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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many chances would you give someone. Say you arrange to meet up. Then you don't here from them they day before.

You chat again same thing happens again. Is it became its just a fantasy n can't handle the real side of swinging ??

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Once fair enough shit happens...life gets in the way......but the second chance is final chance.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Once fair enough shit happens...life gets in the way......but the second chance is final chance."

And gut always tells me anyway....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keyboard fantasist - just my thoughts

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By *inasparklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

You get one chance to many options to dwell on men who make no effort x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once fair enough shit happens...life gets in the way......but the second chance is final chance."

This,

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By *ollydimplesWoman
over a year ago

hamilton

I think if they let u down more than once ..they certainly dont deserve another chance

once is ok after all shit happens ..if they let me down a 2nd time ..they wouldnt get the chance to make it number 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any guy that let's you lady's down must be blind or stupid

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


" I think if they let u down more than once ..they certainly dont deserve another chance

once is ok after all shit happens ..if they let me down a 2nd time ..they wouldnt get the chance to make it number 3 "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You get one chance to many options to dwell on men who make no effort x"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a work place & in sports its 3 strikes & they're out don't see why life should be any different,

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"In a work place & in sports its 3 strikes & they're out don't see why life should be any different, "

just spat my irn bru out at this lol.....for those that go to the expense of hotels, sitters etc aswell as the fact times limited .....3 times is a lot to waste a night .

One call off then a meet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two chances only...nobody gets or deserves three.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Two chances only...nobody gets or deserves three. "

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By *yrshiremischiefMan
over a year ago

Kilmarnock


"How many chances would you give someone. Say you arrange to meet up. Then you don't here from them they day before.

You chat again same thing happens again. Is it became its just a fantasy n can't handle the real side of swinging ??"

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Fool me three times - and I'm kicking your ass...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many chances would you give someone. Say you arrange to meet up. Then you don't here from them they day before.

You chat again same thing happens again. Is it became its just a fantasy n can't handle the real side of swinging ??"

One. Harsh but fair. Gave someone two chanced and he blew it. Blocked.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

If i had arranged a meet with someone and then never heard from them or they didnt turn up they'd better have a damn good excuse for not being able to text ( as they'd have my number by then) and probably wouldnt get a second chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once fair enough shit happens...life gets in the way......but the second chance is final chance.

This, "

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire


"If i had arranged a meet with someone and then never heard from them or they didnt turn up they'd better have a damn good excuse for not being able to text ( as they'd have my number by then) and probably wouldnt get a second chance "

my attitude exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One chance. If a no show a second time report and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant understand people arranging a meet then not turning up without contact.

No excuse for that, just rude and disrespectful.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"If i had arranged a meet with someone and then never heard from them or they didnt turn up they'd better have a damn good excuse for not being able to text ( as they'd have my number by then) and probably wouldnt get a second chance "

Definitely wouldn't. And the reason they gave when they finally got in touch would determine if they deserve a second chance.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"If i had arranged a meet with someone and then never heard from them or they didnt turn up they'd better have a damn good excuse for not being able to text ( as they'd have my number by then) and probably wouldnt get a second chance

Definitely wouldn't. And the reason they gave when they finally got in touch would determine if they deserve a second chance. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you say life can unexpectedly get in the way, but to not contact your meet is really bad manners and unforgivable

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By *aucy MikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"In a work place & in sports its 3 strikes & they're out don't see why life should be any different,

just spat my irn bru out at this lol.....for those that go to the expense of hotels, sitters etc aswell as the fact times limited .....3 times is a lot to waste a night .

One call off then a meet...."

That happened to us 3 times with 3 different single men and one idiot who wasn't but hadn't been honest. Never again. Thankfully my honey made up sure I wasn't that disappointed Sx

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

If they contacted me before the meet with a valid excuse for cancelling, then i would give another chance...

But no contact before and a noshow?.....no second chance....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above if they contact you with valid reason but never meet after a second no show. Name and shame x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I worked the doors I would ask you to leave once, tell you the second time after that yor feet leave the ground

Same here one no show is excusable with valid reason second your told to bolt there is no third chance

Time and money are valuable commodities I have in very short supply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it just depends how long your prepared to chase them or just give up and admit defeat only you can decide

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By *oodguy53Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

one strike and out no second chances

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By *rmagiteMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If people cancel once fair do's... 2 times. Sorry

I just need people to give me that chance :P... my track is 100%. If i even message if I'm running late. but that's me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weirdly, I just had that experience, but as sometimes things get mixed up and misunderstood, first times a mistake second times an asshole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many chances would you give someone. Say you arrange to meet up. Then you don't here from them they day before.

You chat again same thing happens again. Is it became its just a fantasy n can't handle the real side of swinging ??"

Happened to D for a solo meet. 2 strikes and they were deleted.

B

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By *wick119Man
over a year ago

Prestwick

Agree with most - one time may be legitimate but second time!! Block and shame!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like he is just living a fairytale in his head x

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