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Dom ,Sub or Switch?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

whats your preference to dom or domme,sub or to switch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to switch depending on the meet n who it is

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I like to switch depending on the meet n who it is"
Im more of a sub but can for the right people be domme too

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Def sub tried being dominant in past but just not me lol

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By *redrobCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Kilmarnock


"whats your preference to dom or domme,sub or to switch?

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Dom with guys and sub with females.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The name says it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Switch but mainly sub

Lx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seen a film once where a girl started off sub then changed to dom she knew her stuff... think it was called the exorcist

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

me, mainly dom, miss kink, mainly sub.

She would like to dom a lady though.

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By *akeheelsTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburghish

sub as a girl, dom as a boy.

mostly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Switch. But actually think with my arranged meets this trip I'll be more sub...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm much more a domme when the mood takes me. The rest of the time I like equality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always Dom

its an Alpha male thing

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

Sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dom x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

What is it you all like about being either sub or dom ?

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By *ikchattyfellahMan
over a year ago

Greenock

Like to do both depending on the mood of the moment.. As happy to control as to be controlled!

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By *ighlandballsMan
over a year ago

DUNKELD

Can easily switch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it you all like about being either sub or dom ?"

think its just another way of asking whos going on top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub for the right woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely switch. More recently I've enjoyed subbing but have recently taken on a sub of my own so going to have my fun with her

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By *quirtiliscious1Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

Am defo a switch although a bit feisty to be sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub love being dommed by a female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it you all like about being either sub or dom ?"

For me it's the thrill of his responses. The way I can let my imagination go and keep him guessing.

Knowing that at that moment he's desperate for more of me.

Seeing him writhing under my touch. Groaning or moaning or that sharp intake of breath all because of me.

It's a little bit about control for me sometimes though not that much.

It's more of an ego boost and making sure I win the place as the one who gives more pleasure than anyone else. Sounds dumb but it's the truth of it.

Of course there are times I also take what I want too but that's not usually the motivator.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely Dom nothing major just like to be in control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub for the right person, but equal fun throughout.......

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By *ringiton89Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sub

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By *timulatingFunMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm a dom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Switch

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By *axter1987Man
over a year ago

your hotlist

deffo switch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm genuinely an alpha male and can be quite Dom but there is a thrill in being controlled by a woman and serving her xxso guess I'm switch x

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I'd try them all!!

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By *econdhand RoseWoman
over a year ago

Nr Dumfries

Definitely sub.

I'm so "in charge" of my daily life, organised, making decisions etc. I love to give that up to someone I trust in the bedroom and be told what to do.

In previous times it was more about how I felt about myself, that I somehow deserved to be made to be dirty. I let it go to far and it was really messed me up. I mentally in a much better place and a much better person has helped me enjoy my sub side safely.

Rose x

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

None of the above im definatly not sub definatly not dom so impossible to switch

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By *ouncingBiscuitsWoman
over a year ago

toy town, Glasgow

Subway all day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tend to keep my ,Dom side in check unless I get into chats with genuine natural subs. I wouldn't be adverse to switching with the right lady either xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to be sub, especially with dominant couples. Love to do as Im instructed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me being Dom, is about the tease and the control. The ability to give pleasure and excitement, the psychological edge adding to the thrill of the sex. It is not and never will be for me, just an excuse to Spank a girl or have rough sex that's not being Dom its part of the arsenal of things you can employ but in and of itself that's not it. The key for me is to to get inside the subs head, working out the rewards and punishments that will excite the most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub I wanna be a cuckold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub I wanna be a cuckold

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

I actually think we are switch. Love it when she takes control and then I like telling her what to do and restraining her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm genuinely switch - just as happy in charge or in bondage

It all depends on the lady.... Dominant ladies bring out the sub in me easily and I'll find myself naturally submitting to them, sometimes without even realizing it!

On the other side, a submissive lady will bring out my Dom side and I'll take as much control as she's comfortable letting me have.

What can I say.. cake and eat it

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country


"I'm genuinely switch - just as happy in charge or in bondage

It all depends on the lady.... Dominant ladies bring out the sub in me easily and I'll find myself naturally submitting to them, sometimes without even realizing it!

On the other side, a submissive lady will bring out my Dom side and I'll take as much control as she's comfortable letting me have.

What can I say.. cake and eat it"
: you've done it now switch you've mentioned the C word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Switch but slightly more Dom. I do love it when I get a woman who can really dominate me. Make me do things I wouldn't normally do.

Do love rope play. Me meting the dom in that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cake... there can never be too much cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are both pretty Dom but the misses can be sub

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country


"Cake... there can never be too much cake"
Even better with a cup of tea

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By *urlyShirtyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"What is it you all like about being either sub or dom ?"

So far been dom. Always wanted to explore whether I have a sub side ibut never met a lassie who wanted to play that way.

I enjoy the feeling of trust that having somebody give themselves to you that fully. Aye, there is a sense of power and control there but, more than that, I enjoy the feeling that they have given themselves over to me, to do as I see fit. Not just to inflict pain or humiliation, but to care for and protect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dom. Though have never really tried sub. Something to cross off the list!

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By *eobmwMan
over a year ago

ALLOA

i love being sub to women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a Sub. Love being told what to do and used!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very submissive

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By *rocMan
over a year ago

llandudno junction

Switch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A like to be dom, sometimes I line to switch depending on the woman, nothing sexy'r than a dom sexy woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am switch. However would like to meet a comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub. Like a partner to take charge and use me for their enjoyment.

Some say but we both need to enjoy it, believe me I really enjoy being used lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Switch with the right person

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Away from fab, sub - but its gifted to someone, and I only sub to one person at a time.

On fab, equals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's very sub but can switch. I can't lol

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By *arymore1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

dom, or neutral depending on partner, not really a sub

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By *rmagiteMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Switch but not got a top right now so just doming a few people.

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