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By *ravedck1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

new gilston

Hello folks,

First post in the Scottish forum. And I would just like to share some experiences with you. I have found the Scottish room to be a little too clique, Now some would say that its not but I guess it’s a matter of opinion. I have chatted in this room before but I do think it tends to be one sided. Or if your not in the gang forget it. So folks what happened to the good old fashioned Scottish hospitality. Don’t let the other rooms drag our good name down. Lets be a little more understanding and after all it’s a chat room and its supposed to be fun. Cheers brave

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

We don't need other rooms to bring our name down when we have our very own posting threads like this in the forum.

I don't agree that it's cliquey .... it is simply a group of people chatting to each other. The ones you are describing as in a clique are the ones who have built up friendships over a matter of time and therefore are more familiar with each other. You wouldn't walk into a pub and expect everyone to chat to you because you shout "hi!"

You only get out of it what you put in, and by calling regulars a clique isn't a good way to start IMO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhh this old chestnut again, lol.... well said lil, couldn't have phrased it better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You only get out of it what you put in, and by calling regulars a clique isn't a good way to start IMO."

Nor in our opinion.

We were all newbies at one point, we made an effort, others spoke to us. Simple really!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"We don't need other rooms to bring our name down when we have our very own posting threads like this in the forum.

I don't agree that it's cliquey .... it is simply a group of people chatting to each other. The ones you are describing as in a clique are the ones who have built up friendships over a matter of time and therefore are more familiar with each other. You wouldn't walk into a pub and expect everyone to chat to you because you shout "hi!"

You only get out of it what you put in, and by calling regulars a clique isn't a good way to start IMO."

Seconded!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

calling regulars a clique,isnt a good way to start,but it is a common way to start.

never be part of a clique.it restricts who you can disagree with.

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By *ast and modifiedCouple
over a year ago

near glasgow


"You only get out of it what you put in, and by calling regulars a clique isn't a good way to start IMO.

Nor in our opinion.

We were all newbies at one point, we made an effort, others spoke to us. Simple really!"
but now you have had enough of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the ' you get out of it what you put in' I was in here not long after joining, moaning about people deleting my messages and not replying saying no etc. It took a few people here telling me to get a grip before I realised how daft I was being.

If you go in the Scottish room and shout hi you will get people talking to you guaranteed. I am now taking the site as what it is, an ideal place to meet horny dirty minded folk, but you have to make the effort and understand that maybe some people don't want to chat to you or reply to messages. Mmm have I rambled on here?lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I often wonder if people who comment on other people being clique, ever stop and take a second and think, that it may be us... they themselves may be at fault rather than it be others ... they may give off an air of superiority or a constant negative vibe and people just shy away from them.

I know a novel idea that people would self critique before judging others...

I don't go in chat very often but when I do, I am amazed the volume of NEW NAMES CHATTING AWAY.... now if it was truly clique, they wouldn't be and it would just be the longer term regulars.

my 2p worth...

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Clique?

Bollocks.

I'm 300 miles away, only dip in here occasionally, and don't have any girly bits to tempt people with, but am still able to join in and be part of whatever's happening.

And the same is true in the scottish chat rooms too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

_ravedck1,i always say hi to you as i do to most people , but u can get carried away with a convo and not always see people saying hi

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Clique?

Bollocks.

I'm 300 miles away, only dip in here occasionally, and don't have any girly bits to tempt people with, but am still able to join in and be part of whatever's happening.

And the same is true in the scottish chat rooms too.

"

that's out of pity Sharpie, not cos we like you

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"that's out of pity Sharpie, not cos we like you "

I don't care what the reason is!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"that's out of pity Sharpie, not cos we like you

I don't care what the reason is! "

careful, or I won't wipe the 4some memory!!!!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"that's out of pity Sharpie, not cos we like you

I don't care what the reason is!

careful, or I won't wipe the 4some memory!!!! "

I didn't want it wiping, so that's not a threat

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"that's out of pity Sharpie, not cos we like you

I don't care what the reason is!

careful, or I won't wipe the 4some memory!!!!

I didn't want it wiping, so that's not a threat "

not sure funky and Inv feel the same way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cliq, click, ignor.

Whatever it is, in here............nah

We all love each other.

Anytime I go into the Chat room I meet and chat some of the nicest peopl I've ever known.

cheques in the post please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You only get out of it what you put in, and by calling regulars a clique isn't a good way to start IMO.

Nor in our opinion.

We were all newbies at one point, we made an effort, others spoke to us. Simple really!but now you have had enough of the site."

lol, not just yet.

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By *ast and modifiedCouple
over a year ago

near glasgow


"You only get out of it what you put in, and by calling regulars a clique isn't a good way to start IMO.

Nor in our opinion.

We were all newbies at one point, we made an effort, others spoke to us. Simple really!but now you have had enough of the site.

lol, not just yet."
im a celebrity get me out of here

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