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By *entralscotscpl7 OP Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

We get a lot off offers from Single married guys on here who openly admit to being married but there wife does not know they are on here.

What's the opinions of on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own I suppose. Can never tell the situation at home so I never judge x

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

At least they are being honest and letting you make an informed decision too many liars on here

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"We get a lot off offers from Single married guys on here who openly admit to being married but there wife does not know they are on here.

What's the opinions of on here? "
if they are not for you simply move on... What is your opinion btw?

As Bunkie said it's upto those meeting them to make the informed decision if they want to or not if they are up front about it.

And that applies to both cheating men and women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to those meeting. But prefer single single females to single married females lol

If playing with a couple prefer them married though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But how do you actually tell the difference between a married man or single?

I've seen many men lead a double life and it's very convincing

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By *entralscotscpl7 OP Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Well seems genuine enough so like posted before there personal circumstances are nothing to do with us and each to there own.

Meet on then lol

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By *s12345theeMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Some men are honest about it up front. It is not ideal and I am sure many men have guilt trips about it. But once you have opened the Pandoras Box of FAB and your partner isn't interested then it is hard to walk away.

It is not just a man thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok married myself and yes the wife does know but flip it the other way, what about married ladies ? it's a two way street ! Too many ppl on here have increasingly more and more hang ups these days !! Just saying !!

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By *entralscotscpl7 OP Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Fab is built on hang ups lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am married and honest about it so it's up to whoever I meet to judge. I am not going to judge anyone on here whatever their situation I just hope we are all being considerate about each other's circumstances.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

It's a website with many people from all walks of life no one knows what goes on behind closed doors or what life had thrown at people.....too many people judge ....

Simply is there is a certain type or group you are not interested in...walk on by

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Each to their own I suppose. Can never tell the situation at home so I never judge x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But how do you actually tell the difference between a married man or single?

I've seen many men lead a double life and it's very convincing "

If he has a ring or ring mark on his finger...a red mark on his forehead. Or puts the seat down when finished...hes married lol

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

"It's a website with many people from all walks of life no one knows what goes on behind closed doors or what life had thrown at people.....too many people judge ....

Simply is there is a certain type or group you are not interested in...walk on by"

Meant to say ....simply if there is a certain type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Or puts the seat down when finished...hes married lol "

Had a good chuckle at this one haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you be single and married ??

Its cheating bottom line .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can you be single and married ??

Its cheating bottom line . "

He might have permission to play?

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By *s12345theeMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Married but the wife doesn't play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can you be single and married ??

Its cheating bottom line .

He might have permission to play? "

Did the op not state the wife Dosnt know ?? So its cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can you be single and married ??

Its cheating bottom line . "

Just what i was thinking but again a quicker mind gets there first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can you be single and married ??

Its cheating bottom line .

He might have permission to play?

Did the op not state the wife Dosnt know ?? So its cheating "

I quoted your post not his !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not for us, wouldn't want to get caught up in someone else's problems. And if we did want a single guy, there's plenty of genuine single ones around. But, each to there own

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I don't meet cheats.

I have a lover away from here but he knows I am on fab, and is happy for me to meet still as we have an open relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not here to judge anyone who is married

If they have been honest about it.....I applaud them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married, she doesn't know, yet I'm open about it on here. No one knows everyone else's circumstances or motivation yet quite a few on here feel compelled to pass judgement (I've had some belting messages), which is a bit ironic on a swingers site!

There are ladies in similar situations, we all have needs.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Both married men and females playing without their partners knowledge are as entitled to use the site as anyone else.

Their choice and they should focus on meeting up with people who will meet them and respect the choices of people who state they won't.

People wouldn't judge if they didn't ask for people to give their opinions in threads. Just get on with it without the need to grandstand they are looking for a shag or blaming the absent partner. We don't know what goes on behind doors, we don't need to know so don't give us one fucking side of the story...... There will usually be three sides.

Good luck to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both married men and females playing without their partners knowledge are as entitled to use the site as anyone else.

Their choice and they should focus on meeting up with people who will meet them and respect the choices of people who state they won't.

Good luck to them

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I respect people who are honest that they are married . Honesty works for me better than liars anyday. However still stick by you can't be single and married. ?? Yes everyone has there reason ie mainly not getting the sex they need . That's the main reason most are on here . Living your life through lies will always come back to haunt you. Great believer you should treat others they way you would like to be treated .

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By *ighlandguy1000Man
over a year ago

Inverness

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By *ighlandguy1000Man
over a year ago

Inverness

It is cheating pure and simple

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

So many claim no alternative or you dont know circumstances.for me Unless their partner has little mental capacity to understand their is no excuse its cheating plain and simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheating is cheating sugar coat it anyway we like,I did it for a few years I'm no

But what makes me laugh is folk would rather be honest & tell folk they are married.

But what about the husband or wife surely if you are wanting honesty how not tell the person you are married too ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheating is cheating sugar coat it anyway we like,I did it for a few years I'm no

But what makes me laugh is folk would rather be honest & tell folk they are married.

But what about the husband or wife surely if you are wanting honesty how not tell the person you are married too ??

Quite attached to me balls?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheating is cheating sugar coat it anyway we like,I did it for a few years I'm no

But what makes me laugh is folk would rather be honest & tell folk they are married.

But what about the husband or wife surely if you are wanting honesty how not tell the person you are married too ??

Quite attached to me balls?"

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheating is cheating sugar coat it anyway we like,I did it for a few years I'm no

But what makes me laugh is folk would rather be honest & tell folk they are married.

But what about the husband or wife surely if you are wanting honesty how not tell the person you are married too ??

Quite attached to me balls?

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she would cut them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up front and honest is so much better than being fucked over by a married man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheating is cheating sugar coat it anyway we like,I did it for a few years I'm no

But what makes me laugh is folk would rather be honest & tell folk they are married.

But what about the husband or wife surely if you are wanting honesty how not tell the person you are married too ??

I totally agree! I try my hardest not to judge people in life but whilst someone may have their reasons, I also have my reasons to disagree and avoid. Honesty with a stranger is empty if it doesn't start at home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being honest is defo best but not everyone is !! I've had the phone call from the partner after being told by the guy he is single, believe me it's not nice !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being honest is defo best but not everyone is !! I've had the phone call from the partner after being told by the guy he is single, believe me it's not nice !"

Definitely not everyone is honest & I've been in that situation also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But how do you actually tell the difference between a married man or single?

I've seen many men lead a double life and it's very convincing "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Technically married but seperated since jan

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm still married but that will change if the house gets sold.

We lead seperate lives, have seperate bedrooms and not had sex together for about 10 years.

She knows i have seen another lady but she can't complain as she has been shagging her best pal's hubby.

Between my age and martial status my chances of a meet are pretty remote on here.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"At least they are being honest and letting you make an informed decision too many liars on here

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"Both married men and females playing without their partners knowledge are as entitled to use the site as anyone else.

Their choice and they should focus on meeting up with people who will meet them and respect the choices of people who state they won't.

Good luck to them

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

You know the score so you know the possible consequences. Up to you weather that's something you'll risk or not

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Loads of women say, on their profile, that they will not meet married men. Has anyone seen a male's profile saying he would not meet a married woman?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Loads of women say, on their profile, that they will not meet married men. Has anyone seen a male's profile saying he would not meet a married woman?"
Funny I was thinking the same ..some guys get off on being with a wife and sending her home to hubby but you never see a woman saying the same about sending a hubby home used to his mrs lol

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

" Has anyone seen a male's profile saying he would not meet a married woman?"

Yes I have actually, but what was rather amusing was that his most recent veri was from a lady who states in the first line of her profile..........that she's attached, and he doesn't know!!! You couldn't make it up!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

" Has anyone seen a male's profile saying he would not meet a married woman?

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Even this doesnt surprise me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reads entire thread and walks away shaking head in disbelief at some of the sanctimonious hypocritical moralising

The only place any of us have the right to judge is looking in a mirror

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your either single or your not ! Can't have your cake and eat it not fair on the partner being oblivious to there trust and relationship being ruined through no fault of there own !!! Baffles me how guys do this sort of thing gives us all a bad name

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By *s12345theeMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

This site never fails to amuse me.

Everyone who uses this site has their own reasons for doing so. Most are decent upstanding members of society with all the pressures that entails. Family, Fiends and work. In today economic climate there are pressure just to eat and keep a roof over your head.

In my opinion the good people who tap into this site do so to escape all the every day pressures and have fun with like minder people. To all the people out there who think they are a cut above just because they share this _iew with a partner I pose the following questions.

Does you family know you are swingers and meet strangers for sex? Does your Friends know you meet strangers for sex? Do your workmates know you meet strangers for sex? Unless you can answer yes to all three of these questions. Please don't judge others using this site. Because you are Liars too. Get off your high horse and enjoy the site. RANT OVER!!!!!!!!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

everybody judges, even you

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"This site never fails to amuse me.

If your married or in a relationship none of us make an announcement to all and sundry that were about to have sex so why should we tell family and friends or colleagues about being on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman that was married gave me a proposal of a shag I'd say thanks but no thanks!

If anyone's been cheated on by a loved one then you know how much of a horrible head fuck it is simple!

I wouldn't put myself in a position to potentialy ruin someone's family!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok married myself and yes the wife does know but flip it the other way, what about married ladies ? it's a two way street ! Too many ppl on here have increasingly more and more hang ups these days !! Just saying !! "

My choice is not a hang up.

It's dishonesty I don't like. Whilst I do appreciate that folks circumstances are different/difficult or whatever...

I just personally do not want anything to do with a situation where someone being cheated on gets hurt.

Criticising me or anyone else for that decision is pretty judgemental.

Being deceitful and concealing your situation is not fair.

The reality is lies will always find people out eventually, no matter how 'careful' you think you are.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"Reads entire thread and walks away shaking head in disbelief at some of the sanctimonious hypocritical moralising

The only place any of us have the right to judge is looking in a mirror"

Couldn't agree more! The double standards and double talk in in these threads can be quite amusing!

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By *rmagiteMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

To each their own, well done for being honest but to me cheating isn't something good. Lies to someone you made a promise to be honest to leads to heartbreak.. Theirs, yours or both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To each their own, well done for being honest but to me cheating isn't something good. Lies to someone you made a promise to be honest to leads to heartbreak.. Theirs, yours or both."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To each their own, well done for being honest but to me cheating isn't something good. Lies to someone you made a promise to be honest to leads to heartbreak.. Theirs, yours or both."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single married man.........

Now if that's not an oxymoron I don't know what is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single married man.........

Now if that's not an oxymoron I don't know what is!

Your very true there even the heading is fucked

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Single married man.........

Now if that's not an oxymoron I don't know what is!

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careful mat be seen as a judgement which we all know aint accepted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single married man.........

Now if that's not an oxymoron I don't know what is!

careful mat be seen as a judgement which we all know aint accepted"

Haha wasn't judging the morals....I'll leave that to others.

Was however judging the poor choice of thread title!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't know what the problem is here. If the person states they are married and you don't agree, then pass on buy,if they don't, then you wont know anyway. Live and let live. Life's to short, there's enough problems in our own lives,without looking for more.

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By *aucy MikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

My choice is not a hang up.

It's dishonesty I don't like. Whilst I do appreciate that folks circumstances are different/difficult or whatever...

I just personally do not want anything to do with a situation where someone being cheated on gets hurt.

Criticising me or anyone else for that decision is pretty judgemental.

Being deceitful and concealing your situation is not fair.

The reality is lies will always find people out eventually, no matter how 'careful' you think you are."

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