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By *haostime OP   Man
over a year ago

north Glasgow

Hi I was having a chat about this with another fabber, and we were thinking it would be great if you could have a page to name n shame fake profiles, or a system where you could maybe leave a comment, something that would help others. I mean we have verifications for meets, but how many of us have been let down. Also I have heard of a few nervy things, which kind of gets you wondering.

Does anyone have a decent suggestion on how that could be feasible

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Going from your status get over it

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By *haostime OP   Man
over a year ago

north Glasgow

Haha I'm over it kola, not seen or heard from you if years though,;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like verifications all comments would be subjective. Its never going to happen. Everyone has their own radar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

timewasters are par of the course. not possible sadly.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Chaostime arranged to meet me twice and never shows up..... So still think naming and shaming works

Ps not true just making a point

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By *haostime OP   Man
over a year ago

north Glasgow


"Chaostime arranged to meet me twice and never shows up..... So still think naming and shaming works

Ps not true just making a point "

Fair point lol x can honestly say though I ain't let anyone down. I have met some pretty decent people on here, but I tend to find, the ones that use the forums are genuine the rest are not worth the thumb ache typing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

time wasters on forums too. arrange to meet then dont txt. dont get it. be nice everybody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I'm a fake because I won't meet absolutely everyone who asks. And a time waster because I reply to polite messages, even if I'm not going to meet the sender. Sigh. This page/list idea isn't a good one.

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By *haostime OP   Man
over a year ago

north Glasgow

Fair play strawberry, that's why I'm asking on here. Just trying to see different _iews.

If someone has a better suggestion please share, I'd be interested to see what people could come up with, if anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people should just stop being cunts to each other. Meet when they say they will and be on here for fun. Too many oddball/angry types about at the moment. Is it the weather? (Or perhaps the school holidays!)

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Hi I was having a chat about this with another fabber, and we were thinking it would be great if you could have a page to name n shame fake profiles, or a system where you could maybe leave a comment, something that would help others. I mean we have verifications for meets, but how many of us have been let down. Also I have heard of a few nervy things, which kind of gets you wondering.

Does anyone have a decent suggestion on how that could be feasible "

The search button will bring up loads of posts on naming and shaming, and why it's a bad idea

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"I think people should just stop being cunts to each other. Meet when they say they will and be on here for fun. Too many oddball/angry types about at the moment. Is it the weather? (Or perhaps the school holidays!) "

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

If you believe you are getting more than your fair share of fakes and timewasters is it possible your selection process needs looked at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is wasting my time

so does the OP fall into the category he is complaining about?

think about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has this thread made the OP hide his profile...?!

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Quite simply no it would be filled with drama and animosity....he says she says....here's some reasons why it wouldn't work.

Someone rejects another...person takes huff and names and shames

Someone takes a vendetta against another....person names and shames.

Even something as simple as someone takes a huff at forum post....person names and shames.

Ex partners....

The list is endless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish there was an option to delete verifications a guy is using it as was to

Message me. Its a pain in the arse as I can't get rid of them ?? Any ideas ??

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes but only if all the messages between the parties are posted.....

allows context and hopefully all sides of the story to be re_iewed.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Wish there was an option to delete verifications a guy is using it as was to

Message me. Its a pain in the arse as I can't get rid of them ?? Any ideas ??"

Blocking someone removed verification of thier profile

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Wish there was an option to delete verifications a guy is using it as was to

Message me. Its a pain in the arse as I can't get rid of them ?? Any ideas ??"

block them, they disappear then

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By *haostime OP   Man
over a year ago

north Glasgow


"Has this thread made the OP hide his profile...?! "

Yeah strawberry it did. Due to me receiving quite a nasty pm from someone actually in this thread. I never had a go or personal attack on any specific person, so therefore getting that pm was pretty uunwarranted.

I'm not the type to go clipe and put in a complaint on the sender (you know who are) so therefore decided to hide my profile for the time being

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Has this thread made the OP hide his profile...?!

Yeah strawberry it did. Due to me receiving quite a nasty pm from someone actually in this thread. I never had a go or personal attack on any specific person, so therefore getting that pm was pretty uunwarranted.

I'm not the type to go clipe and put in a complaint on the sender (you know who are) so therefore decided to hide my profile for the time being

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Report messages ....don't let people run you away .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can report the profile to admin and they'll look into it in the case of a no show. Public displays of name and shame tend to make the poster look bitter so can protect the identity of the person with the issue.

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By *overocketoneMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

I agree with above. Report to Admin and forget the vigilante garbage

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By *overocketoneMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

I agree with above. Report to Admin and forget the vigilante garbage

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By *overocketoneMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

Lol op. Has hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has this thread made the OP hide his profile...?!

Yeah strawberry it did. Due to me receiving quite a nasty pm from someone actually in this thread. I never had a go or personal attack on any specific person, so therefore getting that pm was pretty uunwarranted.

I'm not the type to go clipe and put in a complaint on the sender (you know who are) so therefore decided to hide my profile for the time being

"

You need to report. That's totally uncalled for. I guess it actually proves your point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I was having a chat about this with another fabber, and we were thinking it would be great if you could have a page to name n shame fake profiles, or a system where you could maybe leave a comment, something that would help others. I mean we have verifications for meets, but how many of us have been let down. Also I have heard of a few nervy things, which kind of gets you wondering.

How many people do you think would be left on the Site with Naming & Shaming ?

Probably Zero

Does anyone have a decent suggestion on how that could be feasible "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I was having a chat about this with another fabber, and we were thinking it would be great if you could have a page to name n shame fake profiles, or a system where you could maybe leave a comment, something that would help others. I mean we have verifications for meets, but how many of us have been let down. Also I have heard of a few nervy things, which kind of gets you wondering.

How many people do you think would be left on the Site with Naming & Shaming ?

Probably Zero

Does anyone have a decent suggestion on how that could be feasible "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has this thread made the OP hide his profile...?!

Yeah strawberry it did. Due to me receiving quite a nasty pm from someone actually in this thread. I never had a go or personal attack on any specific person, so therefore getting that pm was pretty uunwarranted.

I'm not the type to go clipe and put in a complaint on the sender (you know who are) so therefore decided to hide my profile for the time being

"

That's just shocking behaviour...don't hide op. REPORT. If administration don't know, they can't act.

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By *homCrownMan
over a year ago

West Fife


"Has this thread made the OP hide his profile...?!

Yeah strawberry it did. Due to me receiving quite a nasty pm from someone actually in this thread. I never had a go or personal attack on any specific person, so therefore getting that pm was pretty uunwarranted.

I'm not the type to go clipe and put in a complaint on the sender (you know who are) so therefore decided to hide my profile for the time being

That's just shocking behaviour...don't hide op. REPORT. If administration don't know, they can't act. "

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Wasnt me ...just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nor me. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


". Due to me receiving quite a nasty pm from someone actually in this thread.

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Be interesting to find out who sent the nasty PM,

sure wasn't me

why done you copy & paste the PM see what it says

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and it wasn't me

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Not me

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Ohhh im on tenter hooks not many left to say wasnt me....... will leave ya in suspense as to whether im the culprit or not....... although I may have answered it on the how often do ya msg thread pmsl

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

[Removed by poster at 25/07/15 11:05:13]

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am leaking precum with excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea!!! there's too many weirdos faking it on here and lots of fake veri's too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then you'd only get weirdos accusing you of giving fake veris....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone else gone through the thread to try and wok out which guy sent the awful message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wok? Must be hungry....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else gone through the thread to try and wok out which guy sent the awful message? "

Mmmmmhhhhhmmmm....

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Anyone else gone through the thread to try and wok out which guy sent the awful message? "
why guy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else gone through the thread to try and wok out which guy sent the awful message? why guy ?"

True!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohh!!!!! True true. I'd assumed that because the ladies has said it wasn't them that it must be one of the guys who hadn't replied. Perhaps someone's double buffing?! The plot thickens....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then again; was there actually a message sent!!!!

as someone previously posted, if there was a message sent that was "so bad" the OP should report to Admin

Admin will give the person who sent it a cooling off period (If there was one actually sent) I am beginning to suspect not,

but if there was, the person who sent it, will not be able to post for a few days

anyway, why am I commenting on this thread, its boring

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