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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Noticed that a couple had _iewed my profile. This is who they're looking for;

"Looking For

Not looking for single guys

Couples (MF) Couples (MM) Couples (FF) Men Women TV/TS"

Does that mean they are looking for singly guys or not?

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

It means they aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they are,but prefer to do the searching themselves. Saves getting deluged with messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Then why include Men, Women and TVs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"Then why include Men, Women and TVs?"

Because a lot of people don't really think what they're doing, they seem to go on auto pilot!

Just my opinion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Noticed that a couple had _iewed my profile. This is who they're looking for;

"Looking For

Not looking for single guys

Couples (MF) Couples (MM) Couples (FF) Men Women TV/TS"

Does that mean they are looking for singly guys or not?"

Thats exactly what your profile says... it works both ways

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Noticed that a couple had _iewed my profile. This is who they're looking for;

"Looking For

Not looking for single guys

Couples (MF) Couples (MM) Couples (FF) Men Women TV/TS"

Does that mean they are looking for singly guys or not?

Thats exactly what your profile says... it works both ways"

No it doesn't. Read it again and come back when you've got something useful to add

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth


"Then why include Men, Women and TVs?"

because perhaps they see TV/TS as an entirely seperate category?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I thought my point was fairly clear....

Even though they state "Not Looking for single guys" they haven't removed men from the rest of their Looking to Meet list. All the points made are valid but no one has answered the question I asked yet.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

They only want single males when they want they dont want to be costantly haranged by single males its been answered many times

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth


"I thought my point was fairly clear....

Even though they state "Not Looking for single guys" they haven't removed men from the rest of their Looking to Meet list. All the points made are valid but no one has answered the question I asked yet."

and my point is that TV/TS is a seperate category from single male...

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"I thought my point was fairly clear....

Even though they state "Not Looking for single guys" they haven't removed men from the rest of their Looking to Meet list. All the points made are valid but no one has answered the question I asked yet.

and my point is that TV/TS is a seperate category from single male..."
to some its a diffrent catagory to others its just dress sense (I agree its a diffrent catagory though)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Honestly, I get the TV/TS thing, but that wasn't my point. I'll give it one more go;

Not looking for single guys.

Looking For:

....MEN, Woman and TV/TS.

It was the MEN I was asking about!!!!

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"Honestly, I get the TV/TS thing, but that wasn't my point. I'll give it one more go;

Not looking for single guys.

Looking For:

....MEN, Woman and TV/TS.

It was the MEN I was asking about!!!!"

And you've been given the answer, how often do you need it??

It's not unusual to see on a couples's profile that they don't want messages from guys, if and when they want one they'll look themselves. So yes, they're interested in guys, but maybe not a priority, hence not wanting messages from them. Simples!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seriously, is it me???

"Not looking for single guys" but "Looking for Men"

Isn't that a contradiction???

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Seriously, is it me???

"Not looking for single guys" but "Looking for Men"

Isn't that a contradiction???"

yes, it would be ideal that they remove MEN from their search option, but the fact that they have blocked guys from contacting them.... it would indicate that they are still seeking to have fun with guys but prefer to initiate the contact...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, I think I get it... I guess some people like to feel they are calling the shots. Maybe everyone should lighten up and this might be a lot more fun.

Over and out!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You really need to get out more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Noticed that a couple had _iewed my profile. This is who they're looking for;

"Looking For

Not looking for single guys

Couples (MF) Couples (MM) Couples (FF) Men Women TV/TS"

Does that mean they are looking for singly guys or not?"

I find that confusing too lol

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

I think some get inundated with mail for males ...so choose to open up contact when looking or mail those that interest them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought my point was fairly clear....

Even though they state "Not Looking for single guys" they haven't removed men from the rest of their Looking to Meet list. All the points made are valid but no one has answered the question I asked yet."

You weren't making a point, you asked a question. That mistake aside, the first person to reply to your original post answered your questions directly and to the point. What more do you need?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Clearly in this case they don't want Single Guys to contact them; I'm really not that thick. But it could be so much clearly if they removed Men from their Looking For list, that's all.

Now unless you want to continue some sort of personal sleight against me, I think you should leave it at that.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

I am kinda lost who last post is actually aimed at ....

Peoples profiles are their own property so to speak and that's the way it kinda works, they put on thier profile what suits them and what works for them...that's how profiles work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am kinda lost who last post is actually aimed at ....

Peoples profiles are their own property so to speak and that's the way it kinda works, they put on thier profile what suits them and what works for them...that's how profiles work."

Sorry, I meant to quote CadacusAngeli.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best not to over think these things, our advice would be to follow what the couple have physically typed out.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Best not to over think these things, our advice would be to follow what the couple have physically typed out.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Noticed that a couple had _iewed my profile. This is who they're looking for;

"Looking For

Not looking for single guys

Couples (MF) Couples (MM) Couples (FF) Men Women TV/TS"

Does that mean they are looking for singly guys or not?"

They are probably not looking for anything other than peruse another profile

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