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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im fed up with fems leaving cos they have been targeted by the handful of timewasters and the 'not real swingers'. And yes i know this post has been done to death but is it not time the site tackled this issue. It is stopping real swingers from loving this site. Can the thumbs up-down function not be used better? And yes i know profiles can be reported and that its so easy just to do a new profile but come on lets make it hard for there ppl to mess us all about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a shame when nice people leave any site.

a previous site I was on had a 'star' rating and if you received negative feedback, it affected your rating. yu saw who was giving you the negative feedback. the thumbs up and down is behind the scenes so not sure if that would work in current format. in 70 ish meets over several years I used negative feedback twice so I believe that worked well.

not sure what a 'real swinger' is tho.. I used to think it was people who met up for sex but so many want cam stuff and phonesex, so I have changed my understanding on what 'swinging' means.different things for different people.

my 2p worth...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi mandy hun ive been on here nearly 2 years an not had many time wasters can i suggest something an hope im not being rude but ur verifaction is all by fone 2 be honest u should delete ur profile or just redo it again an do meets instead of fone chat put on ya profile wat ur looking 4 an mean wat u say..mines is str8t 2 the point an i get no shit an if i did id bust there baws lol..tc hun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe if its 100% proven you have truely timewasted n messed someone about, how bout the powers that be auto-hide your profile for a week,get found guilty of it again,you suddenly have zero profile !

Star system worked well, i recall feeling 100% bout meeting folks with 5 stars and certainly asked the relevant questions to those with 3 or less stars.

Txx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have to say that I've been appalled by some stories I've been told by several girls on this site, although I'm well aware that the same thing goes on at other places.

I'm not suggesting that a solution is hanging around just waiting to be picked up, but I do think that's it's about time that site managers took the problem seriously, and seriously looked for a solution.

The bottom line is that there are girls leaving sites all the time purely because they're being continually targeted by guys who are basically abusers. They're utter morons who hide behind the anonymity of the internet, but my understanding, rightly or wrongly, is that they're not quite so anonymous to site management who can see information about them that the ordinary members and users can't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we only message people who have been verified by other site users,and we make it clear on our profile we will only chat or meet with people that are verified by other site members. just s out all the time wasters..

one way of getting to know the gen people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always found attending 'socials' are the ideal way to meet lovely people.. save the anonymity of the site and puts faces to names etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we only message people who have been verified by other site users,and we make it clear on our profile we will only chat or meet with people that are verified by other site members. just s out all the time wasters..

one way of getting to know the gen people on here "

I do similar but to be fair i also account for zero verifications if people are very new to the site,otherwise its a vicious circle of "we wont meet you because your not verified" bit of a catch 22 for genuine folks who simply have'nt met-yet.

T x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some good feedback here. Its good to get ppl talking about this problem. Just to point out that i posted this cos a friend is leaving and not me. Im very happy, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yea i agree garry..but like trampus said im apalled by the way morons act but some fems are just as bad..an yea trampus the site management doe's see wats going on in the site even 2 silly emails that gets send 2 ppl is it ok for fems 2 give abuse but no guys i dont THINK SO..so dont go there with me on that subject..wat go's around comes around..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

soz 2 hear that mandy..an glad ur happy hun xx

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

i have had a few timewasters on the site - some who just want the chat and idea that some fem might ACTUALLY meet them for nsa sex. others who arrange meets for during dinner times or short breaks just coz they are in your area .

on the whole most who say they will meet do or at least contact with plenty notice to cancel.

as for verifications if someone new to the site there has to be someone who will give them a chance of a first meet.

give people the same opportunity as someone once gave you

just my tuppence worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With regard to verification, I'm sorry but surely to say that you only meet people with verification is a rather short-sighted viewpoint.

How on earth can someone get virified if nobody meets them? If everyone took that attitude there would be no "Fabswingers.com"!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With regard to verification, I'm sorry but surely to say that you only meet people with verification is a rather short-sighted viewpoint.

How on earth can someone get virified if nobody meets them? If everyone took that attitude there would be no "Fabswingers.com"!!"

ATTEND SOCIALS...

VERIFIED BY WEBCAM..

VERIFIED BY PHONE...

AND AS RHONA SAY'S SHE DOES.

AND IF IT WORKS FOR THEM ... COOL.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OOPS caps apologies all x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"we only message people who have been verified by other site users,and we make it clear on our profile we will only chat or meet with people that are verified by other site members. just s out all the time wasters..

one way of getting to know the gen people on here "

I dont agree with ur comments at all and find them a bit unfair we all came on here with no verifications and the way we got them was by meeting ppl but if everyone was like u n only met ppl who were verified there would be no new ppl joining this site so give the newbies a chance i have many times n met some fantastic ppl here amd all very grateful to at last have a verificatin and gone on themselfs to have some sucessfull meets

luv jacs

xxxxx

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We've never really had any problems but it's probably because it takes us a bit of time to get around to meeting people. We like to chat on msn and cam etc before having a meet and it's something that's always worked for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im fed up with fems leaving cos they have been targeted by the handful of timewasters"

It's not just fems leaving because of this, a fair old number of couples and males have gone too. There are fems on the site who's sole intention is to target and tease single guys but never meet them.

And some ppls definition of "timewasters" is very different as well.

We were called timewasters after we had met a couple socially for drinks and told them the next day we weren't taking things to a second meet.

That, to us, isn't timewasting, it's being choosy about who we want to be intimate with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been the target of a time waster recently, think there was more to this one than meets the eye......as in more than just him involved in what they thought was a big joke. Bad news we not really that bothered and we certainly not going anywhere ....gonna be around a while yet !!!............lol

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By *aradisecplCouple
over a year ago

bristol

He he we been targeted as timewasters too and it was because we had no pics on profile with our clothes on ...

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

if being called a time waster means taking your time to get to know the person before u meet well that could put me in that category.Please all be assured i aint no time waster Ive never been called one and hope i never amxxxxxxxxxxxx

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