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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you get out of the friend zone

With out loosing that friend in the process

Or is it impossible...am I screwed

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"How do you get out of the friend zone

With out loosing that friend in the process

Or is it impossible...am I screwed "
you need to explain the situation more?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Knowing this girl for a few years now

We get on really well

But when we talk she always calls me a good friend

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Knowing this girl for a few years now

We get on really well

But when we talk she always calls me a good friend "
still no idea what it is your asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Knowing this girl for a few years now

We get on really well

But when we talk she always calls me a good friend still no idea what it is your asking "

Think he may be wanting to be more than just friends with the lady,, but unsure whether to take the next step incase it messes up their friendship. Tx

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By *axter1987Man
over a year ago

your hotlist

been in that situation man, was a rough 3 years. only thing i can say is you either try be more flirty with her and guage how she reacts.

that or just be honest and upfront about how you feel.

or just say nothing and end up feeling frustrated :P

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Has she ever given any indication that she thinks of you as anything more than a friend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your screwed imo

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

After this long, you really should know if it will ever go anywhere except the friend zone

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

If she mentions that you're a good friend a lot, it may be that she knows you fancy her and is trying to make it clear she's only your friend.

What you have to decide is if taking the risk is worth potentially losing her friendship. If you do and she rejects you, things will be awkward for a while.

If she has never given any sign that there could be more, I'd say leave it alone tbh

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Go for it ..whats the worse that could happen

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By *gowbhoy4funMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Its easy ....""fancy going for a drink sonetime mrs just us 2"" she should get wat you mean and her reply will tell you....if she says no then fuck it get d*unk yoursef

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest with her and tell her how you fell she says no thnx you'll have some awkward moments for a bit

But if she says yes plz then happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be upfront if she's friends the thought has crossed her mind at some point ask her if she thinks people can go from being good friends to more her answer will tell you more than a thousand flirty comments. If it sounds promising say for example me and you and if she's really good friends and you've told her about this site you might want to tell her you've gave up this site because your looking for something more serious

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By *aviecazCouple
over a year ago

cumbernauld

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By *aviecazCouple
over a year ago

cumbernauld

Be upfront some people should take their own advice that's just taken the buscut for me still laughing now lv caz lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a really hard one. Been there a really good friend wanted this. I couldnt see it. Saw him more like a brother. Had to be totally honest about it. Either except it. Or you need to walk away. Nothing worse than someone you care about hurts .However friendship is a very strong bond. Just be honest see what happens. Take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a really hard one. Been there a really good friend wanted this. I couldnt see it. Saw him more like a brother. Had to be totally honest about it. Either except it. Or you need to walk away. Nothing worse than someone you care about hurts .However friendship is a very strong bond. Just be honest see what happens. Take it from there."

as the above two advise, be honest, say exactly as you feel

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