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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Single guys, you'll have weeks of nothing fun falling into place.

You'll have the odd week where your spoilt for choice what to do swinging wise.

In time you'll learn to recognise the timewasters more quickly.

You will occasionally be pleasantly surprised by a no-nonsense couple or fem who will simply want to meet.

You will possibly be told everything you want to hear yet not ever meet.

And sometimes you will simply miss the swinging bus.

Its very often just being the right place at right time that occurs.

Writing about how you've been messed about and or been leaft scratching your head,that happens too and you simply just move on.

I move on, i keep faith in the fact im honest, have swinging integrity and play fair,the temptation is always there to moan about the bad experiences, but it wont gain you interest or influence others, so take the knocks and let the knocks inspire you to seek your fellow fun people.

T xx

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By *iss scarlettWoman
over a year ago

in scarlettsville ,west lothian


"Single guys, you'll have weeks of nothing fun falling into place.

You'll have the odd week where your spoilt for choice what to do swinging wise.

In time you'll learn to recognise the timewasters more quickly.

You will occasionally be pleasantly surprised by a no-nonsense couple or fem who will simply want to meet.

You will possibly be told everything you want to hear yet not ever meet.

And sometimes you will simply miss the swinging bus.

Its very often just being the right place at right time that occurs.

Writing about how you've been messed about and or been leaft scratching your head,that happens too and you simply just move on.

I move on, i keep faith in the fact im honest, have swinging integrity and play fair,the temptation is always there to moan about the bad experiences, but it wont gain you interest or influence others, so take the knocks and let the knocks inspire you to seek your fellow fun people.

T xx"

Excellent post, very well put.

It happens not just to single guys , fems and couples have this problem too.

But as you have said you take the knocks and move on.

I laugh about it , shit happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very well put,such is the life of a singleton ,frustrations and dissapointments galore,but as above me says "shit happens"just keep on going and something good will happen eventually

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By *ast and modifiedCouple
over a year ago

near glasgow


"Single guys, you'll have weeks of nothing fun falling into place.

You'll have the odd week where your spoilt for choice what to do swinging wise.

In time you'll learn to recognise the timewasters more quickly.

You will occasionally be pleasantly surprised by a no-nonsense couple or fem who will simply want to meet.

You will possibly be told everything you want to hear yet not ever meet.

And sometimes you will simply miss the swinging bus.

Its very often just being the right place at right time that occurs.

Writing about how you've been messed about and or been leaft scratching your head,that happens too and you simply just move on.

I move on, i keep faith in the fact im honest, have swinging integrity and play fair,the temptation is always there to moan about the bad experiences, but it wont gain you interest or influence others, so take the knocks and let the knocks inspire you to seek your fellow fun people.

T xx"

i often wonder why you single guys cant get a girlfriend in the first place when you are all so wonderful

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By *wingersgardenMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"often wonder why you single guys cant get a girlfriend in the first place when you are all so wonderful"

Hmmm ... if you assume that single guys are interested in swinging because it's their only way of getting a shag, then no wonder we get a bad name.

But if you thought that we were interested in swinging because we like the thrill, the excitement, the exhibitionism, the sharing of experience, and make the choice to be involved in swinging for that reason ... maybe we would be a bit better understood?

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By *ast and modifiedCouple
over a year ago

near glasgow


"often wonder why you single guys cant get a girlfriend in the first place when you are all so wonderful

Hmmm ... if you assume that single guys are interested in swinging because it's their only way of getting a shag, then no wonder we get a bad name.

But if you thought that we were interested in swinging because we like the thrill, the excitement, the exhibitionism, the sharing of experience, and make the choice to be involved in swinging for that reason ... maybe we would be a bit better understood? "

wheres all this happening,as you are all moaning that you cant get meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" wheres all this happening,as you are all moaning that you cant get meets?"

Well then, as you are searching for singles why don`t help them out a little, I`m sure they`ll be eternally gratefull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep good post, plenty fish in the sea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good post Tony.

S.

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By *ast and modifiedCouple
over a year ago

near glasgow


" wheres all this happening,as you are all moaning that you cant get meets?

Well then, as you are searching for singles why don`t help them out a little, I`m sure they`ll be eternally gratefull. "

would if he was single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"often wonder why you single guys cant get a girlfriend in the first place when you are all so wonderful

Hmmm ... if you assume that single guys are interested in swinging because it's their only way of getting a shag, then no wonder we get a bad name.

But if you thought that we were interested in swinging because we like the thrill, the excitement, the exhibitionism, the sharing of experience, and make the choice to be involved in swinging for that reason ... maybe we would be a bit better understood? "

well i couldn't agree more with you mate on that one.

plus if you think it is easy to go out and find a g/f that is interested in swinging,give me the 6 no for this weeks lottery plz

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By *ast and modifiedCouple
over a year ago

near glasgow


"often wonder why you single guys cant get a girlfriend in the first place when you are all so wonderful

Hmmm ... if you assume that single guys are interested in swinging because it's their only way of getting a shag, then no wonder we get a bad name.

But if you thought that we were interested in swinging because we like the thrill, the excitement, the exhibitionism, the sharing of experience, and make the choice to be involved in swinging for that reason ... maybe we would be a bit better understood?

well i couldn't agree more with you mate on that one.

plus if you think it is easy to go out and find a g/f that is interested in swinging,give me the 6 no for this weeks lottery plz"

just as a matter of interest,4 of the 5 single men to post on this thread to date cant accomm.strange ,but hey its my opinion and i can think what i want.

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By *ast and modifiedCouple
over a year ago

near glasgow


"often wonder why you single guys cant get a girlfriend in the first place when you are all so wonderful

Hmmm ... if you assume that single guys are interested in swinging because it's their only way of getting a shag, then no wonder we get a bad name.

But if you thought that we were interested in swinging because we like the thrill, the excitement, the exhibitionism, the sharing of experience, and make the choice to be involved in swinging for that reason ... maybe we would be a bit better understood?

well i couldn't agree more with you mate on that one.

plus if you think it is easy to go out and find a g/f that is interested in swinging,give me the 6 no for this weeks lottery plzjust as a matter of interest,4 of the 5 single men to post on this thread to date cant accomm.strange ,but hey its my opinion and i can think what i want."

just as a matter of interest, if this was a poll, it would show that 80% of the single guys on fab swingers can't accommodate, going by the answers from single guys on this thread to date!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers to those who responded positively, but im laughing at the ironic bit, where i did say, ehhh "moaning does'nt help you" and guess what, one or two even use this thread to do just that! lol.

I can start my other thread if you want?

"Comments in verifications and their hidden meanings"

"Treat this lady with respect", luv that one, that actually means,

" I canny believe she bought all my blarney and i got my leg over,lol

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just as a matter of interest,4 of the 5 single men to post on this thread to date cant accomm.strange ,but hey its my opinion and i can think what i want."

Its actually 3 from 4 that can't accomodate.... But so what? Just cos a guy can't accomodate doesn't mean he's cheating on a partner. (Have not read profiles to see if that's the case). Some guys can't accomodate cos they maybe in a small flat, have kids around, even living with family... Sharing a house....

And, its their profile, they can do as they like and shouldn't be answerable to anyone on how they run their profile.

Steve

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By *bking1669Man
over a year ago

Dundee

Single guy Can't accomodate does not always mean has a live in wife / Girlfriend. Perhaps he has his kids from the divorce at weekends or God help me still lives with his mum!

Being honest and not whinging and going with the flow is the way forward.

PS am a swingle that can not accomodate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just as a matter of interest,4 of the 5 single men to post on this thread to date cant accomm.strange ,but hey its my opinion and i can think what i want.

Its actually 3 from 4 that can't accomodate.... But so what? Just cos a guy can't accomodate doesn't mean he's cheating on a partner. (Have not read profiles to see if that's the case). Some guys can't accomodate cos they maybe in a small flat, have kids around, even living with family... Sharing a house....

And, its their profile, they can do as they like and shouldn't be answerable to anyone on how they run their profile.

Steve"

I'm a long way from understanding why the size of anyone's flat should impact on a person's ability to accomodate but we'll leave that to one side for now.

There are probably any number of genuine and valid reasons why anyone cannot accomodate but, given the ratio of single guys to those they'd hope to meet - it's not a bad way of discarding a large tranche of them (us!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers to those who responded positively, but im laughing at the ironic bit, where i did say, ehhh "moaning does'nt help you" and guess what, one or two even use this thread to do just that! lol.

I can start my other thread if you want?

"Comments in verifications and their hidden meanings"

"Treat this lady with respect", luv that one, that actually means,

" I canny believe she bought all my blarney and i got my leg over,lol

T xx"

well i dont see the point in moaning about not getting meets or for that fact single guys that cant accom many many reason they can accom

but what the hay its all about having fun and meeting some very interesting people luckly i have and i made some great friendships off this site as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Single guy Can't accomodate does not always mean has a live in wife / Girlfriend. Perhaps he has his kids from the divorce at weekends or God help me still lives with his mum!

Being honest and not whinging and going with the flow is the way forward.

PS am a swingle that can not accomodate."

Groovy and you take the time out to explain that when messaging folks?

An informative profile, a few pics,couple of reassuring veri's,it all helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just as a matter of interest,4 of the 5 single men to post on this thread to date cant accomm.strange ,but hey its my opinion and i can think what i want.

Its actually 3 from 4 that can't accomodate.... But so what? Just cos a guy can't accomodate doesn't mean he's cheating on a partner. (Have not read profiles to see if that's the case). Some guys can't accomodate cos they maybe in a small flat, have kids around, even living with family... Sharing a house....

And, its their profile, they can do as they like and shouldn't be answerable to anyone on how they run their profile.

Steve"

I agree, I am married and can't accommodate - no more no less!

Jimmy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Singleland? Thought this was a post about another minnow country that have beaten Scotland at footie.....lol.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Plenty of couples can't accommodate...are we to assume they have some shameful secret too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Singleland? Thought this was a post about another minnow country that have beaten Scotland at footie.....lol. "

I'm told we beat the Faroe Islands recently but I acknowledge we were unceremoniously humped by the All Blacks at the weekend.

The fact is that, as a country, we're just too wee and too lackadaisical to bother about such trivia as national pride.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty of couples can't accommodate...are we to assume they have some shameful secret too!"

I dunno. Do they? What might that be? Kids? Parents? Thin walls? Slum dwellers?

I think we should be told.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Singleland? Thought this was a post about another minnow country that have beaten Scotland at footie.....lol. "

Well im so proud,lol, Faroe islands, its not gone to our heeds, but bring on Brazil next i say,lol

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Singleland? Thought this was a post about another minnow country that have beaten Scotland at footie.....lol. "

think you will find we won for a change pup and you FEB's got beat xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers to those who responded positively, but im laughing at the ironic bit, where i did say, ehhh "moaning does'nt help you" and guess what, one or two even use this thread to do just that! lol.

I can start my other thread if you want?

"Comments in verifications and their hidden meanings"

"Treat this lady with respect", luv that one, that actually means,

" I canny believe she bought all my blarney and i got my leg over,lol

T xx"

Or maybe they are just respectful? God forbid there could be respectful people in the swinging scene I have lasting friendships with everyone I've met because they are respectful, that's single men, couples and single fems. They must be good at keeping the "blarney" going! But until they prove otherwise, I'll stick with my deduction that they're sound people who I get along with brilliantly

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Cheers to those who responded positively, but im laughing at the ironic bit, where i did say, ehhh "moaning does'nt help you" and guess what, one or two even use this thread to do just that! lol.

I can start my other thread if you want?

"Comments in verifications and their hidden meanings"

"Treat this lady with respect", luv that one, that actually means,

" I canny believe she bought all my blarney and i got my leg over,lol

T xx

Or maybe they are just respectful? God forbid there could be respectful people in the swinging scene I have lasting friendships with everyone I've met because they are respectful, that's single men, couples and single fems. They must be good at keeping the "blarney" going! But until they prove otherwise, I'll stick with my deduction that they're sound people who I get along with brilliantly "

Seconded!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why do people need to tell others why they cant accommodate??? no-body NEEDS to tell anyone anything!!! We choose not to meet in our own home but dont feel the need to tell others why cause quite frankly its nobody elses business, so why on earth do single blokes suddenly have a "secret" by not being able to accommodate.

perhaps if people just got on with their own business and stopped analysing everything that others do/say on their profile/dont say on their profile etc more enjoyment would be had!!!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"why do people need to tell others why they cant accommodate??? no-body NEEDS to tell anyone anything!!! We choose not to meet in our own home but dont feel the need to tell others why cause quite frankly its nobody elses business, so why on earth do single blokes suddenly have a "secret" by not being able to accommodate.

perhaps if people just got on with their own business and stopped analysing everything that others do/say on their profile/dont say on their profile etc more enjoyment would be had!!!!"

Now all that I agree with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people need to tell others why they cant accommodate??? no-body NEEDS to tell anyone anything!!! We choose not to meet in our own home but dont feel the need to tell others why cause quite frankly its nobody elses business, so why on earth do single blokes suddenly have a "secret" by not being able to accommodate.

perhaps if people just got on with their own business and stopped analysing everything that others do/say on their profile/dont say on their profile etc more enjoyment would be had!!!!"

I agree with that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" so why on earth do single blokes suddenly have a "secret" by not being able to accommodate. "

The problem is, quite a lot of them DO have a secret as we've found out to our cost.

Not nice having "the secret" texting asking why your number is on there husbands/wifes/partners/boyfriends/girlfriends mobile phone.

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By *ast and modifiedCouple
over a year ago

near glasgow


" so why on earth do single blokes suddenly have a "secret" by not being able to accommodate.

The problem is, quite a lot of them DO have a secret as we've found out to our cost.

Not nice having "the secret" texting asking why your number is on there husbands/wifes/partners/boyfriends/girlfriends mobile phone."

had that ourselves and also mails from the wife because husband left computer on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" so why on earth do single blokes suddenly have a "secret" by not being able to accommodate.

The problem is, quite a lot of them DO have a secret as we've found out to our cost.

Not nice having "the secret" texting asking why your number is on there husbands/wifes/partners/boyfriends/girlfriends mobile phone."

i seriously give up on this site!!!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


" so why on earth do single blokes suddenly have a "secret" by not being able to accommodate.

The problem is, quite a lot of them DO have a secret as we've found out to our cost.

Not nice having "the secret" texting asking why your number is on there husbands/wifes/partners/boyfriends/girlfriends mobile phone.

i seriously give up on this site!!!"

Seconded!

Or to be more precise I give up with folk that can't see they are getting themselves into these situations and it isn't the sites fault that they choose to meet others that have partners that don't know what the other half is up to!

As always, just my tuppence worth!

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By *ast and modifiedCouple
over a year ago

near glasgow


" so why on earth do single blokes suddenly have a "secret" by not being able to accommodate.

The problem is, quite a lot of them DO have a secret as we've found out to our cost.

Not nice having "the secret" texting asking why your number is on there husbands/wifes/partners/boyfriends/girlfriends mobile phone.

i seriously give up on this site!!!"

bye

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Plenty of couples can't accommodate...are we to assume they have some shameful secret too!"

our shamefull secret is.we have a 23 year old,single guy,who still lives with us.thats why we cant accomodate,and it is true,some single guys,cant take,f*** off! for an answer.well we know one for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty of couples can't accommodate...are we to assume they have some shameful secret too!

our shamefull secret is.we have a 23 year old,single guy,who still lives with us.thats why we cant accomodate,and it is true,some single guys,cant take,f*** off! for an answer.well we know one for sure. "

LOL @ Saucy3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have fine DB9 to thank really. I was in here when I first joined moaning and saying that people weren't replying etc. As it is after his advice to just get a grip I now enjoy the site as it should be. I get times when no one is replying and others when people I wouldn't expect to hear from message me. Take the dry spells on the chin and just remember the times that weren't so dry. Hehe.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


" so why on earth do single blokes suddenly have a "secret" by not being able to accommodate.

The problem is, quite a lot of them DO have a secret as we've found out to our cost.

Not nice having "the secret" texting asking why your number is on there husbands/wifes/partners/boyfriends/girlfriends mobile phone.

i seriously give up on this site!!!bye"

No "bye" to me too then seeing as seconded it?

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By *ast and modifiedCouple
over a year ago

near glasgow


" so why on earth do single blokes suddenly have a "secret" by not being able to accommodate.

The problem is, quite a lot of them DO have a secret as we've found out to our cost.

Not nice having "the secret" texting asking why your number is on there husbands/wifes/partners/boyfriends/girlfriends mobile phone.

i seriously give up on this site!!!bye

No "bye" to me too then seeing as seconded it? "

are you going then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am def not giving up on this site. i am taking up a permanent residency here.lol.x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" so why on earth do single blokes suddenly have a "secret" by not being able to accommodate.

The problem is, quite a lot of them DO have a secret as we've found out to our cost.

Not nice having "the secret" texting asking why your number is on there husbands/wifes/partners/boyfriends/girlfriends mobile phone.

i seriously give up on this site!!!bye"

can i ask what your problem seems to be???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ohhhhhh jesus........happy day today is it peeps

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By *ast and modifiedCouple
over a year ago

near glasgow


" so why on earth do single blokes suddenly have a "secret" by not being able to accommodate.

The problem is, quite a lot of them DO have a secret as we've found out to our cost.

Not nice having "the secret" texting asking why your number is on there husbands/wifes/partners/boyfriends/girlfriends mobile phone.

i seriously give up on this site!!!bye

can i ask what your problem seems to be??? "

as you stated you had enough of the site i was only saying a very polite bye.i dont see any problem with that.why do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a polite bye oh right i see, no real need though.

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By *ast and modifiedCouple
over a year ago

near glasgow


"a polite bye oh right i see, no real need though."
why is that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a polite bye oh right i see, no real need though."
oi

where the fook do you think ur going am i missing something????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just due to the fact we havent spoken before but it is nice to be nice so thank you for your bye!

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By *ast and modifiedCouple
over a year ago

near glasgow


"just due to the fact we havent spoken before but it is nice to be nice so thank you for your bye!"
you have given the impression that you are leaving the site as noticed by other posters,is that not the case or have you changed your minds?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" so why on earth do single blokes suddenly have a "secret" by not being able to accommodate.

The problem is, quite a lot of them DO have a secret as we've found out to our cost.

Not nice having "the secret" texting asking why your number is on there husbands/wifes/partners/boyfriends/girlfriends mobile phone.

i seriously give up on this site!!!

Seconded!

Or to be more precise I give up with folk that can't see they are getting themselves into these situations and it isn't the sites fault that they choose to meet others that have partners that don't know what the other half is up to!

As always, just my tuppence worth! "

Seconded? Really?

Never been unfortunate enough to come across a convincing liar who you've taken as being honest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" so why on earth do single blokes suddenly have a "secret" by not being able to accommodate.

The problem is, quite a lot of them DO have a secret as we've found out to our cost.

Not nice having "the secret" texting asking why your number is on there husbands/wifes/partners/boyfriends/girlfriends mobile phone.

i seriously give up on this site!!!"

You give up?

Why's that then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


" so why on earth do single blokes suddenly have a "secret" by not being able to accommodate.

The problem is, quite a lot of them DO have a secret as we've found out to our cost.

Not nice having "the secret" texting asking why your number is on there husbands/wifes/partners/boyfriends/girlfriends mobile phone.

i seriously give up on this site!!!

Seconded!

Or to be more precise I give up with folk that can't see they are getting themselves into these situations and it isn't the sites fault that they choose to meet others that have partners that don't know what the other half is up to!

As always, just my tuppence worth! "

I don't see how you can blame the people who have been duped, it is the people who are lying that should take the blame.

you can do as many checks as you can but still be duped.

( that was me talking)

( now as a mod)

Keep it clean please on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cool, this threads got it all, thank you all for the lovely input, pointers on what to look out for and be aware of, the "blarney" thing was tongue n cheek as most "alternative guides" are, tricky to convey in cold n bold print i guess,

T xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cheers to those who responded positively, but im laughing at the ironic bit, where i did say, ehhh "moaning does'nt help you" and guess what, one or two even use this thread to do just that! lol.

I can start my other thread if you want?

"Comments in verifications and their hidden meanings"

"Treat this lady with respect", luv that one, that actually means,

" I canny believe she bought all my blarney and i got my leg over,lol

T xx

Or maybe they are just respectful? God forbid there could be respectful people in the swinging scene I have lasting friendships with everyone I've met because they are respectful, that's single men, couples and single fems. They must be good at keeping the "blarney" going! But until they prove otherwise, I'll stick with my deduction that they're sound people who I get along with brilliantly "

Yup, i automatically do, its so automatic i kinda dont need to be told it from my fellow single respectfull male is all.

T xx

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


" so why on earth do single blokes suddenly have a "secret" by not being able to accommodate.

The problem is, quite a lot of them DO have a secret as we've found out to our cost.

Not nice having "the secret" texting asking why your number is on there husbands/wifes/partners/boyfriends/girlfriends mobile phone.

i seriously give up on this site!!!bye

No "bye" to me too then seeing as seconded it? are you going then?"

Nah you cant get rid of me that easily I was just out for a works charity night and I am back - sorry!

It takes more than a bye for me to go!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


" so why on earth do single blokes suddenly have a "secret" by not being able to accommodate.

The problem is, quite a lot of them DO have a secret as we've found out to our cost.

Not nice having "the secret" texting asking why your number is on there husbands/wifes/partners/boyfriends/girlfriends mobile phone.

i seriously give up on this site!!!

Seconded!

Or to be more precise I give up with folk that can't see they are getting themselves into these situations and it isn't the sites fault that they choose to meet others that have partners that don't know what the other half is up to!

As always, just my tuppence worth!

Seconded? Really?

Never been unfortunate enough to come across a convincing liar who you've taken as being honest?"

Nope, my checking process has been up to scratch so far.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


" so why on earth do single blokes suddenly have a "secret" by not being able to accommodate.

The problem is, quite a lot of them DO have a secret as we've found out to our cost.

Not nice having "the secret" texting asking why your number is on there husbands/wifes/partners/boyfriends/girlfriends mobile phone.

i seriously give up on this site!!!

Seconded!

Or to be more precise I give up with folk that can't see they are getting themselves into these situations and it isn't the sites fault that they choose to meet others that have partners that don't know what the other half is up to!

As always, just my tuppence worth!

I don't see how you can blame the people who have been duped, it is the people who are lying that should take the blame.

you can do as many checks as you can but still be duped.

( that was me talking)

( now as a mod)

Keep it clean please on this thread.

"

I agree there are ones that are duped all the time but to come on and say everyone else who says on their profile they can't accommodate are c***s is a tad unfair, there could be many a reason for why they can't.

Me for one would never accommodate when I have my kids here staying, doesn't make me a c**t, it makes me a responsible dad to them!

Again, that is my own opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" so why on earth do single blokes suddenly have a "secret" by not being able to accommodate.

The problem is, quite a lot of them DO have a secret as we've found out to our cost.

Not nice having "the secret" texting asking why your number is on there husbands/wifes/partners/boyfriends/girlfriends mobile phone.

i seriously give up on this site!!!

Seconded!

Or to be more precise I give up with folk that can't see they are getting themselves into these situations and it isn't the sites fault that they choose to meet others that have partners that don't know what the other half is up to!

As always, just my tuppence worth!

Seconded? Really?

Never been unfortunate enough to come across a convincing liar who you've taken as being honest?

Nope, my checking process has been up to scratch so far. "

Lucky you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

perhaps if people just got on with their own business and stopped analysing everything that others do/say on their profile/dont say on their profile etc more enjoyment would be had!!!!"

Hooray!!! I`m 100% with you on that one.

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By *ast and modifiedCouple
over a year ago

near glasgow


" so why on earth do single blokes suddenly have a "secret" by not being able to accommodate.

The problem is, quite a lot of them DO have a secret as we've found out to our cost.

Not nice having "the secret" texting asking why your number is on there husbands/wifes/partners/boyfriends/girlfriends mobile phone.

i seriously give up on this site!!!

Seconded!

Or to be more precise I give up with folk that can't see they are getting themselves into these situations and it isn't the sites fault that they choose to meet others that have partners that don't know what the other half is up to!

As always, just my tuppence worth!

I don't see how you can blame the people who have been duped, it is the people who are lying that should take the blame.

you can do as many checks as you can but still be duped.

( that was me talking)

( now as a mod)

Keep it clean please on this thread.

I agree there are ones that are duped all the time but to come on and say everyone else who says on their profile they can't accommodate are c***s is a tad unfair, there could be many a reason for why they can't.

Me for one would never accommodate when I have my kids here staying, doesn't make me a c**t, it makes me a responsible dad to them!

Again, that is my own opinion. "

where does it say on this thread that you are cunts?

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"

where does it say on this thread that you are cunts?"

It doesn't anymore but hey never mind it is still my own wee opinion in reply to the post I read yesterday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

AL 2nd that T...MWAH pp(retired Lil M) xxx

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


" so why on earth do single blokes suddenly have a "secret" by not being able to accommodate.

The problem is, quite a lot of them DO have a secret as we've found out to our cost.

Not nice having "the secret" texting asking why your number is on there husbands/wifes/partners/boyfriends/girlfriends mobile phone.

i seriously give up on this site!!!

Seconded!

Or to be more precise I give up with folk that can't see they are getting themselves into these situations and it isn't the sites fault that they choose to meet others that have partners that don't know what the other half is up to!

As always, just my tuppence worth!

Seconded? Really?

Never been unfortunate enough to come across a convincing liar who you've taken as being honest?

Nope, my checking process has been up to scratch so far. "

we must use the same checking process,and have never met anyone,who is cheating.

either that,or we have met,some convincing liars.hmmmm,i wonder which.

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