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How do I convert the wife to Swinging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm on here as a single but married guy. Managed to get my wife a bit more interested lately, even a bit of kinky stuff, but I'd love her to share Fab with me. Anyone been in a similar position and managed to convince their partner to join in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show her pics of big black boabys or big white ones lol

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By *cotsteveMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

fetches popcorn...........

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Show her pics of big black boabys or big white ones lol"

She's already got a big white one lol don't think pics will do it, the real thing is what we need I think. Some variety is the key I think. But it's taking that first step that's proving difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it not her thing then you beat dont push it and fuck up ya relationship mind you if your here and she domt know that not a good sign

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's not as simple as it might seem and I won't bore you with the details, but me being on here actually helps. But much like golf and football, she ain't that interested , but she doesn't mind watching the big finals !! So there's always hope.

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By *erfume-LoverMan
over a year ago

Lothian area

Blindfold , drink and drugs - don't work

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blindfold , drink and drugs - don't work"

Drink and drugs would just put her to sleep. Tried a bit if bondage, but no blindfold yet. Food for thought!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just take her along to your next meet? im sure shes love it, and if not, least you would be a proper single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she might prefer to do it behind your back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just take her along to your next meet? im sure shes love it, and if not, least you would be a proper single "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"she might prefer to do it behind your back "

I've often been asked that, but believe me she isn't, but as you say, she might.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey ..shes the best meet ive ever had ....She even swears at ya.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went on holiday tried a tantric couples massage in Tenerife it's a pricey way but it let her see if she enjoyed being touched intimately by another woman and if she could watch you being touched without getting jealous and if that works try blackpool and go to infusions on a couples night a Saturday and just ease into it baby steps till she's sure but if your cheating on here swinging in the true sense probably isn't a great idea but first steps on a holiday where your inhibitions are lessened because no one knows you is a good way to start look up kundalini massage tenerife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why not arrange a social meet with some guy in a pub..he could flirt with her then go to toilet and you could say god he wants to fuck you and take it from there

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By *econdhand RoseWoman
over a year ago

Nr Dumfries

I'd been going out with my partner for 2 or 3 months, we were away for the weekend. When I woke up he was still beside me in bed but on his laptop. I wear glasses so couldn't see what he was doing. Asked him, he told me he was in a chatroom. He closed down the laptop and told me about Fab. Ten minutes later I was waving on cam and I've been here ever since.

My opinion? Bite the bullet and ask her what she thinks. Be honest. At least you'll know and you can have an honest discussion.

Rose x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd been going out with my partner for 2 or 3 months, we were away for the weekend. When I woke up he was still beside me in bed but on his laptop. I wear glasses so couldn't see what he was doing. Asked him, he told me he was in a chatroom. He closed down the laptop and told me about Fab. Ten minutes later I was waving on cam and I've been here ever since.

Thanks Rose, probably the soundest advice yet x

My opinion? Bite the bullet and ask her what she thinks. Be honest. At least you'll know and you can have an honest discussion.

Rose x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor soul. Being discussed like a pile of chopped liver with a bunch of strangers on a swinging site! Deeply respectful.

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Show her pics of big black boabys or big white ones lol

She's already got a big white one lol don't think pics will do it, the real thing is what we need I think. Some variety is the key I think. But it's taking that first step that's proving difficult."

Clearly what youve already got aint enough for you so maybe she feels the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get a decent noose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With cable ties and gaffa tape!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck her doggy style and whilst doing so put your fingers in her mouth and see if she sucks them like cock. If she does start talking like she's naughty for wanting more cock and does she want more.

Before you know it you'll be having a MMMF meet.

PS I will not be held responsible if she bites them off

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Just show her your profile on here and your verifications and she'll be putty in your hands

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

You can't convert anyone to swinging any more than you can convert them to Judaism, vegetarianism or lesbianism.

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By *woplustwocoupleCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

You could always just ask her of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrange a meet at yours as a surprise, light blue touch paper and stand well back.....name and address of good lawyers enclosed

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By *inasparklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Why would you want to change her anyway. Was she not this way when you married her. Your suppose to love and respect her unconditionally. Give her the respect she's due and im sure if you worked half as hard on your marriage as you did to get a meet on here you wouldnt need here

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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago

Manchester Area


"You can't convert anyone to swinging any more than you can convert them to Judaism, vegetarianism or lesbianism."

IM.a.convert..The only male Jewish Lesbian with a foreskin and a bacon butty fetishism

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Show her pics of big black boabys or big white ones lol"

Quote of the day. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Poor soul. Being discussed like a pile of chopped liver with a bunch of strangers on a swinging site! Deeply respectful. "

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she has no interest then leave her to enjoy things she does enjoy!

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