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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Someone that just joined the site messaged knowing my real name and accusing me of cheating, A've been single for a 7 or 8 months and before that a was on an on and off realationship.

They have deleted their profile now

Has this ever happened to someone?

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Someone that just joined the site messaged knowing my real name and accusing me of cheating, A've been single for a 7 or 8 months and before that a was on an on and off realationship.

They have deleted their profile now

Has this ever happened to someone?"

If your situation is as you say, what's to be scared of?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People close to me finding out I'm on a swinger site...

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By *arymore1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Possibly because he has been on for over a year and single for 7 months, so maybe a wee bit concerned about that? assuming his ex didn't know about it of course. One reason to be careful about profile pics

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Do you think they have a face pic, if not: just hide your profile, take off your avatar and relax.

if you think they may have a face pic, you may need to consider them sending it to someone they/you know.

they clearly have too much time on their hands and just being a twat.

report it so admin can maybe send the ISP of the profile

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

see the ISP, not send.

they may be able to match it with a second/third profile they have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your single for 7-8 month yet been on site for over a year so just except the cats out the bag why would admin send isp addressees just because someone recognised you in your profile pic and knows your real name ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"your single for 7-8 month yet been on site for over a year so just except the cats out the bag why would admin send isp addressees just because someone recognised you in your profile pic and knows your real name ? "

Its not about how long a've been on the site or what my ex thinks? Just because a've been on the site that long doesn't mean I have been active I was asking has anyone else had the same experience not asking for a way out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your single for 7-8 month yet been on site for over a year so just except the cats out the bag why would admin send isp addressees just because someone recognised you in your profile pic and knows your real name ?

Its not about how long a've been on the site or what my ex thinks? Just because a've been on the site that long doesn't mean I have been active I was asking has anyone else had the same experience not asking for a way out"

it could have been you ex

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By *arymore1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

it's unrealistic to have a face pic as your avatar and not expect anyone to notice eventually, it's happened to others and will happen again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take this the wrong way, but your only 20 years old, you should be looking for love & romance with similar aged girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me 2years ago, when I had my face pic public some guy who I don't know but he knows me "coz am a legend in these here parts of the west" he mailed me with my real name & threatened to post my pics all over Facebook unless I let him suck my cock & fuck him, luckily a good mate of mine knew who he was & told me his real name which I let him know about, turns out am friends with his bird & that's how he knew me. But it is very scary when it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three years ago when I was previously on here a girl I had met a few times sent my boss an email with my profile pics and copied and pasted verifications. I was frantic at the time but my boss was cool about it all and did all he could to help n reassure me things wouldn't go any further. Like I say I was up to high doh at the time but looking back it's not the worst thing life has thrown at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone that just joined the site messaged knowing my real name and accusing me of cheating, A've been single for a 7 or 8 months and before that a was on an on and off realationship.

They have deleted their profile now

Has this ever happened to someone?"

You have a face pic as avatar and information in your profile that indicates your real name which even since this "msg" you continue to display. If you're trying to be discreet you're failing miserably. If it did happen, you kind of invited it. No???

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Someone that just joined the site messaged knowing my real name and accusing me of cheating, A've been single for a 7 or 8 months and before that a was on an on and off realationship.

They have deleted their profile now

Has this ever happened to someone?

You have a face pic as avatar and information in your profile that indicates your real name which even since this "msg" you continue to display. If you're trying to be discreet you're failing miserably. If it did happen, you kind of invited it. No??? "

I missed the name, you make a very good point

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone that just joined the site messaged knowing my real name and accusing me of cheating, A've been single for a 7 or 8 months and before that a was on an on and off realationship.

They have deleted their profile now

Has this ever happened to someone?

You have a face pic as avatar and information in your profile that indicates your real name which even since this "msg" you continue to display. If you're trying to be discreet you're failing miserably. If it did happen, you kind of invited it. No???

I missed the name, you make a very good point"

The avatar ouc is blurred out and the snapchat username isn't a real name obviously lol I didnhave clear face pics set to public :/ just got a fright hid everything and changed my username

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

After all this moaning u still have your face pc up What the hell is your problem get that face pic off or stop moaning on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After all this moaning u still have your face pc up What the hell is your problem get that face pic off or stop moaning on here "

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By *unter_hoodMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

OP your as guilty as OJ Simpson mate lol

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By *overocketoneMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

Yep. Might as well put your finger print on your profile. You have given a smapshot name which I could guess and type into facebook and hey ho your profile pic. Just amend and get on chum

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By *woplustwocoupleCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

You are a single man looking for a shag. What are you scared about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People close to me finding out I'm on a swinger site..."

Well, we've all had a good look at you now so starting a thread about being "discovered" has worked really well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People close to me finding out I'm on a swinger site...

Well, we've all had a good look at you now so starting a thread about being "discovered" has worked really well. "

Jinty - how very dare you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After all this moaning u still have your face pc up What the hell is your problem get that face pic off or stop moaning on here "

Did you see me moan once? No don't think I did I shared a story and asked if it happened to anyone else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People close to me finding out I'm on a swinger site...

Well, we've all had a good look at you now so starting a thread about being "discovered" has worked really well. "

Haha aye true enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep. Might as well put your finger print on your profile. You have given a smapshot name which I could guess and type into facebook and hey ho your profile pic. Just amend and get on chum"

Type in GarryMcd all you want you won't find me by that name on facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People close to me finding out I'm on a swinger site...

Well, we've all had a good look at you now so starting a thread about being "discovered" has worked really well.

Jinty - how very dare you. "

Forgive my cynicism.... I've "almost" seen it all!

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

well if u aint moaning your attention seeking get a life will you and by the way im very rarely so forthright on the forum but u really take the biscuit u think u have seen it all then with a thread like this u realise u havent

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By *rmagiteMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

You know there was a time I cared what people thought of me, it's passed... I'm me. If someone finds my profile that knows me... well hi, nice to see you use this site too.

I have nothing to hide and I don't gossip but if asked about myself I'll tell the truth, lies only lead to mistakes and you getting caught out. So really don't... we really need to stop this Victorian way of think sex is bad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well if u aint moaning your attention seeking get a life will you and by the way im very rarely so forthright on the forum but u really take the biscuit u think u have seen it all then with a thread like this u realise u havent "

Yes I am attention seeking your right you have seen it all, I must got because your opinion really matters to me... all I wanted was some attention from (mostly) anonymous strangers on a website but you called me out on it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You know there was a time I cared what people thought of me, it's passed... I'm me. If someone finds my profile that knows me... well hi, nice to see you use this site too.

I have nothing to hide and I don't gossip but if asked about myself I'll tell the truth, lies only lead to mistakes and you getting caught out. So really don't... we really need to stop this Victorian way of think sex is bad. "

I met very few genuine people like you like you thats commendable

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By *overocketoneMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

All the best with the 'new,' profile. Garry.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

This went well

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"This went well "

I love these threads ..as soon as they are posted you know its not going to end well

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"This went well

I love these threads ..as soon as they are posted you know its not going to end well "

It's like an online version of eastenders and corrie these posts.....drama !

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"This went well

I love these threads ..as soon as they are posted you know its not going to end well

It's like an online version of eastenders and corrie these posts.....drama ! "

Easties and corrie are crap in comparison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its the heading HUGE SCARE then go and right a thread about it ...its a bit like getting a shock of a car battery then frying your self with the meter

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey I think I know him??????

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By *arymore1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Strangely on Monday the day this post started I saw someone I recognised from the site, she was with her family and obviously I didn't approach her, however it does show how easy it is to get caught out

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