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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi folks this may sound silly but , when meeting and introducing ourselves to another couple , we tend to explain what were looking for etc etc . Is this off putting ? Were new to this and not sure if it comes across rude/desperate etc .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi folks this may sound silly but , when meeting and introducing ourselves to another couple , we tend to explain what were looking for etc etc . Is this off putting ? Were new to this and not sure if it comes across rude/desperate etc ."

It's not rude at all, you're simply laying out your cards explaining what you're looking for. If people get offended (some do on this website *sigh*) then that's up to them to come to terms with.

Personally, no it's not rude or desperate. If I was in the same position I would explain what I'm looking for also.

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By *ighlandballsMan
over a year ago

perth

Its good to be straight to the point

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I always ask what people are looking for. They may have listed their interests etc on their profile but it helps to discuss more in depth

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By *ighlandballsMan
over a year ago

perth

I like to ask what is not allowed

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Its a matter of preference for me i would be a turn off others revel in talk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wouldn't want any1 to think we were just "in for the kill" so to speak . I am quite a nervous person anyway and find it a wee bit hard to approach and break the ice. I know I shouldn't be really . I end up gabbing away endlessly x

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We're not interested in shag and go types, we like to have a good laugh with our playmates. So having a good chat beforehand really helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah the get it and go is not for us eitherxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi folks this may sound silly but , when meeting and introducing ourselves to another couple , we tend to explain what were looking for etc etc . Is this off putting ? Were new to this and not sure if it comes across rude/desperate etc ."

not at all and you have a good profile

read some profiles here and its demand this, demand that,

nice honest direct talking lets everyone know what to expect

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By *ighlandballsMan
over a year ago

perth

Chemistry helps

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