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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay so I was introduced to this by a female friend and it's crazy how opposite the attention is lol. A female receive s around 100 emails a day a guy sends out 100 emails a day pmsl who says it isn't easier being a women

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Stop being a sheep and decide your own destiny last msg I sent was around a fortnight ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally i dont believe all the mail females claim to receive it started at over a hundred then someone says they get two hundred then oh i get three hundred think its just to make them selfs look more popular you notice the ones that claim to be here for years and get over four hundred messages a day yet very few meets and still single either their telling porky pies or something is wrong its like a contest on here with females they act like friends but behind the scenes its gloves off game on because no one will stand between a woman bagging herself a man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"personally i dont believe all the mail females claim to receive it started at over a hundred then someone says they get two hundred then oh i get three hundred think its just to make them selfs look more popular you notice the ones that claim to be here for years and get over four hundred messages a day yet very few meets and still single either their telling porky pies or something is wrong its like a contest on here with females they act like friends but behind the scenes its gloves off game on because no one will stand between a woman bagging herself a man "

Sorry I'm sitting with her right now and she can't get her mails down past 100 and she joined over 2 days ago pms.

Not a sheep I'm a leader bud

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I think the truth of it is their mailbox ends up with hundreds.as they read a cpl when first sign in then give up in despair at the classy msgs. Or they post a meet which will undoubtedly bring about a mass of msgs. Thats not to say there isnt also the "im better than you I got 150 more" element

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"personally i dont believe all the mail females claim to receive it started at over a hundred then someone says they get two hundred then oh i get three hundred think its just to make them selfs look more popular you notice the ones that claim to be here for years and get over four hundred messages a day yet very few meets and still single either their telling porky pies or something is wrong its like a contest on here with females they act like friends but behind the scenes its gloves off game on because no one will stand between a woman bagging herself a man

Sorry I'm sitting with her right now and she can't get her mails down past 100 and she joined over 2 days ago pms.

Not a sheep I'm a leader bud "

two days ago is believable everyone hits on her but it fades away its the ones that claim to be here for years that i dont believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she puts her filters on the numbers will go down. It can be overwhelming for a woman when they first join.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If she puts her filters on the numbers will go down. It can be overwhelming for a woman when they first join."

I will say to her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys are a lot hungrier than woman tho?

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By *gowbhoy4funMan
over a year ago

glasgow

My first meet from here the lady had 500 odd unread mails ....thats when i realised how hard it would be to get more decent meets...hopefully my messages to females have got a bit better since then haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My first meet from here the lady had 500 odd unread mails ....thats when i realised how hard it would be to get more decent meets...hopefully my messages to females have got a bit better since then haha "

My msg isn't that bad and all I get is a delete or no reply and i have sent out a few lol. Half the messages she's got is awfull lol wana fuk you horny. I actually put something into my emails. So much easy for girls I tell you. You giys call all the shots

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Guys are a lot hungrier than woman tho?"
nope definatly not the case women tend to be alot more corteous though (well at least to your face and in messaging)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

too many guys here put females on pedestals and make their self look desperate females are here for exact same reasons as guys and their all up for grabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get roughly 200 messages a day. hate cope and paste messages. what gets my attention is effort. witty and different. if the first message is want fucked etc. deleted right away.

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By *redrobCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

Not only females get this. We signed in and changed our area to Kilmarnock when we first arrived. Signed on the next day and over 200 messages from all around Ayrshire( huge area). Strange thing is we hardly got messages before we Moved from Lanarkshire but got alot from folk asking if we are moving.

Now we get a few a day but no where near when we first arrived here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"get roughly 200 messages a day. hate cope and paste messages. what gets my attention is effort. witty and different. if the first message is want fucked etc. deleted right away."

I have and never will open a message like that. I always say who u am bit about me what I like a wee compliment on what I like about the women I'm messaging x

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"personally i dont believe all the mail females claim to receive it started at over a hundred then someone says they get two hundred then oh i get three hundred think its just to make them selfs look more popular you notice the ones that claim to be here for years and get over four hundred messages a day yet very few meets and still single either their telling porky pies or something is wrong its like a contest on here with females they act like friends but behind the scenes its gloves off game on because no one will stand between a woman bagging herself a man

Sorry I'm sitting with her right now and she can't get her mails down past 100 and she joined over 2 days ago pms.

Not a sheep I'm a leader bud

two days ago is believable everyone hits on her but it fades away its the ones that claim to be here for years that i dont believe "

Me either i get a few a day most in one go when i had pics up and posted a meet was about 70 odds, never had been hundreds but maybe its just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"get roughly 200 messages a day. hate cope and paste messages. what gets my attention is effort. witty and different. if the first message is want fucked etc. deleted right away.

I have and never will open a message like that. I always say who u am bit about me what I like a wee compliment on what I like about the women I'm messaging x"

your a single guy and if a lassie sent a message saying you want fucked you wouldnt open it ? most guys on here would be over it like a rash

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"get roughly 200 messages a day. hate cope and paste messages. what gets my attention is effort. witty and different. if the first message is want fucked etc. deleted right away."

Thats like 1400 a week, 5600 a month, really?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"get roughly 200 messages a day. hate cope and paste messages. what gets my attention is effort. witty and different. if the first message is want fucked etc. deleted right away.

Thats like 1400 a week, 5600 a month, really? "

Eager beavers lol

But I am a warrior lol il fight my way through the masses and get my self that meet which changes it all. Suggest rushing it might not get you the right meet but us guys eh. Like a dug round beetroot lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had that many messages in one day, I must be doing something wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never had that many messages in one day, I must be doing something wrong "

It's a single females profile I'm talking about it's crazy. She's actually put off with the amount lol. But guys are guys eh we are all horny and want sex 24/7. I would be lying if I said I was any diffrent. But it's mad to see the diffrence in experience s for male and female newbies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't get any msgs sex on tap lol but that's cool still early days. And I'm sure your happy not be bombarded by single guts lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had that many messages in one day, I must be doing something wrong

It's a single females profile I'm talking about it's crazy. She's actually put off with the amount lol. But guys are guys eh we are all horny and want sex 24/7. I would be lying if I said I was any diffrent. But it's mad to see the diffrence in experience s for male and female newbies. "

so why you saying your still looking for your first meet ? if youv met her ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys . My predict a text

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never had that many messages in one day, I must be doing something wrong

It's a single females profile I'm talking about it's crazy. She's actually put off with the amount lol. But guys are guys eh we are all horny and want sex 24/7. I would be lying if I said I was any diffrent. But it's mad to see the diffrence in experience s for male and female newbies.

so why you saying your still looking for your first meet ? if youv met her ? "

Lol that's not going to happen we are just mutual friends no benifits I'm not her type but that's friends eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had that many messages in one day, I must be doing something wrong

It's a single females profile I'm talking about it's crazy. She's actually put off with the amount lol. But guys are guys eh we are all horny and want sex 24/7. I would be lying if I said I was any diffrent. But it's mad to see the diffrence in experience s for male and female newbies.

so why you saying your still looking for your first meet ? if youv met her ?

Lol that's not going to happen we are just mutual friends no benifits I'm not her type but that's friends eh "

still can verify you thou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"personally i dont believe all the mail females claim to receive it started at over a hundred then someone says they get two hundred then oh i get three hundred think its just to make them selfs look more popular you notice the ones that claim to be here for years and get over four hundred messages a day yet very few meets and still single either their telling porky pies or something is wrong its like a contest on here with females they act like friends but behind the scenes its gloves off game on because no one will stand between a woman bagging herself a man "

Unless that woman is Bi and then she's gonna bag the woman as well.

When women first come on here they can get 800 messages easily in 24 hrs. No effort required. No pics needed. Why? Cos a lot of men are preditory dicks who pray on fresh meet. The women then find their feet, along with filters and start to run their profiles how they wish. The preditory dicks move onto other newbies. This is the way of fab. Like it or not.

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country


"My first meet from here the lady had 500 odd unread mails ....thats when i realised how hard it would be to get more decent meets...hopefully my messages to females have got a bit better since then haha "
yes like asking about nanna naps

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country


"Never had that many messages in one day, I must be doing something wrong "
snap mrsdlt maybe we should join forces see if we can get over 1000

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country


"personally i dont believe all the mail females claim to receive it started at over a hundred then someone says they get two hundred then oh i get three hundred think its just to make them selfs look more popular you notice the ones that claim to be here for years and get over four hundred messages a day yet very few meets and still single either their telling porky pies or something is wrong its like a contest on here with females they act like friends but behind the scenes its gloves off game on because no one will stand between a woman bagging herself a man

Unless that woman is Bi and then she's gonna bag the woman as well.

When women first come on here they can get 800 messages easily in 24 hrs. No effort required. No pics needed. Why? Cos a lot of men are preditory dicks who pray on fresh meet. The women then find their feet, along with filters and start to run their profiles how they wish. The preditory dicks move onto other newbies. This is the way of fab. Like it or not. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"personally i dont believe all the mail females claim to receive it started at over a hundred then someone says they get two hundred then oh i get three hundred think its just to make them selfs look more popular you notice the ones that claim to be here for years and get over four hundred messages a day yet very few meets and still single either their telling porky pies or something is wrong its like a contest on here with females they act like friends but behind the scenes its gloves off game on because no one will stand between a woman bagging herself a man

Unless that woman is Bi and then she's gonna bag the woman as well.

When women first come on here they can get 800 messages easily in 24 hrs. No effort required. No pics needed. Why? Cos a lot of men are preditory dicks who pray on fresh meet. The women then find their feet, along with filters and start to run their profiles how they wish. The preditory dicks move onto other newbies. This is the way of fab. Like it or not. "

or it could be a female joins and gets 80 then looks on forum and sees someone claiming two hundred and thinks i cant have that ill say three hundred then someone claims four hundred all the way up to try make their self stand out thats more believable some burds on here claim more hits than justin bieber gets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"personally i dont believe all the mail females claim to receive it started at over a hundred then someone says they get two hundred then oh i get three hundred think its just to make them selfs look more popular you notice the ones that claim to be here for years and get over four hundred messages a day yet very few meets and still single either their telling porky pies or something is wrong its like a contest on here with females they act like friends but behind the scenes its gloves off game on because no one will stand between a woman bagging herself a man

Unless that woman is Bi and then she's gonna bag the woman as well.

When women first come on here they can get 800 messages easily in 24 hrs. No effort required. No pics needed. Why? Cos a lot of men are preditory dicks who pray on fresh meet. The women then find their feet, along with filters and start to run their profiles how they wish. The preditory dicks move onto other newbies. This is the way of fab. Like it or not.

or it could be a female joins and gets 80 then looks on forum and sees someone claiming two hundred and thinks i cant have that ill say three hundred then someone claims four hundred all the way up to try make their self stand out thats more believable some burds on here claim more hits than justin bieber gets "

Lol if I could screen shot it and post a pice I would but I certainly believe if they say 100 200 is a deffo at the start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"get roughly 200 messages a day. hate cope and paste messages. what gets my attention is effort. witty and different. if the first message is want fucked etc. deleted right away.

Thats like 1400 a week, 5600 a month, really? "
yes honest not every week. but mostly yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"get roughly 200 messages a day. hate cope and paste messages. what gets my attention is effort. witty and different. if the first message is want fucked etc. deleted right away.

Thats like 1400 a week, 5600 a month, really? yes honest not every week. but mostly yes"

I'm not doubting you crumpet I believe it if you say that especially with your lovely pics and profile. Must be a nightmare x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she puts her filters on the numbers will go down. It can be overwhelming for a woman when they first join.

I will say to her "

But as you said in one of your other posts , that you were in 08 as part of a couple, surely you must have realised that filters cut out most of the unwanted messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"personally i dont believe all the mail females claim to receive it started at over a hundred then someone says they get two hundred then oh i get three hundred think its just to make them selfs look more popular you notice the ones that claim to be here for years and get over four hundred messages a day yet very few meets and still single either their telling porky pies or something is wrong its like a contest on here with females they act like friends but behind the scenes its gloves off game on because no one will stand between a woman bagging herself a man

Sorry I'm sitting with her right now and she can't get her mails down past 100 and she joined over 2 days ago pms.

Not a sheep I'm a leader bud "

Mmmmm sounds like u another guy on here who creates fake woman's profile to chat, fantasise and waste men's time..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"get roughly 200 messages a day. hate cope and paste messages. what gets my attention is effort. witty and different. if the first message is want fucked etc. deleted right away.

Thats like 1400 a week, 5600 a month, really? yes honest not every week. but mostly yes

I'm not doubting you crumpet I believe it if you say that especially with your lovely pics and profile. Must be a nightmare x"

No offence to crumpet. She is the only woman we've notice in the Glasgow area let alone Scotland who loves this site so much. Can see her updating her status once or twice a day and nearly an Author in the forum one or three times a week. If she's doing that the obviously she will be getting loads of messages. Or a possible answer could be, she is not getting enough attention and trying to get more messages

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"If she puts her filters on the numbers will go down. It can be overwhelming for a woman when they first join.

I will say to her

But as you said in one of your other posts , that you were in 08 as part of a couple, surely you must have realised that filters cut out most of the unwanted messages "
perhaps here even sooner than 08

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When pics are uploaded there is more messages . When new females join they get bombarded with mails from guys sitting waiting for new members hoping they will capture someone before anyone else does . As someone says earlier that's how fab works . I've got lots of filters now and removed most of my pics to stop a lot of the unwanted mails . But still get on average of around 50-70 messages per day . Some enjoy the idea of watching the numbers rising rather than the actual mails they receive lol just my opinion of course . But I've known guys who do get a fair amount of messages in a day it depends on the person really .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

800 messages a day thats 33 an hour one every two min most are sent during the day so thats nearly one every 30 sec the queen doesnt get that amount of messages ... i think i can smell shite

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"800 messages a day thats 33 an hour one every two min most are sent during the day so thats nearly one every 30 sec the queen doesnt get that amount of messages ... i think i can smell shite "

Better go clean your arse then pmsl

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By *cottish30Man
over a year ago

aberdeen

Not doing anything wrong just a boring area of Scotland for meets by looks of things

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I do believe there are some exagirations going on here lol.

obviously if you don't use filters you will get more emails.

Also as shelly says if you add a new photo that also seems to attract some new attention.

I honestly have no idea how many Emails a day I get because I've never actually counted them.

I know how many are in my inbox right now tho lol.

I tend to concentrate in conversing with those I'm interested in and on quiet days il sift through the others.

Most don't need opening because it's clear to see it a one liner email.

Eventually il mass delete when they get too much or I just can't be bothered answering them.

The site now control how many emails a new member gets to try and let a new member find their feet.

Also another feature the site has is once your emails reach a certain amount they automatically delete some of the older emails that go unread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"get roughly 200 messages a day. hate cope and paste messages. what gets my attention is effort. witty and different. if the first message is want fucked etc. deleted right away.

Thats like 1400 a week, 5600 a month, really? yes honest not every week. but mostly yes

I'm not doubting you crumpet I believe it if you say that especially with your lovely pics and profile. Must be a nightmare x

No offence to crumpet. She is the only woman we've notice in the Glasgow area let alone Scotland who loves this site so much. Can see her updating her status once or twice a day and nearly an Author in the forum one or three times a week. If she's doing that the obviously she will be getting loads of messages. Or a possible answer could be, she is not getting enough attention and trying to get more messages "
no offence eh ??? where did you get the figures for loving this site so much ? if you dont like my updates block me simple. can assure you certainly dont need more attention. if you want to have a dig at me do it right. not in a round about way. its my profile ill put what i like. if i want to post on the forum as least i try to make it intresting and fun.

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By *ee-deeWoman
over a year ago

The Kingdom


"personally i dont believe all the mail females claim to receive it started at over a hundred then someone says they get two hundred then oh i get three hundred think its just to make them selfs look more popular you notice the ones that claim to be here for years and get over four hundred messages a day yet very few meets and still single either their telling porky pies or something is wrong its like a contest on here with females they act like friends but behind the scenes its gloves off game on because no one will stand between a woman bagging herself a man

Unless that woman is Bi and then she's gonna bag the woman as well.

When women first come on here they can get 800 messages easily in 24 hrs. No effort required. No pics needed. Why? Cos a lot of men are preditory dicks who pray on fresh meet. The women then find their feet, along with filters and start to run their profiles how they wish. The preditory dicks move onto other newbies. This is the way of fab. Like it or not. "

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