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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was just informed by a non desperate non aggressive (well only slightly) guy that the messages most women respond to and like on here are the crude "I want to fill you with cum" "you need my cock in your pussy" messages!

True or false?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a definite no no with us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant delete!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd probably reply sarcastically..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

usually dry heave a little bit at people opening with vulgarity. It is never ever sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me.

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By *44bertCouple
over a year ago

Inverness


"Instant delete! "

With us too.

In fact, we had one at the weekend from a guy containing a 'joke' that used the 'N' word... Seriously.

Not only a delete, but the first time we have blocked someone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies, nothing different from what was expected really.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I usually send them back a photo of one of my tits and ask if reminds them of anyone... Usually does the trick

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Hate messages like that from someone I've never talked to.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Hate messages like that from someone I've never talked to."
I agree dess it's fun to have Nawty flirty chat with people you have met but not a complete stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate messages like that,

The ones that say I want to f*** you I normally put back sorry hubby straight

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"I usually send them back a photo of one of my tits and ask if reminds them of anyone... Usually does the trick "

Yep - "wanna fuck?", "need a cock today?", "want to fuck you raw" = instablock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then they wonder why they cant get a meet lol

Some folk have NO RESPECT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a blokes point of view,I wouldn't dream of sending an opening message like that to any of the lovely people on here

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

I tend to delete them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't used that tactic of crude ness but thinking I may as well try it as no one is interested lmao I'm happy being a perv for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need for crudeness at all. A polite and honest email will either get you noticed or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely false!

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By *s12345theeMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Some women love a well thought out respectful introductory message. Others complain it is too long.

Woman's Propagative I suppose!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its proves a lack of imagination or interest. Think its instant shag on here. No effort needed just all drop our Bridget Jones. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like that's more wishful thinking than the truth.A well constructed and alluring sentence has more chance of making you want to reply or indeed receiving response .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a first message. Block. No hesitation.

A first message like that is a perfect warning to avoid the sender.

If we exchange a few messages discussing a meet and start to get on the same wavelength then that is totally different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete,block,then shake head when they post on the forum that they can't get a meet.

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By *ig tit chickWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I agree it does nothing for me but woman do make it near impossible for the poor men on here,

No cock pics-we have tit vagina pics

No face pic no chat-most woman don't have face pics

Make your messages stand out catch my eye- I bet the crude messages caught your eye lol do we ask too much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree it does nothing for me but woman do make it near impossible for the poor men on here,

No cock pics-we have tit vagina pics

No face pic no chat-most woman don't have face pics

Make your messages stand out catch my eye- I bet the crude messages caught your eye lol do we ask too much? "

I agree that it is difficult for guys on fab. No argument there.

However I am not answering for every woman on fab. I am only answering for me and I expect the same level of courtesy from a guy on fab as I would if I met in a bar.

Any bloke opens in a bar with "fancy a fuck" would get shredded. No different here.

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By *ruceWayne85Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How any guy thinks they can get a reply by saying "I want to fill your pussy with cun" is beyond me, daft kunts

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By *quirtiliscious1Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

Crude messages only warrant a block and delete from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a terrible way to introduce yourself to anyone. I got one the other night "you look like you want your f*nny licked".

My first thought was no wonder single guys get a bad rep with twats like him.

Instant block!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our experience, the "wanna fuck" type messages are often from guys who want little more than to talk dirty through messaging on fab to get themselves off. Whenever you try and conduct a sensible conversion, they usually lose interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have single men blocked and after an unexpected and very horny meet with a young man on our holiday we decided to unblock men and within 2 days blocked again .." You want to fill your women's pussy with come while she's screaming for more more more " oh yes please feckin arses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate messages like that from someone I've never talked to."

i don't like them even from people I have talked to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate messages like that from someone I've never talked to.

i don't like them even from people I have talked to"
I'd be petrified to send you a message like that Mrs b

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant block for me. Shows a complete lack of respect. For themselves or anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a rule I think crudeness in a message is uncalled for. However I have come across women and couples on here whose profiles are extremely crude, so you would think a crude message was in order. Apparently not!!! There's nowt as queer as folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never got passed the bit where I say I've came in my pants..

I think its politer anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All single guys are on to a loser, so anyone that jumps straight in with the language used above is clear on for an epic fail. Just because they are using the safety of the net doesn't call for laziness or lack of repsect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed that my generation of fems are more into that kinda talking, not all but a lot. As for the older generation need to treat with a bit more respect than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been talked about lots and some single guys can't separate the difference between porn and real life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed that my generation of fems are more into that kinda talking, not all but a lot. As for the older generation need to treat with a bit more respect than that"

As seen from your update. I personally don't think woman of any age want those messages, maybe I'm mistaken ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

False

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I personally don't think woman of any age want those messages, maybe I'm mistaken ? "
or give those type of messages ..

We had a we peek at your profile and there isn't a thing that would expect anything other than a message with respect , manners and politeness !!!!

Haha was going to try and be crude but funny and we can't even bring ourselves to type something ... You very curvy, hot bit of crumpet ?? lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed that my generation of fems are more into that kinda talking, not all but a lot. As for the older generation need to treat with a bit more respect than that

As seen from your update. I personally don't think woman of any age want those messages, maybe I'm mistaken ? "
lol I keep my verifications private if that's what you mean, just coz u don't like it doesn't mean everyone doesn't either, I've never mailed anyone talking like that as I'm not that kinda guy Ive been asked to talk like that by younger women & that's the only reason I thought that never said it as 100% fact

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

submissive land

Def a regular occurrence receive such messzge

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I'd probably reply sarcastically.."

Aye so you would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was just informed by a non desperate non aggressive (well only slightly) guy that the messages most women respond to and like on here are the crude "I want to fill you with cum" "you need my cock in your pussy" messages!

True or false?"

Sometimes it's nice.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I have tried to be nice to people but don't get any interest i now feel like i bore people lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was just informed by a non desperate non aggressive (well only slightly) guy that the messages most women respond to and like on here are the crude "I want to fill you with cum" "you need my cock in your pussy" messages!

True or false?

Sometimes it's nice....."

so can I!?!..pwwwweeeeeeeaseeeee!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed that my generation of fems are more into that kinda talking, not all but a lot. As for the older generation need to treat with a bit more respect than that

As seen from your update. I personally don't think woman of any age want those messages, maybe I'm mistaken ? lol I keep my verifications private if that's what you mean, just coz u don't like it doesn't mean everyone doesn't either, I've never mailed anyone talking like that as I'm not that kinda guy Ive been asked to talk like that by younger women & that's the only reason I thought that never said it as 100% fact"

I was referring to your explicit update on your profile when I looked at it. You fill your boots but don't proclaim innocence in the crudeness factor lol.I never once suggested you sent crude messages to women on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the brightest opening for anyone. To be honest single guys could open with anything, short/long, funny/witty/cheeky, polite, formal/informal... 90% of females won't reply if they've not spoken to you before.

Even a reply declining interest is better than being ignored. Just an opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It a a no no from me

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By *quirtiliscious1Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

This mornings top message so far "would you like me to shoot my load in your ear then lick it out" can someone please tell me what is in that for me except earache? Needless to say my answer was block lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This mornings top message so far "would you like me to shoot my load in your ear then lick it out" can someone please tell me what is in that for me except earache? Needless to say my answer was block lol "

You can only imagine that folk are tacking the mick when they do that, they may even just be wee boys having a laugh!!

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