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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

see another post on here asking about people watching their partners surprised the amount of single people saying they could never be in a relationship like that and dont understand it ... so why join a swingers site ? so need to ask the question how many single people join fab because their genuine swingers and how many join throu desperation because they couldnt get their hole in a bucket of fannys

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Dont think its because of desperation but a fair few imo join believing they can get a shag easy instead of doing the whole nights out putting effort in these folk used to get told to bolt but are pandered to now because so many love hearing the p**h dribble out their mouths

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont think its because of desperation but a fair few imo join believing they can get a shag easy instead of doing the whole nights out putting effort in these folk used to get told to bolt but are pandered to now because so many love hearing the p**h dribble out their mouths "

iv seen a guy with 280 verifications all throu meets but you also see especially on the forum the wee sweaty wifes that follow people around like wee puppy dogs agreeing with everything they say because they think if they sook up peoples arses enough they might get their hole so i would say some people are on here throu desperation

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By *inasparklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Dont think its because of desperation but a fair few imo join believing they can get a shag easy instead of doing the whole nights out putting effort in these folk used to get told to bolt but are pandered to now because so many love hearing the p**h dribble out their mouths "

Totally agree

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By *inasparklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Dont think its because of desperation but a fair few imo join believing they can get a shag easy instead of doing the whole nights out putting effort in these folk used to get told to bolt but are pandered to now because so many love hearing the p**h dribble out their mouths

iv seen a guy with 280 verifications all throu meets but you also see especially on the forum the wee sweaty wifes that follow people around like wee puppy dogs agreeing with everything they say because they think if they sook up peoples arses enough they might get their hole so i would say some people are on here throu desperation "

You do love to cause a stir x

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Dont think its because of desperation but a fair few imo join believing they can get a shag easy instead of doing the whole nights out putting effort in these folk used to get told to bolt but are pandered to now because so many love hearing the p**h dribble out their mouths

iv seen a guy with 280 verifications all throu meets but you also see especially on the forum the wee sweaty wifes that follow people around like wee puppy dogs agreeing with everything they say because they think if they sook up peoples arses enough they might get their hole so i would say some people are on here throu desperation

You do love to cause a stir x"

Was just thinking that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it "sweaty" wives or "sweety" wives? There's a bit of a difference.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont think its because of desperation but a fair few imo join believing they can get a shag easy instead of doing the whole nights out putting effort in these folk used to get told to bolt but are pandered to now because so many love hearing the p**h dribble out their mouths

iv seen a guy with 280 verifications all throu meets but you also see especially on the forum the wee sweaty wifes that follow people around like wee puppy dogs agreeing with everything they say because they think if they sook up peoples arses enough they might get their hole so i would say some people are on here throu desperation

You do love to cause a stir x

Was just thinking that lol"

am only asking a question am sure their is a lot of genuine guys and girls who are genuine swingers but theirs also people who are desperate and ones who think their on here doing the site a favour

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it "sweaty" wives or "sweety" wives? There's a bit of a difference. "

sweety but sweaty are more fun

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Sounds more like a rhetorical question to me!

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By *overocketoneMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

Perhaps the OP can point me in the direction of the post that says 'single people saying they could never be in relationship like that,'??

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Perhaps the OP can point me in the direction of the post that says 'single people saying they could never be in relationship like that,'?? "
couldnt point you too one but there have been many where singles have said if they were in a relationship they would never allow it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps the OP can point me in the direction of the post that says 'single people saying they could never be in relationship like that,'?? "

no problem batman try swingers chat why do guys like watching their wives and to make it easier its the first reply

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By *overocketoneMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

Thanks

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By *overocketoneMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

Ok

Iam a genuinely desperate single swinger.

At least Iam honest...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok

Iam a genuinely desperate single swinger.

At least Iam honest...

"

fair play mate you up for a meet just kidding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doubt if people are desperate . There is prostitues n escourts people can go to . Most I'd say are on here because we enjoy sex. Have high sex drives. Like to meet like minded people without all the drama. ??/

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i just find someone who says id never be in a relationship like that on a swingers site obviously doesnt agree with what swinging is about so why join a swingers site ? am sure theirs lots of guys on here who think like that but theirs other sites and places you can go for a shag so to join a site that is designed for what you would never do is a sign of desperation to me

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By *overocketoneMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

Could be a sign of ignorance...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single. I'm not a swinger and I'm certainly not desperate.

I am in the camp of knowing I could never share a partner I had deep feelings for.

I think there are some really strong couples out there who do it and I respect them for it. I just know I couldn't.

I'm aoso a hypocrite and upfront about it in that with the right couple I have been the guest.

I'm also not one of the singles here looking for love but pretending I'm not. Or being open about it. Why shouldn't people look anywhere they choose?

To be fair having frequented a few 'conventional' dating sites the men here are far more interesting.

People can and should use this however they choose. It's no one's place to judge and everyone's right to be given respect for their choices.

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By *overocketoneMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

Amen. Says it all. Good night

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Over the years there have been lots of threads where people have declared that if in a relationship they would not swing as they couldn't share their partner, even if the partner wanted to

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By *redrobCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Kilmarnock


"Dont think its because of desperation but a fair few imo join believing they can get a shag easy instead of doing the whole nights out putting effort in these folk used to get told to bolt but are pandered to now because so many love hearing the p**h dribble out their mouths "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i would be a lot more happier to arrange a meet with someone who said they where here because they where desperate than some one who said they where against the principles of swinging that would just kill the mood and feel really uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" i would be a lot more happier to arrange a meet with someone who said they where here because they where desperate than some one who said they where against the principles of swinging that would just kill the mood and feel really uncomfortable "

Really?

I'd rather someone wanted me rather than just chose me out of desperation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" i would be a lot more happier to arrange a meet with someone who said they where here because they where desperate than some one who said they where against the principles of swinging that would just kill the mood and feel really uncomfortable

Really?

I'd rather someone wanted me rather than just chose me out of desperation "

id rather someone who was honest than a hypocrite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" i would be a lot more happier to arrange a meet with someone who said they where here because they where desperate than some one who said they where against the principles of swinging that would just kill the mood and feel really uncomfortable

Really?

I'd rather someone wanted me rather than just chose me out of desperation

id rather someone who was honest than a hypocrite "

Honest hypocrite

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By *usky Couple01Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I would love to watch my wife have fun and her to watch me have fun that's why we are here plus there is more things we like to do as swingers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" i would be a lot more happier to arrange a meet with someone who said they where here because they where desperate than some one who said they where against the principles of swinging that would just kill the mood and feel really uncomfortable

Really?

I'd rather someone wanted me rather than just chose me out of desperation

id rather someone who was honest than a hypocrite

Honest hypocrite "

either way am sorry ill still have to turn you down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" i would be a lot more happier to arrange a meet with someone who said they where here because they where desperate than some one who said they where against the principles of swinging that would just kill the mood and feel really uncomfortable

Really?

I'd rather someone wanted me rather than just chose me out of desperation

id rather someone who was honest than a hypocrite

Honest hypocrite

either way am sorry ill still have to turn you down "

You're not my type. You don't come across well and I'm not into dogging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" i would be a lot more happier to arrange a meet with someone who said they where here because they where desperate than some one who said they where against the principles of swinging that would just kill the mood and feel really uncomfortable

Really?

I'd rather someone wanted me rather than just chose me out of desperation

id rather someone who was honest than a hypocrite

Honest hypocrite

either way am sorry ill still have to turn you down

You're not my type. You don't come across well and I'm not into dogging "

you sure ? you seem to hang about my posts quit a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" i would be a lot more happier to arrange a meet with someone who said they where here because they where desperate than some one who said they where against the principles of swinging that would just kill the mood and feel really uncomfortable

Really?

I'd rather someone wanted me rather than just chose me out of desperation

id rather someone who was honest than a hypocrite

Honest hypocrite

either way am sorry ill still have to turn you down

You're not my type. You don't come across well and I'm not into dogging

you sure ? you seem to hang about my posts quit a lot "

You seem to post plenty looking for reactions.

I'm just avoiding the temptation to question if perhaps you are the desperate one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" i would be a lot more happier to arrange a meet with someone who said they where here because they where desperate than some one who said they where against the principles of swinging that would just kill the mood and feel really uncomfortable

Really?

I'd rather someone wanted me rather than just chose me out of desperation

id rather someone who was honest than a hypocrite

Honest hypocrite

either way am sorry ill still have to turn you down

You're not my type. You don't come across well and I'm not into dogging

you sure ? you seem to hang about my posts quit a lot

You seem to post plenty looking for reactions.

I'm just avoiding the temptation to question if perhaps you are the desperate one "

nah got sex on tap thats why iv got time to piss about on here

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"I'm single. I'm not a swinger and I'm certainly not desperate.

I am in the camp of knowing I could never share a partner I had deep feelings for.

I think there are some really strong couples out there who do it and I respect them for it. I just know I couldn't.

I'm aoso a hypocrite and upfront about it in that with the right couple I have been the guest.

I'm also not one of the singles here looking for love but pretending I'm not. Or being open about it. Why shouldn't people look anywhere they choose?

To be fair having frequented a few 'conventional' dating sites the men here are far more interesting.

People can and should use this however they choose. It's no one's place to judge and everyone's right to be given respect for their choices. "

Well said than wumin!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm single. I'm not a swinger and I'm certainly not desperate.

I am in the camp of knowing I could never share a partner I had deep feelings for.

I think there are some really strong couples out there who do it and I respect them for it. I just know I couldn't.

I'm aoso a hypocrite and upfront about it in that with the right couple I have been the guest.

I'm also not one of the singles here looking for love but pretending I'm not. Or being open about it. Why shouldn't people look anywhere they choose?

To be fair having frequented a few 'conventional' dating sites the men here are far more interesting.

People can and should use this however they choose. It's no one's place to judge and everyone's right to be given respect for their choices.

Well said than wumin! "

your straw must be wearing thin or have you got a box of them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you not need too meet people to be a swinger or are you both into Big Band music and got mixed up and arrived here . Just curious cause i do like your Threads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you not need too meet people to be a swinger or are you both into Big Band music and got mixed up and arrived here . Just curious cause i do like your Threads "

meet people when we choose to but use forum to piss about and have a laugh as the rules state its intended for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you not need too meet people to be a swinger or are you both into Big Band music and got mixed up and arrived here . Just curious cause i do like your Threads "

we are not swingers thou we are just your average couple who enjoy shagging in cars and occasionally invite the odd swinger to join us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm single. I'm not a swinger and I'm certainly not desperate.

I am in the camp of knowing I could never share a partner I had deep feelings for.

I think there are some really strong couples out there who do it and I respect them for it. I just know I couldn't.

I'm aoso a hypocrite and upfront about it in that with the right couple I have been the guest.

I'm also not one of the singles here looking for love but pretending I'm not. Or being open about it. Why shouldn't people look anywhere they choose?

To be fair having frequented a few 'conventional' dating sites the men here are far more interesting.

People can and should use this however they choose. It's no one's place to judge and everyone's right to be given respect for their choices.

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm single. I'm not a swinger and I'm certainly not desperate.

I am in the camp of knowing I could never share a partner I had deep feelings for.

I think there are some really strong couples out there who do it and I respect them for it. I just know I couldn't.

I'm aoso a hypocrite and upfront about it in that with the right couple I have been the guest.

I'm also not one of the singles here looking for love but pretending I'm not. Or being open about it. Why shouldn't people look anywhere they choose?

To be fair having frequented a few 'conventional' dating sites the men here are far more interesting.

People can and should use this however they choose. It's no one's place to judge and everyone's right to be given respect for their choices.

"

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