wants to talk to anyone like that. Am not missing anything. I have never been more happy in my life as I am now. Life begins at 50. "

I must be one of the ones up my own arse but I can live with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of single males are utter freakshows and spoil it for the good guys on here.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"A lot of single males are utter freakshows and spoil it for the good guys on here."

Sorry but I disagree.... The numpties make it easier for the good guys to stand out

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"A lot of single males are utter freakshows and spoil it for the good guys on here.

Sorry but I disagree.... The numpties make it easier for the good guys to stand out "
totally agree cutie same as the crazy women who probably make it easier for the good women on here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of single males are utter freakshows and spoil it for the good guys on here.

Sorry but I disagree.... The numpties make it easier for the good guys to stand out "

Totally agree, should be a lot easier for the genuine decent single guys

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By *ockyjockyMan
over a year ago

G63 countryside


"A lot of single males are utter freakshows and spoil it for the good guys on here.

Sorry but I disagree.... The numpties make it easier for the good guys to stand out totally agree cutie same as the crazy women who probably make it easier for the good women on here too "

As one of the genuine, decent guys on here (don't all laugh at once!) I like to think I am a standout, but if I am blocked simply because I am a single male, I will find it almost impossibe to prove that.

As for crazy women, some of them (and I will not name them here) can still slip through the net

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't care of am blocked before a word is said. I only want to talk to people who have manners. It's nice to be nice. If there that far up there own ass that even talking is so hard for them. Then who wants to talk to anyone like that. Am not missing anything. I have never been more happy in my life as I am now. Life begins at 50.

I must be one of the ones up my own arse but I can live with that "

Im so far up myself I couldn't find the way down even if I wanted to!

Jinty from the Block!

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Don't care of am blocked before a word is said. I only want to talk to people who have manners. It's nice to be nice. If there that far up there own ass that even talking is so hard for them. Then who wants to talk to anyone like that. Am not missing anything. I have never been more happy in my life as I am now. Life begins at 50.

I must be one of the ones up my own arse but I can live with that

Im so far up myself I couldn't find the way down even if I wanted to!

Jinty from the Block!"

Sorry can't hear you properly stuck up there ....

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"A lot of single males are utter freakshows and spoil it for the good guys on here.

Sorry but I disagree.... The numpties make it easier for the good guys to stand out totally agree cutie same as the crazy women who probably make it easier for the good women on here too

As one of the genuine, decent guys on here (don't all laugh at once!) I like to think I am a standout, but if I am blocked simply because I am a single male, I will find it almost impossibe to prove that.

As for crazy women, some of them (and I will not name them here) can still slip through the net "
Going by that photo you stand out alright

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